Every connection in life begins with a spark — curiosity, need, comfort, or desire. We like to believe that love is selfless, friendship is pure, and family bonds are unconditional. Yet beneath every “unconditional” tie lies an unspoken interest — emotional, moral, or practical. A parent loves because their child gives meaning to life. A friend stays close because they feel understood. Even a stranger helps because kindness resonates within.
Interest is not selfishness; it is the invisible thread that keeps relationships alive, dynamic, and evolving. Without it, even love can feel hollow.
Relation is Equal to Interest (R = I) is a mirror to human connection. It explores how interest shapes love, friendship, family, work, and even spiritual bonds. This book doesn’t condemn relationships; it illuminates them. It shows how every bond — from the intimate to the transactional — is guided by the silent R = I.
By understanding this equation, you stop expecting perfection from people, see relationships clearly, and learn to participate with awareness. This is a book about insight, honesty, and choice — about nurturing the ties that matter and letting go of those that don’t, with clarity and peace.
Because relationships aren’t about perfection — they’re about participation. And knowing why we participate is the first step to true connection.