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First published May 19, 2026
[ reading time ] → 20 / 5 / 26 - 21 / 5 / 26 ᰋ
⊹ marriage is a carousel for those who can stomach the cycles of it, orbiting an axis of children and money, of fear and brute determination. and—in some cases—of love. it’s for those who can survive coming back around to the starting place to discover that it has been subtly but irrevocably changed. we are right where we started, but we are not as we were.
⊹ alzheimer’s is a form of time travel, but time travel hurts. tt always leaves someone behind.
⊹ he is stepping more into himself while I’m disintegrating, piece by sleepless piece, and i wonder if this is ultimately what a marriage must do—dim one person so the other can shine.
⊹ suffering is easy to imagine. it’s our responses that take us by surprise. the ways trials edit who we are.
⊹ and the truth stains me: love cannot be reversed, cannot be erased, maybe cannot even be a mistake. it can end—and it does—but it is never undone.
⊹ depression and joy can both be uncomfortable, yet we have to allow for them in their turns.