A brilliant but restless dancer discovers the true meaning of love and intimacy through the ebbs and flows of her marriage in this exquisitely written novel—from the bestselling author and psychologist whose feminist classic, In a Different Voice, revolutionized our understanding of women’s lives
"A literary tour de force . . . an irresistible read."—Daphne Merkin
Boston, 1969. Eve, a dancer whose feelings are expressed through the body and movement, senses an inexplicable distance growing between herself and her husband, Gabe, a journalist and father of her two children. Feeling lost and alone, she begins an affair; Gabe detects it immediately and begins one himself. Yet somehow they find their way back to each other, and when Eve gives birth to a daughter, their marriage becomes vital again.
Years later, when Gabe returns from a reporting trip to the Middle East and Berlin, Eve again perceives something is wrong in her marriage. Gabe no longer seems like the man she once knew. He has always had a darkness she could not fathom—deep psychological scars from his childhood, when Gabe escaped Nazi Germany on the Kindertransport.
Amsterdam, 1991. Newly separated from Gabe, Eve has accepted a fellowship to choreograph a dance inspired by the story of Adam and Eve. When a colleague introduces her to a new translation of the ancient text, Eve begins to redefine the way she thinks about women, men, and relationships—and, perhaps, to see another path back to her marriage.
In this emotionally riveting novel, Carol Gilligan draws on her unsurpassed psychological understanding of women's lives to explore a new vision of love and intimacy. Sweeping across decades and continents, attuned to the rhythms of life and time, Solstice is a provocative and profound portrait of what it takes to truly love another.
Review - Solstice by Carol Gilligan review by Shirley W. 4-11-26
Interesting story over about a 30-year period of a female ballet dancer named Eve and her journalist husband Gabe. Eve has an affair after several years of marriage with Gabe, a journalist with whom she has two boys. He immediately notices a difference and starts an affair also. They are estranged for a time, but when Eve has their daughter, they emotionally come back to each other.
When Gabe returns from an assignment in Berlin and the Middle East, Eve detects some kind of darkness Gabe carries. With discussion Eve learns Gabe had been sent from Nazi Germany on a Kindertransport as a young child, away from his father who he never saw again. It had been a traumatizing experience for young Gabe. He also confesses his affair.
After separating from Gabe, Eve finds herself in Amsterdam, choreographing a new dance from the story of Adam and Eve. She gains a different perspective about marriage and love which brings her a better understanding of the things that are important to her and Gabe.
Every marriage is a meshing of different upbringings and personal challenges and goals. It is an ongoing enlightenment and communication to understanding what makes two people truly love each other.
Author, Carol Gilligan has a unique understanding as a female psychologist of human attachments. I enjoyed the insightful story she created in her novel Solstice.
Thanks to Random House and NetGalley for sharing a complimentary, advance copy of this book. The review is my voluntary and honest opinion.
Solstice is a gripping overview of a marriage, set against the background of the US, Europe, and the Middle East in the 1980s and 1990s, and also through the eyes of a main character, who survived WWII, through the actions of kindertransport. Its plot moves through the imagery of the different solstices that occur throughout the seasonal year, giving structure to a complex tale. The political issues of the times are brought forth and examined through the lenses of her characters. Gilligan gives us a sensitive and urgent novel, outlining themes and ideas through situational decisions.
Gilligan presents her main character, Eve, a dancer, in a highly original way. Where other authors often present dancers through their looks or precision of movement or taste, Gilligan does something quite different, and allows us inside Eve, showing her motivation to move in a way that rings totally true.
I thoroughly enjoyed the complexity of this work and Gilligan's subtlety in slowly showing us the world of her characters, including its many themes, such as the concept of home, exploring all its ramifications.
Many thanks to Random House and NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
4.0. I received the ARC of this book from NetGalley and am reviewing it with gratitude. As a long-time fan of Carol Gilligan I was eager to review her work as a novelist. She did not disappoint. Her knowledge of gender typology and issues is evident throughout the novel. The book describes one woman’s journey through a 30 year marriage. Gilligan used this setting to deeply explore the mental and emotional journeys of her protagonist Eve and her husband Gabe. Themes of love, betrayal, self and partner awareness, family, home, body expression, differences in perception and understanding, and the importance of opposition in a loving relationship are all thoughtfully and skillfully explored. The book is provocative as is typical in all of Gilligan ‘s work. Worthy of a second read. Recommend it for thoughtful readers.
I was swept away but this story and the way it spans several decades. Eve is a relatable and wonderful main character. Her struggles with an affair, her marriage, and motherhood were so raw and real. Her on and off with Gabe was so real and the changes in Gabe over time were such an important path to go down in the book. As a woman - I so enjoyed the way Eve begins thinking of women and men, it was very empowering. I love that this relationship they have is raw and real and not just fictional rainbows and butterflies. I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
What I liked the most about this story is the use of art to portray the ups and downs of a marriage. Eve and Gabe loving and hurting each other, and trying to make sense of what it means for them and their family felt very realistic and vulnerable.
This a must-read if you like stories about complex relationships and how people work through their conflicts in non-conventional ways.
Thank you to Random House and the author for providing a free copy of this book through NetGalley.
Thank you to Random House and NetGalley for the ARC.
I received this ARC because I enjoyed Strangers by Belle Burden so much. This one was also a woman in crisis, dealing with affairs, motherhood, and aging. I am definitely enjoying reading these women’s stories.