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Understanding Human Puppy Play: For Families, Professionals and Curious Humans
What do you do when someone you love tells you they’re into puppy play? You read. You ask. You listen.
Understanding Human Puppy Play is an educational, compassionate, and accessible guide for parents, therapists, partners, and anyone curious about this often misunderstood identity and practice. Written by clinical psychologist and community member Mike Defta, this book blends professional insight with lived experience to demystify human puppy play, its roots, emotional meaning, and its place in modern identity and relationships.
Whether you're a family member seeking understanding, a professional looking for informed language and context, or a curious human exploring the richness of human connection, this book offers a grounded and open-hearted perspective.
Inside you’ll
A cultural and psychological history of puppy play
Reflections on identity, role-play, masking, and self-discovery
Real stories from pups, handlers, and pack members
Professional guidance on consent, neurodivergence, and safe space
A dedicated chapter for parents, written with clarity and care
From the chapter for
"You don’t have to understand everything right away. You don’t have to have the perfect words. What matters is showing your child or sibling that your love isn’t conditional. That you are still here. That their world may feel strange to you, but they themselves are not strangers. Curiosity is love in action. So ask. Read. And breathe. This is just another part of getting to know the person you’ve loved all along."
A guidebook, a bridge, and a voice of empathy, Understanding Human Puppy Play helps readers of all backgrounds find connection, clarity, and maybe even a bit of joy along the way.
Understanding Human Puppy Play is an educational, compassionate, and accessible guide for parents, therapists, partners, and anyone curious about this often misunderstood identity and practice. Written by clinical psychologist and community member Mike Defta, this book blends professional insight with lived experience to demystify human puppy play, its roots, emotional meaning, and its place in modern identity and relationships.
Whether you're a family member seeking understanding, a professional looking for informed language and context, or a curious human exploring the richness of human connection, this book offers a grounded and open-hearted perspective.
Inside you’ll
A cultural and psychological history of puppy play
Reflections on identity, role-play, masking, and self-discovery
Real stories from pups, handlers, and pack members
Professional guidance on consent, neurodivergence, and safe space
A dedicated chapter for parents, written with clarity and care
From the chapter for
"You don’t have to understand everything right away. You don’t have to have the perfect words. What matters is showing your child or sibling that your love isn’t conditional. That you are still here. That their world may feel strange to you, but they themselves are not strangers. Curiosity is love in action. So ask. Read. And breathe. This is just another part of getting to know the person you’ve loved all along."
A guidebook, a bridge, and a voice of empathy, Understanding Human Puppy Play helps readers of all backgrounds find connection, clarity, and maybe even a bit of joy along the way.
63 pages, Kindle Edition
Published December 4, 2025
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About the author
Mike Defta
5 booksMike Defta is a clinical psychologist, hypnotist, and writer exploring the edges of intimacy, identity, and transformation. His work weaves together psychological depth, queer experience, and curiosity.
As the author of Deep Surrender and The Puppy Guide, Mike brings a grounded, compassionate voice to topics often misunderstood, topics like erotic hypnosis and human pup play. He also writes queer horror fiction, such as The Zoroa Incident, where he explores the darker landscapes of desire, memory, and control.
When he’s not writing, Mike works with individuals and couples in therapeutic settings and occasionally disappears into dungeons, forests, or fetish spaces for inspiration. His writing is for anyone who has ever longed to feel seen, even in the strangest parts of themselves.
As the author of Deep Surrender and The Puppy Guide, Mike brings a grounded, compassionate voice to topics often misunderstood, topics like erotic hypnosis and human pup play. He also writes queer horror fiction, such as The Zoroa Incident, where he explores the darker landscapes of desire, memory, and control.
When he’s not writing, Mike works with individuals and couples in therapeutic settings and occasionally disappears into dungeons, forests, or fetish spaces for inspiration. His writing is for anyone who has ever longed to feel seen, even in the strangest parts of themselves.
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