A clear, calm, honest guide for autistic teen boys learning about erections, masturbation, privacy, and growing up. Puberty can be overwhelming for any teenager—but for boys with autism, these changes can be confusing, intense, and sometimes frightening. Many parents struggle to explain what’s happening in a simple, direct way their son can actually understand. This book fills that gap.
Private Time is a gentle social-story style guide written specifically for autistic boys who need clear rules, simple language, and straightforward explanations about their changing bodies. It focuses on the topics that are often ignored, avoided, or handled vaguely—yet are absolutely essential for safety, confidence, and healthy development.
This book teaches boys exactly what erections are, why they happen, what masturbation means, where it is allowed, and how to stay clean and private. The tone is calm, supportive, and respectful. There is no shame, no fear, no judgment—just clear information to help boys stay safe and understand themselves.
What this book helps Understanding erections and why they occur
Knowing what to do when an erection happens at school or in public
Learning where private time belongs and why privacy matters
Understanding masturbation in a simple, clear way
Knowing how to clean up afterward
Building safe habits and healthy boundaries
Reducing fear, confusion, and shame
Teaching when to ask for help and who to trust
Supporting independence and self-regulation
Created for boys with autism and other developmental needsThe language in this book is short, literal, and predictable—ideal for autistic teens who benefit from direct communication. Each page focuses on one idea at a time to avoid overload. The illustrations (not graphic) show realistic situations that help readers understand context without being overwhelming.
A must-have resource Parents
Special education teachers
Therapists
Social workers
Caregivers
Life-skills programs
Middle school and high school autism classrooms
Why this book mattersThere are countless books about autism, but very few that directly address this specific helping autistic teen boys understand erections, masturbation, and privacy in a healthy, safe way. Many families face these issues in silence, without guidance. This book gives parents and teens a clear, supportive way to talk about one of the most confusing stages of adolescence.
Support, clarity, and confidence—written with heartAuthor Wayne Perry created this book while supporting his own autistic son through puberty. Every page is shaped by real-world experience, compassion, and a deep understanding of how much clearer life becomes when teens get the guidance they truly need.
Private Time is a practical, honest, and reassuring tool that families can return to again and again.