Be You!: What They Hate in You Is Missing in Them

by Shamail Aijaz

Be You…!!! – What They Hate in You Is Missing in Them by Shamail Aijaz

In a world obsessed with perfection, Be You…!!! is a breath of truth, a reminder that authenticity isn’t rebellion; it’s peace.

Every page of this book carries a message that liberates you from self-doubt, people-pleasing, and the silent exhaustion of trying to fit in. Through honest reflections and practical emotional wisdom, Shamail Aijaz shows how embracing your true self leads to calm confidence, quiet strength, and inner freedom.

Discover how

Stay grounded when the world misunderstands you.Transform rejection into redirection.Find peace without needing validation.Build emotional agility instead of resistance.Let go of roles that no longer serve you.Each chapter is a mirror, revealing that what others dislike in you is often what they’ve lost in themselves.
And once you see that truth, you stop defending your difference and start celebrating it.

Whether you’re healing from self-doubt, seeking clarity, or simply tired of pretending, Be You…!!! will remind you of something timeless and

You were never too much. You were simply not meant to be less.

Genres: Self Help

137 pages, Kindle Edition

Published November 2, 2025

About the author

Shamail Aijaz is an author, strategist, and digital project management professional with over two decades of experience turning ideas into structured systems, meaningful decisions, and real-world results. His work blends psychology, leadership, creativity, and technology, helping readers navigate complexity with clarity and confidence.

He writes about the themes he has lived:
execution over hesitation, systems over chaos, courage over comfort, and growth over fear.
His books challenge readers to think differently, build smarter habits, understand human behavior, and lead with calm, clarity, and conviction.

Shamail’s published works include The Art of Risk, Dopamine, The Calm Within the Storm, The Myth of the Safe Path, The Manager’s Compass, The Shape of Talent Framework, Standard Operating Excellence, Neuromarketing Made Simple, When Memory Fails, and many more titles on leadership, decision-making, marketing, systems thinking, and personal transformation.

A lifelong learner, he draws inspiration from philosophy, neuroscience, ancient wisdom, and modern business. When he isn’t writing, he enjoys exploring emerging technologies, mentoring young talent, and spending time with his family.

Shamail believes that every person carries a reservoir of untapped potential,and every book he writes is an invitation to unlock it.


Leadership, Mindset & Personal Transformation:
1. Dokkōdō for Leaders: 21 Samurai Principles for Clear Thinking, Tough Decisions, and Growth
2. The Calm Within the Storm: Leading Beyond Ego
3. Be You!: What They Hate in You Is Missing in Them
4. The Myth of the Safe Path: How Playing Small Costs More Than Risk
5. High-Leverage Life: The 15 Principles That Change Everything


Systems, Execution & Decision-Making:
1. Standard Operating Excellence: The Complete Guide to Building, Implementing, and Mastering SOPs
2. When Memory Fails: Systems That Never Forget
3, The 4 Types of Problem Solving
4. The Manager’s Compass: Mastering Decisions, Time, and Impact
5. Paralyzed by Planning: How Businesses Waste Millions Before They Even Begin
6. The Art of Risk: How Smart Businesses Prevent Chaos Before It Happens
7. The 4 Aces of Management: Analyze. Adjust. Ascend. Automate

Marketing, Branding & Consumer Psychology:
1. Mastering Digital Campaigns: How Strategy, Data, and Design Drive Conversions
2. Neuromarketing Made Simple: How the Brain Decides What to Buy
3. The 60-Day Brand Breakthrough: A Complete Marketing Roadmap for New Brands