Found in a Bookshop was my first book by Stephanie Butland which I rated a whopping five stars, despite it being about all sorts of people and their shared human experience, yet not about chronics.
This book only gets two for there indeed being a character with health problems, but it is a senior lady who seems to be a burden on her grandchildren. Cherry does speak up about her managing all of this on her own, not to mention leaving her an emotional wreck, to her absent sister who tells her she shouldn’t complain living in a first world country. But everyone’s problem is validated and so is Cherry’s as we get to understand.
That said, I am wondering if next time the author might manage to write a book that again emphasizes interconnection (which I generally very much appreciate, let us not start about the state of the world we live in) with someone being a chronic (but not old) without it being a theme or worse: without them being charity.
Being ill and/or disabled is hard enough with all the uncertainties, insecurities, grief, and pain. Society turning their back on us adds to feelings of unworthiness. I don’t know what else to do but write a review like this for the world to see us. Currently, when someone with a support dog is casually mentioned in a book I am punching the air. Honestly, it is not too much to ask if a book club member could be in a wheelchair?
Thanks to Netgalley and the publisher for a copy of the book.