With You in the Moment

by Marcus Batterbury

With You in the Moment is a heartfelt memoir about one family’s experience of dementia, told with warmth, honesty, and a belief in the power of presence. Rather than focusing on loss, it offers a hopeful perspective—showing how creativity, humour, and practical care can help preserve dignity and connection.

Through everyday experiences—doctor’s visits, changing routines, unexpected crises, and quiet victories—the family learns to adapt with compassion, focusing on strengths rather than limitations. The result is a deeply human story that embraces the messiness and beauty of living well, even in the face of a difficult condition.

This is not a clinical guide, but a personal reflection on mindset, resilience, and the enduring bonds that hold us together. With You in the Moment offers gentle insight and inspiration for anyone living with dementia or supporting someone they love, reminding us that even in uncertainty, there is room for joy.

267 pages, Kindle Edition

Published January 13, 2026

Reviews

[Kirsty Blanks · Rating 5 out of 5]

An honest and heartfelt memoir that was a true pleasure to read. It’s a refreshing take on living with dementia and whilst emotional at times, there was a healthy dose of humour. I couldn’t put the book down and read it in 2 days! Highly recommend.

[Steve Roberts · Rating 5 out of 5]

A lovely read, not only about a families experiences of dementia & how they helped their mum live her best life, but a beautiful insight into family connection, communication & collaboration. Moving, thought provoking & very funny at points. Well worth a read!

[JoAnne O'Brien-Wallace · Rating 4 out of 5]

Emotional, tense

Memories of life with and without family especially parents.

Trying to figure out how to go on with your life after losing your parent