I confess that by the end of chapter three I was thinking I would not like this book. The behavior of the young marines and the young women with whom they consorted did not impress me with their misogynistic behavior and hard partying.
I was wrong. The deeper I got into the book the harder it became not to like Maggie and George, her husband, and their friends, all fellow marine officers and their wives.
In the background of Maggie's life as the loyal wife of a career service man is her guilt about an incident that took place when she was eighteen in which another young woman died. Just as her husband is about to be promoted that incident comes back to haunt her in the form of a blackmail note.
This incident, the blackmail and Maggie and George's response to it are only a part of the story, however. A sub-plot, albeit a significant one, that adds to the anxiety of a high pressure role in a highly disciplined organization.
The bulk of the book serves as a detailed account of life in the American armed forces – or, at least, the branch known as the Marine Corps. Over several decades Maggie, George and their comrades in arms are posted to various coastal locations in the USA as well as Okinawa. For each of these we are provided with what, at times, seems like a tourist guide to its history and heritage.
And then there is the meticulous preparation for deployment to a war zone and the various supports available to the families left behind by such missions. Maggie is at the center of it all, whilst still dealing with the fall out from that disastrous escapade when she was still young and naive.
In large part it is a paean of praise for the Corps and all who serve in it. So much so that one quickly becomes aware that it is written by someone who has lived it. But it is also about loyalty and betrayal, love and jealousy, and, above all, the mutual love and respect that can exist between married partners.
Aspects of their love life are revealed in remarkable detail. Detail of the kind that would not have passed the official censor in early 1960s Britain. Activities that would make Lady Chatterley blush and surely will offend the likes of Mumsnet in 2026.
In the end I did enjoy the book but I have reservations about its appeal to the general reader because of the amount of detail it contains about the Marine Corps and the community of officers and wives that make it the epitome of mutual respect and support the author believes it to be.
Alongside that, the sub plot about the San Diego underworld seems like an attempt to add tension to what could otherwise read like a niche memoir. I'm not sure it works. Perhaps (spoiler alert) because it is resolved via a series of confessions in which it seems each of the guilty parties regrets their part in what happened. For that reason I can only give it three stars.
As a member of Rosie Amber's review team I received a free copy of The General's Wife in December 2025.