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Sacred Freedom: Rethinking Marriage, Desire, and Faith — Escaping the Sexual Shame of Evangelical Purity Culture
If you’ve prayed, confessed, and done everything right—but your desire for other women never went away—you’re not broken. You’re human. And your body has been trying to tell you the truth for years.
SACRED FREEDOM is the first book to reveal how purity culture didn’t just wound men spiritually—it shaped their nervous systems, buried desire in shame, and left the body carrying a conflict the mind could never resolve.
Called “essential reading” by Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, this powerful blend of memoir, theology, psychology, and embodied healing shows men of faith how to make peace with their desire—without losing their marriage, their integrity, or their relationship with God.
For decades, Christian men have been told that holiness means suppressing desire, that marriage would cure temptation, and that wanting more proves moral failure. But the body doesn’t obey those rules. It remembers. It protects. It signals when something in the story is untrue. Sacred Freedom shows how those teachings created a kind of religious trauma—a split between faith and embodiment that millions of men are still trying to navigate.
Drawing on the work of biblical scholars like William Loader, N. T. Wright, Luke Timothy Johnson, and Craig Keener—and integrating insights from trauma research found in writers like Bessel van der Kolk, Gabor Maté, Peter Levine, and Pat Ogden—Juno B. Thorne reveals how the Church’s sexual ethic evolved, how it got tangled with fear and control, and how those distortions became lodged in men’s bodies as guilt, anxiety, and chronic self-doubt.
This book doesn’t just reinterpret Scripture.
It gives men a way to heal—spiritually, emotionally, and somatically.
Inside you’ll
• Why sexual desire doesn’t disappear after “I do”—and how the body keeps signaling what the heart can’t say
• How purity culture trained men to disconnect from desire—and why that disconnect feels like shame, numbness, or chronic tension
• What Scripture actually says (and doesn’t say) about sex, monogamy, and holiness
• How the church’s fear of desire became its greatest moral blind spot
• A redemptive new vision of Christian marriage built on honesty, freedom, and embodied love
If you’ve ever wondered why faith and desire feel at war inside you—or if God could still love you for wanting more—this book will help you make sense of the conflict your body has been carrying for years.
You don’t need to keep repenting for being human.
You need to learn how to listen to the truth your body has held all along.
Pick up SACRED FREEDOM today—and begin healing the shame you were never meant to carry.
SACRED FREEDOM is the first book to reveal how purity culture didn’t just wound men spiritually—it shaped their nervous systems, buried desire in shame, and left the body carrying a conflict the mind could never resolve.
Called “essential reading” by Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, this powerful blend of memoir, theology, psychology, and embodied healing shows men of faith how to make peace with their desire—without losing their marriage, their integrity, or their relationship with God.
For decades, Christian men have been told that holiness means suppressing desire, that marriage would cure temptation, and that wanting more proves moral failure. But the body doesn’t obey those rules. It remembers. It protects. It signals when something in the story is untrue. Sacred Freedom shows how those teachings created a kind of religious trauma—a split between faith and embodiment that millions of men are still trying to navigate.
Drawing on the work of biblical scholars like William Loader, N. T. Wright, Luke Timothy Johnson, and Craig Keener—and integrating insights from trauma research found in writers like Bessel van der Kolk, Gabor Maté, Peter Levine, and Pat Ogden—Juno B. Thorne reveals how the Church’s sexual ethic evolved, how it got tangled with fear and control, and how those distortions became lodged in men’s bodies as guilt, anxiety, and chronic self-doubt.
This book doesn’t just reinterpret Scripture.
It gives men a way to heal—spiritually, emotionally, and somatically.
Inside you’ll
• Why sexual desire doesn’t disappear after “I do”—and how the body keeps signaling what the heart can’t say
• How purity culture trained men to disconnect from desire—and why that disconnect feels like shame, numbness, or chronic tension
• What Scripture actually says (and doesn’t say) about sex, monogamy, and holiness
• How the church’s fear of desire became its greatest moral blind spot
• A redemptive new vision of Christian marriage built on honesty, freedom, and embodied love
If you’ve ever wondered why faith and desire feel at war inside you—or if God could still love you for wanting more—this book will help you make sense of the conflict your body has been carrying for years.
You don’t need to keep repenting for being human.
You need to learn how to listen to the truth your body has held all along.
Pick up SACRED FREEDOM today—and begin healing the shame you were never meant to carry.
260 pages, Kindle Edition
Published October 27, 2025
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