Unsayable: A Life in Writing

by Michael Cunningham

An intimate memoir portraying a life spent trying to describe the indescribable—from the Pulitzer Prize-winning novelist of The Hours and Day

Go ahead. Try using language to slit the skin of mortality to see what’s on the other side.

At the age of three, Michael Cunningham began obsessively collecting the names of oak, Chevrolet, finch, tulip, Tupperware… Each word rendered the world ever so slightly more understandable, more describable, kicking off a lifelong love affair with language—one that would, eventually, maybe inevitably, lead him to become a writer.

In Unsayable, Cunningham’s memories spill forth, and with them, reflections on the craft of writing. He is fifteen, in a swimming pool at night, gazing at the first boy he ever fell in love with, who is lost in contemplative silence. He is a new college graduate, setting off for nowhere in a Dodge Dart, hoping to pull meaning (and a novel) from the expanse of America. He is on Cape Cod, regaling an elderly couple with invented tales of sexual escapades. He is in an art gallery, unwittingly having the first in a lifetime of conversations with the man he would marry. A thread ties each beautifully-wrought moment to the what is unspoken, what won’t yield to language, what is embellished beyond recognition, what is still left to say. 

Luminous, perceptive, and powerful, Unsayable is an ode to literature, a meditation on craft, and an intimate account of a life spent trying to put into words that which resists depiction. This, it turns out, is the lifeblood of the fiction the impossibility of capturing the human experience, and the relentless desire to try.

Genres: Memoir, Nonfiction, Writing, Biography, Biography Memoir

304 pages, Hardcover

Published July 21, 2026

About the author

Michael Cunningham is the author of the novels A Home at the End of the World, Flesh and Blood, The Hours (winner of the Pen/Faulkner Award & Pulitzer Prize), Specimen Days, and By Nightfall, as well as the non-fiction book, Land's End: A Walk in Provincetown. His new novel, The Snow Queen, will be published in May of 2014. He lives in New York, and teaches at Yale University.

Reviews

[Alena Gromova · Rating 2 out of 5]

Думаю, мне надо перестать читать мемуары, если это не Арундати Рой, не Стивен Кинг и не Агата Кристи.

[Jennifer · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is part memoir, part craft exploration. A book about being a writer, becoming a writer, encouraging and believing in other writers. With personal narratives—from past and present—and quotes from his own work and that of many other well-known authors, Cunningham illustrates his process and understanding of what it means to him to have built a life on the written word. I read this book quickly, though wish I had taken more time. It is a quiet book of wisdom, of satisfaction of a life lived … with just the right amount of wistfulness infused here and there.

Thank you to NetGalley and Random House for the ARC.

[Richard Derus · Rating 5 out of 5]

Real Rating: 4.75* of five

The Publisher Says: An intimate memoir portraying a life spent trying to describe the indescribable—from the Pulitzer Prize-winning novelist of The Hours and Day

Go ahead. Try using language to slit the skin of mortality to see what’s on the other side.

At the age of three, Michael Cunningham began obsessively collecting the names of oak, Chevrolet, finch, tulip, Tupperware… Each word rendered the world ever so slightly more understandable, more describable, kicking off a lifelong love affair with language—one that would, eventually, maybe inevitably, lead him to become a writer.

In Unsayable, Cunningham’s memories spill forth, and with them, reflections on the craft of writing. He is fifteen, in a swimming pool at night, gazing at the first boy he ever fell in love with, who is lost in contemplative silence. He is a new college graduate, setting off for nowhere in a Dodge Dart, hoping to pull meaning (and a novel) from the expanse of America. He is on Cape Cod, regaling an elderly couple with invented tales of sexual escapades. He is in an art gallery, unwittingly having the first in a lifetime of conversations with the man he would marry. A thread ties each beautifully-wrought moment to the what is unspoken, what won’t yield to language, what is embellished beyond recognition, what is still left to say.

Luminous, perceptive, and powerful, Unsayable is an ode to literature, a meditation on craft, and an intimate account of a life spent trying to put into words that which resists depiction. This, it turns out, is the lifeblood of the fiction the impossibility of capturing the human experience, and the relentless desire to try.

I RECEIVED A DRC FROM THE PUBLISHER VIA NETGALLEY. THANK YOU.

My Review: Do you like life?

Really unanswerable, that question. Does it mean your life or just Life, that vast agglomerating thing that doesn't even have a rigorous definition? See...pointless to ask, unable to be pinned down well enough to create an answer.

But asking the question made you think, made you name things to focus thoughts, organize feelings, contemplate so many things no one ordinarily just...turns over deliberately. And all of it was done in words, because you read words, and put your words into combinations they probably havent been in for a long time. Or ever.

This is what Michael Cunningham has done in Unsayable: he has turned over in his mind all the life he's had, looking for words to put around the very odd thing he's organized his life around, being a writer. He loves writing, he loves words, he loves stories, and each anecdote in this memoir reinforces the reader's sense of these facts as rooted in his life. It's a tacit admission of his likely audience, the aspiring writers of the Anglophone world. It's also a generous gift from a seventy-plus year old teacher of the arts of storytelling, because it will survive him as well as his professional career. There are moments of craft advice in the moments of life story, there are even more clues as to how a reader can view the stories they consume so as to get the most pleasure out of the reading. It's just never made sense to me that more readers who don't plan to write fail to see the benefit of reading writing advice. How better to comprehend a story's creator as a person practicing a craft?

It's as deft an exercise of prose-writing as you'd expect. It's a read filled with stories for you to know Michael Cunningham by. It's a powerful tool to create a narrative, whether for your own life, a story you want to write, or empower yourself to create change.

Goodness knows the world needs people of vision to create better, more humane stories to follow in the world itself. Best to learn how from a master practicioner of the storytelling art.

[Bookreporter.com Biography & Memoir · Rating 5 out of 5]

Writing is hard work. Maintaining focus through a long project is difficult, to say the least. To actually produce something worth publishing is almost impossible. To win a Pulitzer Prize, teach at an Ivy League university, and have a career worth looking back on while it is still thriving is insane.

Yet Michael Cunningham has done all of this and more. This entire escapade began when he desired a certain piece of Tupperware at the age of three. That specificity reared its head in his collection of words as he grew: Tupperware, tulip, Chevrolet --- letters put together that had meaning and a place in the world at large and in his own intellectually ambitious world.

Cunningham, who has written such exceptional books as A HOME AT THE END OF THE WORLD and THE HOURS, puts these and many more beginnings in UNSAYABLE, a memoir of his life in pursuit of all things literary. It is a precious gem of a look inside the mind of an emotive modern American author.

The moments are significant --- first loves and first unrequited loves, cross-country drives and college tries, conversations that lead to the most important relationship in one’s life. Cunningham is all about these moments and gives readers a compendium of the ones that most shaped his writing, whether used verbatim or as a slightly exaggerated incident in one of his novels.

In between his words of wisdom and his soul-baring descriptions of key times in his writing life (which does not exist outside of his physical life as they are one), Cunningham also looks at the works of literature that inspired him, as well as the lives of writers who have offered him (both directly and indirectly) words of wisdom about the writing life --- why it matters, why it is difficult, and why writers try so hard to create an amalgam of the world at any one time in history as they attempt to make sense of the chaos of life on Earth.

As he switches the discussion to larger issues pertaining to the mind of the writer, Cunningham’s vignettes are confessional. Then he manages to analyze some perfectly attuned aspect of writing literature in order to cast a spell of true understanding over it all. This is a book for writers, for those who feel completely drawn to the inevitably heart-wrenching endeavors that give the highs and lows of the planet’s activities some credence and depth.

Cunningham has had success since his earliest days of writing. His command of language and the thoughts that constantly saunter through his mind are quite admirable. However, UNSAYABLE feels like the work of a writer who is becoming acquainted with the wonderful and horrible aspects of his life’s work, as if some special part of his mind is just developing and finally he can use it to see into the whys and wherefores of the craft of writing and his personal say in it.

Many memoirs have been written so that writers can attempt to figure out why they are who they are and why they do what they do. Cunningham has clearly grown up a great deal through his literary work and is ready to reach a place where his need is different from his desire to write, and where his own life can be viewed from the telescope (or microscope) of his latest perspective on the world.

Like Jayne Anne Phillips’ recent memoir, SMALL TOWN GIRLS, Cunningham’s voice is calm yet searching, analytical and accepting when looking at his literary output through the veil of his childhood. How refreshing to find a book this introspective on the shelves during these hot summer days when people might have the time to reflect on the chaos of their own life and how reading has contributed to their growth. UNSAYABLE does all of this and more, in a way that will fly by, just like our own human lives feel as if they do in this insane and ever-changing place.

Reviewed by Jana Siciliano

[A. · Rating 4 out of 5]

Thanks to Random House (Kelly Dasta) and NetGalley for the egalley of Unsayable.

I am not a reader of autobiographies or memoirs, generally. I like my "truth" with a fictional flavor, a truth more universal than particular. This helps me avoid the outright fabrications or the "artistic license" some authors of memoirs seem incapable of not using to tell their stories. Where do you draw the line when it comes to creative choices in memoir? Call me cynical, but when I see a memoir in a bookstore I just can't believe the story within the covers is completely "true" no matter what the jacket copy states. I usually don't feel like making the effort of sifting through the events in a book to gauge their authenticity.

That being said, I did enjoy reading Michael Cunningham's Unsayable. First, as the memoir of a fiction writer, Unsayable seems to acknowledge that its primary audience will probably be other writers or want-to-be writers. The narrative, then, focuses on events, generally in chronological order, in Cunningham's life that he believes contributed to his becoming a writer: the acquisition of language, the realization of the power of language, the first attempts at fiction writing, the years of apprenticeship, etc. Many of the lessons are hard-earned as Cunningham breaks down the romantic vision he had of a writer's life with the reality of his own life choices. It is a fascinating journey to witness. And sprinkled throughout the narrative are actual writing "tips" or suggestions on character, plot, movement, endings. He also presents the work of other writers to illustrate the points he is making. A nice bonus since Cunningham teaches creative writing at Yale University and there's no charge. Even if you don't want to be a writer, the "lessons" will enhance your skills as a reader by giving you a deeper understanding of the work of the writer.

The other reason I enjoyed the memoir is because I never felt that Cunningham was asserting the memoir as factual, that I had to accept everything in the book as the final truth. Throughout the memoir, Cunningham is aware of the slipperiness of "truth" and how far it can be stretched. Perhaps because he is a fiction writer, the memoir feels like an acknowledgement that what we say or write about ourselves fundamentally comes down to nothing more than a story. We edit out that event, embellish this event. Others who know us may have a completely different version of the same events. In the memoir, Cunningham addresses the fine line between fact and fiction and how there may not be much of a line at all. For me, that gave the memoir more veracity because of its honesty regarding the nature of memoir writing. I believe this to be true is a much better approach and accepting of our fallible human memories.

The writing itself is straightforward and usually humorous, the structure of the memoir composed of short to very-short sections that made for easy reading. I was engaged from the beginning with Cunningham's remarkable life.

[Meghan ReadsBooks · Rating 5 out of 5]

Thank you to Random House for the review copy of *Unsayable* by Michael Cunningham.

I still remember reading *The Hours* when it came out. My dad gave it to me and told me it was a must-read. Rarely has a book moved me as much as that one did. Every once in a while, I still find myself chasing that feeling of recognition: someone has somehow captured a very specific feeling I have carried around in my head, body, or heart.

Michael Cunningham has had a fan in me ever since. So to say I was excited for this memoir is an understatement.

*Unsayable* is a memoir about becoming a writer, but it is also a book about language, memory, storytelling, and the difficulty of trying to capture a life in words. Cunningham moves through his life in short, often beautifully constructed sections, tracing his early relationship with language, his discovery of writing, his years of learning the craft, and the choices that shaped his life as a writer.

Throughout the book, he also offers thoughts on writing: character, plot, structure, endings, and the choices writers make. I appreciated these sections not only as someone who loves to read but as someone interested in how stories are made. You don't have to want to write to find value in understanding the craft behind the books you read.

What I found especially interesting was Cunningham's awareness of the slipperiness of memoir itself. He understands that memory is not a perfect record. We edit, rearrange, forget, emphasize, and create narratives about our own lives. Someone else who lived through the same events might tell a very different story.

That felt particularly fitting in a memoir by a fiction writer. The book seems to acknowledge that everything we say about ourselves is, in some way, a story. The question is not whether the story is perfectly factual, but what it reveals about the person trying to tell it.

Cunningham writes about his life, his sexuality, his family, his doubts, and his work with honesty but without turning the memoir into a collection of dramatic revelations. Instead, the book is about paying attention: to language, to memory, to ordinary moments, and to the strange ways those moments become meaningful when we look back.

I loved the short sections and the way the book moves between personal stories and reflections on writing. It felt a little like sitting beside a very thoughtful writer while he talks about the things he has spent his life trying to understand.

For me, *Unsayable* is a book about the impossibility of ever fully saying what we mean... and the beauty of trying anyway.

A thoughtful, beautifully written memoir about writing, memory, storytelling, and the strange, impossible task of trying to put a life into words.

[Jessica Brainard · Rating 4 out of 5]

Unsayable: A Life in Writing by Michael Cunningham (Random House, July 2026) is a luminous, introspective gem — part memoir, part meditation on craft, and a masterclass in why we write.

The Pulitzer Prize-winning author of The Hours and Day structures the book as a series of brief, beautifully wrought chapters that read like autobiographical short stories. It opens with a vivid memory from age three: young Cunningham obsessively collecting names of things — oak, Chevrolet, finch, tulip — as if naming the world could make it more knowable. This impulse launches a lifelong quest to capture the unsayable: those fleeting, profound, often ordinary moments that resist language yet demand to be expressed.

What Makes It SpecialCunningham weaves personal history with reflections on process. Readers encounter:His teenage discovery of Virginia Woolf (initially to impress a girl, leading to his epiphany about language’s transformative power).
Road trips in a Dodge Dart.
Bartending gigs in a grass skirt.
Quiet moments of longing (including his first crush on a boy in a swimming pool at night).
The evolution of specific memories into fiction, such as watching his mother bake a cake, which later surfaced in The Hours.

The book is generous without being gossipy. Cunningham is candid about his youth, sexuality, family, doubts, and joys, but he exercises graceful restraint when it comes to others. Interspersed are quotes from favorite writers, analyses of passages by authors like Cormac McCarthy and Marilynne Robinson, discarded opening lines for the memoir itself, and a few previously unpublished short stories — too personal to share until now.

At its heart, Unsayable argues that fiction’s power lies in the attempt itself: the beautiful futility of trying to “slit the skin of mortality” with words. Cunningham never glamourizes the writing life — he shows its loneliness, humiliations, and persistence — yet the book feels deeply inspiring.Who Should Read ItWriters will find practical wisdom and encouragement here. General readers (especially fans of Cunningham’s fiction) will savor the elegant prose and intimate glimpses into how a major artist sees the world. It’s both an ode to literature and a quiet celebration of paying profound attention to ordinary life.
Final VerdictUnsayable is a treasure — perceptive, moving, and exquisitely written. It earns its place alongside the best memoirs about the creative life. Whether you’re a writer seeking inspiration or a reader who loves gorgeous sentences, this book delivers. Highly recommended.

[Carole Barker · Rating 5 out of 5]

Most readers are familiar with at least some of author Michael Cunningham's novels, particularly The Hours (which won a Pulitzer and was made into a film starring Meryl Streep, Julianne Moore and Nicole Kidman, the last winning an Oscar for her role in it). Fans of Mr. Cunningham's elegant prose should be pleased to discover that he has penned this work of non-fiction, which is part memoir, part reflections on what it is like to be a writer, and part musings on the art of writing itself. Each chapter in the book is a bit like a short story in which the author shares key moments in his life and discusses how they impacted his writing as well as quoting and at times analyzing passages from other writers of note. Throughout the whole book he shows over and over again what a nearly impossible task writing turns out to be...trying to capture a particular moment,, deciding not only when it begins but also relaying what happens next in a meaningful way. Can one ever truly recreate what was using language? In the process, Mr Cunningham shares parts of his emotional life without oversharing. If a reader is looking for high drama, juicy gossip or anything along those lines then they will likely be disappointed in the contents of this memoir. If however one enjoys well-crafted prose full of insight and introspection, evocative of the best kind of literary nonfiction, then don't hesitate to pick up a copy of Unsayable at one's earliest convenience. Fans of the author as well as readers of Annie Dillard, Anne Lamott and Joan Didion should do so as well. My thanks to NetGalley and Random House for allowing me access to this elegant piece of writing in exchange for my honest review.

[Jeremy Garber · Rating 4 out of 5]

When a writer gets famous enough and needs a bit of extra cash, they gather up the scraps of writing they've left lying around and gather them up into a book to publish. That's this book for Michael Cunningham, most famously the author of The Hours, an award-winning novel based on Virginia Woolf's Mrs. Dalloway. (Cunningham is a big Virginia Woolf fan, but we won't hold that against him. I never liked modernism generally.) Cunningham begins his musings with a charming recollection of a time before language, when he wanted some Tupperware from a counter to play with but couldn't express his need. He gently meanders through a colorful life of drifting, both literally and figuratively.

Cunningham is frank about his sexuality [warning homophobes, turn back now], but in a way that is strikingly universal in its particularity. He describes the beauty of skinny-dipping with his high school best friend in painful detail that any aesthetically struck former teenager can recognize. Cunningham is a master of careful description without embellishment, and he helps us along his own writing journey with stories and tips.

This volume is slight but a comfortable, lovely read. Some entries are no more than a couple of paragraphs, with epigraphs liberally sprinkled throughout. At one point, Cunningham references two elderly gentlemen he visited regularly in his younger days. They would summon a group of lovely young boys and sit and drink and elegantly converse. This book is like sitting at Cunningham's elbow and sipping your gin and tonic as he reminisces. You don't have to know his work. You're just along for the ride.

[Kym · Rating 5 out of 5]

As a fan of Michael Cunningham’s work, I was pleased to read an advance copy of his memoir, Unsayable: A Life in Writing, due to be published later this month (July 2026) by Random House.

Unsayable comprises chronological “tidbits” (I hesitate to call them “essays” because they are much more personal than “essays”) detailing his unfolding life as a writer, beginning with language acquisition and moving on through major educational and career developments. It's an altogether lovely collection of charming tales that may (or may not be!) autobiographical.

As always, Cunningham’s writing is crisp and fresh, and a joy to read. I very much appreciated the fascinating exploration of, and the author’s back-and-forth wrestling with, the issue of “writing truth” in memoir.

For readers particularly interested in the writing process, Cunningham generously shares his advice, writing tips, and “samples” (both his own and those written by other authors), which provides a brilliant opportunity to learn from a master (who also happens to be a Yale professor).

It was a pleasure to read what goes on beneath the surface of Michael Cunningham’s writing process. This is a lovely companion piece to his novels, and will offer his fans a greater insight to his work.

Thank you to Random House and NetGalley for providing an advance copy of this book in exchange for my honest review. The book will be published on July 21, 2026.

4.5 stars, rounded to 5

[Michael · Rating 4 out of 5]

As a longtime admirer of Michael Cunningham's work, I was especially excited to read UNSAYABLE. THE HOURS remains one of my all-time favorite novels, and I've read everything Cunningham has published, so I was eager to spend time with him in memoir form.

As expected, his prose is exquisite - lyrical, contemplative, and deeply attentive to the beauty woven through ordinary life. There are wonderful insights into writing throughout the book, and I especially enjoyed the passages and quotations from writers such as James Baldwin and Cormac McCarthy. I came away with several new additions to my reading list.

While I admired many of the individual essays and reflections, I wasn't entirely convinced they added up to a cohesive memoir. At times, the collection felt more like a series of meditations than a unified narrative, and I occasionally found myself searching for a stronger throughline. I also wondered how the book would resonate with readers who aren't already familiar with Cunningham's work. His voice is so distinctive that longtime admirers may appreciate its quiet intimacy more readily than newcomers.

Even so, UNSAYABLE is filled with moments of grace, wisdom, and startling beauty. I would happily recommend it to readers who already love Michael Cunningham and want to spend more time with one of our finest literary stylists.

[Nancy · Rating 5 out of 5]

We are, in a sense, the stories we tell to ourselves and each other. from Unsayable by Michael Cunningham

“My earliest memory is a lack of language,” Michael Cunningham begins his memoir. He was three years old and wanted a Tupperware container that was beyond his reach. He realized he needed it’s name before he could ask his mother to get it for him. It was the beginning of his desire to learn the names of everything, his love affair with words. Names and words gave one the world, and helped to organize one’s understanding of the world.

I was immediately charmed by this first memory shared in Unsayable. It reminded me of my own origin story about my love of words. How I heard a new word that was so beautiful I had to say it, after which the adults in the room turned to me to inquire what I wanted. It had been the man’s name. John.

Through a series of chronological essays, Cunningham shares his life journey as a gay man finding himself and his work. The men he loved, the friends who embraced him, the books that nourished him. The challenges of writing and what he has learned as a writer and as a writing teacher.

It is a book of great beauty and wisdom.

Great fiction, if anything, can be more true. from Unsayable by Michael Cunningham

Thanks to Random House for a free book through NetGalley.

[Bill · Rating 5 out of 5]

Unsayable is both a memoir and one writer's views on the craft of writing. Cunningham takes snapshots of his life from age three to the present and draws from them lessons about how one becomes a writer--from naming things to connecting writing to love. The theme is in the title--the writer's job is to keep reaching for that which is unsayable, to keep striving and failing to understand the human soul.

The tone of the book is playful, witty, moving, and honest, though honesty for a writer is a complicated concept. The snapshots include his first effort at naming something to his first "love affair" with a straight boy named Elliott to his time as a fish out of water at Stanford to his time in Provincetown with an older gay couple to meeting his husband. All of it is presented in short chapters containing much advice for younger writers. He excels at showing how the various events of his life (as well as his many influences) have shaped his own writing. His heroes are Virginia Woolf, Toni Morrison, and James Baldwin--and Walt Whitman.

While I have not read all of his books, I am a huge fan of A Home at the End of the World, The Hours, Day, and Land's End. It was such a treat to read him in this anecdotal form. The relationships we form are the best indicators of who we are as writers and as people.

Thank you to NetGalley for the ARC.

[Marrie · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is a gift for writers. The essays in here are delightful, whether you’re a Michael Cunningham devotee or not. It’s intimate, like the most charming man you’ve met pulled you aside and took something from his personal vault to share with only you. It can almost feel voyeuristic at times. But, if you’re a writer, it also feels like you’re taking an MFA class from one of our best living writers.

Unsayable goes from the specific stuff on the word-level (lessons on finding the right descriptions and opening lines) to the macro of living as a writer (like dealing with bad reviews and doing things in your personal life to perhaps make you more interesting). Michael takes us inside his process of choosing the right words and phrases. Inside his teaching process to how he guided one student to find a resonant ending. And inside his thinking process of becoming a writer in the first place.

It’s philosophical – when did he know he was a writer – which is kinda like the small moment of when we know we’re in love. It’s extremely personal and therefore surprisingly universal. It’s all the things we love in the very best of our writers, and an embedded MFA experience cherried on top.

[Carol · Rating 5 out of 5]

First, thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an advanced copy of this book. I absolutely LOVED this one. It's kind of a combination memoir of Cunningham's life--especially as it relates to writing, and a wonderful book about writing and how to improve as a writer. I'll be recommending it to all my friends who enjoy outstanding writing--I highlighted huge passages as much for the beauty of the writing as for the advice given.

As a long-time reader and book lover (and a retired English teacher), I particularly enjoyed the passages he quoted as examples from other authors. I delighted in seeing familiar excerpts, and have a new list of TBR titles of authors I haven't read.

I have the book on my list to purchase in hard copy when it comes out, and will be recommending it to everyone I know. Well written, interesting, informative and instructive. I wish I'd had the chance to take a class with Professor Cunningham and envy those who had that privilege.

[Erin · Rating 3 out of 5]

3.5 stars - There were moments of this book that felt so spot-on to me, and others that left me feeling disconnected. Cunningham's book is a mixture of a memoir and his experiences as a writer (complete with some writing advice). By the end, I had kind of hoped that Cunningham had actually released this content as two separate books. I was captivated by some of the events in his life, but then felt taken out of the story when anecdotes about being a writer came into play. Similarly, I could have gotten a lot of wisdom out of his take on being a writer, but then was sort of hoping he would go back to the less dry content. Cunningham is obviously such a gifted writer, but it was more the structure of this that didn't strike a chord with me. I'm excited now to go back to some of his fictional backlist, but I probably wouldn't recommend this to someone unless they're also a writer.

*Free ARC provided by Netgalley and the publisher in exchange for an honest review

[Kelly · Rating 5 out of 5]

In a world full of superfluously generic book reviews, please allow me to present an honest one. This is one of the sparse offerings that I had to be torn away from, otherwise I would have spent the entire night feasting on it.

It is in intriguing mix of sad understanding and compassion, while offering sentiments that are a genuine reflection of my own life, allowing me a deeper relationship with the characters.

This book literally transferred me to another plane of reality. It did not feel like reading a book but listening to the heartfelt story of people over a mug of tea. It made me take a step back and look at key moments of my life and compare them to now.

This review would not have been possible without the amazing team at Penguin Random House, and the insights of the author Michael Cunningham, that offered me a once in a lifetime to read this early ARC.

[Sara · Rating 4 out of 5]

I received a free DRC of this book through Netgalley and the publisher. I have read a prior book by this authorDay which increased my interest in wanting to read this one because of the beautiful language that the writer used. I highlighted several parts in the book because I liked how he phrased things in this memoir of being a writer. I would recommend this book to people interested in the writing process or in a coming of age story.

[Erica · Rating 5 out of 5]

This memoir by the author of several novels, including The Hours, combines personal insight with thoughts on the art and craft of writing, all in Cunningham's lyrical, leisurely style. It is quiet, thought-provoking, and occasionally devastating, with plenty of passages that invite use of a highlighter.

[I received a complimentary ARC from NetGalley and the publisher. Opinions are my own.]

[Greg Fournier · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a combination of memoir, instruction manual, and essay collection. I particularly liked the author’s meditations on the act of writing itself. It didn’t blow me away, but it was a good, fun read

[Kasa Cotugno · Rating 2 out of 5]

Must admit to not finishing this book. Although I enjoy his fiction, this memoir didn't cover any new ground or tell anything revealing.

[Sheila Garry · Rating 2 out of 5]

While there were some gems in the 60 pages I read, it’s too ethereal.
Perhaps when I’m in a better frame of mind, but for now, it just didn’t hold my interest.

[Cal Barton]

what a guy

[Jackie · Rating 3 out of 5]

Michael Cunningham is one of my favorite writers, so I was excited to get an ARC from Net Galley of his memoir Unsayable. I was somewhat disappointed by the book- it told about Cunningham's early years in a nurturing family, his teenage and early adult life as an aspiring writer. Side trips to describe his 'rent boy' era in Los Angeles were interesting, but never moved me.