Why would God give women the same Holy Spirit, spiritual gifts, Creation Dominion Mandate and Great Commission as men―then restrict their use? This book exposes translation and interpretation inconsistencies, deceptions, and traditions, providing answers to many questions about how Jesus would have members of his body operate in partnership, not hierarchy. While the canon is complete and the Bible is inerrant in its original languages, some who most loudly proclaim this truth have not been completely trustworthy on the gender issue. This book is a scholarly yet accessible explanation of passages that have been used to prohibit women and explanation of often overlooked, empowering passages that reveal God’s heart. Easy reference sidebars highlight the issues.
The author sheds light on misleading tactics (including inconsistent Bible translation tactics) that twist scripture to say men have hierarchy over women.
The strength of this author is that she shares from her personal experience the mind bending long lasting harm these bad teaching have on BOTH men and women.
I found one of her opening vignettes (pasted below) especially powerful in showing the subtle but insidious harm that comes from people trying to live out these power over practices in their relationships.
"Carol had an idea she was excited about and brought it to her husband. He quickly said no and when she tried to answer his objections, he told her that she was pushy, out of line, and unable to take no for an answer. Deflated and frustrated, Carol felt she must accept that her husband had the final say on all decisions, and it was her role to submit, even though she would have yielded to his wishes anyway after a kind discussion. They often missed the opportunity for meaningful, patient, and connecting conversations about life because her husband was taught that he must be a “strong leader” and on the lookout for when his wife might try to “grasp his authority". "
I consider myself to be theologically conservative and have had questions about the teachings on women for many years. I was so pleased to find this book because the author sounds like she has had a similar experience to mine (hers was likely more intense) and she has changed her views on women without sacrificing any of her conservative views on other things. I appreciate the thoroughness of this book and will be recommending it to everyone I can. The half-star reduction is because it really needed some grammatical editing.
I so resonate with what the author says in the conclusion; why didn't anyone in seminary tell me any of these things? A lot of this book is a presentation of the best known resources presenting the mutualist perspecive. That doesn't mean she doesn't make contributions of her own, notably in the chapter about "kephale" and "headship". She presses in and goes beyond just saying kephale means source and elaborates in a beautiful way what that means for the church. I was left with the profound impression that making this verse about gender roles completely cripples what Paul was trying to tell us about the church's kingdom work.
I wish I had learned these things 30 or more years ago in dealing with my parents. My husband and I have learned that having a mutual relationship is far better than having a relationship built on hierarchy.
Content is four star, kindle format is problematic
On content this book is good. Its only real flaw is the lack of depth due to the breadth of topics covered. If you are just beginning to read about these issues, this is a great overview place to start. But before moving to a setting where you are trying to change theological opinion and the functioning of a church or other group, you'll need to read some more. Kaiser gives you many sources in her footnotes. She also shows her own reasoning process which is helpful.
I removed a second star due to the locked format kindle status of this book. If you are reading a print book, this will not affect you. For a Kindle reader, this means being unable to adjust the text size. Nor will you be able to access the assitive reader in Alexa. The designer also did not include a table on contents as part of the design which means navigation will be difficult. For more information on this topic see Debbie Berne's The Design of Books. Her book is also locked, but she does include a table of contents. If you are an author or publisher deciding this issue, Berne has a chapter on flowable vs fixed books. I read broadly and this book and Berne's are the only two I've read that are fixed. Berne needs to illustrate text design, this book does not. I would encourage the publisher to revisit this issue if they routinely use it.
Why would God give women the same Holy Spirit, spiritual gifts, Creation Dominion Mandate and Great Commission as men—then restrict their use? This book exposes translation and interpretation inconsistencies, deceptions, and traditions, providing answers to many questions about how Jesus would have members of his body operate in partnership, not hierarchy. While the canon is complete and the Bible is inerrant in its original languages, some who most loudly proclaim this truth have not been completely trustworthy on the gender issue. This book is a scholarly yet accessible explanation of passages that have been used to prohibit women and explanation of often overlooked, empowering passages that reveal God’s heart. Easy reference sidebars highlight the issues. A good resource. The book is easy to read and understand. I recommend this book. Bible Truth about Women by Lydia Grace Kaiser is a 5 -star book. I am looking forward to reading more books by Lydia Grace Kaiser . I voluntarily read and reviewed an advanced readers copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions shared here in this review are my own.
There wasn’t enough time for me to really dig deep into this book and I’m so bummed about that. I do plan on buying this book once released because it was full of so much biblical knowledge that I’d love to sir down, study and dive deep into.