Growing Together Without Growing Apart: An Inspiring Journey of Service, Sacrifice, and Shared Dreams

by Lt General Rajeev Kanitkar

Growing Together without Growing Apart is the inspiring memoir of Lt General Dr Madhuri Kanitkar, a woman who defied conventions and went on to become one of the highest-ranking officers in the Indian Armed Forces. From her childhood aspirations to her remarkable career, this book offers an intimate look at the challenges, triumphs, and defining moments that shaped her journey.

But this is not just the story of an extraordinary leader; it is also the story of an extraordinary bond. As Madhuri navigated the demands of military life, she found an unwavering partner in Lt General Rajeev Kanitkar, who not only witnessed her inspiring rise but also walked alongside her, proving that two strong individuals can grow together without outgrowing each other. Written from Rajeev’s perspective, this memoir is a rare insight into a relationship built on mutual respect, shared ambition, and an unshakeable commitment to each other’s dreams.

A compelling and empowering read, Growing Together without Growing Apart is for anyone who dares to break barriers while holding on to what truly matters.

375 pages, Kindle Edition

Published November 12, 2025