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The Winter We Chose Us
Is love enough to keep someone from drowning?
Tobias is trying his best. Therapy. Staying busy at work. Focusing on the life he and Elijah are building together. But healing isn’t a straight line, and the thoughts he’s buried only grow louder under the weight of stress.
Elijah is doing everything he can to hold them both together. Navigating a new relationship isn’t easy, especially with distance between them, but he’s determined to prove to Tobias that he’s not going anywhere. Not this time.
When the winter grows cold and the ghosts of Tobias’s past creep into the present, they realize they have a face the shadows together or risk slipping under and losing everything they’ve fought for.
This book contains mature themes, including trauma, depression, anxiety, substance use, and explicit content. Recommended for readers 18+. This is Book 2 in the duet, concluding the story begun in The Summer We Found Us, with a guaranteed HEA.
Tobias is trying his best. Therapy. Staying busy at work. Focusing on the life he and Elijah are building together. But healing isn’t a straight line, and the thoughts he’s buried only grow louder under the weight of stress.
Elijah is doing everything he can to hold them both together. Navigating a new relationship isn’t easy, especially with distance between them, but he’s determined to prove to Tobias that he’s not going anywhere. Not this time.
When the winter grows cold and the ghosts of Tobias’s past creep into the present, they realize they have a face the shadows together or risk slipping under and losing everything they’ve fought for.
This book contains mature themes, including trauma, depression, anxiety, substance use, and explicit content. Recommended for readers 18+. This is Book 2 in the duet, concluding the story begun in The Summer We Found Us, with a guaranteed HEA.
- GenresM M Romance
427 pages, Kindle Edition
Published December 9, 2025
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About the author
Ella Kit
6 books138 followersElla Kit is a writer of LGBTQA+ romance novels who loves giggling and kicking her feet over charming characters, crying happy tears over love declarations, and celebrating those hard-earned happily-ever-afters.
Through her stories, she brings to life heartfelt romances that dive deep into love, growth, and self-discovery.
When Ella isn’t writing, you can find her reading, exploring new adventures, and chatting with readers who adore sweet love stories as much as she does.
Through her stories, she brings to life heartfelt romances that dive deep into love, growth, and self-discovery.
When Ella isn’t writing, you can find her reading, exploring new adventures, and chatting with readers who adore sweet love stories as much as she does.
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December 9, 2025
4/5 stars 3.5/5 spice
I’m delighted to see Elijah and Tobias get their happy ever after. These two were so in love with each other. Their love language was definitely touch/intimacy. Whenever they had an intimate moment you could feel just how much they needed one another.
Elijah had some personal growth in this book. He had his moments where we acted a little selfish and impulsive but once he got his head on straight and realised he needed to fight for Tobias he changed for the better. Tobias was sweet as always, treating Elijah like his entire world. He did make some stupid decisions in regard to his father and lying to Elijah about it but he was also under a lot of stress and pressure at such a young age. I’m glad they both decided to put the work in to make their relationship last and be more healthy.
I really liked Gabe’s character (minus his mistake) and the little hints we were given about him and his foster brother. That’s a story I’m really looking forward to reading.
- Found family
- Long distance relationship
- Restaurant co-owners
- Codependency
- Grief
- Dangerous father on the run
- Traumatic past
I’m delighted to see Elijah and Tobias get their happy ever after. These two were so in love with each other. Their love language was definitely touch/intimacy. Whenever they had an intimate moment you could feel just how much they needed one another.
Elijah had some personal growth in this book. He had his moments where we acted a little selfish and impulsive but once he got his head on straight and realised he needed to fight for Tobias he changed for the better. Tobias was sweet as always, treating Elijah like his entire world. He did make some stupid decisions in regard to his father and lying to Elijah about it but he was also under a lot of stress and pressure at such a young age. I’m glad they both decided to put the work in to make their relationship last and be more healthy.
I really liked Gabe’s character (minus his mistake) and the little hints we were given about him and his foster brother. That’s a story I’m really looking forward to reading.
- Found family
- Long distance relationship
- Restaurant co-owners
- Codependency
- Grief
- Dangerous father on the run
- Traumatic past
January 20, 2026
❄️You're all I've ever wanted. It's always been you. It will always be you🐦⬛
"As long as I'm his best friend, I'll make sure I'll always be there to pull him out of the deep end. Every. Single. Time."
"He has this overwhelming effect on me that makes me numb to everything else. My mind, my soul, and my body don't want him to leave. He can't leave. Not now. Not ever."
"It's like he's an anchor. When he's near, it doesn't feel like I'm floating away."
"Every second away from you hurts."
"My home is a pair of blue ocean eyes, and a warm solid chest. Everything else will figure itself out. Right now, I need to be home. Right now, I need Tobias."
"I love you, Tobias. All of you. Every single part. Even the parts you hate about yourself. I almost love those the most."
"This is what love is supposed to feel like. Terrifying. Fragile. And completely unconditional. This is real love. Flaws and all."
"He keeps choosing me again and again, even when it's hard. Even when it's down right painful. As much as I wanted to keep my pain away from him, it caught up to us. And yet, he's still here."
"You're all I've ever wanted. It's always been you. It will always be you."
"Life hasn't always been kind to me. There were days, a lot of days, I thought I wouldn't make it through. Days I felt small, or broken, or like I wasn't built for this world. But then there was you. And you saw me...all of me...and you loved me anyway. Loving you has never hurt. It's never been hard. It's the easiest thing I've ever done."
What a perfect ending to this duet. This was a gut-wrenching and wild ride that kept me engaged until the very last page. I cried a lot, laughed, screamed, had anxiety, smiled, and swooned. I love this author's writing style, flow, and the emotions she evokes in her stories. There was so much trauma, darkness, and pain in this duet. But there was also love, growing, and so much healing. These boys were everything and are definitely now one of my favorite couples ever written. I love how we got flashbacks of when they were kids. The prologue alone made me emotional 😭. The mental health aspects in this story were handled so well. I truly felt these characters' struggles. I was on the edge of my seat towards the end. I was terrified how this would end. Thankfully it has an HEA! The spice in this was delicious and spicin 🔥🔥🔥🔥.
This story picks up at the end of the last book. We follow the relationship between Tobias and Elijah. Elijah goes back to school, so we see them struggle with being apart and long distance. Tobias is still getting threats from his father and he hides it from everyone. Tobias is so stressed with the lies he tells, his father breathing down his neck, struggling to maintain the business by himself that he falls into depression badly. He hides it so well from Elijah. Elijah is busy with school, so he doesn't see through Tobias as much as he should. Elijah lets his jealousy get the better of him and he takes space from Tobias, which makes everything even worse. Can these two survive between the lies and miscommunication? Will Derrick finally destroy everything Tobias loves? Can the promises these two make still hold true?
I love these broken boys so much. Tobias ugh, my heart and soul bled for this boy 😭. He continues to struggle and deal with so many demons. I understand why he kept things from Elijah, but at the same time, I'm like Nooooo tell him! I love how these boys love each other so fiercely. Yes, they're codependent, but they have grown so much from the first book. I love how Elijah took the caretaker role in this book. He stepped up and really knew what Tobias needed. I loved how Elijah accepted and supported Tobias unconditionally. Seeing both of these boys heal and grow together was everything. This was one of the most hard earned HEAs I've ever read. I was scared towards the end, not gonna lie 😂😂. The epliogue made me smile and made my heart so happy. These boys were truly best friends at the heart of their relationship. I will be thinking about these boys for a while.
I loved the side characters in this book. Gwen was my favorite side character. She did everything for her boys and continued to support them 🥹. Gabe and Wyatt. I need that book now! I feel their story will have so much pain and tears 😫. I loved the found family they created with their restaurant. I also love how they kept Jude's memory alive. Anything with Jude made me bawl 😭. And Derrick. I'm glad that mf finally got his! I've never hated a villain so much in my life! If you're looking for a book that's filled with broken boys, trauma, crying, healing, lots of growth, spice, and all the swoony/pining moments, then this duet is for you. 🏞🌻🪻📸🐦⬛🍋🎶🎄❄️💙🤎
"As long as I'm his best friend, I'll make sure I'll always be there to pull him out of the deep end. Every. Single. Time."
"He has this overwhelming effect on me that makes me numb to everything else. My mind, my soul, and my body don't want him to leave. He can't leave. Not now. Not ever."
"It's like he's an anchor. When he's near, it doesn't feel like I'm floating away."
"Every second away from you hurts."
"My home is a pair of blue ocean eyes, and a warm solid chest. Everything else will figure itself out. Right now, I need to be home. Right now, I need Tobias."
"I love you, Tobias. All of you. Every single part. Even the parts you hate about yourself. I almost love those the most."
"This is what love is supposed to feel like. Terrifying. Fragile. And completely unconditional. This is real love. Flaws and all."
"He keeps choosing me again and again, even when it's hard. Even when it's down right painful. As much as I wanted to keep my pain away from him, it caught up to us. And yet, he's still here."
"You're all I've ever wanted. It's always been you. It will always be you."
"Life hasn't always been kind to me. There were days, a lot of days, I thought I wouldn't make it through. Days I felt small, or broken, or like I wasn't built for this world. But then there was you. And you saw me...all of me...and you loved me anyway. Loving you has never hurt. It's never been hard. It's the easiest thing I've ever done."
What a perfect ending to this duet. This was a gut-wrenching and wild ride that kept me engaged until the very last page. I cried a lot, laughed, screamed, had anxiety, smiled, and swooned. I love this author's writing style, flow, and the emotions she evokes in her stories. There was so much trauma, darkness, and pain in this duet. But there was also love, growing, and so much healing. These boys were everything and are definitely now one of my favorite couples ever written. I love how we got flashbacks of when they were kids. The prologue alone made me emotional 😭. The mental health aspects in this story were handled so well. I truly felt these characters' struggles. I was on the edge of my seat towards the end. I was terrified how this would end. Thankfully it has an HEA! The spice in this was delicious and spicin 🔥🔥🔥🔥.
This story picks up at the end of the last book. We follow the relationship between Tobias and Elijah. Elijah goes back to school, so we see them struggle with being apart and long distance. Tobias is still getting threats from his father and he hides it from everyone. Tobias is so stressed with the lies he tells, his father breathing down his neck, struggling to maintain the business by himself that he falls into depression badly. He hides it so well from Elijah. Elijah is busy with school, so he doesn't see through Tobias as much as he should. Elijah lets his jealousy get the better of him and he takes space from Tobias, which makes everything even worse. Can these two survive between the lies and miscommunication? Will Derrick finally destroy everything Tobias loves? Can the promises these two make still hold true?
I love these broken boys so much. Tobias ugh, my heart and soul bled for this boy 😭. He continues to struggle and deal with so many demons. I understand why he kept things from Elijah, but at the same time, I'm like Nooooo tell him! I love how these boys love each other so fiercely. Yes, they're codependent, but they have grown so much from the first book. I love how Elijah took the caretaker role in this book. He stepped up and really knew what Tobias needed. I loved how Elijah accepted and supported Tobias unconditionally. Seeing both of these boys heal and grow together was everything. This was one of the most hard earned HEAs I've ever read. I was scared towards the end, not gonna lie 😂😂. The epliogue made me smile and made my heart so happy. These boys were truly best friends at the heart of their relationship. I will be thinking about these boys for a while.
I loved the side characters in this book. Gwen was my favorite side character. She did everything for her boys and continued to support them 🥹. Gabe and Wyatt. I need that book now! I feel their story will have so much pain and tears 😫. I loved the found family they created with their restaurant. I also love how they kept Jude's memory alive. Anything with Jude made me bawl 😭. And Derrick. I'm glad that mf finally got his! I've never hated a villain so much in my life! If you're looking for a book that's filled with broken boys, trauma, crying, healing, lots of growth, spice, and all the swoony/pining moments, then this duet is for you. 🏞🌻🪻📸🐦⬛🍋🎶🎄❄️💙🤎
December 3, 2025
✨ARC Review✨
My girl Ella has done it again with this one. This is the ending that Tobias & Elijah deserved.
I’ve read many books with a villain, however, Derrick Voss was written in the way that instilled fear in me. Knowing the damage he has cause, the fear he has induced, nothing made me happier than reading the end of this book knowing that my boys were safe. Although this book contains one of my least favorite tropes (keeping secrets for safety), understanding the kind of awful human Derrick was made it sooo much more believable.
It’s nice to read an MM romance that the primary focus is the love that these two have for each other and not purely smut (although there is a good bit of that too). I often times become bored with MM romances that push the narrative that men are simple sex obsessed, but this book was not that.
Overall, I loved this book, and am so glad these boys got their happily ever after.
As a Patreon member too, I can’t wait to see what Ella cooks up for Gabe & Wyatt! 🩷
My girl Ella has done it again with this one. This is the ending that Tobias & Elijah deserved.
I’ve read many books with a villain, however, Derrick Voss was written in the way that instilled fear in me. Knowing the damage he has cause, the fear he has induced, nothing made me happier than reading the end of this book knowing that my boys were safe. Although this book contains one of my least favorite tropes (keeping secrets for safety), understanding the kind of awful human Derrick was made it sooo much more believable.
It’s nice to read an MM romance that the primary focus is the love that these two have for each other and not purely smut (although there is a good bit of that too). I often times become bored with MM romances that push the narrative that men are simple sex obsessed, but this book was not that.
Overall, I loved this book, and am so glad these boys got their happily ever after.
As a Patreon member too, I can’t wait to see what Ella cooks up for Gabe & Wyatt! 🩷
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
December 9, 2025
This is an ARC review.
The Winter We Chose Us - Can love be enough?
Throughout this book, you see how hard Tobias tries to show how he’s changing and trying to stay afloat.
We’ve almost all been there in some fashion.
Bless him, Elijah keeps pushing them forward. The insecurities are THERE, ok!?
They have to choose each other every single time.
The miscommunication was hard to get through but it’s my least favorite trope.
I think this book shows how sometimes love is hard but worth it. And fun in the bedroom 🤭
Great book!
The Winter We Chose Us - Can love be enough?
Throughout this book, you see how hard Tobias tries to show how he’s changing and trying to stay afloat.
We’ve almost all been there in some fashion.
Bless him, Elijah keeps pushing them forward. The insecurities are THERE, ok!?
They have to choose each other every single time.
The miscommunication was hard to get through but it’s my least favorite trope.
I think this book shows how sometimes love is hard but worth it. And fun in the bedroom 🤭
Great book!
November 25, 2025
I have been waiting for the rest of their story and this book did not disappoint! I received at ARC of this book and I could not put it down. Ella Kit is such an awesome author and a pleasure to communicate with. This author will forever be on my automatic read list!
December 2, 2025
This was an enjoyable read. I liked finishing up Tobias and Elijah’s story.
Tobias and Elijah were likable. Both young adults navigating what’s already a difficult time in life with added challenges like grief of losing a parent/parent figure, another parent’s criminality, and being thrown into restaurant management and college on top of it all. Initially the first few chapters felt very spice heavy, but once the plot picked up it caught my attention. Especially towards the end of the book when things finally started ramping up with Derrick. He got the ending he deserved.
While overall I did like this there were a few things that I didn’t enjoy so much. Some bits felt added for dramatizing the story and didn’t add much to the plot or story itself. A few times things happen that should be red flags for Gwen and Elijah in regard to Tobias and it gets glossed over. It just doesn’t fit Gwen’s mother hen character to ignore these red flags (fainting, asking about legal advice). Also it was never brought up that Tobias stole money from the restaurant. It was not a small amount of money (not a duffle bag full with enough to obtain a car) and doesn’t seem realistic that it’s just forgotten about without consequence.
I also personally didn’t like the miscommunication bits with Gabe and Elijah it felt forced. I did like Gabe’s character so I’m disappointed we didn’t get more of his and his foster brother’s story in this. While
I’m glad they’ll get their book I wish there had been a bit more added to this one of them.
Thank you Ella Kit for this arc!
Tobias and Elijah were likable. Both young adults navigating what’s already a difficult time in life with added challenges like grief of losing a parent/parent figure, another parent’s criminality, and being thrown into restaurant management and college on top of it all. Initially the first few chapters felt very spice heavy, but once the plot picked up it caught my attention. Especially towards the end of the book when things finally started ramping up with Derrick. He got the ending he deserved.
While overall I did like this there were a few things that I didn’t enjoy so much. Some bits felt added for dramatizing the story and didn’t add much to the plot or story itself. A few times things happen that should be red flags for Gwen and Elijah in regard to Tobias and it gets glossed over. It just doesn’t fit Gwen’s mother hen character to ignore these red flags (fainting, asking about legal advice). Also it was never brought up that Tobias stole money from the restaurant. It was not a small amount of money (not a duffle bag full with enough to obtain a car) and doesn’t seem realistic that it’s just forgotten about without consequence.
I also personally didn’t like the miscommunication bits with Gabe and Elijah it felt forced. I did like Gabe’s character so I’m disappointed we didn’t get more of his and his foster brother’s story in this. While
I’m glad they’ll get their book I wish there had been a bit more added to this one of them.
Thank you Ella Kit for this arc!
December 9, 2025
I was blessed to be on Ella Kit's ARC team and read about Tobias and Elijah. Two precious boys with insecurities, grief, pain, and so much more but with a love that's meant to last a lifetime. We read our boys go through so many hard obstacles that could have torn them apart and almost did in book 1.From best friends, to one sided enemies then to friends again but then so much more. They fought hard but in this book they're fighting even harder for each other even when it feels like they're drowning. Especially Tobias. Gosh my poor sweet Tobias really went through it AGAIN in this book as if he didn't go through enough already 😭 (looking at you Ella! 👀 lol) He's finally got the restaurant running again, he's dealing with his grief about losing the only man who was ever a father to him and running his dad's legacy alone while Elijah starts school again after taking the year off. Now they have to combat the distance, missing each other like crazy, and ghosts from their past that aren't ready to leave them alone yet. You'll cry, scream, laugh, swoon and have to fan yourself more than a few times along with Tobias and Elijah. When their heads get too loud and everything feels like it's falling apart around them these boys do what they do best and come together and show each other that they're not alone and it's always been them. Since they were kids and even when they weren't talking they've always been meant to be and they prove that by messing up and not communicating to not burden each other yet showing up anyway especially when they need it the most time and time again. They also have such great support system behind them as well. (Gwen, my beautiful girl I'm talking about you mostly) I adored quite a few side characters but mainly I loved going on this journey of love, healing and forever with Tobias and Elijah and they will forever hold a place in my heart.
December 9, 2025
Ella had done it again. I absolutely love this duet. These books make you smile, laugh, cry your eyes out and utterly destroy you at time, but I love them. It’s not often a book can make me cry but these two managed it. They make you feel very emotion possible. They truly take you on an emotional rollercoaster. They break your heart and put it back together again.
I could not wait to see how Elijah and Tobias story ended and I am so thankful I got to read their story early.
At times I wanted to shake some sense into them but most of the time I just wanted to hug them and keep them safe. They go through so much turmoil. Everything Tobias goes though brakes my heart no one deserves that. The way he feels about himself as a consequence is so sad, he has such a good heart and so much love to give but does feel he deserves love in return or that anyone could possibly love him.
I love how despite the unhealthy codependency but it works for them they are truly there for one another. They are each other’s biggest supporters and only want what’s best for the other and will to do anything to make sure they get it.
They are each other’s family, sole mates and best friends all in one.
Despite all they endured they managed to create their own found family. People who love and support them.
I love these books and these two broken boys trying to navigate life together, fighting their own demons with the love and support of the other. I am so glad they got their happy ending.
I could not wait to see how Elijah and Tobias story ended and I am so thankful I got to read their story early.
At times I wanted to shake some sense into them but most of the time I just wanted to hug them and keep them safe. They go through so much turmoil. Everything Tobias goes though brakes my heart no one deserves that. The way he feels about himself as a consequence is so sad, he has such a good heart and so much love to give but does feel he deserves love in return or that anyone could possibly love him.
I love how despite the unhealthy codependency but it works for them they are truly there for one another. They are each other’s biggest supporters and only want what’s best for the other and will to do anything to make sure they get it.
They are each other’s family, sole mates and best friends all in one.
Despite all they endured they managed to create their own found family. People who love and support them.
I love these books and these two broken boys trying to navigate life together, fighting their own demons with the love and support of the other. I am so glad they got their happy ending.
December 1, 2025
Ella! You absolutely did it again! Your ability to write messy, tender moments of love and self-discovery is truly top tier. You create characters who feel real, and I can’t wait to see what you share next!
I loved catching up with Tobias and Elijah. Their moments of confronting past fears and navigating vulnerability felt so authentic that I found myself rooting for them every step of the way. The way this book focuses on their personal journeys, while still delivering the tenderness and love we’ve come to expect from you, is just perfect.
Tobias’ growth, self-reflection, and courage to face his past and recognize his own worth is everything. The development of trust - not just between the couple, but within themselves - made the emotional payoff incredibly satisfying. Watching Tobias learn to lean on others for support, with Elijah doing his best to be there for him, was a crucial and beautifully handled part of his healing. I also loved how the secondary characters were woven in seamlessly, creating the found family Tobias needed without overshadowing the main story.
Overall, this is a beautifully crafted story about love, healing, and the courage to choose yourself - and each other. I’m so glad Tobias finally gets his happy ending and a life of freedom from Derrick.
I loved catching up with Tobias and Elijah. Their moments of confronting past fears and navigating vulnerability felt so authentic that I found myself rooting for them every step of the way. The way this book focuses on their personal journeys, while still delivering the tenderness and love we’ve come to expect from you, is just perfect.
Tobias’ growth, self-reflection, and courage to face his past and recognize his own worth is everything. The development of trust - not just between the couple, but within themselves - made the emotional payoff incredibly satisfying. Watching Tobias learn to lean on others for support, with Elijah doing his best to be there for him, was a crucial and beautifully handled part of his healing. I also loved how the secondary characters were woven in seamlessly, creating the found family Tobias needed without overshadowing the main story.
Overall, this is a beautifully crafted story about love, healing, and the courage to choose yourself - and each other. I’m so glad Tobias finally gets his happy ending and a life of freedom from Derrick.
December 14, 2025
This book made me feel everything. The love these two have is the kind that feels strong, steady, burning, and impossibly tender. They love each other with a kind of single-minded devotion that’s rare and beautiful. All they see is each other.
But strong love doesn’t mean simple love. Their insecurities and fears still creep in at moments, and there were times I wanted to shake them both and scream, “Please just make different decisions!”
Yet those stumbles make their bond feel even more real. Their relationship is this gorgeous mix of heat, longing, soft touches, and raw vulnerability. They’re learning each other in deeper, messier ways, and it makes every moment between them hit harder.
The found family aspect of this book will have you wanting to apply for a job at Jude’s Place. They continue to support each other in the most beautiful way.
There is tension and suspense threaded through their story that will have you holding your breath and parts of the story that get dark so remember to check your TW's.
If you love MCs with unwavering, unconditional love, life struggles, found family warmth and a romance that will warm your heart, then The Winter We Chose Us is absolutely a must-read. Prepare to fall in love with Elijah and Tobias just like I have.
But strong love doesn’t mean simple love. Their insecurities and fears still creep in at moments, and there were times I wanted to shake them both and scream, “Please just make different decisions!”
Yet those stumbles make their bond feel even more real. Their relationship is this gorgeous mix of heat, longing, soft touches, and raw vulnerability. They’re learning each other in deeper, messier ways, and it makes every moment between them hit harder.
The found family aspect of this book will have you wanting to apply for a job at Jude’s Place. They continue to support each other in the most beautiful way.
There is tension and suspense threaded through their story that will have you holding your breath and parts of the story that get dark so remember to check your TW's.
If you love MCs with unwavering, unconditional love, life struggles, found family warmth and a romance that will warm your heart, then The Winter We Chose Us is absolutely a must-read. Prepare to fall in love with Elijah and Tobias just like I have.
December 3, 2025
If I said The Summer We Found Us broke me, then I honestly don’t even know what to say about this book. Because this… this book was a true emotional rollercoaster. It shattered my heart into a million tiny pieces again and again, only to carefully glue it back together each time. What these two boys went through over the course of the story was heartbreaking.
The secrecy, the longing for each other when they weren’t together, the miscommunication, Tobias’s father, the blackmail, the threats, and in the middle of it all that immeasurable love they felt for one another… I honestly don’t even know what to say.
These two boys fit together like two perfect puzzle pieces. If anyone, they are the ones who can only function and exist by being together — it simply couldn’t have worked any other way.
They deserved the most beautiful happily ever after, and they had to fight so, so hard to get it.
It was a wonderful conclusion to the duology, and I’m incredibly happy I got to be part of the early reader team.
An ARC copy of this book was kindly provided by @ellakitauthor and this is my honest and voluntary review.
The secrecy, the longing for each other when they weren’t together, the miscommunication, Tobias’s father, the blackmail, the threats, and in the middle of it all that immeasurable love they felt for one another… I honestly don’t even know what to say.
These two boys fit together like two perfect puzzle pieces. If anyone, they are the ones who can only function and exist by being together — it simply couldn’t have worked any other way.
They deserved the most beautiful happily ever after, and they had to fight so, so hard to get it.
It was a wonderful conclusion to the duology, and I’m incredibly happy I got to be part of the early reader team.
An ARC copy of this book was kindly provided by @ellakitauthor and this is my honest and voluntary review.
December 13, 2025
The Winter We Chose Us gave Elijah and Tobias the HEA I’d been waiting (and stressing) for — and it was so worth it.
These two love hard. Their connection is rooted in touch and intimacy, and every quiet moment between them felt loaded with how much they need each other. Elijah had real growth here — yes, he messed up, but watching him finally choose Tobias and fight for them was incredibly satisfying. Tobias, meanwhile, broke my heart. He’s so young, carrying so much pressure and trauma, and even when he makes mistakes, you can feel how desperately he just wants to be loved.
Is their codependency healthy? Maybe not on paper but for them, it works. They’re each other’s safe place, best friend, and family, and seeing them build a found family around that love was everything.
This duet put me through the emotional wringer; I cried, I wanted to shake them, and I wanted to hug them both — but I wouldn’t change a thing. Ella Kit absolutely delivered, and I’m so grateful these boys got the ending they deserved.
Found family, grief, long-distance love, trauma, growth — and a hard-earned HEA. 💙
These two love hard. Their connection is rooted in touch and intimacy, and every quiet moment between them felt loaded with how much they need each other. Elijah had real growth here — yes, he messed up, but watching him finally choose Tobias and fight for them was incredibly satisfying. Tobias, meanwhile, broke my heart. He’s so young, carrying so much pressure and trauma, and even when he makes mistakes, you can feel how desperately he just wants to be loved.
Is their codependency healthy? Maybe not on paper but for them, it works. They’re each other’s safe place, best friend, and family, and seeing them build a found family around that love was everything.
This duet put me through the emotional wringer; I cried, I wanted to shake them, and I wanted to hug them both — but I wouldn’t change a thing. Ella Kit absolutely delivered, and I’m so grateful these boys got the ending they deserved.
Found family, grief, long-distance love, trauma, growth — and a hard-earned HEA. 💙
January 25, 2026
4.5 stars!!!!
This book is easily one of the most beautifully written queer love stories I’ve read, and the way Ella Kit handles mental health is thoughtful, intentional, and full of care without ever draining the joy from the story.
Tobias and Elijah feel painfully real. Their love isn’t perfect or easy, but it’s steady and choosing and showing up even when things get complicated. It’s the kind of love that feels like home. The kind that anchors you when your mind starts drifting too far out to sea.
I usually hate the miscommunication trope, but it actually worked here. The silence, the secrets, and the fear of being a burden made sense for who these boys are. It felt human instead of frustrating.
There’s a lot of pain and trauma in this book, especially surrounding Tobias, but it’s balanced with so much queer joy, healing, and found family. Nothing feels rushed or romanticized. The mental health rep is raw, respectful, and handled with care.
Their love is devoted, tender, and deeply unconditional. Best friends at the core, soulmates through and through. The HEA was hard-earned and incredibly satisfying.
This book is easily one of the most beautifully written queer love stories I’ve read, and the way Ella Kit handles mental health is thoughtful, intentional, and full of care without ever draining the joy from the story.
Tobias and Elijah feel painfully real. Their love isn’t perfect or easy, but it’s steady and choosing and showing up even when things get complicated. It’s the kind of love that feels like home. The kind that anchors you when your mind starts drifting too far out to sea.
I usually hate the miscommunication trope, but it actually worked here. The silence, the secrets, and the fear of being a burden made sense for who these boys are. It felt human instead of frustrating.
There’s a lot of pain and trauma in this book, especially surrounding Tobias, but it’s balanced with so much queer joy, healing, and found family. Nothing feels rushed or romanticized. The mental health rep is raw, respectful, and handled with care.
Their love is devoted, tender, and deeply unconditional. Best friends at the core, soulmates through and through. The HEA was hard-earned and incredibly satisfying.
December 9, 2025
I was gifted a free eARC of this book by the author, but my opinions are my own and are in no way influenced by the gift.
This is my third book by Ella Kit and I would say that it is probably my favorite so far. I really enjoyed the first book in this duet, which ended on somewhat of a cliffhanger, so I was glad to get to read this one to find out what happened to our MMC's.
Elijah and Tobias are best friends turned enemies turned back to best friends, then lovers, which I particularly enjoyed reading. I liked the pacing of the book, and the spice level was great in my opinion. Their story drew me in from the beginning. Tobias has a terribly abusive father, which I feel like Ella handled with perfect sensitivity. She never revealed too much detail about the abuse, only enough so that we understood. Tobias in particular will live rent free in my head for a long time to come.
Elijah and Tobias' story was both heartbreaking and heartwarming all at once. Ella writes really well-balanced, yet flawed and human characters, and she did a great job with character growth for Tobias and Elijah. This book wraps up their story so well.
I hope we get to see these two boys again in the near future (IYKYK).
This is my third book by Ella Kit and I would say that it is probably my favorite so far. I really enjoyed the first book in this duet, which ended on somewhat of a cliffhanger, so I was glad to get to read this one to find out what happened to our MMC's.
Elijah and Tobias are best friends turned enemies turned back to best friends, then lovers, which I particularly enjoyed reading. I liked the pacing of the book, and the spice level was great in my opinion. Their story drew me in from the beginning. Tobias has a terribly abusive father, which I feel like Ella handled with perfect sensitivity. She never revealed too much detail about the abuse, only enough so that we understood. Tobias in particular will live rent free in my head for a long time to come.
Elijah and Tobias' story was both heartbreaking and heartwarming all at once. Ella writes really well-balanced, yet flawed and human characters, and she did a great job with character growth for Tobias and Elijah. This book wraps up their story so well.
I hope we get to see these two boys again in the near future (IYKYK).
December 9, 2025
The anxiously awaiting second book in this duet and boy did it not disappoint!!
Eli and Toby are the most adorable, adorkable couple ever! They are made for each other, total soulmates and while seeing them stomp through life in oversized boots hurts me, it also makes me feel better about myself! If those two can make things right then there’s hope for the rest of us!
I love these two boys sooo much - I was ready to find out how they were managing after the loss of their beloved Jude.
Ella did not disappoint with her beautiful ability to bring these characters to life and love! And she answered the most important question of what happens to HIM in the end! (Can’t say what I call him here, but if you’ve read the first book then no doubt you know where to put the extra ‘D’ in his name!!)
If you’re in the fence about reading this duet then please allow me to give you a not so gentle shove towards it!!! You won’t regret it! Just make sure and let those feelings out as you go! It’ll just hurt more to bottle them up! It’s all good in the end! I promise!!!
Eli and Toby are the most adorable, adorkable couple ever! They are made for each other, total soulmates and while seeing them stomp through life in oversized boots hurts me, it also makes me feel better about myself! If those two can make things right then there’s hope for the rest of us!
I love these two boys sooo much - I was ready to find out how they were managing after the loss of their beloved Jude.
Ella did not disappoint with her beautiful ability to bring these characters to life and love! And she answered the most important question of what happens to HIM in the end! (Can’t say what I call him here, but if you’ve read the first book then no doubt you know where to put the extra ‘D’ in his name!!)
If you’re in the fence about reading this duet then please allow me to give you a not so gentle shove towards it!!! You won’t regret it! Just make sure and let those feelings out as you go! It’ll just hurt more to bottle them up! It’s all good in the end! I promise!!!
December 17, 2025
Ella has hit it out of the park yet again
her
ability to write tender moments of love, self acceptance is truly amazing, creating characters that feel real I can't wait to keep reading your work
I absolutely adored every second of this messy, painful, gut wrenching story Tobias and Elijah are so young and have been through so many tough moments from losing a parent, not having the support system they should've had.
Tobias was my favorite my poor Toby
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deserved a father that loved him no matter what his trauma and self discovery journey was just amazing to read. when Toby and Eli had their first intimate interaction Eli making sure Toby was alright the whole time was truly incredible the in between care is just as important as after care Ella wrote it beautifully, as someone who is demisexual and struggles with intimacy I adored the way she approached the subject of making sure your partner is safe and comfortable.
Jude was just such a beautiful character making sure Toby felt loved and cared for it was hard to watch Jude go through so much their relationship was just so amazing
her
ability to write tender moments of love, self acceptance is truly amazing, creating characters that feel real I can't wait to keep reading your work
I absolutely adored every second of this messy, painful, gut wrenching story Tobias and Elijah are so young and have been through so many tough moments from losing a parent, not having the support system they should've had.
Tobias was my favorite my poor Toby
he
deserved a father that loved him no matter what his trauma and self discovery journey was just amazing to read. when Toby and Eli had their first intimate interaction Eli making sure Toby was alright the whole time was truly incredible the in between care is just as important as after care Ella wrote it beautifully, as someone who is demisexual and struggles with intimacy I adored the way she approached the subject of making sure your partner is safe and comfortable.
Jude was just such a beautiful character making sure Toby felt loved and cared for it was hard to watch Jude go through so much their relationship was just so amazing
January 22, 2026
A beautiful ending for this duet! I already loved Tobias and Elijah and their story from the first book, and this book very quickly made me love them even more. Our sweet Tobias, ugh. My heart hurts so much for everything he has been through and continues to go through throughout the book. I love them together and love their love, even if it is pretty all-consuming for them most of the time. But, it works for them. The ending was so special. I wish I could say more about it here, but spoilers. All I will say is have some tissues at the ready.
I also want to highlight and appreciate the focus on building (and leaning on when needed!) a support system, healing, and the therapy rep.
Once I read the bonus chapter at the end from Gabe’s POV, the one incident with him (leaving it vague here) made much more sense. I am so excited for Gabe’s and Wyatt’s story. I can already tell their story is going to hurt. 🥺
It was also so beautiful to see author Ella Kit’s growth in writing between the two books. I can’t wait to read more from her and follow along as she continues to write.
4.5⭐️
I also want to highlight and appreciate the focus on building (and leaning on when needed!) a support system, healing, and the therapy rep.
Once I read the bonus chapter at the end from Gabe’s POV, the one incident with him (leaving it vague here) made much more sense. I am so excited for Gabe’s and Wyatt’s story. I can already tell their story is going to hurt. 🥺
It was also so beautiful to see author Ella Kit’s growth in writing between the two books. I can’t wait to read more from her and follow along as she continues to write.
4.5⭐️
December 7, 2025
Where do I even begin? I have been so excited to finish Tobias and Elijah’s journey since finishing The Summer We Found Us, and now that it’s complete I have no words. This book really does a phenomenal job of shinning a light on mental health, and delivering the message that healing is not linear.
This book picks up right where book one leaves off and we follow Tobias and Elijah as they try to navigate life as a young couple. There are many obstacles they face along the way that make them really have to stop and think about if the dreams they had for themselves is still what they truly want.
I felt a connection with these two from book one and the connection only grew stronger in this book. The emotions that Tobias and Elijah’s love story will pull from you is like no other, so make sure you have tissues ready. And in true Ella fashion the messages that are portrayed in this book have the power to help many people. These two will always have a place in my heart and I truly enjoyed their hard earned HEA. I hope others love the beauty that is Elijah and Tobias as much as I do.
This book picks up right where book one leaves off and we follow Tobias and Elijah as they try to navigate life as a young couple. There are many obstacles they face along the way that make them really have to stop and think about if the dreams they had for themselves is still what they truly want.
I felt a connection with these two from book one and the connection only grew stronger in this book. The emotions that Tobias and Elijah’s love story will pull from you is like no other, so make sure you have tissues ready. And in true Ella fashion the messages that are portrayed in this book have the power to help many people. These two will always have a place in my heart and I truly enjoyed their hard earned HEA. I hope others love the beauty that is Elijah and Tobias as much as I do.
November 26, 2025
Ugh this is such a hard-earned happily ever after 😭
Both my poor babies absolutely went through it in this one, but oh man… Tobias had it so rough. There are very few characters I’ve ever wanted to physically jump into a book for, but everything he keeped getting hit with made me want to go in and start swinging on his behalf.
Don’t get me wrong though, Tobias and Elijah were endgame. The pure love they still showed for each other throughout this book, even when it felt like EVERYTHING was pulling them apart, was honestly so beautiful. The longing in the chapters where they were separated and the sheer amount of growth both guys were willing to go through for one another was so moving.
It definitely hurt to read some parts of this book, but the ending left me with such a warm and comforting feeling that I would read it again in a heartbeat 🥹.
Both my poor babies absolutely went through it in this one, but oh man… Tobias had it so rough. There are very few characters I’ve ever wanted to physically jump into a book for, but everything he keeped getting hit with made me want to go in and start swinging on his behalf.
Don’t get me wrong though, Tobias and Elijah were endgame. The pure love they still showed for each other throughout this book, even when it felt like EVERYTHING was pulling them apart, was honestly so beautiful. The longing in the chapters where they were separated and the sheer amount of growth both guys were willing to go through for one another was so moving.
It definitely hurt to read some parts of this book, but the ending left me with such a warm and comforting feeling that I would read it again in a heartbeat 🥹.
December 4, 2025
Ella didn’t have to go that hard with this book but she did , for us.
Book 1 was a rollercoaster of emotions, but this book , this one was a tsunami, like somebody ripped by heart out only to try and stomp it back in .
Tobias , sweet sweet Tobias , how i felt for him. His struggles , trying to stay afloat with the darkness in him and trying to survive with his father lurking around and making his life a living hell. And Elijah , who’s trying to finish art school while being away from Tobias is the hardest thing he ever did.
This love story was so beautiful , i can’t even put into words how it made me feel. I’m sooo happy they got the HEA they deserved 💖
Ella please never make me cry again i can’y handle it !
Book 1 was a rollercoaster of emotions, but this book , this one was a tsunami, like somebody ripped by heart out only to try and stomp it back in .
Tobias , sweet sweet Tobias , how i felt for him. His struggles , trying to stay afloat with the darkness in him and trying to survive with his father lurking around and making his life a living hell. And Elijah , who’s trying to finish art school while being away from Tobias is the hardest thing he ever did.
This love story was so beautiful , i can’t even put into words how it made me feel. I’m sooo happy they got the HEA they deserved 💖
Ella please never make me cry again i can’y handle it !
December 9, 2025
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
The Summer We Found Us left us on such a nail biting, edge of your seat cliffhanger it would be impossible not to dive into the sequel. And if you thought you loved book one, be prepared to sob, chuckle, blush and aww your way through The Winter We Chose Us.
Elijah and Tobias have had a challenging start to their love story, and for once it seems like they just might catch a break. But as the saying goes, everything will be ok in the end, and if it’s not ok it isn’t the end.
Their loyalty to each other gets put through the wringer, and mental health and grief are still major parts of the storyline which continue to devastate them both. But wow, just wait for that HEA to come through. It’s something special.
MM
Mental health rep
Grief
Hurt comfort
🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️
The Summer We Found Us left us on such a nail biting, edge of your seat cliffhanger it would be impossible not to dive into the sequel. And if you thought you loved book one, be prepared to sob, chuckle, blush and aww your way through The Winter We Chose Us.
Elijah and Tobias have had a challenging start to their love story, and for once it seems like they just might catch a break. But as the saying goes, everything will be ok in the end, and if it’s not ok it isn’t the end.
Their loyalty to each other gets put through the wringer, and mental health and grief are still major parts of the storyline which continue to devastate them both. But wow, just wait for that HEA to come through. It’s something special.
MM
Mental health rep
Grief
Hurt comfort
🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️
December 13, 2025
Beautiful Baby Book!!!!♥️♥️
I just finished this book and it was awesome.
The mental health and child abuse aspects were really hard for me to read, but they were necessary to truly understand Tobias and how deeply his father’s abuse shaped him and his madness.
I usually stay away from books that deal with child abuse because it’s a trigger for me, but the way this was written felt different. There was so much care, intention, and respect in how you handled such a painful subject. It never felt exploitative—it felt purposeful.
I honestly can’t fully express how much thought and compassion you put into telling this story.
A fucking awesome book that stayed with me long after I read it.
I just finished this book and it was awesome.
The mental health and child abuse aspects were really hard for me to read, but they were necessary to truly understand Tobias and how deeply his father’s abuse shaped him and his madness.
I usually stay away from books that deal with child abuse because it’s a trigger for me, but the way this was written felt different. There was so much care, intention, and respect in how you handled such a painful subject. It never felt exploitative—it felt purposeful.
I honestly can’t fully express how much thought and compassion you put into telling this story.
A fucking awesome book that stayed with me long after I read it.
November 23, 2025
Gah. All of the feels in this book. It is so freaking real. I remember feeling this way about the first book, The summer we found us, and it carried into this book as well. I have all the emotions. I can feel the highs and the lows so strongly and I love Ella for that.
Tobias and Elijah are made for eachother in every way. If you want a couple that fits together like puzzle pieces this is them. They need eachother to function. There have been some really rough times for them. Scary, unfair, heartwrenching and oh so real. I can't give too many details without ruining the book but please read this one. Their love is truly amazing.
Tobias and Elijah are made for eachother in every way. If you want a couple that fits together like puzzle pieces this is them. They need eachother to function. There have been some really rough times for them. Scary, unfair, heartwrenching and oh so real. I can't give too many details without ruining the book but please read this one. Their love is truly amazing.
November 29, 2025
This book was so different from what I expected — but in the best possible way. Holy shit, it was an absolute rollercoaster. I went from swooning, to wanting to shake certain characters until they finally opened their damn eyes, all the way to a full-blown rage moment. (Ella… seriously… what did you do to those poor babies?!)
Book one was already a wild ride, but Ella really turned it up a notch here.
I can’t recommend both books enough — they’re so good. And trust me, you’re going to fall in love with Eli and Tobi just as hard as I did. I mean… I literally have a tattoo of them. They’re on my skin forever now!
Book one was already a wild ride, but Ella really turned it up a notch here.
I can’t recommend both books enough — they’re so good. And trust me, you’re going to fall in love with Eli and Tobi just as hard as I did. I mean… I literally have a tattoo of them. They’re on my skin forever now!
December 13, 2025
I’ve been waiting so long for this book! I was so excited to read it! I love these two MMCs and their love for each other.
What I didn’t love was the miscommunication and “lying to keep someone safe” bullshit! Like if you truly love each other you wouldn’t keep stuff from each other no matter what. That just annoyed me and pissed me off!
I also didn’t love Katelyn! It was like she was trying to drive a wedge between Elijah and Tobias! I hated her with a passion and really wish she wasn’t in this book at all. She can fuck right off!
Other than that I absolutely loved it! Ella Kit has become one of my favorite authors and I can’t wait to read more in the future!
What I didn’t love was the miscommunication and “lying to keep someone safe” bullshit! Like if you truly love each other you wouldn’t keep stuff from each other no matter what. That just annoyed me and pissed me off!
I also didn’t love Katelyn! It was like she was trying to drive a wedge between Elijah and Tobias! I hated her with a passion and really wish she wasn’t in this book at all. She can fuck right off!
Other than that I absolutely loved it! Ella Kit has become one of my favorite authors and I can’t wait to read more in the future!
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
November 20, 2025
I received an Advanced Reader Copy.
This was a beautiful conclusion to their story. I admit I did get upset with Elijah in certain points of the story, but that's the thing about writing realistic characters. We make mistakes and we eventually learn from them. My heart broke for Tobias because I know how he feels. I can relate to him 100%. Every thing that he has gone through, he still tries so hard even when he's drowning. It was good to see them finally get there in the end after all the obstacles in their way. I am looking forward to Gabe's book ^^
This was a beautiful conclusion to their story. I admit I did get upset with Elijah in certain points of the story, but that's the thing about writing realistic characters. We make mistakes and we eventually learn from them. My heart broke for Tobias because I know how he feels. I can relate to him 100%. Every thing that he has gone through, he still tries so hard even when he's drowning. It was good to see them finally get there in the end after all the obstacles in their way. I am looking forward to Gabe's book ^^
December 7, 2025
There will never be enough words to describe how much I loved this book. The development of the characters, the way they navigated through situations and the love they have for each other will forever be scored on my heart. Ella Kit has become one of my favorite authors! She has a magical way of writing and dragging you deeply into each one of her books and makes you feel everything! The Summer We Found Us must be read first! If you haven’t read any of her work yet, I promise you will not be disappointed in anything of hers you pick up!
January 2, 2026
“I may never be the best person in the world… but the best person chose me. I’ll never stop trying to be worthy of you.”
Tobias & Elijah definitely deserved their happily ever after. They faced so many battles in life and internally its easy to forget they are only young adults just starting out in life. I am so glad they Jude & Gwen in their corner and I hope that everyone gets to be loved by a Jude & Gwen.
I have yet to be let down by an Ella book. I fall in love with each and every character she has written and I can not wait to get more of Gabe.
Tobias & Elijah definitely deserved their happily ever after. They faced so many battles in life and internally its easy to forget they are only young adults just starting out in life. I am so glad they Jude & Gwen in their corner and I hope that everyone gets to be loved by a Jude & Gwen.
I have yet to be let down by an Ella book. I fall in love with each and every character she has written and I can not wait to get more of Gabe.
November 20, 2025
*ARC Review*
This was the conclusion to Elijah and Tobias' story that started in The Summer We Found Us. I ADORE these characters and couldn't wait for their HEA. This story touches on some very sensitive topics so make sure you read the content warnings. But overall we got the sweet conclusion that these boys deserved. They went through so many ups and downs and Ella did a fantastic job showing us their struggles and their journeys. Love these boys!
This was the conclusion to Elijah and Tobias' story that started in The Summer We Found Us. I ADORE these characters and couldn't wait for their HEA. This story touches on some very sensitive topics so make sure you read the content warnings. But overall we got the sweet conclusion that these boys deserved. They went through so many ups and downs and Ella did a fantastic job showing us their struggles and their journeys. Love these boys!
November 28, 2025
(ARC Review) this book made me feel everything!😭💗The absolute LOVE and devotion these 2 have for each other is BEYOND beautiful. I wanted to go through the screen and hug Tobias, the way he tried to protect Elijah from his dad even if it meant him himself getting hurt in the process.😭 They definitely went through a lot of struggles with their insecurities and fears came through. But despite it all it made their bond even stronger. By far one of my favorite couples ever!!
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