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The Lessons We Learn
Some journeys change everything...
To my close friends and family I’m wild and crazy one-date Dane. To the world, I’m Dane Campbell, the bachelor with the genius level IQ whose name sits somewhere on the Top 100 Wealthiest People in the World list. Me? I’d like to think of myself as fluid, in both my lifestyle and sexuality.
Which is why I spend my time backpacking through different countries exploring the world. The best meeting strangers, traveling together for a few days, then going our separate ways. This affords me the minimalist lifestyle I desire with the anonymity I need.
But lately, something in me has shifted. So, when I’m offered a position as a Professor at Polytech University, my boredom of traveling and sudden need of stability said yes.
Meeting a new couple in Paris the last week before I head back home shouldn’t be any different. Except it is, and they are.
They make the loneliness go away, my fake smiles turn real, and I feel something I haven’t felt in a long time.
This is the first time I don’t want to walk away.
Unfortunately, karma has other plans.
The Lessons We Learn is an MMF contemporary romance with a bi-sexual awakening and lots of open door spice. It is intended for 18+ readers only. Written in 1st person with multiple POV’s.
To my close friends and family I’m wild and crazy one-date Dane. To the world, I’m Dane Campbell, the bachelor with the genius level IQ whose name sits somewhere on the Top 100 Wealthiest People in the World list. Me? I’d like to think of myself as fluid, in both my lifestyle and sexuality.
Which is why I spend my time backpacking through different countries exploring the world. The best meeting strangers, traveling together for a few days, then going our separate ways. This affords me the minimalist lifestyle I desire with the anonymity I need.
But lately, something in me has shifted. So, when I’m offered a position as a Professor at Polytech University, my boredom of traveling and sudden need of stability said yes.
Meeting a new couple in Paris the last week before I head back home shouldn’t be any different. Except it is, and they are.
They make the loneliness go away, my fake smiles turn real, and I feel something I haven’t felt in a long time.
This is the first time I don’t want to walk away.
Unfortunately, karma has other plans.
The Lessons We Learn is an MMF contemporary romance with a bi-sexual awakening and lots of open door spice. It is intended for 18+ readers only. Written in 1st person with multiple POV’s.
364 pages, Kindle Edition
Published February 18, 2026
About the author
Berlin Wick
13 books321 followersBerlin was raised in a tiny town in North Idaho who moved to the Bay Area, California, at the age of eighteen. She now resides in San Diego with her husband, two boys and her massive Cane Corso named Blu! Her bucket list items include skydiving, attending the Oscars, becoming a New York Time best-selling author, and cruising the world for retirement. She loves writing and reading, ANY and ALL kinds of romance novels, and loves engaging in the booksta community. You can find her most active on Instagram!
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Review of advance copy received from Author
Jesus Christ. Berlin Wick can absolutely do no wrong. This book wrecked me...suffocated me...in the best, most satisfying way.
Berlin Wick took a character I was already intrigued by and cracked him wide open. Dane Campbell’s story is rich, emotional, and unexpectedly tender. What starts as a tale about a man who thrives on movement and anonymity slowly becomes something much deeper...a story about choosing connection, staying when it’s easier to run, and redefining what love can look like when you stop limiting yourself.
The MMF relationship feels organic and earned. Dane, Ethan, and Hannah don’t just fall into bed together; they fall into comfort, stability, happiness, and love with each other. Thier bond is distinct, layered, and necessary. Dane’s openness and emotional fluidity make him the perfect center of this triad. His patience and caring love made Ethan feel safe. I loved their relationship.
Ethan’s journey is raw and powerful. Watching him confront grief, expectation, and his own identity was heartbreaking and hopeful all at once. His growth feels real, slow, and deeply human. Hannah...she's quiet, observant, and strong. She anchors this story with so much grace. The way her nonverbal communication is handled is respectful, seamless, and beautiful. She is never sidelined or pitied; she is seen, desired, and essential. Their love does not work without her.
A big standout is how Dane's past is reframed. What once looked carefree is revealed to be shaped by loss and loneliness, and that emotional context adds so much weight to every choice he makes. It made his desire for stability hit so much harder.
The spice? Obviously, it delivers. It’s bold but it’s never empty. Every intimate moment pushes the story forward, deepens the relationships, and raises the emotional stakes. It’s hot because it means something.
This book made me laugh, ache, rage, and swoon. It’s about love without limits, found family without conditions, and learning that sometimes the biggest lessons come from the people you never planned to love.
If you have read Berlin Wick from the beginning, you can tell that she is pushing herself out of her comfort zone as an author. I feel like I'm right there with her. As she discovers herself as a writer, I'm discovering myself as a reader.
As usual, thank you, Berlin, for the ARC read. You are freaking amazing.
Berlin Wick took a character I was already intrigued by and cracked him wide open. Dane Campbell’s story is rich, emotional, and unexpectedly tender. What starts as a tale about a man who thrives on movement and anonymity slowly becomes something much deeper...a story about choosing connection, staying when it’s easier to run, and redefining what love can look like when you stop limiting yourself.
The MMF relationship feels organic and earned. Dane, Ethan, and Hannah don’t just fall into bed together; they fall into comfort, stability, happiness, and love with each other. Thier bond is distinct, layered, and necessary. Dane’s openness and emotional fluidity make him the perfect center of this triad. His patience and caring love made Ethan feel safe. I loved their relationship.
Ethan’s journey is raw and powerful. Watching him confront grief, expectation, and his own identity was heartbreaking and hopeful all at once. His growth feels real, slow, and deeply human. Hannah...she's quiet, observant, and strong. She anchors this story with so much grace. The way her nonverbal communication is handled is respectful, seamless, and beautiful. She is never sidelined or pitied; she is seen, desired, and essential. Their love does not work without her.
A big standout is how Dane's past is reframed. What once looked carefree is revealed to be shaped by loss and loneliness, and that emotional context adds so much weight to every choice he makes. It made his desire for stability hit so much harder.
The spice? Obviously, it delivers. It’s bold but it’s never empty. Every intimate moment pushes the story forward, deepens the relationships, and raises the emotional stakes. It’s hot because it means something.
This book made me laugh, ache, rage, and swoon. It’s about love without limits, found family without conditions, and learning that sometimes the biggest lessons come from the people you never planned to love.
If you have read Berlin Wick from the beginning, you can tell that she is pushing herself out of her comfort zone as an author. I feel like I'm right there with her. As she discovers herself as a writer, I'm discovering myself as a reader.
As usual, thank you, Berlin, for the ARC read. You are freaking amazing.
February 19, 2026
3 ⭐️⭐️⭐️
Received this as a ARC.
This was a solid read that ultimately didn’t leave much of an impression on me. The bi-awakening arc felt realistic with believable chemistry between the characters and minimal jealousy. There were also a few standout spicy moments that were well done.
However, I struggled to stay emotionally invested. Some of the drama felt manufactured, and while Dane was likable enough he sometimes came across passive aggressive and Ethan’s negative outlook was frustrating. I never fully connected with the characters, and I found myself skimming toward the end.
The writing was average in a good way—smooth and readable—but nothing about the story really stuck with me. I think readers who enjoy mmf tropes may enjoy this more than I did; it just wasn’t quite the right fit.
Received this as a ARC.
This was a solid read that ultimately didn’t leave much of an impression on me. The bi-awakening arc felt realistic with believable chemistry between the characters and minimal jealousy. There were also a few standout spicy moments that were well done.
However, I struggled to stay emotionally invested. Some of the drama felt manufactured, and while Dane was likable enough he sometimes came across passive aggressive and Ethan’s negative outlook was frustrating. I never fully connected with the characters, and I found myself skimming toward the end.
The writing was average in a good way—smooth and readable—but nothing about the story really stuck with me. I think readers who enjoy mmf tropes may enjoy this more than I did; it just wasn’t quite the right fit.
Review of advance copy received from Author
Oh. My. Gawd. 🥵
This book was hawt from start to finish. Ethan, Hannah, and Dane completely owned my brain and I am not even mad about it. The chemistry between all three of them? Explosive. Add in that bi-curious tension and it just cranked everything up another level.
And that Eiffel Tower scene… whew. I needed a moment. 🔥
What I loved most is that it wasn’t just spice for shock value. The plot actually worked. The emotional pull, the dynamic between them, the way their connection unfolded, it all made sense. It felt intentional, messy in the best way, and addictive.
The heat? Off. The. Charts.
5 chillies for all the 🍆💦 in 👖
The glory hole scene? Absolutely feral. I loved every second of it.
This trio is going to live rent-free in my head for a while.
This book was hawt from start to finish. Ethan, Hannah, and Dane completely owned my brain and I am not even mad about it. The chemistry between all three of them? Explosive. Add in that bi-curious tension and it just cranked everything up another level.
And that Eiffel Tower scene… whew. I needed a moment. 🔥
What I loved most is that it wasn’t just spice for shock value. The plot actually worked. The emotional pull, the dynamic between them, the way their connection unfolded, it all made sense. It felt intentional, messy in the best way, and addictive.
The heat? Off. The. Charts.
5 chillies for all the 🍆💦 in 👖
The glory hole scene? Absolutely feral. I loved every second of it.
This trio is going to live rent-free in my head for a while.
Review of advance copy received from Author
4.25⭐️
4🌶️
🔥MMF
🔥Bi-Awakening
🔥Secret Identity
🔥Golden Retriever MMC
🔥Grumpy MMC
🔥Confident FMC
🔥ASL Rep
🔥Forced Proximity
🔥Found family
🔥Dual First Person POV
Dane has lived his adult life traveling the world, never staying in any one place very long, starts to feel the need for some stability. While on one last trip before he starts a teaching position at a technical college, Dane meets a couple that turns his world upside down. Dane decides to spend his first night back in Paris at the local life style club. He has an intense encounter with a stranger at the glory hole and for the first time, he wished it wasn’t anonymous. Back at the hostel, Ethan and Hannah just checked in. This is their last stop of their summer backpacking trip. Dane recognizes the scar on Ethan’s hand from the club. It feels meant to be. Ethan has been struggling with his bi-curious feelings and with the support of his girlfriend Hannah, was able to explore it for the first time. Then Dane comes into the picture pushing his boundaries at every turn. They explore Paris together, the banter is effortless and they have explosive chemistry. Their story is emotional, tender, and at the same time so hot. It was great seeing Ethan discover himself while Dane helps him explore. I wanted more from Hannah’s pov, it left me feeling this was more about Dane and Ethan and she was just there in the background. A huge misunderstanding cuts their time together in Paris short. Ethan and Hannah are in the last year of their mba program and guess who their new professor is? Dane. I would have liked to have seen more of their day to day life of through the semester instead of jumping forward. Dane is goofy, a big personality who lives and loves loudly. Hannah is a unique character, after having lost her voice in an accident, she is a nonverbal ASL speaker. She is kind and full of sunshine. Where Dane is easy going, Ethan is rigid and feels stuck. Dane is a huge flirt and loves getting under Ethan’s skin and making Hannah blush. They are a perfect fit, bringing out the best in each other. The main issue I have with the story is the inaccuracies with Hannah, while a person can live without a larnyx (voice box), they’re are some things that are left out of how she would actually live. She also wouldn’t be able to hum or moan because those sounds are made with the vibrations of air moving through the vocal cords. However, I loved seeing the ASL representation, any reppresentation is always going to add to the story.
🚩Be sure to read the author’s note and content warnings before reading.
Plot: 4
Engaging: 5
Character: 4
Thank you Berlin Wick and The Smuthood for the gifted advanced copy.
📚All thoughts and opinions are my own📚
🐦🔥Follow me on socials @myrisingphoenixera.reads🐦🔥
A Few Favorite Quotes:
“These two are taking over my soul and there’s nothing I can do to stop it.”
“Well, I never have to go back to Paris again because this Eiffel Tower just became my favorite.”
“I swear to god these two men and their overly complicated feelings for each other will be the death of me.”
“I might be silent but I have a lot to say.”
“Love is a complete understatement of how I feel for them.”
“What’s the plan and do I need my attorney or my shovel?”
“Because I might be silent, but with these two, I feel so heard.”
4🌶️
🔥MMF
🔥Bi-Awakening
🔥Secret Identity
🔥Golden Retriever MMC
🔥Grumpy MMC
🔥Confident FMC
🔥ASL Rep
🔥Forced Proximity
🔥Found family
🔥Dual First Person POV
Dane has lived his adult life traveling the world, never staying in any one place very long, starts to feel the need for some stability. While on one last trip before he starts a teaching position at a technical college, Dane meets a couple that turns his world upside down. Dane decides to spend his first night back in Paris at the local life style club. He has an intense encounter with a stranger at the glory hole and for the first time, he wished it wasn’t anonymous. Back at the hostel, Ethan and Hannah just checked in. This is their last stop of their summer backpacking trip. Dane recognizes the scar on Ethan’s hand from the club. It feels meant to be. Ethan has been struggling with his bi-curious feelings and with the support of his girlfriend Hannah, was able to explore it for the first time. Then Dane comes into the picture pushing his boundaries at every turn. They explore Paris together, the banter is effortless and they have explosive chemistry. Their story is emotional, tender, and at the same time so hot. It was great seeing Ethan discover himself while Dane helps him explore. I wanted more from Hannah’s pov, it left me feeling this was more about Dane and Ethan and she was just there in the background. A huge misunderstanding cuts their time together in Paris short. Ethan and Hannah are in the last year of their mba program and guess who their new professor is? Dane. I would have liked to have seen more of their day to day life of through the semester instead of jumping forward. Dane is goofy, a big personality who lives and loves loudly. Hannah is a unique character, after having lost her voice in an accident, she is a nonverbal ASL speaker. She is kind and full of sunshine. Where Dane is easy going, Ethan is rigid and feels stuck. Dane is a huge flirt and loves getting under Ethan’s skin and making Hannah blush. They are a perfect fit, bringing out the best in each other. The main issue I have with the story is the inaccuracies with Hannah, while a person can live without a larnyx (voice box), they’re are some things that are left out of how she would actually live. She also wouldn’t be able to hum or moan because those sounds are made with the vibrations of air moving through the vocal cords. However, I loved seeing the ASL representation, any reppresentation is always going to add to the story.
🚩Be sure to read the author’s note and content warnings before reading.
Plot: 4
Engaging: 5
Character: 4
Thank you Berlin Wick and The Smuthood for the gifted advanced copy.
📚All thoughts and opinions are my own📚
🐦🔥Follow me on socials @myrisingphoenixera.reads🐦🔥
A Few Favorite Quotes:
“These two are taking over my soul and there’s nothing I can do to stop it.”
“Well, I never have to go back to Paris again because this Eiffel Tower just became my favorite.”
“I swear to god these two men and their overly complicated feelings for each other will be the death of me.”
“I might be silent but I have a lot to say.”
“Love is a complete understatement of how I feel for them.”
“What’s the plan and do I need my attorney or my shovel?”
“Because I might be silent, but with these two, I feel so heard.”
Review of advance copy received from Author
I loved this book was my entire soul! Dane, Ethan, and Hannah are completely captured my heart and I never want it back.
MMF dynamic
Forced proximity
ASL rep
Bi-awakening
Billionaire MMC
Professor x students
Secret identity
Dane and Ethan meet one night through an anonymous club and they have one hot AF moment together.
And when Ethan and his girlfriend Hannah show up to the hostel that Dane is staying at, he instantly recognizes Dane's hands. Quickly we learn that Hannah and Dane are entering a new curious phase of their relationship, and Dane is all too happy to be there. So they spend a beautiful and HOT HOT HOT days together in Paris, all of it to fall apart before it even began. But this can't be the last time they ever see each other, can it?
Dane - I loved him SO much. He was the star of the show for me. His character was so multi-faceted. He is this confident and gives no craps billionaire, but at the same time, he allowed himself to be vulnerable and fall head over heels for two people and never look back.
Hannah - I loved her strength and perseverance. She has been through the unthinkable, both mentally, emotionally, and physically and she doesn't let that stop her. She is unapologetically herself and I seriously love her for it!
Ethan - He is probably the most complex character of the bunch, and I appreciated that. He has recently come to the realization that he may be attracted to men, and he wants to explore that with his partner, but at the same time is nervous. We see a transformation in him throughout this book that was really beautiful.
Dane, Hannah, and Ethan couldn't be more perfect for one another!
Honorable mention scene from the book that will live rent free in my mind forever - four words - napkins and mashed potatoes.
MMF dynamic
Forced proximity
ASL rep
Bi-awakening
Billionaire MMC
Professor x students
Secret identity
Dane and Ethan meet one night through an anonymous club and they have one hot AF moment together.
And when Ethan and his girlfriend Hannah show up to the hostel that Dane is staying at, he instantly recognizes Dane's hands. Quickly we learn that Hannah and Dane are entering a new curious phase of their relationship, and Dane is all too happy to be there. So they spend a beautiful and HOT HOT HOT days together in Paris, all of it to fall apart before it even began. But this can't be the last time they ever see each other, can it?
Dane - I loved him SO much. He was the star of the show for me. His character was so multi-faceted. He is this confident and gives no craps billionaire, but at the same time, he allowed himself to be vulnerable and fall head over heels for two people and never look back.
Hannah - I loved her strength and perseverance. She has been through the unthinkable, both mentally, emotionally, and physically and she doesn't let that stop her. She is unapologetically herself and I seriously love her for it!
Ethan - He is probably the most complex character of the bunch, and I appreciated that. He has recently come to the realization that he may be attracted to men, and he wants to explore that with his partner, but at the same time is nervous. We see a transformation in him throughout this book that was really beautiful.
Dane, Hannah, and Ethan couldn't be more perfect for one another!
Honorable mention scene from the book that will live rent free in my mind forever - four words - napkins and mashed potatoes.
Review of advance copy received from Author
This is the fourth book in the Balance of Power series, but it can be read as a standalone. I do highly recommend the entire series.
I have been so excited about Dane's book and this did not disappoint. It started off 🔥🔥 and then delivered with a fantastic plot that was emotional, sweet, spicy, and heartwarming.
Dane, Hannah, and Ethan meet in Paris and have an immediate connection. Hannah and Ethan are already together and have a long history and shared trauma. Ethan is grumpy but lovable and Hannah is so strong. They are a great couple but blossom even more when Dane is added into the mix. Dane is a sweet and brilliant golden retriever MMC that you will absolutely love. He also has some past trauma.
Together these three have some major hot and steamy moments but also heal each other. They don't have it easy but they do get a beautiful HEA!! Love a good found family and so happy Dane, Hannah, and Ethan have each other.
At times my emotions were all over the place while reading, I could not put this down.
🌟MMF
❤️Bi-awakening
🌟ASL Rep
❤️Secret Identity
🌟Forced Proximity
❤️Found Family
Thank you, Berlin Wick for the ARC.
I have been so excited about Dane's book and this did not disappoint. It started off 🔥🔥 and then delivered with a fantastic plot that was emotional, sweet, spicy, and heartwarming.
Dane, Hannah, and Ethan meet in Paris and have an immediate connection. Hannah and Ethan are already together and have a long history and shared trauma. Ethan is grumpy but lovable and Hannah is so strong. They are a great couple but blossom even more when Dane is added into the mix. Dane is a sweet and brilliant golden retriever MMC that you will absolutely love. He also has some past trauma.
Together these three have some major hot and steamy moments but also heal each other. They don't have it easy but they do get a beautiful HEA!! Love a good found family and so happy Dane, Hannah, and Ethan have each other.
At times my emotions were all over the place while reading, I could not put this down.
🌟MMF
❤️Bi-awakening
🌟ASL Rep
❤️Secret Identity
🌟Forced Proximity
❤️Found Family
Thank you, Berlin Wick for the ARC.
February 18, 2026
Review of advance copy received from Author.
New favorite throuple!
I have read the Balance of Power series right from the beginning. There isn't one book in this series that I didn't love. Dane, Ethan, and Hannah are freaking adorable. I like how Dane is comfortable with his sexuality. Hannah is such a great support to Ethan, who is obviously struggling. I really like how strong she is after what she went through as well. I do wish they had stayed in Paris longer though haha. Another great story added to this series by Berlin!
New favorite throuple!
I have read the Balance of Power series right from the beginning. There isn't one book in this series that I didn't love. Dane, Ethan, and Hannah are freaking adorable. I like how Dane is comfortable with his sexuality. Hannah is such a great support to Ethan, who is obviously struggling. I really like how strong she is after what she went through as well. I do wish they had stayed in Paris longer though haha. Another great story added to this series by Berlin!
October 3, 2026
4 ⭐️ 3 🌶️
I enjoyed this MMF romance. I went in blind, not sure what to expect, and I was gripped. The dynamic in Paris between Hannah, Ethan, and Dane was brilliant. What I didn’t expect was the forbidden element due to the teacher student situation that unfolded.
Starting with Dane, I loved his personality. He has a carefree, flirty demeanour, isn’t ashamed of who he is, and knows what he wants. His storyline about his past love and what happened made me emotional. He isn’t ready to settle, but when it comes to Hannah and Ethan, he starts to question himself.
Ethan is a man who battles with who he is. He has a father who has certain control over him, and he is coming to terms with his sexuality. He has a beautiful girlfriend who gives him the opportunity to explore, but it is still a bit of a battle for him.
I loved Hannah as a non-verbal character. She has a presence that feels like confidence, especially when it comes to what she wants. These three were such a joy to read. Also, the spice was absolutely delicious. The scenes were perfect and at times were so intimate on an emotional level.
The audiobook was also brilliant. I highly recommend picking it up in audio.
I always love reading Berlin’s books, so I’m looking forward to reading more of her work in the future.
Genre/Type: Adult Romance 18+
APK: Audiobook ALC
Audiobook Length: 10hrs 57mins
Narrators: Savannah Thomas, Aaron Donahue and Ash Beverly - Duet
Rating: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Spice: 🌶️🌶️🌶️
Series or Standalone: Book Four In The Balance Of Power Series
Tropes or Themes: Forbidden, Opposites Attract, Secret Identity, Found Family, Forced Proximity, Chemistry, Tension, Non Verbal FMC, ALS Rep, Bullying, Intimate Tattoo, Sexual Content, Bi Awakening, Glory Hole, Sex Club, Edge Play, Taken Bare, WHCIHP, Oral Play, Public Play, Backdoor Play, DVP Scene and Restrictive Play
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I enjoyed this MMF romance. I went in blind, not sure what to expect, and I was gripped. The dynamic in Paris between Hannah, Ethan, and Dane was brilliant. What I didn’t expect was the forbidden element due to the teacher student situation that unfolded.
Starting with Dane, I loved his personality. He has a carefree, flirty demeanour, isn’t ashamed of who he is, and knows what he wants. His storyline about his past love and what happened made me emotional. He isn’t ready to settle, but when it comes to Hannah and Ethan, he starts to question himself.
Ethan is a man who battles with who he is. He has a father who has certain control over him, and he is coming to terms with his sexuality. He has a beautiful girlfriend who gives him the opportunity to explore, but it is still a bit of a battle for him.
I loved Hannah as a non-verbal character. She has a presence that feels like confidence, especially when it comes to what she wants. These three were such a joy to read. Also, the spice was absolutely delicious. The scenes were perfect and at times were so intimate on an emotional level.
The audiobook was also brilliant. I highly recommend picking it up in audio.
I always love reading Berlin’s books, so I’m looking forward to reading more of her work in the future.
Genre/Type: Adult Romance 18+
APK: Audiobook ALC
Audiobook Length: 10hrs 57mins
Narrators: Savannah Thomas, Aaron Donahue and Ash Beverly - Duet
Rating: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Spice: 🌶️🌶️🌶️
Series or Standalone: Book Four In The Balance Of Power Series
Tropes or Themes: Forbidden, Opposites Attract, Secret Identity, Found Family, Forced Proximity, Chemistry, Tension, Non Verbal FMC, ALS Rep, Bullying, Intimate Tattoo, Sexual Content, Bi Awakening, Glory Hole, Sex Club, Edge Play, Taken Bare, WHCIHP, Oral Play, Public Play, Backdoor Play, DVP Scene and Restrictive Play
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February 16, 2026
Wow, The Lessons We Learn is absolutely incredible! I couldn't get enough of these characters and their story.
Dane has been a character that I have been so intrigued by in this series, and to have his full, unfiltered story brought me to tears. He's so raw and genuine, his sense of adventure and whimsy has a depth to it that that made his personality all the more captivating! Those who seem to be the most easy going always have something going on underneath.
Hannah, this woman! Her strength, resilience, and pure joy for life had me obsessed with her from the beginning. I think Berlin does a beautiful job of writing someone who is nonverbal. People are so much more than just their voice, and she is a character who is so expressive. Her ability to create connection is incredible! These two men would not fit the same without her.
And Ethan. Ugh this man I swear, his character development was everything for me. He's so serious at first, tentative, and somewhat shy. He's finding himself, amidst a family dynamic that is anything but supportive. Healing from a traumatic experience he and Hannah both share that brought them closer together. The way his entire personality begins to bloom after meeting Dane just... feels right. These three fit together perfectly.
The chemistry between them is explosive, seductive, and extremely endearing. They all experience insecurity and doubt in their own way, and it's amazing to see them over come it! As always, the spice delivers! There's this intimacy that leaps off the page with these three!
I cannot wait for the next book in this series!
This is an ARC review I am leaving voluntarily and all thoughts are my own.
Dane has been a character that I have been so intrigued by in this series, and to have his full, unfiltered story brought me to tears. He's so raw and genuine, his sense of adventure and whimsy has a depth to it that that made his personality all the more captivating! Those who seem to be the most easy going always have something going on underneath.
Hannah, this woman! Her strength, resilience, and pure joy for life had me obsessed with her from the beginning. I think Berlin does a beautiful job of writing someone who is nonverbal. People are so much more than just their voice, and she is a character who is so expressive. Her ability to create connection is incredible! These two men would not fit the same without her.
And Ethan. Ugh this man I swear, his character development was everything for me. He's so serious at first, tentative, and somewhat shy. He's finding himself, amidst a family dynamic that is anything but supportive. Healing from a traumatic experience he and Hannah both share that brought them closer together. The way his entire personality begins to bloom after meeting Dane just... feels right. These three fit together perfectly.
The chemistry between them is explosive, seductive, and extremely endearing. They all experience insecurity and doubt in their own way, and it's amazing to see them over come it! As always, the spice delivers! There's this intimacy that leaps off the page with these three!
I cannot wait for the next book in this series!
This is an ARC review I am leaving voluntarily and all thoughts are my own.
February 21, 2026
Plot: 5/5 • Spice: 5/5 ————> I devoured this. Absolutely loved it.
Dane is a transient bisexual billionaire after selling his AI code after college. Traveling the world. When in Paris he stops at his favorite sex club. The glory hole he uses has a hesitant man, a first timer. Dane noticing embraces the opportunity and eases the guy into it. Back @ the hostile Dane is staying @ (bc obviously billionaires stay @ hostiles lol) he recognized Ethan by the scar on his hand. The same hand that had just jacked him off. Ethan is traveling with his girlfriend, a mute after an accident, named Hannah.
Ethan is like a little scared rabbit but is so curious. Dane wants Hannah and Ethan more than anything. Treads lightly. Shows them around Paris, whirlwind experience without telling them who he is and how much money he has.
After a magical few days together shit hits the fan and Hannah and Ethan run. Leaving Dane heartbroken. Months pass and Dane fulfills his duty and works as a professor. Funny how months later Hannah and Ethan wind up in Danes class. Still mad, Ethan and Hannah keep their distance. All with Dane pining after them.
After weeks of keeping his distance Dane slowly weasels his way back into their hearts. There are ups and downs and lots of orgasms. Bi awakening with plenty of MM. Everyone gets their happy ending.
Can’t recommend this enough. If you’re looking some fun second chance love, with bi awakening, and a HEA. This is for you.
Dane is a transient bisexual billionaire after selling his AI code after college. Traveling the world. When in Paris he stops at his favorite sex club. The glory hole he uses has a hesitant man, a first timer. Dane noticing embraces the opportunity and eases the guy into it. Back @ the hostile Dane is staying @ (bc obviously billionaires stay @ hostiles lol) he recognized Ethan by the scar on his hand. The same hand that had just jacked him off. Ethan is traveling with his girlfriend, a mute after an accident, named Hannah.
Ethan is like a little scared rabbit but is so curious. Dane wants Hannah and Ethan more than anything. Treads lightly. Shows them around Paris, whirlwind experience without telling them who he is and how much money he has.
After a magical few days together shit hits the fan and Hannah and Ethan run. Leaving Dane heartbroken. Months pass and Dane fulfills his duty and works as a professor. Funny how months later Hannah and Ethan wind up in Danes class. Still mad, Ethan and Hannah keep their distance. All with Dane pining after them.
After weeks of keeping his distance Dane slowly weasels his way back into their hearts. There are ups and downs and lots of orgasms. Bi awakening with plenty of MM. Everyone gets their happy ending.
Can’t recommend this enough. If you’re looking some fun second chance love, with bi awakening, and a HEA. This is for you.
February 28, 2026
I really enjoy this series and each book has been solid.
Book 1 - 4⭐️
Book 2 - 4.25⭐️
Book 3 - 3.5⭐️
Book 4 - 4⭐️
I’m in a major slump so it took me a while to finish this book and I still enjoyed this book and this series but being in a slump brought my reading down. But that’s no fault of this book.
I enjoyed the MMF dynamic between Dane, Ethan and Hannah. Dane was the funny, lovable character in the book and was the joker of the friend group. He was his playful self in this book and he fell hard and fast for Ethan and Hannah. I really enjoyed Ethan and Hannah’s loving relationship prior to meeting Dane and Ethan’s bi-awakening was handled really well.
I think Hannah got a little left behind in the story though. Having read a few of Berlin’s books now that involve multiple people in a relationship there is always 1 character that gets slightly forgotten in the story. And I felt like that was Hannah. Especially with Hannah being mute I wanted there to be a bit more about her. She was great though and wasn’t someone written as hindered by her disability, which I loved. I just felt like she put all the focus on Ethan’s story and his guilt over their accident vs seeing some of it through Hannah’s eyes.
The spicy scenes were written well and super fun. We get to see most of the characters from the previous books also. There is one more book left in the series focused on Kobi and I like the sound of where that is headed.
Book 1 - 4⭐️
Book 2 - 4.25⭐️
Book 3 - 3.5⭐️
Book 4 - 4⭐️
I’m in a major slump so it took me a while to finish this book and I still enjoyed this book and this series but being in a slump brought my reading down. But that’s no fault of this book.
I enjoyed the MMF dynamic between Dane, Ethan and Hannah. Dane was the funny, lovable character in the book and was the joker of the friend group. He was his playful self in this book and he fell hard and fast for Ethan and Hannah. I really enjoyed Ethan and Hannah’s loving relationship prior to meeting Dane and Ethan’s bi-awakening was handled really well.
I think Hannah got a little left behind in the story though. Having read a few of Berlin’s books now that involve multiple people in a relationship there is always 1 character that gets slightly forgotten in the story. And I felt like that was Hannah. Especially with Hannah being mute I wanted there to be a bit more about her. She was great though and wasn’t someone written as hindered by her disability, which I loved. I just felt like she put all the focus on Ethan’s story and his guilt over their accident vs seeing some of it through Hannah’s eyes.
The spicy scenes were written well and super fun. We get to see most of the characters from the previous books also. There is one more book left in the series focused on Kobi and I like the sound of where that is headed.
March 10, 2026
My favorite Balance of Power book is still the first book (Jake, Elena, Christian). But I did like revisiting the MMF dynamic in this one.
This is Dane's book - he's a genius billionaire who travels the world searching for something he can't quite name (belonging and love basically).
He meets Ethan and Hannah on accident while in Paris - there's definitely some instalust (and arguably instalove) but it works for them. They all have a connection that can't quite explain.
Of course, in true Romance fashion, Paris is not the only place they will run into one another hehe.
The overall pacing of the story is nice, I like seeing each character's POV and learning more about them and how they come to terms with what this type of relationship would look like. I do wish we had gotten to see one of them talk to Christian, Jake, or Elena just to sort of tie together what polyamory in public looks like.
The characters did a bit more telling vs showing than I prefer when it comes to their desires and personalities but it wasn't enough to distract me.
Towards the end there is a "twist" of sorts - without spoiling - I felt like part of it made sense and the other part came out of left field and was a tad overdramatic even for this series lol. It was so close to the ending that it didn't have too much time to really affect my experience but I just have to put it in writing that I found it absurd.
This is Dane's book - he's a genius billionaire who travels the world searching for something he can't quite name (belonging and love basically).
He meets Ethan and Hannah on accident while in Paris - there's definitely some instalust (and arguably instalove) but it works for them. They all have a connection that can't quite explain.
Of course, in true Romance fashion, Paris is not the only place they will run into one another hehe.
The overall pacing of the story is nice, I like seeing each character's POV and learning more about them and how they come to terms with what this type of relationship would look like. I do wish we had gotten to see one of them talk to Christian, Jake, or Elena just to sort of tie together what polyamory in public looks like.
The characters did a bit more telling vs showing than I prefer when it comes to their desires and personalities but it wasn't enough to distract me.
Towards the end there is a "twist" of sorts - without spoiling - I felt like part of it made sense and the other part came out of left field and was a tad overdramatic even for this series lol. It was so close to the ending that it didn't have too much time to really affect my experience but I just have to put it in writing that I found it absurd.
Review of advance copy received from Author
Okay so this is my second book by Berlin Wick and definitely not my last! It was amazing! Witty and carefree in some places, but these characters have an ingrained understanding of each other and what they need.
Dane, rich and carefree, visits Paris before starting a new job and meets Hannah and Ethan who are staying in the same hostel and they hit it off, until Ethan overhears a conversation and he and Hannah leave without a word.
Ethan, bi-curious but unsure how to share that side of himself due to stigma from his father and an upbringing that is honestly quite toxic.
Hannah... a fucking ray of sunshine ❤️ She is so sweet, supportive and steady. She is Ethan's rock while he tries to figure everything out. I'll also admit, Hannah's presentation had me shedding tears!
These characters stole my heart because they had their moments of lightheartedness and jokes, but they carried each other through all of the ups and downs... The absolute heartbreak and the repercussions of other peoples actions. Their strength in their relationship and what they needed is truly inspiring, and that PLOT TWIST had me SCREECHING out loud!
Absolutely loved this book, would 100% recommend!
Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Spice: 🌶🌶🌶🌶🌶
Dane, rich and carefree, visits Paris before starting a new job and meets Hannah and Ethan who are staying in the same hostel and they hit it off, until Ethan overhears a conversation and he and Hannah leave without a word.
Ethan, bi-curious but unsure how to share that side of himself due to stigma from his father and an upbringing that is honestly quite toxic.
Hannah... a fucking ray of sunshine ❤️ She is so sweet, supportive and steady. She is Ethan's rock while he tries to figure everything out. I'll also admit, Hannah's presentation had me shedding tears!
These characters stole my heart because they had their moments of lightheartedness and jokes, but they carried each other through all of the ups and downs... The absolute heartbreak and the repercussions of other peoples actions. Their strength in their relationship and what they needed is truly inspiring, and that PLOT TWIST had me SCREECHING out loud!
Absolutely loved this book, would 100% recommend!
Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Spice: 🌶🌶🌶🌶🌶
September 20, 2026
I have loved every book in this series, but this one definitely has my heart!
Yes, it's incredibly sexy and the tension crackles throughout, but beyond that is a deep connection between all three of these characters and I couldn't help but fall for them as they overcome so many challenges.
I immediately loved Dane and I have been so excited for his story. He's confident, strong, and so accepting and I thought he was absolutely perfect to be the partner and guide that Ethan and Hannah needed and deserved. They've all been through so much trauma and the way they support and love each other is so heartwarming and redeeming.
The development of each of these characters in addition to the relationship development is perfect. I fell for each of them as individuals as well as how they were together.
The audiobook narration by Savannah Thomas, Ash Beverly, and Aaron Donahue was stellar. I loved that we got individual voices for both Dane and Ethan and Ash and Aaron were perfect in those roles. Savannah is always a favorite and she was absoluely perfect as Hannah and I felt like she did such an incredible job.
TROPES:
MMF
Bi-Awakening
ASL Rep
Forced Proximity
Found Family
Thank you to Berlin Wick for the ALC.
Yes, it's incredibly sexy and the tension crackles throughout, but beyond that is a deep connection between all three of these characters and I couldn't help but fall for them as they overcome so many challenges.
I immediately loved Dane and I have been so excited for his story. He's confident, strong, and so accepting and I thought he was absolutely perfect to be the partner and guide that Ethan and Hannah needed and deserved. They've all been through so much trauma and the way they support and love each other is so heartwarming and redeeming.
The development of each of these characters in addition to the relationship development is perfect. I fell for each of them as individuals as well as how they were together.
The audiobook narration by Savannah Thomas, Ash Beverly, and Aaron Donahue was stellar. I loved that we got individual voices for both Dane and Ethan and Ash and Aaron were perfect in those roles. Savannah is always a favorite and she was absoluely perfect as Hannah and I felt like she did such an incredible job.
TROPES:
MMF
Bi-Awakening
ASL Rep
Forced Proximity
Found Family
Thank you to Berlin Wick for the ALC.
October 8, 2026
4.5⭐️ 3.5🌶️
This was such a beautiful and unexpectedly emotional read. I went in expecting a spicy MMF romance and ended up getting so much more.
Hannah completely stole my heart. I loved her strength, resilience and personality, and I really appreciated the way her being nonverbal was represented. She never felt defined by it, and I loved how naturally the story showed that communication can look different for everyone.
I also really loved the relationship between the three of them. The spice absolutely delivered 🌶️ but their connection had so much more emotional depth than I expected. They challenged, supported and became a safe space for each other, which made the romance work so well for me.
🎧 Savannah Thomas, Ash Beverly and Aaron Donahue were SO good together. The duet narration brought the banter, tension and emotional moments to life perfectly, and all three narrators felt equally strong.
This was such a beautiful and unexpectedly emotional read. I went in expecting a spicy MMF romance and ended up getting so much more.
Hannah completely stole my heart. I loved her strength, resilience and personality, and I really appreciated the way her being nonverbal was represented. She never felt defined by it, and I loved how naturally the story showed that communication can look different for everyone.
I also really loved the relationship between the three of them. The spice absolutely delivered 🌶️ but their connection had so much more emotional depth than I expected. They challenged, supported and became a safe space for each other, which made the romance work so well for me.
🎧 Savannah Thomas, Ash Beverly and Aaron Donahue were SO good together. The duet narration brought the banter, tension and emotional moments to life perfectly, and all three narrators felt equally strong.
February 19, 2026
“I never have to go back to Paris again because this Eiffel Tower just became my favorite”
* Bi-Awakening
* MMF
* Secret Identity
* Golden Retriever MMC
* Grumpy MMC
* Confident FMC
* ASL Rep
* Forced Proximity
* Found Family
* Multi POV
I absolutely devoured this book and love these characters dearly. This one had me going through all the feels as she often does with her books.Such a beautiful story that explores self discovery, introspection, and personal growth.
Berlin’s contemporary romances really do offer something for everyone. If you haven’t read once of her books you absolutely must 💛
Thank you to Berlin Wick and The Smuthood for the arc.
* Bi-Awakening
* MMF
* Secret Identity
* Golden Retriever MMC
* Grumpy MMC
* Confident FMC
* ASL Rep
* Forced Proximity
* Found Family
* Multi POV
I absolutely devoured this book and love these characters dearly. This one had me going through all the feels as she often does with her books.Such a beautiful story that explores self discovery, introspection, and personal growth.
Berlin’s contemporary romances really do offer something for everyone. If you haven’t read once of her books you absolutely must 💛
Thank you to Berlin Wick and The Smuthood for the arc.
September 19, 2026
Are you ready for more in the Balance of Power series? The Lessons We Learn is a beautiful MMF romance starring Dane, Ethan and Hannah. It is an emotional romance with many layers. All of these characters have experienced a devastating loss. Want to know more?
The duet performance was beyond extraordinary. Savannah Thomas was sensational as kind, sweet, strong, beautiful, brave nonverbal Hannah. I could feel her uncertainty, happiness, intelligence, determination and love through her voice. Ash Beverly was spectacular as grumpy, uncertain/unhappy with the current direction of his life, Ethan. His character was afraid of his sexuality until Dane. He loves Hannah deep.y and comes to love Dane as well. His commanding alpha tone was delightful. Aaron Donahue was absolutely magnificent as charming, loving, compassionate, brilliant Dane. His love and care for Hannah, Ethan and his friends was evident in his actions and voice. His sexy, sultry tone was positively swoon worthy. I highly recommend listening to this audiobook.
Thanks to Berlin Wick for this fabulous ALC.
AUDIOBOOK REVIEW: Story 5 stars Narration 5 stars
The duet performance was beyond extraordinary. Savannah Thomas was sensational as kind, sweet, strong, beautiful, brave nonverbal Hannah. I could feel her uncertainty, happiness, intelligence, determination and love through her voice. Ash Beverly was spectacular as grumpy, uncertain/unhappy with the current direction of his life, Ethan. His character was afraid of his sexuality until Dane. He loves Hannah deep.y and comes to love Dane as well. His commanding alpha tone was delightful. Aaron Donahue was absolutely magnificent as charming, loving, compassionate, brilliant Dane. His love and care for Hannah, Ethan and his friends was evident in his actions and voice. His sexy, sultry tone was positively swoon worthy. I highly recommend listening to this audiobook.
Thanks to Berlin Wick for this fabulous ALC.
AUDIOBOOK REVIEW: Story 5 stars Narration 5 stars
September 22, 2026
I received an advance listening copy from the author.
This audiobook was absolutely phenomenal. This book is about a throuple and there is a different narrator for each person. I personally feel like they were all excellently selected. Hannah is nonverbal and speaks using asl, so her parts were her thoughts and what she was signing. I've never listened to an audiobook before that included an asl speaker and I thought it was incredibly done.
The story itself had me captivated. It starts as a chance meeting on a Europe trip and then turns into so much more. There is a twist you find out near the end that had me literally gasping out loud. I throughly enjoyed this story and highly recommend.
This audiobook was absolutely phenomenal. This book is about a throuple and there is a different narrator for each person. I personally feel like they were all excellently selected. Hannah is nonverbal and speaks using asl, so her parts were her thoughts and what she was signing. I've never listened to an audiobook before that included an asl speaker and I thought it was incredibly done.
The story itself had me captivated. It starts as a chance meeting on a Europe trip and then turns into so much more. There is a twist you find out near the end that had me literally gasping out loud. I throughly enjoyed this story and highly recommend.
September 28, 2026
4🌶️
•MMF
•Bi awakening
•ASL Rep
I mean the first scene starts with a glory hole and if that doesn’t sell you then idk what will! Maybe that the boyfriends become boyfriends! seriously though, Savannah, Ash, and Aaron all ATE with this audio! Dane had me laughing because he was such a fun extrovert character who brought out the best in Ethan and I loved Hannah’s confidence! Berlin can do no wrong in my book and the spice is HOT
•MMF
•Bi awakening
•ASL Rep
I mean the first scene starts with a glory hole and if that doesn’t sell you then idk what will! Maybe that the boyfriends become boyfriends! seriously though, Savannah, Ash, and Aaron all ATE with this audio! Dane had me laughing because he was such a fun extrovert character who brought out the best in Ethan and I loved Hannah’s confidence! Berlin can do no wrong in my book and the spice is HOT
Review of advance copy received from Author
Berlin never fails to keep me enthralled in her books s8nce the first book I read of hers. i start reading and I don't ever want to put it down. This book is no different.
We start out in Paris with Dane when he's on a backpacking trip and decides to go to a s*x club. He has a good time there with a man and the man leaves after. Later that nights he meets a couple staying at the same hostel he's staying at and instantly feels attracted to them.
Ethan is Hannah's boyfriend. They both have been together for years. Hannah is nonverbal and communicates through ASL. I really loved them both and how open and supportive Hannah is with Ethan's bi-curiosity.
He proposes he shows them Paris and they have a good time. After a misunderstanding a few days later they leave. Dane is heartbroken. But a month later, he is set to start teaching a college class and guess who's two of his students? Ethan and Hannah.
Berlin Wick never disappoints with her books. She brings the spice, she brings the plot, the emotional moments that will have you teary eyed.
There won't ever be a book by Berlin that I won't read. I have followed her since her debut book and will stick with her forever.
***ALC Review ***
These three narrators were made for this book. Aaron Donahue, Ash Beverly and Savannah Thomas just brought the book to life. Aaron was made to play Dane and he brought out his personality with just his voice perfectly. Ash as Ethan was phenomenal. Ethan is serious and a grump and Ash really played that well. Savannah as Hannah was perfect. She conveyed Hannah's calmness beautifully.
Thank you Berlin Wick for the book in exchange for my honest opinion.
We start out in Paris with Dane when he's on a backpacking trip and decides to go to a s*x club. He has a good time there with a man and the man leaves after. Later that nights he meets a couple staying at the same hostel he's staying at and instantly feels attracted to them.
Ethan is Hannah's boyfriend. They both have been together for years. Hannah is nonverbal and communicates through ASL. I really loved them both and how open and supportive Hannah is with Ethan's bi-curiosity.
He proposes he shows them Paris and they have a good time. After a misunderstanding a few days later they leave. Dane is heartbroken. But a month later, he is set to start teaching a college class and guess who's two of his students? Ethan and Hannah.
Berlin Wick never disappoints with her books. She brings the spice, she brings the plot, the emotional moments that will have you teary eyed.
There won't ever be a book by Berlin that I won't read. I have followed her since her debut book and will stick with her forever.
***ALC Review ***
These three narrators were made for this book. Aaron Donahue, Ash Beverly and Savannah Thomas just brought the book to life. Aaron was made to play Dane and he brought out his personality with just his voice perfectly. Ash as Ethan was phenomenal. Ethan is serious and a grump and Ash really played that well. Savannah as Hannah was perfect. She conveyed Hannah's calmness beautifully.
Thank you Berlin Wick for the book in exchange for my honest opinion.
February 9, 2026
9/2026
Audiobook review: The Lessons We Learn burns even hotter on audiobook. Berlin Wick has done it again, choosing three narrators who blended seamlessly in duet for a stellar performance. Aaron Donahue was absolute Dane perfection! Like all her other audios.. highly recommend!! 🔥🔥
*******
You may want to not read this in public…
🔥🥵🌶️
Berlin Wick is at it again with another smoking hot addition to her Balance of Power series. The Lessons We Learn is a well layered story with plenty of bite, both emotionally and sexually. Another winner in my opinion and I’m desperate for more!
Thank you Berlin for the ARC.
Audiobook review: The Lessons We Learn burns even hotter on audiobook. Berlin Wick has done it again, choosing three narrators who blended seamlessly in duet for a stellar performance. Aaron Donahue was absolute Dane perfection! Like all her other audios.. highly recommend!! 🔥🔥
*******
You may want to not read this in public…
🔥🥵🌶️
Berlin Wick is at it again with another smoking hot addition to her Balance of Power series. The Lessons We Learn is a well layered story with plenty of bite, both emotionally and sexually. Another winner in my opinion and I’m desperate for more!
Thank you Berlin for the ARC.
February 19, 2026
The Lessons We Learn by Berlin Wick is the fourth and final book in the Balance of Power series. It is a MARVELOUS and ADDICTIVE read. Once again Wick proves why she is such an amazing author! I adore her ability to showcase strong character development, satisfying plot pacing, write delightful banter, and craft a p@ssionate, deliciously h0t sp!cy scene... or several. Her writing style is purposeful, smooth and thoroughly entertaining.
Dane - What's not to love about him? He is a carefree, golden retriever billionaire with a big personality who knows who he is and is comfortable with it. I love that he allowed himself to have feelings for not only one, but TWO people. For all of his bad@ss charm and loud confidence, he was also unexpectedly tender at times, which I was ALL FOR!
Hannah is a vibrant, sweet and steady FMC who has experienced serious trauma (including with one of the MCs, but not because of him), but persevered and seeks to move on. Her ability to allow Ethan to be vulnerable and explore his feelings without excessive jealousy or judgement is exquisite. She also knows who she is and is comfortable with that.
Ethan is by far the most complex MC of the three. I enjoyed his beautiful transformation arc -- from being honest with himself being bi-curious all the way to standing up to a horrible family member. Navigating his emotional journey all while still showing Hannah how much he cared about and respected her.
It was breathtaking to watch Ethan navigate a myriad of emotions (grief, doubt, excitement, vulnerability, acceptance) as he explored how his evolving feelings changed his life and relationships. Through Hannah's and Dane's support and authenticity, I think Ethan feels the necessary freedom to explore his des!res. Each individual MCs personal growth felt "real" and yet unexpected at times.
Clearly with a triad, there are going to be some fabulously sp!cy situations. Per usual, Berlin Wick delivered some masterpieces. Each chapter had its own reason to make me fan myself, frequently while blushing. And there were many powerful moments of int!macy that felt purposeful, instead of simply sm*t for sm*ts sake. It helped move forward the narrative and emotional growth of the characters.
IYKYK: Napkins & Mashed Potatoes, Eiffel Tower scene
Overall, I cannot recommend The Lessons We Learn by Berlin Wick highly enough. It was a multi-layered, magnificently emotional read that gave me all the big feels. It is perfect for readers who crave a moody, open‑door sp!cy narrative that explores the longing for genuine connection. The MCs have explosive chemistry that was explored through plenty of seduct!ve scenes that will live rent-free in my head.
A huge thank you to Berlin Wick and The Smuthood for the ARC. All opinions are my own.
Tropes: Bi-awakening, Polyamorous, Forced Proximity, Secret Identity, Found Family, ASL Rep
Favorite Quotes:
“I might be silent but I have a lot to say.”
“Love is a complete understatement of how I feel for them.”
“What’s the plan and do I need my attorney or my shovel?”
“These two are taking over my soul and there’s nothing I can do to stop it.”
“My cheeks flush pink because it’s been a long time since a man flirted with me and never has a man had the audacity to do it just feet away from my boyfriend. Her eyes connect with mine and she str!ps her clothes off slowly, seduct!vely. Like she’s the one in full control. Who am I kidding? She’s always in control when it comes to the two of us.”
“Well, I never have to go back to Paris again because this Eiffel Tower just became my favorite.”
Stars: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Spice: 🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️
HEA: Yes
Cliffhanger: No
POV: Multiple 1st person, alternating
Series / Standalone: Standalone in interconnected series.
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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ I loved this book
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ I really liked this book
⭐️⭐️⭐️ I liked this book
⭐️⭐️ Meh… bored or annoyed
⭐️ Seriously? Not worth it
🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️ INFERNO. P@nty melting
🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️ Blazing h0t
🌶️🌶️🌶️ Now we’re talking
🌶️🌶️ Meh… uninspired missionary
🌶️ Does weak f0replay count?
Dane - What's not to love about him? He is a carefree, golden retriever billionaire with a big personality who knows who he is and is comfortable with it. I love that he allowed himself to have feelings for not only one, but TWO people. For all of his bad@ss charm and loud confidence, he was also unexpectedly tender at times, which I was ALL FOR!
Hannah is a vibrant, sweet and steady FMC who has experienced serious trauma (including with one of the MCs, but not because of him), but persevered and seeks to move on. Her ability to allow Ethan to be vulnerable and explore his feelings without excessive jealousy or judgement is exquisite. She also knows who she is and is comfortable with that.
Ethan is by far the most complex MC of the three. I enjoyed his beautiful transformation arc -- from being honest with himself being bi-curious all the way to standing up to a horrible family member. Navigating his emotional journey all while still showing Hannah how much he cared about and respected her.
It was breathtaking to watch Ethan navigate a myriad of emotions (grief, doubt, excitement, vulnerability, acceptance) as he explored how his evolving feelings changed his life and relationships. Through Hannah's and Dane's support and authenticity, I think Ethan feels the necessary freedom to explore his des!res. Each individual MCs personal growth felt "real" and yet unexpected at times.
Clearly with a triad, there are going to be some fabulously sp!cy situations. Per usual, Berlin Wick delivered some masterpieces. Each chapter had its own reason to make me fan myself, frequently while blushing. And there were many powerful moments of int!macy that felt purposeful, instead of simply sm*t for sm*ts sake. It helped move forward the narrative and emotional growth of the characters.
IYKYK: Napkins & Mashed Potatoes, Eiffel Tower scene
Overall, I cannot recommend The Lessons We Learn by Berlin Wick highly enough. It was a multi-layered, magnificently emotional read that gave me all the big feels. It is perfect for readers who crave a moody, open‑door sp!cy narrative that explores the longing for genuine connection. The MCs have explosive chemistry that was explored through plenty of seduct!ve scenes that will live rent-free in my head.
A huge thank you to Berlin Wick and The Smuthood for the ARC. All opinions are my own.
Tropes: Bi-awakening, Polyamorous, Forced Proximity, Secret Identity, Found Family, ASL Rep
Favorite Quotes:
“I might be silent but I have a lot to say.”
“Love is a complete understatement of how I feel for them.”
“What’s the plan and do I need my attorney or my shovel?”
“These two are taking over my soul and there’s nothing I can do to stop it.”
“My cheeks flush pink because it’s been a long time since a man flirted with me and never has a man had the audacity to do it just feet away from my boyfriend. Her eyes connect with mine and she str!ps her clothes off slowly, seduct!vely. Like she’s the one in full control. Who am I kidding? She’s always in control when it comes to the two of us.”
“Well, I never have to go back to Paris again because this Eiffel Tower just became my favorite.”
Stars: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Spice: 🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️
HEA: Yes
Cliffhanger: No
POV: Multiple 1st person, alternating
Series / Standalone: Standalone in interconnected series.
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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ I loved this book
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ I really liked this book
⭐️⭐️⭐️ I liked this book
⭐️⭐️ Meh… bored or annoyed
⭐️ Seriously? Not worth it
🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️ INFERNO. P@nty melting
🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️ Blazing h0t
🌶️🌶️🌶️ Now we’re talking
🌶️🌶️ Meh… uninspired missionary
🌶️ Does weak f0replay count?
September 14, 2026
❤️🔥 Three people, one unexpected connection, and a journey where love, healing, and a whole lot of chemistry collide. ❤️🔥
Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐☆ (4/5)
Spice-meter: 🌶️🌶️🌶️☆☆ (3/5)
Audiobook: 🎧 Full-Cast Duet
Series: Balance of Power, Book 4 (interconnected standalone)
HEA: Yes
The Lessons We Learn was such a beautiful and surprisingly emotional addition to the Balance of Power series. This is an MMF romance with a bisexual awakening, but what really worked for me was that the relationship never felt like it was only about the spice. These three have some seriously hot moments, but they also challenge, support, and ultimately heal each other. They don't have the easiest journey, but watching them figure out what this relationship means for each of them made the emotional side of the story just as important as the romance.
And then there’s Hannah. This woman completely stole my heart. Her strength, resilience, and sheer joy for life had me obsessed with her from the beginning. I also really appreciated how Berlin Wick wrote her as a nonverbal character. Hannah is incredibly expressive, and the story beautifully shows that communication and connection are about so much more than having a voice. She brings these two men together in a way that makes them feel complete, and I honestly can't imagine the relationship without her.
The spice absolutely delivers too. It’s bold and steamy, but it never feels like spice just for the sake of spice. The intimate moments deepen the relationships, move the story forward, and raise the emotional stakes. Basically: hot because it means something, which is exactly how I like it.
I also really enjoyed getting each character’s POV and seeing their individual thoughts, insecurities, and feelings as they navigate a relationship that doesn't exactly fit the traditional mold. The pacing worked well for me, and seeing more of the characters from the previous books was another nice bonus.
What I Loved
✔️ Hannah’s strength, resilience, and incredible personality
✔️ Beautiful representation of a nonverbal FMC
✔️ The emotional depth behind the romance
✔️ MMF relationship that feels meaningful and well developed
✔️ Hot spice that actually adds to the story
✔️ Great character development through multiple POVs
✔️ Healing, love, and finding each other
✔️ Getting to see more familiar characters from the series
✔️ Found family vibes and a beautiful HEA
🎧 Narration
The full-cast duet narration was SO good!
Savannah Thomas, Ash Beverly, and Aaron Donahue absolutely nailed this full-cast duet. I loved how naturally the three voices worked together, and the emotions between the characters came through so clearly from the very beginning. Each narrator brought something different to the story, but they still felt completely connected as a group.
Usually I can pick one narrator who stands out the most, but honestly, I wouldn’t even know who to choose here. All three were equally strong, and the combination of their performances made this audiobook such an enjoyable listen. The banter, emotions, tension, and softer moments all felt effortless, which really pulled me further into the story.
Tropes & Vibes
✔️ MMF
✔️ Bisexual Awakening
✔️ ASL Representation
✔️ Secret Identity
✔️ Forced Proximity
✔️ Found Family
✔️ Golden Retriever MMC
✔️ Grumpy MMC
✔️ Confident FMC
✔️ Multi POV
✔️ Contemporary Romance
✔️ Emotional Healing
✔️ Spicy Romance
Final Thoughts
The Lessons We Learn was a really enjoyable and emotional read that gave me everything I want from a good MMF romance: chemistry, spice, character development, vulnerability, and a relationship that actually feels meaningful.
Hannah was easily the standout for me, and I loved seeing how these three slowly learned to trust each other, embrace what they had, and become stronger together.
Add in the found family, the interconnected characters, the fantastic full-cast narration, and a beautiful HEA, and this was an easy 4-star read for me.
If you enjoy MMF romance with a bisexual awakening, confident heroines, grumpy and golden-retriever MMCs, emotional healing, found family, and spice with substance, definitely add this one to your list.
Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐☆ (4/5)
Spice-meter: 🌶️🌶️🌶️☆☆ (3/5)
Audiobook: 🎧 Full-Cast Duet
Series: Balance of Power, Book 4 (interconnected standalone)
HEA: Yes
The Lessons We Learn was such a beautiful and surprisingly emotional addition to the Balance of Power series. This is an MMF romance with a bisexual awakening, but what really worked for me was that the relationship never felt like it was only about the spice. These three have some seriously hot moments, but they also challenge, support, and ultimately heal each other. They don't have the easiest journey, but watching them figure out what this relationship means for each of them made the emotional side of the story just as important as the romance.
And then there’s Hannah. This woman completely stole my heart. Her strength, resilience, and sheer joy for life had me obsessed with her from the beginning. I also really appreciated how Berlin Wick wrote her as a nonverbal character. Hannah is incredibly expressive, and the story beautifully shows that communication and connection are about so much more than having a voice. She brings these two men together in a way that makes them feel complete, and I honestly can't imagine the relationship without her.
The spice absolutely delivers too. It’s bold and steamy, but it never feels like spice just for the sake of spice. The intimate moments deepen the relationships, move the story forward, and raise the emotional stakes. Basically: hot because it means something, which is exactly how I like it.
I also really enjoyed getting each character’s POV and seeing their individual thoughts, insecurities, and feelings as they navigate a relationship that doesn't exactly fit the traditional mold. The pacing worked well for me, and seeing more of the characters from the previous books was another nice bonus.
What I Loved
✔️ Hannah’s strength, resilience, and incredible personality
✔️ Beautiful representation of a nonverbal FMC
✔️ The emotional depth behind the romance
✔️ MMF relationship that feels meaningful and well developed
✔️ Hot spice that actually adds to the story
✔️ Great character development through multiple POVs
✔️ Healing, love, and finding each other
✔️ Getting to see more familiar characters from the series
✔️ Found family vibes and a beautiful HEA
🎧 Narration
The full-cast duet narration was SO good!
Savannah Thomas, Ash Beverly, and Aaron Donahue absolutely nailed this full-cast duet. I loved how naturally the three voices worked together, and the emotions between the characters came through so clearly from the very beginning. Each narrator brought something different to the story, but they still felt completely connected as a group.
Usually I can pick one narrator who stands out the most, but honestly, I wouldn’t even know who to choose here. All three were equally strong, and the combination of their performances made this audiobook such an enjoyable listen. The banter, emotions, tension, and softer moments all felt effortless, which really pulled me further into the story.
Tropes & Vibes
✔️ MMF
✔️ Bisexual Awakening
✔️ ASL Representation
✔️ Secret Identity
✔️ Forced Proximity
✔️ Found Family
✔️ Golden Retriever MMC
✔️ Grumpy MMC
✔️ Confident FMC
✔️ Multi POV
✔️ Contemporary Romance
✔️ Emotional Healing
✔️ Spicy Romance
Final Thoughts
The Lessons We Learn was a really enjoyable and emotional read that gave me everything I want from a good MMF romance: chemistry, spice, character development, vulnerability, and a relationship that actually feels meaningful.
Hannah was easily the standout for me, and I loved seeing how these three slowly learned to trust each other, embrace what they had, and become stronger together.
Add in the found family, the interconnected characters, the fantastic full-cast narration, and a beautiful HEA, and this was an easy 4-star read for me.
If you enjoy MMF romance with a bisexual awakening, confident heroines, grumpy and golden-retriever MMCs, emotional healing, found family, and spice with substance, definitely add this one to your list.
September 17, 2026
Amazing Story, Characters & Narration🎧A Steamy Trifecta!!
The Lessons We Learn
Balance of Power, Book 4
By: Berlin Wick
Narrated by: Savannah Thomas, Ash Beverly and Aaron Donahue
Berlin Wick blows me away with another amazing novel, and I loved everything about it, from her wonderful writing style to the fabulous characters and storylines she created to the perfectly cast narrators who bring it all to life, from the pages to your ears. The story swept me right in, grabbed my attention, and held it hostage the entire time. The complexity of the characters is remarkable, from their backstories to who they were when they met, with each just as interesting as the other. Dane Campbell enjoys traveling, exploring different places and spending time with different people. In Paris he visits one of his favorite kink clubs, enjoys those glorious glory holes, and had a memorable experience with his anonymous partner, one he wanted more of, but did not push it. Back at the hostel, a couple checks in: Hannah Parker and Ethan Russo, and there was something about them that drew him to them. When he realized who Ethan was, he knew he needed to get to know them and spend time with them. Hannah and Ethan were in a car accident that left both with serious injuries, with her losing her voice, and him losing something too, but they survived, still have each other, alive and making the best of it. Hannah knows Ethan is bi-curious and is pushing him to give in to his desires, not only willing to support him but to watch or even join him too. Fate brought these three together, not only in the club but in the hostel, and that is it for them either. Dane left France broken-hearted and returned to the States to teach courses at Polytech U, and it surprised him who was in his class. Wick has outdone herself with their story, a trifecta of a romance, a masterfully crafted, multilayered story that has the perfect balance of drama, angst, an eye-opening twist, heartfelt emotions, and a steamy MMF poly romance. The writing, plot, and world-building are incredible, as are the character growth and development, some of the best. There are some amazing side and secondary characters in this book and series too. Berlin Wick, thank you for another amazing and superbly entertaining story, and emotional rollercoaster ride.
🎧📚🎧 Savannah Thomas, Ash Beverly, and Aaron Donahue did a fabulous job voicing the characters. I loved how they took each role and made it their own, sounding believable and just as I imagined the characters would sound. They embodied their characters completely, grasping every facet of their personalities, as well as their passion and every emotion, making experience it all. Wick’s non-verbal representation and dialogue in the book were well done, and Thomas was amazing at not only voicing Hannah but playing her role, showcasing her spirited personality, fierceness, strength, and determination. Beverly was just as amazing as Ethan, nailing his angst and his insecurities as he was finding himself in his bi-awakening and growing as his character grew. Donahue’s take on Dane was perfection, and he was a natural in the role, nailing it from his vulnerabilities to his confidence and all in between. They were all fantastic performing the roles of the side/secondary characters too. These three make a great team, with voices and talent that complement each other, and an engaging performance that rivets you to the story while taking the already amazing story to another level.
The Lessons We Learn
Balance of Power, Book 4
By: Berlin Wick
Narrated by: Savannah Thomas, Ash Beverly and Aaron Donahue
Berlin Wick blows me away with another amazing novel, and I loved everything about it, from her wonderful writing style to the fabulous characters and storylines she created to the perfectly cast narrators who bring it all to life, from the pages to your ears. The story swept me right in, grabbed my attention, and held it hostage the entire time. The complexity of the characters is remarkable, from their backstories to who they were when they met, with each just as interesting as the other. Dane Campbell enjoys traveling, exploring different places and spending time with different people. In Paris he visits one of his favorite kink clubs, enjoys those glorious glory holes, and had a memorable experience with his anonymous partner, one he wanted more of, but did not push it. Back at the hostel, a couple checks in: Hannah Parker and Ethan Russo, and there was something about them that drew him to them. When he realized who Ethan was, he knew he needed to get to know them and spend time with them. Hannah and Ethan were in a car accident that left both with serious injuries, with her losing her voice, and him losing something too, but they survived, still have each other, alive and making the best of it. Hannah knows Ethan is bi-curious and is pushing him to give in to his desires, not only willing to support him but to watch or even join him too. Fate brought these three together, not only in the club but in the hostel, and that is it for them either. Dane left France broken-hearted and returned to the States to teach courses at Polytech U, and it surprised him who was in his class. Wick has outdone herself with their story, a trifecta of a romance, a masterfully crafted, multilayered story that has the perfect balance of drama, angst, an eye-opening twist, heartfelt emotions, and a steamy MMF poly romance. The writing, plot, and world-building are incredible, as are the character growth and development, some of the best. There are some amazing side and secondary characters in this book and series too. Berlin Wick, thank you for another amazing and superbly entertaining story, and emotional rollercoaster ride.
🎧📚🎧 Savannah Thomas, Ash Beverly, and Aaron Donahue did a fabulous job voicing the characters. I loved how they took each role and made it their own, sounding believable and just as I imagined the characters would sound. They embodied their characters completely, grasping every facet of their personalities, as well as their passion and every emotion, making experience it all. Wick’s non-verbal representation and dialogue in the book were well done, and Thomas was amazing at not only voicing Hannah but playing her role, showcasing her spirited personality, fierceness, strength, and determination. Beverly was just as amazing as Ethan, nailing his angst and his insecurities as he was finding himself in his bi-awakening and growing as his character grew. Donahue’s take on Dane was perfection, and he was a natural in the role, nailing it from his vulnerabilities to his confidence and all in between. They were all fantastic performing the roles of the side/secondary characters too. These three make a great team, with voices and talent that complement each other, and an engaging performance that rivets you to the story while taking the already amazing story to another level.
February 18, 2026
This book is messy in the best way.
It’s morally complicated, emotionally layered, sexually charged, and somehow still soft where it counts.
Dane – The Man Who Has Everything and Nothing
Dane opens this story in a literal Parisian sex club, chasing pleasure like it’s oxygen. A tech genius who accidentally helped launch the AI revolution, he’s rich beyond reason, rootless by choice, and emotionally running from guilt he doesn’t know how to sit with.
He lives in hostels instead of hotels.
He chooses chaos over comfort.
Glory holes over relationships.
And yet… underneath all that freedom is a man aching for stability.
When he gives and receives pleasure from a stranger behind a wall and only catches a glimpse of a checkmark-shaped scar on a hand — that should’ve been the end of it.
Except it isn’t.
Because fate has a wicked sense of humor.
Ethan & Hannah – Trauma, Loyalty, and Desire
Ethan isn’t reckless like Dane. He’s contained. Guarded. Haunted.
Former baseball star. Career ended by a drunk driver.
Financial debt hanging over him.
A father who controls him through obligation.
And a girlfriend he would sacrifice anything for.
Hannah is nonverbal, fiercely intelligent, emotionally steady, and more perceptive than anyone gives her credit for. The accident left her scarred physically. Ethan is scarred internally.
Their relationship is built on loyalty. Survival. Love.
But not full honesty.
When Dane realizes the man from the club is his hostel roommate — and sees that same checkmark scar — everything shifts. And when he meets Hannah and sees her matching trauma written into her skin, the story becomes something deeper than just sex.
It becomes about:
Exploration vs. betrayal
Curiosity vs. identity
Love vs. possession
Freedom vs. fear
The Dynamic (And Why It Works)
This isn’t just a spicy bi-awakening romance.
It’s a slow unraveling of three people trying to understand:
Who they are
What they want
And whether desire makes them selfish
Ethan questioning his attraction to men.
Hannah encouraging exploration instead of suppressing it.
Dane falling harder than he ever planned to.
The tension isn’t just physical — it’s emotional. Especially when Ethan spirals after learning Dane might “always do this,” believing he manipulated their environment. That moment in the hostel when Ethan says, “He used us”? That hurt.
Because you can feel that this wasn’t casual for any of them.
The Professor Twist? Unhinged.
When they end up in Seattle and Dane is suddenly their MBA professor?
The AUDACITY.
And when Ethan decides to get payback — sending that video to Dane mid-class?
Power shift.
Dominance flip.
Delicious chaos.
Ethan stepping into confidence — sexually and emotionally — especially in front of his controlling father? That growth arc was everything.
What This Book Does Well
✔ Explores bisexuality without shame
✔ Portrays disability respectfully and powerfully
✔ Handles trauma with nuance
✔ Builds tension through restraint and miscommunication
✔ Gives us a poly dynamic that feels intentional, not gimmicky
✔ Actually delivers emotional growth
This isn’t just about sex in Paris. It’s about reclaiming identity after trauma. It’s about unlearning shame. It’s about choosing love without shrinking yourself.
It’s morally complicated, emotionally layered, sexually charged, and somehow still soft where it counts.
Dane – The Man Who Has Everything and Nothing
Dane opens this story in a literal Parisian sex club, chasing pleasure like it’s oxygen. A tech genius who accidentally helped launch the AI revolution, he’s rich beyond reason, rootless by choice, and emotionally running from guilt he doesn’t know how to sit with.
He lives in hostels instead of hotels.
He chooses chaos over comfort.
Glory holes over relationships.
And yet… underneath all that freedom is a man aching for stability.
When he gives and receives pleasure from a stranger behind a wall and only catches a glimpse of a checkmark-shaped scar on a hand — that should’ve been the end of it.
Except it isn’t.
Because fate has a wicked sense of humor.
Ethan & Hannah – Trauma, Loyalty, and Desire
Ethan isn’t reckless like Dane. He’s contained. Guarded. Haunted.
Former baseball star. Career ended by a drunk driver.
Financial debt hanging over him.
A father who controls him through obligation.
And a girlfriend he would sacrifice anything for.
Hannah is nonverbal, fiercely intelligent, emotionally steady, and more perceptive than anyone gives her credit for. The accident left her scarred physically. Ethan is scarred internally.
Their relationship is built on loyalty. Survival. Love.
But not full honesty.
When Dane realizes the man from the club is his hostel roommate — and sees that same checkmark scar — everything shifts. And when he meets Hannah and sees her matching trauma written into her skin, the story becomes something deeper than just sex.
It becomes about:
Exploration vs. betrayal
Curiosity vs. identity
Love vs. possession
Freedom vs. fear
The Dynamic (And Why It Works)
This isn’t just a spicy bi-awakening romance.
It’s a slow unraveling of three people trying to understand:
Who they are
What they want
And whether desire makes them selfish
Ethan questioning his attraction to men.
Hannah encouraging exploration instead of suppressing it.
Dane falling harder than he ever planned to.
The tension isn’t just physical — it’s emotional. Especially when Ethan spirals after learning Dane might “always do this,” believing he manipulated their environment. That moment in the hostel when Ethan says, “He used us”? That hurt.
Because you can feel that this wasn’t casual for any of them.
The Professor Twist? Unhinged.
When they end up in Seattle and Dane is suddenly their MBA professor?
The AUDACITY.
And when Ethan decides to get payback — sending that video to Dane mid-class?
Power shift.
Dominance flip.
Delicious chaos.
Ethan stepping into confidence — sexually and emotionally — especially in front of his controlling father? That growth arc was everything.
What This Book Does Well
✔ Explores bisexuality without shame
✔ Portrays disability respectfully and powerfully
✔ Handles trauma with nuance
✔ Builds tension through restraint and miscommunication
✔ Gives us a poly dynamic that feels intentional, not gimmicky
✔ Actually delivers emotional growth
This isn’t just about sex in Paris. It’s about reclaiming identity after trauma. It’s about unlearning shame. It’s about choosing love without shrinking yourself.
September 24, 2026
ALC Review | The Lessons We Learn - Berlin Wick
DANE, MY MAN😍 It was finally time for us to truly meet Dane and I couldn’t have been more excited for his story!!
This story, honestly, Dane, Ethan and Hannah stole my heart🥹 They each had such a strong story to represent and tell.
Dane is such a fun and characterful character. A happy-go-lucky guy who also hides behind his charm and gorgeous smile. And even while having the best found family, he feels like he’s in a different stage of life as his friends are, which can feel lonely. He has so many layers and I loved how open and secure he is with his sexuality and how empathetic he is.
Which brings me to Ethan, who is so conflicted about his sexuality. He has a beautiful relationship with Hannah and their bond and honesty is so refreshing. Most of the time I’m like damn, communicate, but not with these two. But there is more to Ethan than even Hannah knows, which got me fuming!!! But I don’t want to spoil anything.
And last but not least, Hannah. The glue in this relationship. I love how strong, confident and open-minded she is. How she helps Ethan and is a bridge between all three of them. I loved how Berlin gave her such a strong voice while representing ASL.
I absolutely loved their dynamic and how they made perfect sense together. The bond they created together, founded on compassion, banter, protectiveness and passion they had for each other was beautiful to see unfold.
This story gave me all the feels. Which, as you know, is all that I want. The banter, the confusion, miscommunication (which for once I didn’t mind🤭), the passion, longing and spice was amazingly written!
🎙️ Savanah, Ash & Aaron you guys were exceptional!! I felt all the emotions I wanted and needed to feel.
Savanah, I’m such a fan of your narration!! The vulnerability, strength and depth you bring to Hannah were amazingly done. I felt every emotion through your performance and loved how you brought Hannah’s strong and open-minded personality to life.
Ash Beverly, you understood Ethan’s character and I felt the confusion and doubt through my AirPods. I loved how I could hear the shift in Ethan through your voice, from confused and unsure to strong, secure and even dominant.
Aaron was a new narrator to me, but I will be listening to more of your work. Because you nailed Dane’s character. You’ve got such a pleasant voice to listen to and it really was how I imagined Dane would sound🙈 You were spot on with his banter and witty, expressive character. And I loved how you got his vulnerable and pure heart across.
Nothing but love for this story and the audio. 10/10🥹🫶🏾
Trust me when I tell you that you want to get on this train called the Balance of Power series!! And, as no surprise, I highly recommend going straight for the audio🔥
Thank you to @authorberlinwick for the ALC in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts are my own🤍
DANE, MY MAN😍 It was finally time for us to truly meet Dane and I couldn’t have been more excited for his story!!
This story, honestly, Dane, Ethan and Hannah stole my heart🥹 They each had such a strong story to represent and tell.
Dane is such a fun and characterful character. A happy-go-lucky guy who also hides behind his charm and gorgeous smile. And even while having the best found family, he feels like he’s in a different stage of life as his friends are, which can feel lonely. He has so many layers and I loved how open and secure he is with his sexuality and how empathetic he is.
Which brings me to Ethan, who is so conflicted about his sexuality. He has a beautiful relationship with Hannah and their bond and honesty is so refreshing. Most of the time I’m like damn, communicate, but not with these two. But there is more to Ethan than even Hannah knows, which got me fuming!!! But I don’t want to spoil anything.
And last but not least, Hannah. The glue in this relationship. I love how strong, confident and open-minded she is. How she helps Ethan and is a bridge between all three of them. I loved how Berlin gave her such a strong voice while representing ASL.
I absolutely loved their dynamic and how they made perfect sense together. The bond they created together, founded on compassion, banter, protectiveness and passion they had for each other was beautiful to see unfold.
This story gave me all the feels. Which, as you know, is all that I want. The banter, the confusion, miscommunication (which for once I didn’t mind🤭), the passion, longing and spice was amazingly written!
🎙️ Savanah, Ash & Aaron you guys were exceptional!! I felt all the emotions I wanted and needed to feel.
Savanah, I’m such a fan of your narration!! The vulnerability, strength and depth you bring to Hannah were amazingly done. I felt every emotion through your performance and loved how you brought Hannah’s strong and open-minded personality to life.
Ash Beverly, you understood Ethan’s character and I felt the confusion and doubt through my AirPods. I loved how I could hear the shift in Ethan through your voice, from confused and unsure to strong, secure and even dominant.
Aaron was a new narrator to me, but I will be listening to more of your work. Because you nailed Dane’s character. You’ve got such a pleasant voice to listen to and it really was how I imagined Dane would sound🙈 You were spot on with his banter and witty, expressive character. And I loved how you got his vulnerable and pure heart across.
Nothing but love for this story and the audio. 10/10🥹🫶🏾
Trust me when I tell you that you want to get on this train called the Balance of Power series!! And, as no surprise, I highly recommend going straight for the audio🔥
Thank you to @authorberlinwick for the ALC in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts are my own🤍
February 24, 2026
4⭐️/5
I LOVE a good MMF book, I think it’s one of my greatest weaknesses because it’s so urgh enjoyable and I envied the characters so so muuuuch
I had previously read “the secrets we hide” granted it’s a MFM but I had LOVED it and my only let down was that it was a MFM and not a MMF. So, when I saw that Berlin wrote a MMF this time, I couldn’t read it fast enough !!
Story wise, I’m used to dark romance so contemporary one always seemed kinda “easy” regarding the issues they face inside the book. But those issues also hit closer to home, knowing that those are everyday struggles for a lot of people. So I really liked the story, even though some plot were solved a bit more “easily” than I’m accustomed to.
Character wise I really really liked ALL of them. The FMC was shining so bright even after everything she went through. Hannah was such a strong willed, smart, sassy and interesting character, I LOVE strong FMC so all in all she was all I could have asked for and more.
As for the MMCs, I really understood Ethan’s struggles whilst he was coming to terms with his bisexuality. As a bisexual woman I know how difficult it can be to come to terms with your attraction, and how harsh people’s judgement can be when they learn about your sexuality. He was broody but also extremely caring and attentive he was a really good character.
Dane was almost the complete opposite to Ethan’s broodiness but also some kind of mirror to Hannah’s personality, and they really all balanced it each other so well. Dane easy going but also reserved and shy side was a really good contrast, but a really understandable one considering what he went through. His sassy and flirty side was reallyyy funny and his caring, addicted side was also so cute.
My only problem with the book was the internalized misogyny of the author that she was sometimes letting shine through the characters 🥲. I understand it can be easy to fall back on the misogyny that we unknowingly stocked in our brain. But I don’t understand the need to push back some women character just to make the FMC shines even more. Like writing a gold diggers character can be tricky, but was it really necessary to let the characters refer to her like that:
“Big-boobed Jodi from class came to yoga class in a mini skirt and heels," he says because she dresses inappropriately for every place….”
I swear we can write about despicable women character without falling into blatant misogynistic habits, it’s not that difficult.
Apart from that big let down, I loved the story and it will find its rightful place on my physical shelf next to my “ the secrets we hide” copy🙂↕️
I LOVE a good MMF book, I think it’s one of my greatest weaknesses because it’s so urgh enjoyable and I envied the characters so so muuuuch
I had previously read “the secrets we hide” granted it’s a MFM but I had LOVED it and my only let down was that it was a MFM and not a MMF. So, when I saw that Berlin wrote a MMF this time, I couldn’t read it fast enough !!
Story wise, I’m used to dark romance so contemporary one always seemed kinda “easy” regarding the issues they face inside the book. But those issues also hit closer to home, knowing that those are everyday struggles for a lot of people. So I really liked the story, even though some plot were solved a bit more “easily” than I’m accustomed to.
Character wise I really really liked ALL of them. The FMC was shining so bright even after everything she went through. Hannah was such a strong willed, smart, sassy and interesting character, I LOVE strong FMC so all in all she was all I could have asked for and more.
As for the MMCs, I really understood Ethan’s struggles whilst he was coming to terms with his bisexuality. As a bisexual woman I know how difficult it can be to come to terms with your attraction, and how harsh people’s judgement can be when they learn about your sexuality. He was broody but also extremely caring and attentive he was a really good character.
Dane was almost the complete opposite to Ethan’s broodiness but also some kind of mirror to Hannah’s personality, and they really all balanced it each other so well. Dane easy going but also reserved and shy side was a really good contrast, but a really understandable one considering what he went through. His sassy and flirty side was reallyyy funny and his caring, addicted side was also so cute.
My only problem with the book was the internalized misogyny of the author that she was sometimes letting shine through the characters 🥲. I understand it can be easy to fall back on the misogyny that we unknowingly stocked in our brain. But I don’t understand the need to push back some women character just to make the FMC shines even more. Like writing a gold diggers character can be tricky, but was it really necessary to let the characters refer to her like that:
“Big-boobed Jodi from class came to yoga class in a mini skirt and heels," he says because she dresses inappropriately for every place….”
I swear we can write about despicable women character without falling into blatant misogynistic habits, it’s not that difficult.
Apart from that big let down, I loved the story and it will find its rightful place on my physical shelf next to my “ the secrets we hide” copy🙂↕️
September 16, 2026
Any book that starts in Paris with a glory hole has got to be a good one.
And The Lessons We Learn by Berlin Wick?
Unputdownable.
Page turner doesn't even cover it. This was one of those books where I'd tell myself I'd listen for five minutes and then somehow find another reason to keep going.
Dane is hilarious.
Also? He's living the life I wanna live.
Backpacking around the world, meeting people and doing his own thing.
Sir... respectfully, can I come with you?
But underneath all that chaos is a man who becomes much more attached to Hannah and Ethan than he ever expected to be.
And I loved that.
Hannah and Ethan are so damn cute together. Their communication, the love they have for each other and the way they understand one another made me completely invested in them.
Which is why watching everything fall...
Be still my heart.
It happened so fast and it hurt me so bad.
Then comes the heartbreak and yearning.
Oh, the yearning.
Dane misses them. Hannah and Ethan seem to be everywhere he turns and Kismet apparently has a sense of humor because these three just keep finding their way back into each other's orbit.
Surprise!!! We get HOT PROFESSOR DANE.
And Ethan?
Pissed.
And when Dane decides he's going to fix this?
Yep.
I was right there with him.
Chapter 62 ripped my heart out through my crack.
Ethan got me. This straight-laced, structured, time-constraint-having man is one of the sweetest people ever and there was a moment that absolutely wrecked me.
And the audiobook?
OH, THEY ATE.
This cast was PERFECT. Savannah Thomas, Ash Beverly and Aaron Donahue understood their respective characters and brought something different to the performance. The voices, the emotion, the timing, the chemistry... it all worked so damn well together.
I wasn't sitting there thinking, I'm listening to an audiobook.
I had a whole movie playing in my head.
And THAT is what I want from an audiobook.
These actors didn't just narrate this story.
They performed it.
Phenomenally. I know I probably say that a lot... but it is still true.
And then Berlin Wick gave me an epilogue AND a bonus epilogue.
Someone in the book-sphere is looking out for me.
Then we get bloopers?
Always one of my favorite parts of human-narrated audiobooks.
At this point...
Five stars just aren't enough anymore.
So I'm making a formal executive decision.
Which I've already made in my head.
We're changing the rating system.
This is a 6-star read.
Berlin Wick apparently doesn't know how to write a book I don't love.
And honestly?
I'm okay with that.
Read it. Listen to it. Come scream with me afterward. 💜
— Naughty Book Nook
Thank you, Duet Narration Audiobook Club and Berlin Wick for the opportunity to review this audiobook!
And The Lessons We Learn by Berlin Wick?
Unputdownable.
Page turner doesn't even cover it. This was one of those books where I'd tell myself I'd listen for five minutes and then somehow find another reason to keep going.
Dane is hilarious.
Also? He's living the life I wanna live.
Backpacking around the world, meeting people and doing his own thing.
Sir... respectfully, can I come with you?
But underneath all that chaos is a man who becomes much more attached to Hannah and Ethan than he ever expected to be.
And I loved that.
Hannah and Ethan are so damn cute together. Their communication, the love they have for each other and the way they understand one another made me completely invested in them.
Which is why watching everything fall...
Be still my heart.
It happened so fast and it hurt me so bad.
Then comes the heartbreak and yearning.
Oh, the yearning.
Dane misses them. Hannah and Ethan seem to be everywhere he turns and Kismet apparently has a sense of humor because these three just keep finding their way back into each other's orbit.
Surprise!!! We get HOT PROFESSOR DANE.
And Ethan?
Pissed.
And when Dane decides he's going to fix this?
Yep.
I was right there with him.
Chapter 62 ripped my heart out through my crack.
Ethan got me. This straight-laced, structured, time-constraint-having man is one of the sweetest people ever and there was a moment that absolutely wrecked me.
And the audiobook?
OH, THEY ATE.
This cast was PERFECT. Savannah Thomas, Ash Beverly and Aaron Donahue understood their respective characters and brought something different to the performance. The voices, the emotion, the timing, the chemistry... it all worked so damn well together.
I wasn't sitting there thinking, I'm listening to an audiobook.
I had a whole movie playing in my head.
And THAT is what I want from an audiobook.
These actors didn't just narrate this story.
They performed it.
Phenomenally. I know I probably say that a lot... but it is still true.
And then Berlin Wick gave me an epilogue AND a bonus epilogue.
Someone in the book-sphere is looking out for me.
Then we get bloopers?
Always one of my favorite parts of human-narrated audiobooks.
At this point...
Five stars just aren't enough anymore.
So I'm making a formal executive decision.
Which I've already made in my head.
We're changing the rating system.
This is a 6-star read.
Berlin Wick apparently doesn't know how to write a book I don't love.
And honestly?
I'm okay with that.
Read it. Listen to it. Come scream with me afterward. 💜
— Naughty Book Nook
Thank you, Duet Narration Audiobook Club and Berlin Wick for the opportunity to review this audiobook!
Review of advance copy received from Author
“Is it normal to feel guilty about finding love again?”
“I suppose it is… or I suppose nothing is normal. But they’re amazing. I’m so in love with both of them, and I feel so goddamn lucky.”
Wow. I am absolutely blown away by this book.
I’ve been waiting for Dane’s story since book two, and Berlin Wick did not disappoint. She delivered in every possible way. This book ate and left no crumbs.
The MMF dynamic is not just fitting for Dane, it feels inevitable. His personality is so big, so open, so all-in that loving fully and expansively is simply who he is. Watching him pour that devotion into both Ethan and Hannah, especially through the emotional roller coaster this story takes you on, was incredibly satisfying.
The chemistry between all three is off the charts. The banter, the tension, and the emotional payoff hits hard. Ethan’s journey in particular gutted me in the best way. Seeing him slowly come out of his shell, push past his rigid exterior, accept who he is, and believe that he is worthy of happiness after everything he’s lost was powerful and beautifully written.
And Hannah? A force. Her line about being quiet but having so much to say absolutely floored me because it perfectly captures her role in this story. She is the grounding presence, the emotional anchor, the one who sees both men clearly and helps pull all the pieces together. This relationship does not work without her strength, insight, confidence, and resilience.
Getting Dane’s backstory was another standout. What once looked like a carefree, playboy lifestyle is revealed to be rooted in loss and grief, and it added so much depth to his character. It was tragic, heartbreaking, and exactly the insight I didn’t know I needed.
And the spice? 🥵
Let’s be real. It delivers. Hard.
Berlin Wick does something I truly appreciate: the spice starts early, but it’s never there just to exist. Every scene is intentional, emotionally charged, and purposeful. It enhances the story rather than distracting from it, which makes everything hit even harder.
This is easily one of my favorite books in the series. While book one will always have a special place in my heart, I am completely obsessed with this trio, their love story, and how they found their way to one another. I laughed, I hurt, I got angry (Ethan’s dad can absolutely choke), and I felt everything in between.
Absolutely worth the wait. And now I am beyond ready for Kobi’s story. 👀🔥
“I suppose it is… or I suppose nothing is normal. But they’re amazing. I’m so in love with both of them, and I feel so goddamn lucky.”
Wow. I am absolutely blown away by this book.
I’ve been waiting for Dane’s story since book two, and Berlin Wick did not disappoint. She delivered in every possible way. This book ate and left no crumbs.
The MMF dynamic is not just fitting for Dane, it feels inevitable. His personality is so big, so open, so all-in that loving fully and expansively is simply who he is. Watching him pour that devotion into both Ethan and Hannah, especially through the emotional roller coaster this story takes you on, was incredibly satisfying.
The chemistry between all three is off the charts. The banter, the tension, and the emotional payoff hits hard. Ethan’s journey in particular gutted me in the best way. Seeing him slowly come out of his shell, push past his rigid exterior, accept who he is, and believe that he is worthy of happiness after everything he’s lost was powerful and beautifully written.
And Hannah? A force. Her line about being quiet but having so much to say absolutely floored me because it perfectly captures her role in this story. She is the grounding presence, the emotional anchor, the one who sees both men clearly and helps pull all the pieces together. This relationship does not work without her strength, insight, confidence, and resilience.
Getting Dane’s backstory was another standout. What once looked like a carefree, playboy lifestyle is revealed to be rooted in loss and grief, and it added so much depth to his character. It was tragic, heartbreaking, and exactly the insight I didn’t know I needed.
And the spice? 🥵
Let’s be real. It delivers. Hard.
Berlin Wick does something I truly appreciate: the spice starts early, but it’s never there just to exist. Every scene is intentional, emotionally charged, and purposeful. It enhances the story rather than distracting from it, which makes everything hit even harder.
This is easily one of my favorite books in the series. While book one will always have a special place in my heart, I am completely obsessed with this trio, their love story, and how they found their way to one another. I laughed, I hurt, I got angry (Ethan’s dad can absolutely choke), and I felt everything in between.
Absolutely worth the wait. And now I am beyond ready for Kobi’s story. 👀🔥
Review of advance copy received from Author
The Lessons We Learn by Berlin Wick is already my favorite book of 2026, even though it's only February. When my blogger friend Susan Christine recommended this new author, I gave it a try and was hooked from the first story. I quickly got attached to the group of friends, read everything Berlin Wick has written, and now I'm eagerly waiting for the next release. The story pulled me in and stirred up all kinds of emotions, showing just how powerful the writing is.
The story is about Dean Campbell, 28, a genius who graduated Summa Cum Laude with a double master's and has nine figures in his bank account. He created and licensed AI code, becoming wealthy, but he's missing something in his life. He travels the world searching for it. Dean is the most outgoing introvert. He and Kobi are the only singles left in the group. Since Jake, Seamus, and Hudson relocated and settled in the Pacific Northwest, Dean plans to start teaching at Polytech University in Settale in the fall. Kobi will still be in Japan, traveling and translating for the Prime Minister. They plan one last summer backpacking and hiking through Europe, ending in Paris, where Dean and Kobi will meet up. When Dean meets a young couple, Ethan and Hannah, traveling together, anything could happen. The chemistry between Dean, Ethan, and Hannah is strong, and their dynamics work well. Ethan Russo and Hannah Parker have been together for a long time. On prom night, they were in a car accident where Hannah sustained life-threatening injuries, lost her larynx, and has severe scarring on her face and neck. Still, Hannah's attitude toward life remains positive, and she has a special aura. Ethan, once a baseball player, injured his throwing hand, ending his dream of playing professionally. His father, Edward, owns an investment firm and wants Ethan to join him, manipulating him at every chance. Ethan has been struggling with his sexuality and his future since losing his dream of playing baseball.
Things to know: ALS, Bi-curious, Bi-awaking, Billionaire, Professor-student, Forced Proximity, Secret Identity, Grumpy MMC, Golden Retriever MMC, Mute FMC.
The Lessons We Learn is more than just a compelling story—it's a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the beauty of unlikely connections. Berlin Wick has crafted a novel that lingers long after the last page, leaving you inspired, hopeful, and eager to follow these unforgettable characters wherever life takes them next.
The story is about Dean Campbell, 28, a genius who graduated Summa Cum Laude with a double master's and has nine figures in his bank account. He created and licensed AI code, becoming wealthy, but he's missing something in his life. He travels the world searching for it. Dean is the most outgoing introvert. He and Kobi are the only singles left in the group. Since Jake, Seamus, and Hudson relocated and settled in the Pacific Northwest, Dean plans to start teaching at Polytech University in Settale in the fall. Kobi will still be in Japan, traveling and translating for the Prime Minister. They plan one last summer backpacking and hiking through Europe, ending in Paris, where Dean and Kobi will meet up. When Dean meets a young couple, Ethan and Hannah, traveling together, anything could happen. The chemistry between Dean, Ethan, and Hannah is strong, and their dynamics work well. Ethan Russo and Hannah Parker have been together for a long time. On prom night, they were in a car accident where Hannah sustained life-threatening injuries, lost her larynx, and has severe scarring on her face and neck. Still, Hannah's attitude toward life remains positive, and she has a special aura. Ethan, once a baseball player, injured his throwing hand, ending his dream of playing professionally. His father, Edward, owns an investment firm and wants Ethan to join him, manipulating him at every chance. Ethan has been struggling with his sexuality and his future since losing his dream of playing baseball.
Things to know: ALS, Bi-curious, Bi-awaking, Billionaire, Professor-student, Forced Proximity, Secret Identity, Grumpy MMC, Golden Retriever MMC, Mute FMC.
The Lessons We Learn is more than just a compelling story—it's a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the beauty of unlikely connections. Berlin Wick has crafted a novel that lingers long after the last page, leaving you inspired, hopeful, and eager to follow these unforgettable characters wherever life takes them next.
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