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Prairie State Friends #1
The Decision
Discover along with Jonah Miller how life can begin anew in the prairie state of Illinois. Moving from Pennsylvania, finding rewarding work, and leaving heartbreak behind is the best decision Jonah ever made. But is he ready to consider love again when he meets Elaine Schrock? Will his scarred heart mend when she chooses family loyalty over love?
322 pages, Kindle Edition
First published January 20, 2015
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About the author
Wanda E. Brunstetter
215 books2,327 followersNew York Times bestselling and award-winning author, Wanda E. Brunstetter is one of the founders of the Amish fiction genre. She has written close to 90 books translated in four languages. With over 10 million copies sold, Wanda's stories consistently earn spots on the nations most prestigious bestseller lists and have received numerous awards.
Wanda’s ancestors were part of the Anabaptist faith, and her novels are based on personal research intended to accurately portray the Amish way of life. Her books are well-read and trusted by many Amish, who credit her for giving readers a deeper understanding of the people and their customs.
When Wanda visits her Amish friends, she finds herself drawn to their peaceful lifestyle, sincerity, and close family ties. Wanda enjoys photography, ventriloquism, gardening, bird-watching, beachcombing, and spending time with her family. She and her husband, Richard, have been blessed with two grown children, six grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren.
To learn more about Wanda, visit her website at www.wandabrunstetter.com.
Wanda’s ancestors were part of the Anabaptist faith, and her novels are based on personal research intended to accurately portray the Amish way of life. Her books are well-read and trusted by many Amish, who credit her for giving readers a deeper understanding of the people and their customs.
When Wanda visits her Amish friends, she finds herself drawn to their peaceful lifestyle, sincerity, and close family ties. Wanda enjoys photography, ventriloquism, gardening, bird-watching, beachcombing, and spending time with her family. She and her husband, Richard, have been blessed with two grown children, six grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren.
To learn more about Wanda, visit her website at www.wandabrunstetter.com.
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March 12, 2015
This book isn't your typical fairy tale romance Amish fiction. This book deals with serious real life issues and the fact that sometimes we just aren't given the happy ending we were looking for. Things may not work out as we planned but everything happens for a reason.
Wanda did a fantastic job writing about someone who has diabetes and dementia. The way she handled these two things was respectful and classy. Having never dealt with someone who has dementia I felt after finishing the book that I had a better understanding of what it must be like to be a caregiver for someone battling this horrible disease.
Wanda has a true talent for creating characters that make you care and stories that tug at your heart. This book proves it. Even though this book covers some tough topics it is not a depressing read. It is an easy to read book that is a definite must read. I can't wait until the release of the next book in the series.
I was given a free copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for my opinion.
Wanda did a fantastic job writing about someone who has diabetes and dementia. The way she handled these two things was respectful and classy. Having never dealt with someone who has dementia I felt after finishing the book that I had a better understanding of what it must be like to be a caregiver for someone battling this horrible disease.
Wanda has a true talent for creating characters that make you care and stories that tug at your heart. This book proves it. Even though this book covers some tough topics it is not a depressing read. It is an easy to read book that is a definite must read. I can't wait until the release of the next book in the series.
I was given a free copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for my opinion.
January 12, 2022
Well, please keep in mind my review is just one Amish Fiction fan's opinion; because a lot of people have enjoyed this read. This book for me was written a little remedial; with every little step and every little moment mentioned. I didn't find any real emotion or depth with these characters even though they were dealing with many issues. I really thought it might have been over-dramatized for me. Elaine got on my nerves and I felt she read more like a English contemporary romance character than an Amish woman. I just couldn't feel anyone's real grief; all I could do was read the words that explained their grief; it made me very unsympathetic. I also missed the community feel that is ever-present in Amish Fiction. I just didn't like one thing.
April 2, 2015
Jonah Miller was featured in the Discovery Saga Collection and when his heart was broken then, he has moved to Illinois to the Amish community and this is where The Decision picks up. Jonah has found love again with Elaine Schrock but when her grandmother develops diabetes and dementia, she makes a decision that will affect Jonah forever as well. My own mother is dealing with dementia at this time and while it is not as quickly progressing as Edna's, it is very serious and often troubling. Wanda handles the story of the illnesses with heart and truth. She also reveals another illness that is effecting Sara but I won't spoil the surprise of that.
I loved this book and read it very quickly as it was quite exciting but I will be honest and say that I personally did not like the ending. I personally desired a different outcome for the characters but this in fact makes the book that much more enticing to me as a reader. It definitely has made me want to read the next book in this series to see how things will continue on for the characters. Endings don't always go as we wish just as life does not always work out as we think it should. Perhaps the point of this ending in the book is that God always has a plan for us but it may not be the plan we had intended.
I rate this book 5 stars and I highly recommend it to readers.
I received a print copy of this book from the author and an ebook copy of this book from netgalley in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are my own.
I loved this book and read it very quickly as it was quite exciting but I will be honest and say that I personally did not like the ending. I personally desired a different outcome for the characters but this in fact makes the book that much more enticing to me as a reader. It definitely has made me want to read the next book in this series to see how things will continue on for the characters. Endings don't always go as we wish just as life does not always work out as we think it should. Perhaps the point of this ending in the book is that God always has a plan for us but it may not be the plan we had intended.
I rate this book 5 stars and I highly recommend it to readers.
I received a print copy of this book from the author and an ebook copy of this book from netgalley in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are my own.
September 20, 2021
Jonah and Elaine seem to be headed to wedded bliss, but tragedies in Elaine’s life put a halt to those plans. When death and illness befall her grandparents, Elaine must decide which road her life must take. Should she be a wife and mother, a caregiver to her elderly relative, or can she be both? This book explores the nature of illnesses and the stress those illnesses impose not only on the inflicted, but also on those close by. The author handles these subjects with caring and with dignity as the characters deal with the problems that illness and grief bring. This well written novel has a somewhat open ending, as the lives of at least some of the characters go on.
October 16, 2020
I enjoyed this book about Elaine and how her grandparents cared for her when she was orphaned as a child. The tables have turned and now she is caring for her grandparents. Her decisions affect the relationships she has including with Jonah.
December 10, 2015
In the book The Decision by Wanda E. Brunstetter, Jonah Miller must see what life will be like in Illinois since his move from Pennsylvania. Will he find his work rewarding? Will his heart mend from being left at the altar. Is he ready for love? Will his heart change when meeting Elaine? Will he move on when she chooses her family loyalty over love?
I recommend this book for teens and adults.
I enjoyed this book. I finished it under two days so you could say its a easy read that will keep you turning the page. I did not like how things turned out in this book. I kept hoping something would happen to change the course of events but of course they didn’t. Half way through the book I am sure you could see what was happening. I just kept hoping it wouldn’t.
Some of the characters were very likable and others not so much. They seemed very shallow and unwilling to be flexible or patient at where they were in life. I think we all are like that in some point of our lives and I am trying to remember that but it was hard not to want to shake some of these characters and make them see reason. Things that intrigued me in this book was the different illnesses characters dealt with some my family have dealt with in the past. Overall some people may find this a depressing book and many ways it was. Death, sickness, heartbreak; but isn’t that what we deal with in life. It isn’t always a story book ending which is one plus about this book it was very realistic.
A reoccurring theme in a lot of amish books seems to be pride. Isn’t this an issue we all deal with. It is hard when going through difficult times to know what or how to ask for help and when offered it is hard to respond. I find it way more helpful if people just stop by and help with what they see is needed. When we go through difficult times its hard to process and respond to people. I know this doesn’t have much to do with the review of the book but maybe if I write about it here the next time you have a friend going through a hard time or tragedy you will go show up at their house and do their laundry, be a listening ear or take them a meal or just pray with them. It doesn’t have to complicated or elaborate to make your friend feel loved.
I rate this book a 3 out of 4 stars.
I recommend this book for teens and adults.
I enjoyed this book. I finished it under two days so you could say its a easy read that will keep you turning the page. I did not like how things turned out in this book. I kept hoping something would happen to change the course of events but of course they didn’t. Half way through the book I am sure you could see what was happening. I just kept hoping it wouldn’t.
Some of the characters were very likable and others not so much. They seemed very shallow and unwilling to be flexible or patient at where they were in life. I think we all are like that in some point of our lives and I am trying to remember that but it was hard not to want to shake some of these characters and make them see reason. Things that intrigued me in this book was the different illnesses characters dealt with some my family have dealt with in the past. Overall some people may find this a depressing book and many ways it was. Death, sickness, heartbreak; but isn’t that what we deal with in life. It isn’t always a story book ending which is one plus about this book it was very realistic.
A reoccurring theme in a lot of amish books seems to be pride. Isn’t this an issue we all deal with. It is hard when going through difficult times to know what or how to ask for help and when offered it is hard to respond. I find it way more helpful if people just stop by and help with what they see is needed. When we go through difficult times its hard to process and respond to people. I know this doesn’t have much to do with the review of the book but maybe if I write about it here the next time you have a friend going through a hard time or tragedy you will go show up at their house and do their laundry, be a listening ear or take them a meal or just pray with them. It doesn’t have to complicated or elaborate to make your friend feel loved.
I rate this book a 3 out of 4 stars.
May 13, 2015
Jonah Miller and Elaine Shrock are in love; and while no verbal proposal has been made, each understands they will wed in the future. At least that’s the way it was planned in their minds until Elaine’s grandfather passed away after making Elaine promise she would take care of her grandmother in the future. Elaine takes that promise very, very seriously even while she is doing her own mourning for this Amish family man whom she adored, a real father to her in her orphan status after losing her own parents.
The tension begins when first Elaine’s grandmother insists on being independent, even though it is clear after a while that something is physically and mentally wrong with her. Jonah is trying as best he can, while he is running his own business and working very hard, to offer help to the Shrock family. But even though these characters are Amish and living in an atmosphere of mutual support and care based on Biblical principles, stubbornness and denial begin to rule the day.
This then covers the remainder of the story, with small problems growing rapidly into large ones, when decisions are made that cannot be taken back, and when one realizes that costs are higher when caring for a loved one in need. How does one live through such a tempestuous time without becoming bitter and angry? In addition, the imminent and constantly stressful moments from dealing with a loved one with dementia are so very important, more important than the Amish community that directs the daily lives of every community member. This is a growing universal problem that Wanda Brunstetter addresses and depicts with graceful but gritty style.
There is a lovely, calm tone throughout this novel that actually communicates peace to the reader. This is because these people live by the spirit of the laws they obey and their worship which they share. In a world that is more and more chaotic, The Decision is a lovey way to step aside and relish how faith endures and bolsters the ups and downs of every man and woman’s live. Lovely contemporary and inspirational fiction!
The tension begins when first Elaine’s grandmother insists on being independent, even though it is clear after a while that something is physically and mentally wrong with her. Jonah is trying as best he can, while he is running his own business and working very hard, to offer help to the Shrock family. But even though these characters are Amish and living in an atmosphere of mutual support and care based on Biblical principles, stubbornness and denial begin to rule the day.
This then covers the remainder of the story, with small problems growing rapidly into large ones, when decisions are made that cannot be taken back, and when one realizes that costs are higher when caring for a loved one in need. How does one live through such a tempestuous time without becoming bitter and angry? In addition, the imminent and constantly stressful moments from dealing with a loved one with dementia are so very important, more important than the Amish community that directs the daily lives of every community member. This is a growing universal problem that Wanda Brunstetter addresses and depicts with graceful but gritty style.
There is a lovely, calm tone throughout this novel that actually communicates peace to the reader. This is because these people live by the spirit of the laws they obey and their worship which they share. In a world that is more and more chaotic, The Decision is a lovey way to step aside and relish how faith endures and bolsters the ups and downs of every man and woman’s live. Lovely contemporary and inspirational fiction!
February 28, 2015
Wanda Brunstetter's new book The Decision was an excellent read. If you are or know of a person that is a caretaker of someone you know what a big job that is. It is hard to find time to take care of yourself and your own needs. This book deals with this life issue. This book is the Prairie State Friends series, book one.
Elaine is the caretaker of her grandmother who becomes ill with diabetes and also dementia. This happens at a time in her life when she is being courted by Jonah. Jonah is a character Wanda's fans will recognize from another series of Wanda's books.
Just when things are going good with Elaine's and Jonah's relationship, Elaine discovers the news of her grandmother's health. She makes a decision that will affect not only her life, but Jonah's as well as others. Will Jonah be able to change her mind, or what will happen in the lives of these two?
I really enjoyed this book and could really understand the decision that Elaine felt necessary to make to spare Jonah from what she feels would be a difficult married life. This was a moving story that many people find themselves facing at one time or other in their lives.
I highly recommend this book and look forward to reading book two!
I received a print copy of this book from the publisher for my honest review, which I have given. All thoughts are my own.
Elaine is the caretaker of her grandmother who becomes ill with diabetes and also dementia. This happens at a time in her life when she is being courted by Jonah. Jonah is a character Wanda's fans will recognize from another series of Wanda's books.
Just when things are going good with Elaine's and Jonah's relationship, Elaine discovers the news of her grandmother's health. She makes a decision that will affect not only her life, but Jonah's as well as others. Will Jonah be able to change her mind, or what will happen in the lives of these two?
I really enjoyed this book and could really understand the decision that Elaine felt necessary to make to spare Jonah from what she feels would be a difficult married life. This was a moving story that many people find themselves facing at one time or other in their lives.
I highly recommend this book and look forward to reading book two!
I received a print copy of this book from the publisher for my honest review, which I have given. All thoughts are my own.
March 12, 2015
We begin this book with the death of Elaine’s grandfather, and the beginning of her dedication to her grandmother, per her grandfather’s last request. Her paternal grandparent’s raised Elaine after her parents were killed in a buggy accident, and she would do anything for them.
Jonah Miller, who you will remember from the Discovery Saga Collection, is now courting Elaine, he was left, so to speak, at the altar, and now Elaine is pulling away. We also meet Sara who is a young widow with a son, and struggling with a new illness, what could be wrong?
These young people are all thrown together, and we hope and pray that they will all follow Gods plan for their lives, and not the one that they decide to travel. I did love that at the end of the book there is an epilogue that updates us on all of the happening.
From cover to cover this book will have you turning the pages as quickly as possible to find out the answers. Some tough subjects are dealt with here, and these are horrible things that happen in all cultures.
Come and enjoy another visit in Amish Country with Wanda E. Brunstetter, you will not be disappointed.
I received this book through Net Galley and the Publish Shiloh Run Press, and was not required to give a positive review.
Jonah Miller, who you will remember from the Discovery Saga Collection, is now courting Elaine, he was left, so to speak, at the altar, and now Elaine is pulling away. We also meet Sara who is a young widow with a son, and struggling with a new illness, what could be wrong?
These young people are all thrown together, and we hope and pray that they will all follow Gods plan for their lives, and not the one that they decide to travel. I did love that at the end of the book there is an epilogue that updates us on all of the happening.
From cover to cover this book will have you turning the pages as quickly as possible to find out the answers. Some tough subjects are dealt with here, and these are horrible things that happen in all cultures.
Come and enjoy another visit in Amish Country with Wanda E. Brunstetter, you will not be disappointed.
I received this book through Net Galley and the Publish Shiloh Run Press, and was not required to give a positive review.
August 19, 2017
The Decision ( Prairie State Friends #1) Wanda Brunstetter
The Decision is the first book in Wanda Brunstetter's Prairie State Friends Series)
Jonah Miller is left at the altar, when his fiancees's dead husband suddenly appears.
Left brokenhearted by this broken romance, Jonah moves from Pennsylvania to Arthur Illinois to start over by opening up his own buggy shop.
Elaine Schrock has been courting Jonah for about a year, when Elaine's grandfather suddenly dies from a heart attack. Elaine is left to care for her grandmother, Edna, who has been diagnosed with diabetes and dementia. Feeling obligated to care for her grandmother, Elaine tells Jonah that he is free to find someone else and go on with his life.
Will Jonah finally find true and lasting love after he has failed to do so three times. What kind of obstacles and changes will Elaine be faced with, as her grandmother's memory declines and her health deteriorates.
I found The Decision to be well written and very heartfelt. Anyone who has been faced to be the caregiver to someone will most certainly feel for Elaine and what she has to face by taking care of her grandmother . I would highly recommend The Decision not only for it's content but also how well Wanda Brunstetter presented what a caregiver has to face
The Decision is the first book in Wanda Brunstetter's Prairie State Friends Series)
Jonah Miller is left at the altar, when his fiancees's dead husband suddenly appears.
Left brokenhearted by this broken romance, Jonah moves from Pennsylvania to Arthur Illinois to start over by opening up his own buggy shop.
Elaine Schrock has been courting Jonah for about a year, when Elaine's grandfather suddenly dies from a heart attack. Elaine is left to care for her grandmother, Edna, who has been diagnosed with diabetes and dementia. Feeling obligated to care for her grandmother, Elaine tells Jonah that he is free to find someone else and go on with his life.
Will Jonah finally find true and lasting love after he has failed to do so three times. What kind of obstacles and changes will Elaine be faced with, as her grandmother's memory declines and her health deteriorates.
I found The Decision to be well written and very heartfelt. Anyone who has been faced to be the caregiver to someone will most certainly feel for Elaine and what she has to face by taking care of her grandmother . I would highly recommend The Decision not only for it's content but also how well Wanda Brunstetter presented what a caregiver has to face
August 8, 2018
Another good story about the Amish. I really liked Elaine, her friends Pricilla and Leah. I felt bad for Jonah, but I am happy he found happiness.
March 28, 2015
*Summary*
Discover along with Jonah Miller how life can begin anew in the prairie state of Illinois. Moving from Pennsylvania, finding rewarding work, and leaving heartbreak behind is the best decision Jonah ever made. But is he ready to consider love again when he meets Elaine Schrock? Will his scarred heart mend when she chooses family loyalty over love?
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*How I found her/Why I love her*
Guys, I have a confession. I am OBSESSED with Wanda Brunnstetter. There. I said it. I've read EVERY ONE (and own them mind you!) of her books except for White Christmas Pie and her cookbooks. Actually, I own White Christmas pie, I just haven't read it yet, and those cookbooks are going to happen. (Kitchen geek in the house!) I was just going to say I don't know how I got onto her but I do. My grandparents. My grandpa reads ALL the time. (Gee, that reminds me of someone!) Grandma, noticing our love for books, asked grandpa some of his favorite authors to read and, of course, "Amazoned" it. She stumbled across "School's out" the first book in the Rachel Yoder children/YA series and bought it for me for me birthday. The next birthday (Maybe Christmas) I received "Back to School"...and "Out of Control". She bought me the entire series by the time it was done and you have to understand, this was a NEW series. Thus, the start of my reading adventures. Those books are THE best. Have young kids? BUY THEM. They're not that expensive at all.
Anyways, another good reason? I love the Amish. Obviously, it's not like I want to become one or something. They just fascinate me. Not in a "Let me stare at you because you're different" kind of way. More like a person to admire, and at times, question. Wanda puts these amazing recipes in the backs of some of her books too. Rachel Yoder books included. Make your own bubbles. Ginger cookies. Whoopie Pies. I'm telling you, your child will be entertained for hours if you let them!! *Enters public service announcement* That'll give you time to pick up this new Adult book Wanda has for us.
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*I loved*
If you're like me and LOVE Wanda or even are just getting started with her books, you've probably seen her latest Discovery series boxed set. Maybe you haven't, but I'm betting you have. If you've read it, or maybe just the back covers, you know there's this really cool guy named Jonah Miller in it. I loved Jonah in that series and we all really hurt for him in the end I think. He was so sweet, always helping everyone. Well, guess what? We see Jonah in this first book of her newest series "The Prairie State" friends!! I am so excited in this new direction Wanda is taking with this series. Instead of some of the "usual" states where we usually find the Amish in books: Kentucky, Indiana, and the HUGE one, Pennsylvania, Wanda is giving us a glimpse into Illinois!! Seriously. if you aren't from there or have never visited there, what do you know about Illinois? We NEVER hear about it in books and especially not Amish. Like I said. So excited. I was so pleased to meet Elaine Schrock but was constantly comparing her to Jonah to see if she was good enough for him. I really need to stop that habit.
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*Not my favorite*
One thing I did notice, that was unusual for Wanda is that there was a name mishap on the very first page. It started out as Eden or something like that and then it was changed back to Elaine after one time. Not a big deal to me but to some of you "grammar Nazis" e.t.c I thought I should mention it. It was also a little slow throughout the book, especially getting started but you tend to have that in an Amish book. Perfect for relaxing!
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*My Rating*
I give The Decision...
4 stars!!
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*My overall thoughts*
The decision by Wanda Brunnstetter is a new member to my bookcase!!All in all, the cover was beautiful, new series, great returning characters, new friends, and new settings combine for a wonderful Amish read to add to your "Wanda Collection"!
*I received this book the publisher in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts were my own and I was not compensated in any other way.
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April 29, 2017
The Decision is the first book in the Prairie State Friends series by Wanda Brunstetter. I picked this book up after reading two books with dark content and a lot of death so maybe that's why this book seemed so depressing. There was so much sickness, injury, death and heartache for everyone. Even the happy occasions had a dark cloud of illness hanging over them. It isn't that I expect everything to be peachy in a book. I don't mind themes of darkness and illness but typically I like to see characters find a way to at least come to terms with their struggles.
Another thing, though I enjoyed this book enough to pick up the rest of the series—I didn't connect with the characters. Well, one character—the main character. To be frank, Elaine kind of got on my nerves. I felt like she was so quick to close her heart because she was too stubborn to let anyone help her. Not because of the excuses she kept throwing out there. She wasn't truly thinking of her grandma. Elaine was just stubborn and needed to have her way.
She was selfish and not someone who I truly think that I would like to spend time with. I was slightly frustrated that she broke up with a good guy but then had to act jealous when he found love with someone else. He had waited for her and she rudely let him know that she didn't just want to break up but she lied and said she didn't even love him. I understand needing time to come to grip with illness and loss but to completely shut a person out without thoughts to their feelings is selfish. Sorry, it just is. I couldn't bring myself to truly like her or feel sorry for her.
I truly did like Jonah and Sara and wish that the book had focused solely on them since I had such difficulty connecting with Elaine in any profound way.
The book is okay. It's definitely readable and I will read the rest of the series. I'm truly hoping that the rest of the series has characters that are more friendly and personable than Elaine.
The spiritual applications and wisdom imparted is the redeeming key feature of this story.
A complimentary copy of this book was provided by Barbour Publishing, Netgalley. I was not required to write a positive review, and have not been compensated for this. All opinions are my own.
Another thing, though I enjoyed this book enough to pick up the rest of the series—I didn't connect with the characters. Well, one character—the main character. To be frank, Elaine kind of got on my nerves. I felt like she was so quick to close her heart because she was too stubborn to let anyone help her. Not because of the excuses she kept throwing out there. She wasn't truly thinking of her grandma. Elaine was just stubborn and needed to have her way.
She was selfish and not someone who I truly think that I would like to spend time with. I was slightly frustrated that she broke up with a good guy but then had to act jealous when he found love with someone else. He had waited for her and she rudely let him know that she didn't just want to break up but she lied and said she didn't even love him. I understand needing time to come to grip with illness and loss but to completely shut a person out without thoughts to their feelings is selfish. Sorry, it just is. I couldn't bring myself to truly like her or feel sorry for her.
I truly did like Jonah and Sara and wish that the book had focused solely on them since I had such difficulty connecting with Elaine in any profound way.
The book is okay. It's definitely readable and I will read the rest of the series. I'm truly hoping that the rest of the series has characters that are more friendly and personable than Elaine.
The spiritual applications and wisdom imparted is the redeeming key feature of this story.
Make Each Day count, Lainie, no matter what. Things happen for a reason, and although we may not understand it, in time, you'll find the answers you seek
A complimentary copy of this book was provided by Barbour Publishing, Netgalley. I was not required to write a positive review, and have not been compensated for this. All opinions are my own.
March 31, 2015
We have all made decisions in our lifetime that we often times wonder if it was the right one. Many times we wish we had the opportunity to go back and change some of those decisions as we have seen how they have played out in our life or in the lives of others. Jonah Miller was one such person. After being left at the altar by the love of his life, he has opted to start over again someplace else where the memories aren't quite so fresh when they are revisited from Pennsylvania to Illnois.
It is there where he learned to find love again with Elaine Schrock. In fact he wasn't even looking for love again and then again neither was she. They are literally on the verge of watching all their dreams for a future come true, when tragedy strikes and Elaine's grandfather dies. These are the only parents she has known since they have cared for her since she was little when her own parents died. In his dying words, Elaine's grandfather begged her to please take care of her grandmother, Edna. It was a promise that Elaine would ensure she would keep. After all how to you pay back your grandparents for raising you? It was the very least she could do.
When Edna begins to have dizzy spells and is a bit more than forgetful, Elaine and the community just believe that Edna is still in the grieving process and simply trying to move forward before she is physically ready. But when those situations become dangerous like wandering off and forgetting where she is, or leaving the oven on while making cookies, Elaine believes there might be something more going on. The doctor determines that besides being diabetic, Edna is also experiencing dementia. How will Elaine be able to move forward with Jonah, when she now has to face caring for her grandmother? Will Elaine's decision to forget her own future be the very best one God has in mind for her? Right now, she can't see how it can be.
I received The Decision by Wanda E. Brunsetter compliments of Nancy Berland Public Relations and Shiloh Publishers for my honest review. I did not receive any monetary compensation for a favorable review and the opinions contained here are strictly my own. This is the first novel in the Prairie State Friends Series and it is one I truly love. Relying on her own experiences in dealing with caring for a loved one with dementia, Wanda captivated the beautiful way the Amish care for their loved ones. They would never consider putting them in a facility to care for the aging, but instead the entire community rallies around to help in any way they can. Dementia has to be one of the most difficult illnesses to deal with because it robs our loved ones of their memories, the most priceless treasures we have. It is hard for both to deal with the effects and that comes across so well in this novel. There is a discussion guide at the end along with some great recipes. I can't wait for the next one in this series and for that reason it deserves a full 5 out of 5 stars in my opinion.
It is there where he learned to find love again with Elaine Schrock. In fact he wasn't even looking for love again and then again neither was she. They are literally on the verge of watching all their dreams for a future come true, when tragedy strikes and Elaine's grandfather dies. These are the only parents she has known since they have cared for her since she was little when her own parents died. In his dying words, Elaine's grandfather begged her to please take care of her grandmother, Edna. It was a promise that Elaine would ensure she would keep. After all how to you pay back your grandparents for raising you? It was the very least she could do.
When Edna begins to have dizzy spells and is a bit more than forgetful, Elaine and the community just believe that Edna is still in the grieving process and simply trying to move forward before she is physically ready. But when those situations become dangerous like wandering off and forgetting where she is, or leaving the oven on while making cookies, Elaine believes there might be something more going on. The doctor determines that besides being diabetic, Edna is also experiencing dementia. How will Elaine be able to move forward with Jonah, when she now has to face caring for her grandmother? Will Elaine's decision to forget her own future be the very best one God has in mind for her? Right now, she can't see how it can be.
I received The Decision by Wanda E. Brunsetter compliments of Nancy Berland Public Relations and Shiloh Publishers for my honest review. I did not receive any monetary compensation for a favorable review and the opinions contained here are strictly my own. This is the first novel in the Prairie State Friends Series and it is one I truly love. Relying on her own experiences in dealing with caring for a loved one with dementia, Wanda captivated the beautiful way the Amish care for their loved ones. They would never consider putting them in a facility to care for the aging, but instead the entire community rallies around to help in any way they can. Dementia has to be one of the most difficult illnesses to deal with because it robs our loved ones of their memories, the most priceless treasures we have. It is hard for both to deal with the effects and that comes across so well in this novel. There is a discussion guide at the end along with some great recipes. I can't wait for the next one in this series and for that reason it deserves a full 5 out of 5 stars in my opinion.
February 28, 2015
The Decision by Wanda E. Brunstetter is the first book in The Prairie State Friends series. The Decision is such a joy to read. This book picks up after The Discovery Saga Collection (A 6-part series from Lancaster County). Jonah Miller has moved from Lancaster County to Arthur, Illinois. He did not feel he could stay in Lancaster County and get over Meredith. Jonah’s twin sister, Jean and her husband, Nathan (along with their two children) live in Arthur. Jonah has bought a property and started a buggy making business.
Elaine Schrock lives with her grandparents, Lloyd and Edna Schrock. Her parents died in a buggy accident when she was little and her paternal grandparents took her in and raised her. Grandfather Schrock dies suddenly of a heart attack with his last words asking Elaine to take care of her grandmother. Shortly after his death Edna starts acting strangely. Edna is getting forgetful as well as having dizzy spells. Elaine takes her to the doctor and finds out that Edna has Type II Diabetes. Edna will have to modify her diet and take medication to control the diabetes. Elaine knows this will be difficult since her grandmother loves sweets. One day Edna passes out at a local diner and is taken to the hospital. The doctor runs tests and discovers that Edna has dementia. How will this diagnosis affect Elaine’s life?
Jonah and Elaine have been courting for the last year, but when her grandmother becomes ill Elaine feels that she must handle her responsibilities on her own. Elaine tells Jonah that she does not love him and pushes him away. Jonah feels hurt. This rejection is especially hard after what happened with Meredith. Jonah starts spending time with Sara.
Sara Stutzman is a widow with a two year old son, Mark. She was married to Hurley who was a friend of Jonah’s. Sara is tired all the time and has a tingling sensation in her arms and legs. Sara gets diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. Sara has to decide to whether to stay in Arthur or go back to her home town (where her parents live). How will Jonah handle the news of Sara’s illness?
To find out what happens with Elaine, Jonah, and Sara, please read The Decision. It is such a marvelous book. I did not want it to end. I have to warn you that it gets sad towards the end. You will need to have your hankie close by! I give The Decision 5 out of 5 stars. I cannot wait for the next book in The Prairie State Friends series.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
Elaine Schrock lives with her grandparents, Lloyd and Edna Schrock. Her parents died in a buggy accident when she was little and her paternal grandparents took her in and raised her. Grandfather Schrock dies suddenly of a heart attack with his last words asking Elaine to take care of her grandmother. Shortly after his death Edna starts acting strangely. Edna is getting forgetful as well as having dizzy spells. Elaine takes her to the doctor and finds out that Edna has Type II Diabetes. Edna will have to modify her diet and take medication to control the diabetes. Elaine knows this will be difficult since her grandmother loves sweets. One day Edna passes out at a local diner and is taken to the hospital. The doctor runs tests and discovers that Edna has dementia. How will this diagnosis affect Elaine’s life?
Jonah and Elaine have been courting for the last year, but when her grandmother becomes ill Elaine feels that she must handle her responsibilities on her own. Elaine tells Jonah that she does not love him and pushes him away. Jonah feels hurt. This rejection is especially hard after what happened with Meredith. Jonah starts spending time with Sara.
Sara Stutzman is a widow with a two year old son, Mark. She was married to Hurley who was a friend of Jonah’s. Sara is tired all the time and has a tingling sensation in her arms and legs. Sara gets diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. Sara has to decide to whether to stay in Arthur or go back to her home town (where her parents live). How will Jonah handle the news of Sara’s illness?
To find out what happens with Elaine, Jonah, and Sara, please read The Decision. It is such a marvelous book. I did not want it to end. I have to warn you that it gets sad towards the end. You will need to have your hankie close by! I give The Decision 5 out of 5 stars. I cannot wait for the next book in The Prairie State Friends series.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
March 20, 2015
About this book:
“Sometimes Jonah feels he must be unloveable...
By a strange turn of events Jonah Miller was left at the alter by the love of his life. He hopes he left heartbreak behind when he moves from Pennsylvania to Illinois, settling into a new Amish community as a buggy maker.
He starts to court Elaine Schock, who works with her grandmother to host dinners in their home for tourists. But when her grandfather suddenly dies and her grandmother—her only living relative—slips into dementia, Elaine ignores her growing love for Jonah and sets him free to look for love elsewhere.
Jonah is sure he won’t find a love a third time. Is God calling him to remain single, or does he have a different plan fr the lonely Amish man.”
Series: Book #1 in the “Prairie State Friends” series.
Spiritual Content- Matthew 5:7 at the Dedication; Prayers; A few Scriptures are quoted; Talks about God; ‘H’s are capital when referring to God; Mentions of heaven; Church going.
Negative Content- Minor cussing including: four forms of ‘dumb��; Mentions of dead animals killed by other animals (barely-above-not-detailed; cats killing birds & mice).
Sexual Content- A kiss on the cheek; Love trying not to be in love, falling in love & the emotions.
-Elaine Schrock, age 22
-Jonah Miller, age 24-25
P.O.V. switches between them, Sara, Edna, Leah & Priscilla.
310 pages (with two recipes)
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Pre Teens- One Star
New Teens- One Star
Early High School Teens- One Star (and a half)
Older High School Teens- Two Stars
My personal Rating- Two Stars
{Girls who are interested in illnesses (MS, dementia, and diabetes) might rate this book higher}
This is not a happy book. It’s very real-life-ish and I read fiction for happy endings—which I understand isn’t always real life. This book just made me sad. With all the illnesses, funerals, and couples not staying together, I personally wasn’t a fan.
Link to review:
http://booksforchristiangirls.blogspo...
*BFCG may (Read the review to see) recommend this book by this author. It does not mean I recommend all the books by this author.
*I received this book for free from the Publisher (Shiloh Press Run) for this review.
“Sometimes Jonah feels he must be unloveable...
By a strange turn of events Jonah Miller was left at the alter by the love of his life. He hopes he left heartbreak behind when he moves from Pennsylvania to Illinois, settling into a new Amish community as a buggy maker.
He starts to court Elaine Schock, who works with her grandmother to host dinners in their home for tourists. But when her grandfather suddenly dies and her grandmother—her only living relative—slips into dementia, Elaine ignores her growing love for Jonah and sets him free to look for love elsewhere.
Jonah is sure he won’t find a love a third time. Is God calling him to remain single, or does he have a different plan fr the lonely Amish man.”
Series: Book #1 in the “Prairie State Friends” series.
Spiritual Content- Matthew 5:7 at the Dedication; Prayers; A few Scriptures are quoted; Talks about God; ‘H’s are capital when referring to God; Mentions of heaven; Church going.
Negative Content- Minor cussing including: four forms of ‘dumb��; Mentions of dead animals killed by other animals (barely-above-not-detailed; cats killing birds & mice).
Sexual Content- A kiss on the cheek; Love trying not to be in love, falling in love & the emotions.
-Elaine Schrock, age 22
-Jonah Miller, age 24-25
P.O.V. switches between them, Sara, Edna, Leah & Priscilla.
310 pages (with two recipes)
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Pre Teens- One Star
New Teens- One Star
Early High School Teens- One Star (and a half)
Older High School Teens- Two Stars
My personal Rating- Two Stars
{Girls who are interested in illnesses (MS, dementia, and diabetes) might rate this book higher}
This is not a happy book. It’s very real-life-ish and I read fiction for happy endings—which I understand isn’t always real life. This book just made me sad. With all the illnesses, funerals, and couples not staying together, I personally wasn’t a fan.
Link to review:
http://booksforchristiangirls.blogspo...
*BFCG may (Read the review to see) recommend this book by this author. It does not mean I recommend all the books by this author.
*I received this book for free from the Publisher (Shiloh Press Run) for this review.
August 1, 2021
Once again beloved author Wanda Brunstetter has created characters that grab our attention and a storyline that tugs at our heartstrings. In 'The Decision', book one in her new Prairie State Friends, we once again meet Jonah Miller, a young Amish buggy maker who leaves Pennsylvania after a heart breaking loss. The young widow Jonah was planning to marry discovers that her "dead" husband is actually alive on the night before their wedding. Jonah, needing to put distance between himself and the reunited couple, moves to Illinois to begin a new life. He feels that he has been given a second chance at love with Elaine Schrock but this also proves to be in vain. Elaine's promise to her dying grandfather to always take care of her grandmother prompts Elaine to release Jonah from any love and commitment the two may have shared.
As in true life, death or illness can alter many plans and this book has both. Dementia and MS affect two of the prominent characters and readers are given a glimpse of how the Amish might deal with these issues.
There are many decisions to be made in this story. Elaine must choose between keeping her promise or following her heart; Jonah must decide if he will remain single or risk losing his heart for a third time.
"The Decision" is a heart-wrenching study of duty over personal happiness and a heartwarming reminder that 'good can come to those who wait'. Readers of this book will be glad they have chosen to read "The Decision" and they will anxiously await the second story in this series!
I received a copy of this book from Barbour Publishing and was under no obligation to post a review. These are my own thoughts.
As in true life, death or illness can alter many plans and this book has both. Dementia and MS affect two of the prominent characters and readers are given a glimpse of how the Amish might deal with these issues.
There are many decisions to be made in this story. Elaine must choose between keeping her promise or following her heart; Jonah must decide if he will remain single or risk losing his heart for a third time.
"The Decision" is a heart-wrenching study of duty over personal happiness and a heartwarming reminder that 'good can come to those who wait'. Readers of this book will be glad they have chosen to read "The Decision" and they will anxiously await the second story in this series!
I received a copy of this book from Barbour Publishing and was under no obligation to post a review. These are my own thoughts.
April 2, 2015
Sometimes learning God's plan for us is through a series of disappointing events. Jonah Miller left Pennsylvania behind for a fresh start in Illinois. He built a successful carriage repair business and works hard to forget the woman who left him alone on his wedding day.
Once in Illinois and getting his business established, Elaine Schrock catches his heart and he dares to open his heart to her.
The story is one of devotion and loyalty with a great deal of patience. Imagine believing in a love so strong that you are willing to put everything on hold in order to give space to the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. Top that off with selfless acts of kindness to make things easier for them in their great time of need and have it brushed aside like yesterday's dust. Jonah loves Elaine and will do anything for her when her grandmother's health is threatened. Can she share her burdens with him to make their life together? The dynamics of the story are complex and I found myself engaged in the story to the point where I was so surprised with the ending. I won't spoil the ending but if you want to read a good story about love, faith and sacrifice, pick up a copy of Wanda E Brunstetter's book The Decision. Please let there be a sequel.....
Please see the preview for this moving story below:
https://youtu.be/8lllGqfeuj8
Once in Illinois and getting his business established, Elaine Schrock catches his heart and he dares to open his heart to her.
The story is one of devotion and loyalty with a great deal of patience. Imagine believing in a love so strong that you are willing to put everything on hold in order to give space to the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. Top that off with selfless acts of kindness to make things easier for them in their great time of need and have it brushed aside like yesterday's dust. Jonah loves Elaine and will do anything for her when her grandmother's health is threatened. Can she share her burdens with him to make their life together? The dynamics of the story are complex and I found myself engaged in the story to the point where I was so surprised with the ending. I won't spoil the ending but if you want to read a good story about love, faith and sacrifice, pick up a copy of Wanda E Brunstetter's book The Decision. Please let there be a sequel.....
Please see the preview for this moving story below:
https://youtu.be/8lllGqfeuj8
April 12, 2015
This was the first in the Prairie State friends series. It was a very depressing book. Elaine was raised by her grandparents after her parents death and now makes a living serving Amish dinners to tour groups. In the first chapter her grandfather dies and her grandmother is having health problems. they find that she has diabetes and rapidly progressing dementia. Elaines is in a courtship with Jonah and turns down his proposal so she can take care of her grandmother. Her friend Sara, is a young widow with a 2 year old, her mother-in-law is hurt badly in a car/buggy accident and Sara has to take care of the family, she starts having health problems and falls asleep on a picnic with her 2 year old who wonders off. Jonah brings the boy back just in time to see her barn burn down. Sara finds out she has MS and Jonah decided to marry her without a courtship, Right after the wedding Elaine's grandmother dies but it is too late to get back with Jonah. This is where the book ends.
September 26, 2023
Read in June 2017 and September 2023.
Per My Original Review, I still feel the same way about this book!!
Rating: 5 Stars!!
Review:
This was only the 2nd Trilogy ive read by Wanda so i kind of knew what to expect but this one really touched my heart in more ways then one since it talked about Grief and ive been dealing with that since losing My Grandpa last year (January 2016).
The Characters were enjoyable and interesting to read about. Elaine was my favorite by far since i could relate to her feelings of Grief.
The Setting was beautifully described which made me feel like i was actually in Arthur Illinois while reading especially when the scenery was described.
Overall an Enjoyable Book 1 in this Amish Fiction Trilogy!! Can't wait to read Book 2 and more by Wanda in the future!!
Per My Original Review, I still feel the same way about this book!!
Rating: 5 Stars!!
Review:
This was only the 2nd Trilogy ive read by Wanda so i kind of knew what to expect but this one really touched my heart in more ways then one since it talked about Grief and ive been dealing with that since losing My Grandpa last year (January 2016).
The Characters were enjoyable and interesting to read about. Elaine was my favorite by far since i could relate to her feelings of Grief.
The Setting was beautifully described which made me feel like i was actually in Arthur Illinois while reading especially when the scenery was described.
Overall an Enjoyable Book 1 in this Amish Fiction Trilogy!! Can't wait to read Book 2 and more by Wanda in the future!!
July 23, 2015
Wow. I usually enjoy a Wanda Brunstetter novel, as they are nice, clean Amish fiction, but this book packed a punch I wasn't expecting.
First of all, the subject matter was quite different than I've seen from her: a granddaughter dealing with her grandmother's dementia. This book handled that topic, as well as the accompanying issue of caregiver burnout/stress quite well. I also appreciated the side story of Sara's health concerns, which are somewhat similar to my own.
Aside from the way the topics were handled, I also really liked how the book took a completely unexpected direction. I thought I knew what would happen, but I was totally surprised at how everything played out. I think this is my favourite Wanda Brunstetter novel, and am hoping the next one will be just as good!
4.5 stars
First of all, the subject matter was quite different than I've seen from her: a granddaughter dealing with her grandmother's dementia. This book handled that topic, as well as the accompanying issue of caregiver burnout/stress quite well. I also appreciated the side story of Sara's health concerns, which are somewhat similar to my own.
Aside from the way the topics were handled, I also really liked how the book took a completely unexpected direction. I thought I knew what would happen, but I was totally surprised at how everything played out. I think this is my favourite Wanda Brunstetter novel, and am hoping the next one will be just as good!
4.5 stars
November 11, 2016
I knew that dementia would be a part of the story, but I didn't expect it to be the main focus of the story. I also wasn't expecting the other disease until the character began to show symptoms later in the book. I was expecting this to be more of a romance, and there was a little romance, which is more than I thought the author would give the story. I was happy that two of the characters were given a happy ending, and it was with each other, which was nice. Also, I liked the setting, Illinois. It's nice to read about home.
September 10, 2016
Loved this book. I actually read the second book in this series first, then decided to backtrack to the first. I'm not sorry that I did! Great read. I loved the fact the book was about a grandmother with a dementia diagnosis. As always Wanda Brunstetter came through with an amazing read.
June 9, 2019
This was the saddest book I have ever read. I wish I had not wasted my time.
This is the saddest book I have ever read. I enjoy reading about the Amish -- but I wish I had never wasted my time on this one.
This is the saddest book I have ever read. I enjoy reading about the Amish -- but I wish I had never wasted my time on this one.
September 23, 2019
Not your traditional "feel good" ending story by Brunstetter. She tackles the reality of caregiving, dementia and MS as well as the reasons behind the difficult decisions that people make. Really enjoyed this story, and looking forward to more in the Prairie State Friends series!
March 12, 2015
Review later Very light on romance. This deals much more with a family member dealing with serious issues with the health and loss of grandparents.
March 14, 2015
Elaine and Jonah plan to marry then...life is complicated.
June 11, 2015
A great book, ready for the next one.
December 1, 2016
No words for how much I hated this book.
May 5, 2025
So many emotions! I’m kind of sad at the outcome of this story, mad at the decision Jonah made, proud, yet understanding at the decision Elaine made.
Elaine Schrock is a very considerate, mature, and strong woman. Her parents died when she was young, and was raised by her grandparents. When her grandfather dies, she is left with her grandmother, but soon her grandmother not only is diagnosed with diabetes, but also with dementia. Elaine’s boyfriend, Jonah, wants to help Elaine but with a buggy business to run, he doesn’t have a lot of free time and Elaine, understandably, thinks she can handle taking care of her grandmother on her own. Jonah just wants to get married and have a family. He was left at the altar once and is ready to settle down. But he doesn’t understand that Edna is not going to want to leave her home and move in to Jonah’s home if Elaine and Jonah were to marry. So Elaine does what she thinks is best. She breaks up with Jonah, lies and says she never was in love with him, and lets him not waste anymore time with finding someone to settle down with.
Through some unfortunate circumstances with the widow Sara Stutzman, like her son Mark running off when she fell asleep and Sara’s barn burning down, Jonah finds he helps her in the nick of time, enjoys having dinner with her, and especially playing with her son. Since he thinks that Elaine never loved him, and has broken up with him, he feels it’s the right thing to do to get married to Sara, especially now that she was diagnosed with MS and was thinking of moving back to live with her parents.
It just figures that when Jonah and Sara get married, Elaine’s grandmother passes away. I’m not sure if Elaine will be as happy with the new boyfriend mentioned in the epilogue, but I guess she has no choice since Sara is already pregnant.
Unexpected turn of events makes for a great book!
Elaine Schrock is a very considerate, mature, and strong woman. Her parents died when she was young, and was raised by her grandparents. When her grandfather dies, she is left with her grandmother, but soon her grandmother not only is diagnosed with diabetes, but also with dementia. Elaine’s boyfriend, Jonah, wants to help Elaine but with a buggy business to run, he doesn’t have a lot of free time and Elaine, understandably, thinks she can handle taking care of her grandmother on her own. Jonah just wants to get married and have a family. He was left at the altar once and is ready to settle down. But he doesn’t understand that Edna is not going to want to leave her home and move in to Jonah’s home if Elaine and Jonah were to marry. So Elaine does what she thinks is best. She breaks up with Jonah, lies and says she never was in love with him, and lets him not waste anymore time with finding someone to settle down with.
Through some unfortunate circumstances with the widow Sara Stutzman, like her son Mark running off when she fell asleep and Sara’s barn burning down, Jonah finds he helps her in the nick of time, enjoys having dinner with her, and especially playing with her son. Since he thinks that Elaine never loved him, and has broken up with him, he feels it’s the right thing to do to get married to Sara, especially now that she was diagnosed with MS and was thinking of moving back to live with her parents.
It just figures that when Jonah and Sara get married, Elaine’s grandmother passes away. I’m not sure if Elaine will be as happy with the new boyfriend mentioned in the epilogue, but I guess she has no choice since Sara is already pregnant.
Unexpected turn of events makes for a great book!
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