Learning Alone

by Bo Sebastian, Virtual Voice (Narrator)

Learning The Anxious Attachment of a Gay Man is a powerful true story of healing from anxious attachment, childhood sexual abuse, and the desperate need to be seen. Author and hypnotherapist Bo Sebastian, a spiritual teacher with more than 30 years of experience, reveals how the pain of early abandonment, a distant father, and perfectionism shaped his adult relationships—and how he finally broke the cycle.

Through deeply personal stories spanning childhood to adulthood, Bo explores what happens when a gay man grows up without a healthy model of masculinity or safety. His journey moves from trauma and religious shame to recovery and spiritual awakening. With honesty and hope, he shows that real connection can only begin when we heal the child within.

Readers seeking to understand anxious attachment, trauma bonding, PTSD, self-image issues, or relationship anxiety in LGBTQ+ men will find both insight and comfort in this heartfelt narrative. Combining the wisdom of therapy, attachment theory, and spirituality, Bo offers a roadmap toward inner peace and secure love.

If you’ve ever felt unworthy, unseen, or trapped in the same painful relationship patterns, this book will help you find freedom—and finally feel at home in your own heart.

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Published October 27, 2025