Life After Ambition: A "Good Enough" Memoir

by Amil Niazi

Channeling the subversive and sharp-eyed voice showcased in her popular column for The Cut , Amil Niazi stylishly interrogates the aspirations of young adulthood, early middle age, motherhood, and life after ambition.

Building off her wildly popular viral essays “Losing My Ambition” and “The Mindfuck of Mid-Life,” Amil Niazi explores what life looks like “post-ambition.” With sly humor and a deep literary sensibility, she interrogates her own evolving ambitions, and how it intersects with adulthood, motherhood, age, identity, class, and race, and how it has shaped her and a generation of Millennials. And—most importantly—now that she is done with what happens next?

An achingly relatable, intensely funny punch to the gut which reveals that, though we hide them from one another, we all have the same painful bruises. At its core, Losing My Ambition is about optimism—about the joy of choosing something different and the thrill of finding ourselves when we thought all was lost. A whip-smart reimagination of how to live our lives, Losing My Ambition reclaims mediocrity to tell us that it is okay to NOT have ambitions but to try and live a life that is true to who we are.

Genres: Memoir, Nonfiction, Essays, Womens, Biography, Audiobook

224 pages, Paperback

Published January 6, 2026

Reviews

[Stroop · Rating 3 out of 5]

I think this will resonate with readers interested in explorations of whether women can “have it all”, whatever that means. I did not connect with the memoir though I appreciate what the author was trying to do. I would consider raising three children while navigating a marriage and a fulfilling professional life to be ambitious. I think a reconsideration of what it means to be ambitious would have been a great angle for the overall narrative rather than the conclusion that it is okay to “be mediocre.”

Thank you to Atria Books and NetGalley for the opportunity to read a copy.

[Katrina · Rating 4 out of 5]

I am a big supporter of people writing their stories and the courage it takes to share in such a public and vulnerable way – I will never fault their lived experience. How that story is conveyed and how it affects me, are what makes it or breaks it for me.

I appreciated that there was an underlying structure to this book – moving through childhood and upbringing, into a pivotal moment of trauma and numbness, and then toward healing, reflection, and meaning-making. At the same time, much of the beginning felt disordered in its delivery. I found the writing style difficult to settle into, and I was often distracted as I tried to orient myself to the voice. At one point it shifted into a simpler “and then I… and then I… and then I…” feel, which pulled me out of the emotional depth of what was being shared. Nonetheless, the impact of the story was still there, without a doubt. After these minor speed bumps, the book really takes off.

What absolutely did land for me was the theme of ambition. I found the career chasing, the moving around, and the constant saying yes to opportunity deeply relatable – and even more so, the eventual questioning of what all of that is actually for.

When I step back and look at the book as a whole, I did enjoy it. The larger inquiry it opens up around ambition feels especially relevant right now, as more and more people are realizing through lived experience that burnout isn’t a sustainable or meaningful way to live. Using memoir as the lens for that conversation makes it both timely and powerful.

In a more subtle way, this book also invites a broader look at ambition through the lens of feminism – one that extends beyond this particular story. It made me wonder if it’s time to more honestly examine where we are with feminism – how far we’ve come, and where we may have gone off course. To me, it isn’t about how much women can do, or proving that we can “have it all” or do everything on our own. It also isn’t about putting a slower, more domestic path on a pedestal.

Lately, it can feel as though there is an unspoken tension between hustle culture and slow living – between the “girl boss” and the “tradwife” – with each side quietly (and sometimes not so quietly) ostracizing the other. That kind of polarization misses the point. What matters is whether women are truly respected and valued in whatever roles they choose, find joy in, and thrive in – and who are we to judge those choices when they differ from our own?

I propose that if feminism is meant to mean anything, it’s that there is room for many ways of being a woman, and that we can support one another not just in the paths we choose, but also when we question our original path and decide to choose differently.

As any good memoir should, it left me lingering with some important questions:
• By whose standards are we measuring ambition and success?
• Why is it so often equated mainly with career success?
• Why are women seen as less ambitious if they choose to devote more of their energy to family, home, or inner life?
• Do mediocrity and settling have a place within ambition and success?
• How can we be ambitious and still maintain boundaries to avoid potential burnout – and why does that so often get labeled as being “less ambitious”?
• And why aren’t we ‘allowed’ to change our minds – why must ambition and success in our twenties look the same as in our forties?

Times are changing once again – and this feels like the perfect gateway to start a conversation. Book Club anyone?

Overall rating - 3.7

***Thank you Penguin Random House Canada for the opportunity to read an Advanced Readers Copy I won from a Goodreads Giveaway***

[Darien Olson · Rating 4 out of 5]

As someone unfamiliar with Niazi’s work, I was initially surprised (and truthfully disappointed) by the insistence of motherhood and parenting as her gateway into this “life after ambition.” And then I considered children in a more metaphorical sense and came to the conclusion that we can all “mother” something; plants, animals, a hobby, etc. The insistence is not on having children to provide meaning but rather to recognize that meaning can, should, no, MUST come from sources other than one’s career. We must shift, both individually and collectively, to understand success beyond the confines of money, status, power, and prestige; to understand it more broadly as life well lived in connection, in love, in joy and laughter.

I think this book is particularly poignant for millennials (and those just a touch younger) who were indoctrinated by this obsession with success as the key to happiness; who felt (and were told) that decisions you make at 10 and 18 are in direct relationship with future success; who have lost opportunities for exploration; most importantly who are over-scheduling their young children to be the best student, athlete, or whatever vision of success they are now projecting on the next generation causing crises of anxiety and depression. Niazi is asking us to recognize our own toxic relationship with success and to try and ensure that future generations are not also burdened by it.

[Justin Timbol · Rating 4 out of 5]

Raw and honest and if I’ve ever used those words to describe a book then I was lying cause this is truly it. A kind, harsh honesty in the way that you can come back to this book when shit hits the fan and know what you’re reading ain’t nice but it’s gonna help. It’s written in a way where even if the moments written about don’t resonate with you yet, you know sure as fuck when they do come up you’re gonna remember this book.

Gen-Z’s fuckasses should be grateful that millennials grinded their way through this bullshit hustle culture with enough pushback to foster slightly better working environments (or thank Covid). You can’t even it all but it certainly feels like we got a hell of a lot more than back then.
^this was a mid-read review thought I had and it’s staying in lmao

Only gripe is sometimes the word ambition would get dropped in places, used the same way we throw them in essays to confirm to ourselves that we’ve still got the thesis in mind. Nitpicky I know.

End of P.168 - children are demons and you can’t convince me otherwise. Only a child could so precisely find the one sentence that would be most painful to hear.

+1 for the book finding a not-awkward way to bring up Covid

I don’t think this review was a review at all and more so a collection of insane thoughts, but I liked this book

[erin · Rating 1 out of 5]

dnf dnf

[Leah McCarthy · Rating 1 out of 5]

DNF. I’ll leave it at that.

[Colleen Dempsey · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book was so Readable. It was easy to feel like we experienced our author Amil’s life events with her - her childhood as the daughter of immigrants, young adulthood with an abusive boyfriend & the lasting damage both mentally & emotionally, into marriage & kids. I loved reading her honesty in these ups & downs - childbirth, transitioning to motherhood, being a working mom, IVF, having a child at 40.

On ambition, I expected the book to focus on corporate ambition, but it draws on ambition in a broader life sense. Her ambition to grow up & live a life more stable than how she grew up, to never worry for money, eventually her hope to become a mom and give her kids the childhood she never had, and to follow her dreams as a writer.

We journey with Amil as she ebs & flows with how much you’re allowed to reveal about yourself at work, the pressures to prioritize work, and then what she realizes she wants in life as opposed to the push to be doing more & climbing higher. As she enters adulthood, the focus shifts from work to how motherhood and work coexist - can she do it all? And that is the key point of the second half of the book - how can a mother do it all?

** Many people will love and find relatability in this book. It would be a really great read if you are a mother trying to work and parent. I think it would be a hard read if you want children and are unable to have them, or maybe if you have chosen to be childless, as she begins to really focus in on parenthood and trying to find work that fulfills her in her new roles in life.

I loved the writing style & would definitely read another book by her! Finished this book in just 2 days.

[Lindsey Horowitz · Rating 3 out of 5]

I feel a bit misled by the title and description.

I was hooked by the intro in which Niazi discussed her child’s angst following a kindergarten graduation. I thought I was going to get a lot more vignettes like that and more of a meditation on what it means to be a mother post-ambition, but most of that was crammed into the final two chapters. I understand that it is important to understand Niazi’s career trajectory in order to see how she rejected traditional success; I just didn’t expect that to be the bulk of the book.

I did love the Bosch chapter. There was a period of my life during Covid where I felt like the people on Survivor were some of my best companions (cringe), so I really related to her connection to Bosch.

I listened to this. It’s not that I didn’t like the book overall, it’s that this wasn’t the book I thought it would be and therefore, it didn’t meet my expectations.

[Reagan Formea · Rating 3 out of 5]

Thank you to the publishers for an ARC of this book! While I think this memoir is focused on a very important topic, I don’t know that it was fully realized. I feel this book may have fallen into the trap of an author writing a memoir too young. I want to hear her message, but she has not fully lived it yet. It feels like the author is still working through the challenge she discusses in the book, letting go of ambition and living in one’s truth. And that’s okay! This book may speak to people in similar stages of life as the author, being raised in the age of ambition & big dreams, and now getting into the middle-aged years and discovering what truly matter to you as an individual.

[Shan · Rating 4 out of 5]

"Everyone thinks their kid is exceptional, or has to be, but most of them, most of us, are just somewhere in the middle. How much happier would we all be if we just embraced that? Embraced the idea of doing and being enough?" (pg 176)

Amen.

[Christina Winkelmann · Rating 3 out of 5]

Trigger warnings in the book: domestic assault and light infertility.

I’m child free by choice so this book was a little hard to resonate with as it felt primarily about how motherhood made her slowdown in life and reevaluate her joys in life. Was seeking more career stories and insights into the books title which is life after ambition.

[Ayannah · Rating 4 out of 5]

As a recovering overachiever, I found this book deeply validating. Amil Niazi offers a refreshing perspective on ambition and identity, especially for women of color navigating spaces where “professionalism” often comes with unspoken, biased standards.

Thanks to Atria Books for the ARC!

[Brice Montgomery · Rating 3 out of 5]

Thanks to NetGalley & Atria Books for the ARC!

Amil Niazi’s Life After Ambition: A ‘Good Enough’ Memoir comfortably cruises past its expectation-setting subtitle, but its distinct strengths also prevent it from being too memorable.

Ambition creates the security of certainty. It’s a narrative direction for a person’s life, which is why so many memoirs feel like dopey self-mythologies. They’re forced to reframe every experience as a building block toward an author's success.

Niazi does something more interesting, offering readers a book full of life’s interruptions. Each time we settle into an understanding of Life After Ambition’s subject or genre, we’re rudely awakened to the reality that stories are simplifications. Just as the memoir seems to be about relationships, it’s devastated by trauma. As soon as it appears to be a trauma memoir, it’s about work. Before the end, it’s about motherhood and the pandemic. In a way, this sprawling scope feels truer to human experience than the average memoir because it communicates the way each dramatic change throws the author’s life off balance. She never falls prey to the trope that “everything was leading to this one moment.”

At the same time, the book starts to feel thematically muddled by the end because it essentially finishes around the halfway point after the author navigates her trauma. I applaud Niazi’s resistance to narrative generalizations, but after resolving such a significant tension, there’s nowhere intuitive for her to go as she lumbers through an exploration of work and motherhood. It’s noticeable enough that I wished the two halves were rewritten as separate, complementary books. I have no doubt that they would be excellent. Regardless, the author’s VICE-honed voice is well-attuned to short attention spans, so Life After Ambition is always engaging, even when it feels unfocused.

Overall, I think Amil Niazi succeeds in Life After Ambition’s stated purpose, and it’s a fascinating project. As a memoir, however, it bumps uncomfortably against the confines of its genre, so I don’t feel inclined to recommend it (even though I’m eager to seek out the author’s column for the The Cut!!).

[Shannon]

Thank you Atria & Simon Audio for the gifted copies.

Life After Ambition: A “ Good Enough” Memoir
Amil Niazi
Publishing Date: January 6, 2026

🎧 Narrator: Amil Niazi 🎧

“𝘐 𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘸 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘳𝘦𝘨𝘳𝘦𝘵𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬𝘴, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘐 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘧𝘢𝘳 𝘐’𝘷𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦, 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘪𝘤𝘦𝘴 𝘐 𝘥𝘪𝘥 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮. 𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘐 𝘥𝘪𝘥 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘮𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴.”

I love a good memoir, especially on audio where you can hear the authors story literally in their own voice. I was not familiar with this author, but was intrigued by the title, cover, and premise of this memoir so took a chance on it anyway, and I’m glad I did!

The first half of this one gives us Niazi’s background and history. She had some really traumatic times she had to endure. The second half gives us her experience of life after that, of being a mom, a professional, a wife, and someone who held herself to very high expectations.

I really enjoyed this authors writing. The portion about motherhood and all the complexities and pressures of that was so validating and eloquently explored. In today’s world full of sky high expectations in basically every aspect of life, starting from childhood even, this memoir will definitely resonate with many readers. I do think it will land even more for mothers, but anyone who finds that the pressures of society these days feel fully unattainable, will surely find a connection to Niazi’s words.

I’m seeing reviews critiquing this book for simply saying it’s ok to be mediocre and not giving a redefinition of ambition. But to me that’s entirely the point. We are constantly being told what we should be aspiring to and what constitutes being successful or good enough, and Niazi is making the point that it’s not about that. It’s about our own measure of success and happiness and fulfillment without someone telling us what that looks like.

“𝘐 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘫𝘰𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘰𝘤𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘯𝘰𝘸, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘪𝘵’𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘱𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘢𝘯 𝘶𝘯𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘳𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘦𝘹𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘷𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯.”

[Keely · Rating 3 out of 5]

Sometimes you have to go up to go down.

LIFE AFTER AMBITION felt like talking to a good friend over brunch and leaving nothing on the table. Niazi has been a steady and comforting voice for parents for years through her essays (hello modern-day Carrie Bradshaw) but this book was a great way for readers to lean into the many topics Niazi explores around the intersection of work and parenthood and identity but in much more depth. Niazi doesn't shy away from the topics we typically hide behind and she breathes life into our most vulnerable internal thoughts. I didn't connect with the story in terms of motherhood (yet) but as a woman in the entertainment industry, I definitely understand the pressures and stress around being a woman in the workforce and not wanting to sacrifice certain accomplishments or dreams for the sake of motherhood. This book was an interesting look into the idea of women "having it all" and how to approach the next chapter when setting career goals and linking your success to your job, title, and salary is in the rearview and how to still find that happiness and sense of achievement in something new. I've always laughed about the internet conversation around high-achieving or "gifted" students and the pressures and unrealistic expectations we set for ourselves at far too young of an age and how that fuels a lifetime of people-pleasing and striving to achieve more and more and MORE because I, too, was that gifted kid who struggles as an adult with never achieving enough or being good enough for myself. I've actually feared or mistaken not wanting to be a mother in the future for the very fact that I'm terrified of how to process and live outside of the internal battle of constantly setting the bar higher for myself and what that would look like if I came out of it so this book is one I think I will return to time and time again to take something new away from it when the time is right.

[Brittney · Rating 4 out of 5]

Life After Ambition by Amil Niazi

This is one of those books that will absolutely hit for the right reader, especially anyone questioning hustle culture, burnout, and the pressure to constantly want more.

Amil Niazi explores what happens after ambition fades or at least changes. Through sharp essays and self reflection, she looks at adulthood, motherhood, marriage, identity, and the quiet disorientation of realizing the life you chased isn’t the life you want anymore. Her voice is smart, witty, and very online in a way that will feel familiar if you’ve read her essays or followed similar conversations around millennial exhaustion.

While I appreciated what she was trying to unpack, this one didn’t fully land for me. I kept feeling like the book was circling a more interesting question than it ultimately answered. Raising three children, maintaining a marriage, and sustaining a professional life still feels deeply ambitious, even if it doesn’t look like traditional career ladder success. I would have loved a deeper redefinition of ambition rather than framing the takeaway as embracing mediocrity.

That said, I can absolutely see this resonating with readers who are burned out on productivity culture and craving permission to slow down, soften their expectations, and choose a life that feels more honest than impressive. If you’ve ever wondered who you are without your goals driving you, this memoir will give you a lot to sit with.

#MemoirReads #MillennialLife #WomenWriting #NonfictionBooks #Bookstagram @Atria

[Janereads10 · Rating 5 out of 5]

This felt like a friend telling her story while having a cup of coffee.

What stood out: The author dove into her early beginnings as an immigrant, her abusive past relationship, and infertility. While those parts read like fiction, the real highlight for me was her struggles between motherhood and keeping a career. So relatable. The guilt, staying relevant, what success even means. I felt less alone reading this. It's about shifting your mindset on what success looks like, figuring out what matters most, and making peace with that.

Audio note: Amil Niazi reading this was like listening to her spill the beans. Her voice and her story kept me company on a cold Monday afternoon.

Similar vibes: The Comfort Book by Matt Haig has similarities to finding the joys of life.

You'll love this if: You're searching for contentment and redefining success on your own terms.

Content warnings: Abusive relationship, infertility

Thanks to Simon & Schuster Audio and Atria Books for the advance review copies. Opinions are my own.

[Julie Van Can · Rating 4 out of 5]

A really lovely and insightful collection of essays. As I initially experienced with Amil Niazi’s columns for The Cut, she writes with clarity and vulnerability. I breezed through the audiobook as I tried (and failed) to get some work done while snowed in with kids, and that turned out to be a thematically appropriate reading experience.

My favourite reflections were the ones where she’s unafraid to be very specific, and gets sharp with her details. I actually found myself drifting when she attempted to bring things back to her broader thesis near the end of the book. I almost wish she’d taken a longer route getting there, as I’d gladly have read more of the nitty gritty pertaining to her work experience, her friendships, her sisters and other dynamics she referenced but didn’t deeply explore (also, every nosey Canadian millennial just wants to know what it’s reaaaally like working for the CBC).

Thankfully for me, she’s quite prolific, so I’m sure I’ll encounter more of her voice elsewhere!

[Bruna · Rating 4 out of 5]

I really enjoyed this memoir, not only because it is well written, but because I relate with the message the author is conveying at this point in my life.

With so many hard things going on in the world and with our daily lives being hard as well, does ambition really have a place? Or should we just embrace quietness and love?

I guess each one of us has to answer for themselves, but as for me, I am sick of having to stive for more all the time and want to instead to be content in my life.

"Did those gold stars or participation trophies really warp me? Or did the promise that anything was possible if I was ambitious caused me to self-destruct?"

"I blame tv in general for convincing a very impressionable young me that my work, and by extension, my life, required a very specific arc. Something to reach for that would readly signal to others that I'd accomplished achievement and success..."

"I have embraced the idea of mediocrity and let go of a compulsion for exceptionalism, never being satisfied with the life in front of me."

[Miranda Hawley · Rating 5 out of 5]

*Life After Ambition* by Amil Niazi is a sharp, honest, and deeply relatable exploration of what it means to reassess success, work, and identity—especially as a millennial woman navigating burnout and changing priorities. Niazi’s voice is thoughtful and engaging, blending personal reflection with cultural insight in a way that feels both validating and eye-opening.

This book speaks directly to anyone who has ever chased ambition only to wonder why it didn’t bring the fulfillment they were promised. It challenges hustle culture without being preachy, offering space for nuance, humor, and self-compassion. I found myself nodding along to so many passages and appreciating how clearly Niazi articulates feelings that are often hard to put into words.

A great read for millennial women (and honestly, anyone questioning traditional definitions of success). Thought-provoking, timely, and reassuring.

Thanks to Goodreads and the publisher for the opportunity to read this prior to release.

[Rebecca · Rating 3 out of 5]

I haven't read Amil's other work besides this book, but I'm wondering if I would like them better? One of the issues here is because she's covering so much time, there aren't any scenes, it's mainly exposition, and I feel like I'm floating above her story and not fully pulled in. My writing teacher recently made a comment about how memoirs should be character-driven and not plot-driven (about my work lmao), but I can see why that's an issue here. I don't have enough interiority and slowed down moments in Amil's life to really feel invested in her story. It feels like we're just zooming through her life instead of lingering and sinking into it.

I also don't think this book is that insightful lol the takeaway is basically like "being a good, kind person is more important than what's on your resume". And maybe as an older millennial, she found that insightful but as someone on the brink between millennial and gen z, I find that boring and obvious.

[Lauren Simmons · Rating 3 out of 5]

This book offers an interesting perspective on modern careerism that is perhaps lost on me, a person who has had the same job for 20 years.

The writing is at its most powerful when Niazi is describing some of truly harrowing moments in her past, telling us how they felt and how she felt experiencing them. For me it falls a bit short when she tries to tie things together with a “these things all brought me to where I am” sort of conclusion.

On the line level, there are some repeated turns of phrase (“jazzy intro,” “cracked me open”) but I think it’s a feature of modern memoir rather a bug of the writer’s style - an editor with a heavier hand might have served this book’s really important message and perspective.

[Shannon · Rating 3 out of 5]

I don't know what to say about this memoir. I was really looking forward to it and I did enjoy parts but it basically felt like one woman lamenting how hard it was to make a career in the field she wanted only to switch focus to motherhood and raising the three kids she had to do IVF to conceive, trying to tell us that it's okay to focus on motherhood over a career?? It just wasn't what I was expecting and I honestly felt like I have a better story to tell so maybe I should shut up and do that....Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an early digital copy in exchange for my honest review.

CW: addiction, domestic violence, fertility struggles

[Annie Chang · Rating 2 out of 5]

almost dnf and in all honestly i raced through every page about motherhood. based on the title alone, the book wasn’t at all what i thought it’d be. i assumed it’d be about finding peace in something other than achievement and status and drive. but from my observation, a lot of the author’s unhappiness isn’t caused by ambition — it’s the author not knowing what she really wants to do / not actually going for what she wants. she wants to write, but keeps considering and taking ill-fitting news jobs, etc. i don’t really know what to take away from any of this except working as a mother is hell — but we all knew that.

[Yvonne_Marin’s Bookshelf · Rating 5 out of 5]

I love when a great writer writes a memoir. I received this book as an advanced readers copy from a Goodreads giveaway and glad to have finally finished it! Amil Niazi’s life is presented beautifully as she takes us on her journey of self discovery. Her story is heartbreaking, hopeful, courageous, lovely, nurturing and thought provoking. Many of her experiences and thoughts resonate with me as a self proclaimed ambitious woman seeking purpose, work-life balance and acceptance in life. The storytelling is excellent and her story is inspiring.

[Drea · Rating 3 out of 5]

I related to this a lot: IVFs, hard-sought career, evolving priorities. I thought it was written well and had moments that made me smile as well as feel deeply. The duality that many women face making soul-crushing choices are real. I think many will relate. Heartfelt thanks to the publisher for the advanced copy!

[JXR · Rating 4 out of 5]

charming memoir, though it felt like the author was still striving for perfection so much that she said that it was, essentially, mediocre to be handling three kids, a successful career, and a marriage. 4 stars. tysm for the arc.

[Krystina · Rating 5 out of 5]

Incredible. I couldn't put it down.

[Kallie · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a fine memoir, I enjoyed the writing and stories she chose. But is this actual memoir what comes after ambition, cause that part of her life didn't seem to show up here.

[Alice · Rating 4 out of 5]

I’ve been a big fan of Amil for a while since listening to CBC’s PopChat (rip). I love Amil’s take so I was very excited for this one. A very vulnerable dive into motherhood. Loved it