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Private Time: Helping Teen Boys with Autism Understand Erections, Masturbation, and Privacy

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A clear, calm, honest guide for autistic teen boys learning about erections, masturbation, privacy, and growing up.
Puberty can be overwhelming for any teenager—but for boys with autism, these changes can be confusing, intense, and sometimes frightening. Many parents struggle to explain what’s happening in a simple, direct way their son can actually understand. This book fills that gap.

Private Time is a gentle social-story style guide written specifically for autistic boys who need clear rules, simple language, and straightforward explanations about their changing bodies. It focuses on the topics that are often ignored, avoided, or handled vaguely—yet are absolutely essential for safety, confidence, and healthy development.

This book teaches boys exactly what erections are, why they happen, what masturbation means, where it is allowed, and how to stay clean and private. The tone is calm, supportive, and respectful. There is no shame, no fear, no judgment—just clear information to help boys stay safe and understand themselves.

What this book helps Understanding erections and why they occur

Knowing what to do when an erection happens at school or in public

Learning where private time belongs and why privacy matters

Understanding masturbation in a simple, clear way

Knowing how to clean up afterward

Building safe habits and healthy boundaries

Reducing fear, confusion, and shame

Teaching when to ask for help and who to trust

Supporting independence and self-regulation

Created for boys with autism and other developmental needsThe language in this book is short, literal, and predictable—ideal for autistic teens who benefit from direct communication. Each page focuses on one idea at a time to avoid overload. The illustrations (not graphic) show realistic situations that help readers understand context without being overwhelming.

A must-have resource Parents

Special education teachers

Therapists

Social workers

Caregivers

Life-skills programs

Middle school and high school autism classrooms

Why this book mattersThere are countless books about autism, but very few that directly address this specific helping autistic teen boys understand erections, masturbation, and privacy in a healthy, safe way. Many families face these issues in silence, without guidance. This book gives parents and teens a clear, supportive way to talk about one of the most confusing stages of adolescence.

Support, clarity, and confidence—written with heartAuthor Wayne Perry created this book while supporting his own autistic son through puberty. Every page is shaped by real-world experience, compassion, and a deep understanding of how much clearer life becomes when teens get the guidance they truly need.

Private Time is a practical, honest, and reassuring tool that families can return to again and again.

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Published November 28, 2025

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Wayne Perry

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