Tiny Little Earthquakes As Seen On Good Morning America, Robin Roberts calls it a "page-turner."
“Her portraits of her privilege-blind and tormented family members…are unflinching but empathetic, and her dark sense of humor is a vivifying force across the story’s often troubled territory.” Foreword Reviews
Elliot Hase is a sharp, observant nine-year-old girl growing up on a horse farm in 1980s North Carolina, where the adults are far less stable than the barn animals. Her mother, a charismatic alcoholic with a flair for drama and denial, careens through life in a haze of wine and self-pity. Her father, a distant doctor with a new family and a wife who rewrites history, offers more guilt than guidance. Caught between the two is Poppy—Elliot’s older sister, partner-in-crime, and cautionary tale—whose battles with addiction and self-destruction echo through Elliot’s own attempts to break the cycle.
As Elliot navigates funerals, failed interventions, AA and Al Anon meetings, and an elite boarding school that teaches more about co-dependency than calculus, she slowly begins to question not just the people raising her, but the identity she’s been forced to adopt to survive them. Her coming-of-age is shaped by secrets she didn’t ask for, betrayals she doesn’t deserve, and moments of brutal clarity that land like aftershocks.
The central conflict is Elliot’s internal struggle to define herself apart from the chaos of her family—trying to reconcile loyalty to her mother and sister with self-preservation, and survival with healing. Through humor, heartbreak, and sheer stubbornness, she learns that resilience isn't about being unbreakable—it's about breaking and rebuilding, again and again.
About the Author Hays Trott Blinckmann is a writer, journalist, teacher, and recovering painter. She holds a Bachelor of Arts from Tufts University and a Bachelor of Fine Arts from the School of the Museum of Fine Arts, Boston. She lives in Key West, Florida, with her husband and two sons. Her other novels include In the Salt, Where I Can Breathe, Here, Kitty, and the young adult novel Yell Out Loud. They are available on Amazon and at bookstores throughout Key West. If you enjoyed this book, please consider leaving a review on Amazon.com. As this is a published novel, your reviews and recommendations on social media help Tiny Little Earthquakes reach a wider audience. Thank you for spreading the word—places, people. Places!
If you’re a Gen Xer who grew up with divorced parents and survived on what I can only describe as benign neglect, this book is going to hit you straight in the chest.
I did not grow up with alcoholism in my family. That part wasn’t mine. But take that piece out and there were so many parallels to my own life that I felt seen in a way I wasn’t prepared for. Not dramatic. Just that quiet recognition of… oh. This was me too.
I’ll never fully understand the narcissism and selfishness that seemed to define so much of the generation that raised us. I just know a lot of us were out there raising ourselves on bare pantries, MTV, John Hughes movies, and a couple of friends who didn’t think we were strange because our families didn’t look like theirs.
And let’s just say it. When you were the kid of divorced parents back then, you felt like the weirdo. You felt like the one whose house was complicated. The one splitting weekends. The one with step-parents and step-siblings and stories you didn’t always know how to explain. And when your step-parents had their own children, you sometimes felt like the extra piece. The afterthought. Like you didn’t fully belong in that house but you didn’t fully belong in the other one anymore either.
You saw the “normal” nuclear families on TV and in your friends’ homes and you wanted that so badly. You wanted to belong to something that felt solid and uncomplicated. And instead you felt different.
Reading this made me realize how many of us were just trying to survive in homes where the adults were wrapped up in their own chaos.
I could not stop reading it. And finding out how much of this is rooted in the author’s real life made it even more powerful. Tragic in parts. Also kind of amazing. Bittersweet. Cathartic, I imagine.
This book is witty and razor sharp and raw. It’s funny in that Gen X way that hides pain inside sarcasm. And it’s so incredibly validating.
At its core, this is a story about survival. About crawling your way toward your own path. About fighting for a version of normal that you get to define for yourself. About building a life worth protecting. Knowing exactly what you want and, maybe more importantly, what you absolutely do not want.
There’s a line that just stopped me: “All of it made me who I am, and I accept it. My imperfections are my purple hearts.”
Tiny Little Earthquakes is an unflinchingly authentic coming-of-age story that serves as a love letter to Gen X.
Eloise Hase -but call her Elliot! -is an intelligent, observant nine-year-old girl growing up on a horse farm in North Carolina during the 1980s. She and her older sister, Poppy, come from a family of means, but also one marked by severe dysfunction and addiction. Elliot has plenty to overcome -an alcoholic mother, an absentee father, and a series of questionable stepparents -but she finds comfort in familiar television shows and books. She especially enjoys General Hospital, where the antics are far less absurd than what she faces in real life.
As Elliot watches the adults around her bounce from one bad decision to the next, all the while neglecting her, she determines that as long as she stays out of everyone’s way, she can salvage something resembling a normal life. As we follow Elliot from elementary school to college (and beyond), we see her reckon with the harsh truth that breaking generational cycles of trauma will take a lot more than drinking hose water and binge-watching M*A*S*H*.
This is a novel that reads like a memoir and is based on the author’s life story. I appreciated how it blends dark humor seamlessly with trauma. I think many neglected Gen Xers can relate to finding creative ways to self-soothe and survive. There is a reason our generation is often referred to as “feral” and described as fiercely independent and self-reliant - Elliot isn’t given the choice to be anything else.
There are also so many wonderful nuggets of nostalgia in this book - from food to music to television to fashion. It brought back a flood of memories, and it will surely resonate with anyone who came of age in the ’80s.
If you are a Gen Xer who raised yourself in spite of benign neglect, this book is for you. If you spent your childhood trying to stay out of everyone’s way while the adults made spectacularly bad decisions, this book is for you. If you enjoy a coming-of-age survivor story with plenty of dark humor, then this is a must-read.
I think fans of I’m Glad My Mom Died will eat this one up. I felt seen in every little fracture.
4.25⭐️ This is it! This is the one…the perfect coming of age book for all of us latchkey kids who grew up in the 70s,80s,and 90s!! I feel like even those little legs on the cover wearing tube socks could’ve be mine!😊 The references to The Cosby Show, Kate & Allie, as well as the soap operas brought a rush of memories to the forefront!
Had I not known differently , I would’ve thought this was a memoir as it truly felt as if Elliot was telling us her real story. She’s a tough kid! Handling her alcoholic/suicidal mother and her substance abuser sister had to have been so hard. But Elliot just kept dusting herself off and moving forward. I wouldn’t have been able to handle that or watching my dad create a second family, especially when he did it so much better with them.
Every character in this book was so dysfunctional and co-dependent, but I think each one of them wanted to live a better life, and each was trying to figure out how.
Even still, the craziness just keeps on coming, and I was totally here for it! Although the book had so many heavy topics, I still found myself unable to put it down. I really loved this one and would highly recommend-especially for late millennials and Gen-X!
I loved this book. So many memories popped into my head as I read. This is the ultimate book for Gen X. The main character, Elliot was a multi faceted girl with a keen sense of observation due to how she was raised. The author was able to tell the heartbreaking stories of her youth and somehow make them funny. I did find a big error that somehow got past the editors. It wasn’t Kenny Rogers who sang Looking for Love in all the Wrong Places. It was Johnny Lee. 🙂
I would give this 6 stars if I could! This story follows Elliot, a young girl living in a very dysfunctional family and takes place from the 80s through the 90s. She escapes into TV and tries her best to remain as “normal” as possible. I absolutely loved all of the GenX references and reading about Elliot’s perseverance in the face of an alcoholic mother and an absent father. I cannot believe a big publisher hasn’t picked this one up yet because it is fantastic! For lovers of The Glass Castle and Half Broke Horses.
"It was subtle, the divide that started in our family. As if we found ourselves on a road we didn't remember taking. We were confused, but marched on, away from one another, clueless that we were all about to become terribly lost."
I truly believe that there is a reader for every book written. Every one. Even with that mindset, how could I ever have imagined that a little known indie author, from Key West, would write one specifically for me? Not to mention - what are the odds that this book even finds its way into my hands? Kismet, folks. This, is my book.
Hays Blinckmann writes an ode to all the latch key kids of the 80's/90's. A love song, you could say, sung solely to strike the hearts of all us Gen X brats. Oh and does it hit! Our generation of divorced parents. Our time in which bars were family establishments, and drinking while your kids ran around unsupervised was the norm. Our era where you flipped the bird and told others what they could do with their feelings... put them in the car, and take them the #@$& home.
Tiny Little Earthquakes is that story. We get to know Eloise Hase and her heartbreaking reality of growing up in a world surrounded by the dysfunction of adults. She tends to find her only solace in her favorite 80's TV shows, and her sister, Poppy. Unfortunately, while Poppy may act as her anchor, she is also often the weight that pulls her under.
Witty and wry, Tiny Little Earthquakes is smartly written. It authentically confronts trauma in such a way, that children of this time period will wholly relate. The nostalgia of pop culture alone delivers all the feels. You will devour these characters and experience them as if you're privy to their deepest, darkest secrets; fully fleshed, achingly flawed, and utterly believable.
Seriously folks. I cannot gush enough. This story has found a home in my heart. Oooooh... I sure felt this one.
Final Thoughts? If you can imagine the beloved Ramona and Beezus mixed in with the broken atmosphere of The Glass Castle, then you positively need this book in your reading life! I highly recommend. That is all... ❤️
Growing up in the 1980s on a remote horse farm in North Carolina was not always easy for nine year old Elliot Hase. After her parents’ divorce, she rarely saw her father, and was forever chasing her mother’s love and attention. Smart and shy, Elliot craved her sister’s approval even when Poppy messed up over and over again. Navigating her mother’s alcoholism was a team effort until Poppy also succumbed to this destructive disease. Often, Elliot felt alone in the world, her only company was the television, a constant backdrop to her childhood. It was through books and TV that Elliot could focus on anything other than her own misfit family, when all she ever wanted was to feel normal. As she grew up we travel along through Connecticut and Martha’s Vineyard on her mother’s many whims and attempts to run away from her troubles. Elliot reinvents herself at boarding school and later, at Tufts University as she searches for a way to help her sister and mother, whom she loved with all her heart. This coming-of-age story is both heartbreaking and mesmerizing. It’s impossible not to love Elliot and root for her every step of the way. The writing is truly magnificent as it perfectly captures the perspective of a child through an adult voice in a way that’s devastating, yet somehow humorous and quietly nostalgic for a time gone by. I was honored to receive an early read of Tiny Little Earthquakes by Hays Blinckmann, releasing February 17, 2026. A must-read for 2026 and perfect book club pick with so much to discuss! You’ll be thinking about Elliot long after the last page.
Yes, this was sort of a love letter (also a bit of a horror film) for Gen Xers and as one, I loved it and kind of hated how relatable it was in equal measure. The nostalgia of everything that felt like being a child in the 80s was more pure than any “historical” novel I’ve read from the same era with the exception of Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow. You just had to be there, man. You had to grow up with absentee parents who told you they were the adults while acting like anything but. You had to understand more about television families than your own. You had to escape into good music, microwave food, sarcasm, chemical substances and a good fucking story. You had to live it to really get it. And I really, really got it. I ended the book thinking I could probably be friends with the author and I never think shit like that. Elliot’s story sucked but it felt real in a no nonsense sort of way.
Only negative was the kindle edition had pretty crap formatting and that’s unfortunate for both the author and the reader. This book should be read by more people, just so others understand a little more about the latchkey generation, we’ve been forgotten and disregarded for long enough.
I knew absolutely nothing about this author or this book before I read it. I'm so glad I launched into it with no expectations and not having read any reviews of it. Because, if someone had told me it was about a completely dysfunctional family, alcoholism, destructive behaviors, and all it contained, I would have hesitated - maybe not even have read it.
While it may seem like I'm giving away this book's focus, I'm really not. It is so much more (and better) than that.
It is a wonderful book. Well-written, engaging, and a remarkable story told via the voice of a woman at all ages and stages of her family drama and trauma.
The author's rye insights, colorful family characters, and clear humor bring you along. I read every chapter with this "oh my god, you have got to be kidding" sense of awe. Human hope endures despite what life throws you.
This is an author you would want to meet. I know I do. Her perseverance is inspiring and her keen observations are hilarious.
Simply put: I am so glad this author wrote this book. It is fabulous.
I have a bad habit of turning to the "acknowledgements" section before diving into a book. Mostly because I want to know the actual number of pages to determine how long it will take me to finish. Sometimes I'll read the section, sometimes I'll wait. Here, my eye caught the quote to lyrics by "The Struts," a band that I love. I've seen them live three times and they never fail to put on an amazing show. So then I felt compelled to read the entire "acknowledgements" section to learn about the author's impetus for writing the book. I'm really glad I did because it tells the reader that this is essentially a memoir disguised as a novel. I want my novels to read like novels; I want my memoirs to read like memoirs. So I was prepared going in because had I not known this relevant piece of information I can't say I would have finished it. It's certainly an interesting story that reads like something Jeannette Walls would have written, the difference being the reader goes into a Jeannette Walls book knowing what to expect.
I love a gritty, raw, eccentric, dysfunctional family story, and Tiny Little Earthquakes delivers in every way. It reminded me so much of Mary Karr’s Liar's Club, Running with Scissors by Augusten Burroughs, and I'm Glad My Mom Died by Jennette McCurdy — that same unflinching honesty, sharp humor, and heartbreaking resilience.
The writing is intimate and fearless, capturing the chaos, tenderness, and complicated love that shape a family in turmoil. I could SO relate to Elliott's love of TV and her complex relationship with her sister. I laughed, I winced, I rooted for every character. I must say that he character Spang really felt like a warm hug. I want a Spang in my life!
If you love stories about survival, identity, and the messy bonds that hold families together, while balancing horrifying situations with a sense of humor, this is the book for you.
A lot of that love comes from how deeply I related to it, being around the same age as the author. At first, I thought there were too many cultural references — a little too corny — but I changed my mind as they became less frequent. I realized she was simply pulling me back into my childhood.
Being in an alcoholic in recovery, I was naturally drawn to that part of the story, though I had no idea it would be a theme when I picked up the book. I stumbled across it at Books & Books in Key West, where it was sitting in a pile of staff recommendations.
Hay’s writing is simple yet colorful. I cried a couple of times and laughed from my belly more than a couple of times. I’m genuinely grateful to have read it and can’t wait to recommend it to others — and to work my way through everything else she’s written.
I adored this coming of age novel and the 80s/90s nostalgia that came with it. The name of the book was so perfect and the way it was broken up into 3 sections. Elliott is so relatable and likeable as she makes her way through girlhood amidst family chaos - an alcoholic mother, a rebellious sister, and all of the other mess of her family. I really felt for her but it was also fascinating to see how she had to find ways to survive through hobbies, friends, and everything else she could salvage. I received a review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
This could be my own story, just without the generational wealth, haha. A young girl growing up in the 80's (the author mentions Live Aid, Purple Rain, and all things nostalgic), alcoholic parent, dysfunctional family, arguments and all sorts of drama. As she grows up she learns how to face the family issues head-on and set boundaries. This was well written and very familiar to me. I did have an issue with the letters and spacing on my kindle. It was a bit wonky but bearable.
This was a hard to put down novel of the complex and codependent characteristics of an alcoholic mother and her two daughters. The main character is the youngest daughter and it was written from her view. The layers of the emotional stresses and how each affected and responded to the challenges was artfully written. This book had me in tears at the end. I would recommend this book and look forward to reading more from this author.
I strongly related to this story. Growing up with a dysfunctional family, alcoholism, mental health issues, moved a lot... This hit home for me. I grew up with tv as a guide to life too. Parenting was not a verb then. It's a quick, interesting and very realistic book about a young girl growing up facing challenges so many of us also faced. Definitely recommend!
I love the way Hays tells this story weaving true life with fiction and all with a cheeky sense of humor. She brings you right into her family drama/life but leaves you with a sense of she somehow managed to survive and with a sense of humor and accomplishment! I couldn’t stop thinking…. You can’t make this stuff up. I loved this book and highly recommend it.
I was born in Pinehurst North Carolina and grew up spending summers in southern pines. This book captured my attention in the very 1st chapter. I felt like I was watching a friends life as I grew up next to her. I love this story and I love the character Elliot. I will be singing the praises of this book for months and months. I can't wait to tell others about it.
I hate when the story ends. I love the way Hays has with words, she is a great storyteller. She makes me feel like I'm right there with the characters. I am always a little sad when a book I really enjoy come to an end. I highly recommend this book.
A Gen X women's story of growing up with an alcoholic mother and sister, a distant father, and all the chaos that swirled around her and her family. Blinckmann says this novel is mostly true but I wish she had made Tiny Little Earthquakes a memoir.
I really enjoyed this one! It felt a bit long, but had plenty of detail and character development that I felt I was in the story. I was a little worried about how it would end, but I was rooting for Elliot the whole time!
LOVED this book. It's the perfect coming-of-age story that is both laugh-out-loud funny and poignant, sometimes in the same sentence. I loved all the Gen X nostalgia.