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A moving and compulsively readable novel about two very different women and the unlikely bond they forge in the wreckage of one man’s betrayal.

Maggie feels behind for thirty-five—still unsure about her career path, still living with roommates and struggling through a never-ending PhD—but at least she’s certain about her relationship with her boyfriend, Karl. That is until she hears the voicemail on Karl's phone from some woman named Eve, who’s using words Maggie can’t process—like “baby,” “love,” and “tonight.” In an instant, Maggie’s trust in Karl unravels, but she doesn’t know the whole truth—and only one person can help her find Eve.

Eve didn’t flee New York and the stress of running her hand-crafted furniture business just to be dragged into someone else’s drama. She likes the quiet rhythm of her Northern Ontario lake her dog, her cozy home, her dependable routines—and Karl, at least on the weekends when he’s not working in Toronto. So when a stranger presses for a meeting, Eve is wary. She doesn’t like her earnestness, her probing questions, her expectation of solidarity. And she certainly doesn’t like the news Maggie Karl is her boyfriend, too.

Maggie and Eve’s tense encounter upends both of their lives. They expect to never see each other again, but instead they’re thrown back together—forced to face their resentments and insecurities head-on, pushed into vulnerability with the one person whose very existence caused their heartbreak.

What We Found Instead is a captivating and insightful look at complex relationships and a love letter to female friendship, asking us to consider questions about love, loyalty, and what we owe to ourselves and to others.

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Heidi Reimer

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Heidi Reimer is a novelist and writing coach. Her front row seat to the theatre world of her debut novel, The Mother Act, began two decades ago when she met and married an actor, and her immersion in motherhood began when she adopted a toddler and discovered she was pregnant on the same day. Her writing interrogates the lives of women, usually those bent on breaking free of what they’re given to create what they yearn for. She loves smart, propulsive stories with complicated characters and deep exploration of the female experience.


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16 reviews2 followers
Review of advance copy received from NetGalley
May 18, 2026
I wasn't quite sure what to expect from this after reading the blurb. After finding out they've both been betrayed by the same man, Maggie and Eve suddenly find themselves questioning everything they thought they knew about the man they loved.

I found this to be a grumpy x sunshine story of two women who are polar opposites yet find themselves drawn to each other. I really enjoyed Heidi Reimer's storytelling as Maggie and Eve felt so real to me. Maggie is a romantic soul and Eve is very self-protective. This is a messy, human story and it was told in such a careful way. If you want a fresh take on how complicated female friendship can be, I would definitely recommend this!

Thanks to NetGalley and Lake Union Publishing for providing this advanced reader copy in exchange for an honest review!
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70 reviews
Review of advance copy received from NetGalley
April 22, 2026
Thank you to NetGalley, the publisher, and Heidi Reimer for the ARC in exchange for an honest review.

What We Found Instead was an absolute joy to read and a wonderfully satisfying surprise. From the opening pages, I was completely engaged, and that never faded. It is one of those rare books that balances plot and character so well that you keep turning the pages for both reasons equally.
The cover first drew me in, two women in the lake surrounded by greenery, and it made me curious enough to read the description. I am glad I did.

This was my first time reading Heidi Reimer, but I am already looking at her other work. I read this across two sittings only because life got in the way. Had it been up to me, I would have happily devoured it in one.

What begins with betrayal and upheaval grows into something far richer: a thoughtful, emotionally intelligent story about grief, friendship, healing, family, and the ways women can rebuild themselves after being hurt. Maggie and Eve were both so vividly drawn. They are very different women, shaped by different wounds and family histories, yet both felt deeply human, flawed, sympathetic, and real. Watching their relationship evolve was one of the most rewarding parts of the novel for me. I was worried it might be one-note or too simplistic in its themes, but it was anything but. The novel consistently chose nuance over easy conflict.

The greatest strength of this book for me was the character work. Maggie and Eve felt wonderfully real: flawed, sympathetic, frustrating at times, but always understandable. Their growth across the novel was beautifully handled, and I became deeply invested in both women and in the life they were trying to build after disappointment and hurt.

I also appreciated that the book was woman-centred without reducing the men to caricatures. Even when characters behaved badly, they were still treated as people rather than simple villains. That gave the story far more depth and honesty. The novel consistently chose emotional complexity over easy drama, which I admired.

The writing style was accessible while still often beautiful. There were scenes around Still Lake and the lodge that felt vivid and painterly. I could see the weather, the water, the landscape. We were deeply embedded in Maggie and Eve’s perspectives, which made their emotions feel immediate, but the side characters were also given enough care to feel fully alive.

The pacing was excellent throughout. There was always something drawing me onward, but the emotional moments were given space to breathe. I was invested the entire time and genuinely cared about where each character would end up.

Perhaps what I loved most was that the book resisted simplistic endings. It allowed growth to be messy, relationships to be complicated, and healing to come in unexpected forms. By the final pages, I felt deeply moved and completely satisfied.

Most of all, this book made me feel warm, comforted, and hopeful. By the end, I felt genuinely emotional because the real love stories underneath it all had been so tenderly built. It felt like a warm hug on a cold winter’s day.

For me personally, this was the perfect balance of heart, character development, and momentum. I truly hope many readers discover it because I would love more people to talk to about it.
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34 reviews3 followers
Review of advance copy received from NetGalley
May 20, 2026
I started this story, got a few chapters in and put it down to deal with life… but once I picked it back up, I could not put it down.

What We Found Instead begins with a striking premise: Maggie discovers she’s “the other woman” in her boyfriend Karl’s long-term relationship with Eve. But instead of confronting him, she reaches out to Eve—and what follows is a deeply messy, sincere, and unexpectedly moving story about betrayal, grief, healing, and connection.

This isn’t a neat and tidy “women versus the world” story. It’s character-driven, nuanced, and filled with people making frustrating, deeply human choices. I found myself angry at these characters one moment and full of compassion for them the next. Heidi Reimer has a real talent for uncovering the fractures inside people and showing how those wounds shape the decisions they make, even when those decisions are messy or painful.

Eve and Maggie are both compelling in completely different ways. Maggie’s immaturity often clashed with Eve’s guarded self-possession, and I constantly shifted between wanting to shake them and wanting to hug them. Their growth throughout the novel felt incredibly rewarding, especially because Reimer never forces them into being universally likeable to earn the reader’s investment.

What makes this book stand out most is its balance: it’s deeply woman-centred without flattening the male characters into caricatures (though wow, did I hate Karl). Even when I was frustrated, I was completely hooked. In the end, this felt like a beautiful love letter to friendship, womanhood, healing, and northern Ontario—and I reached the final page genuinely sad to leave these characters behind.

Content warnings: unwanted pregnancy, traumatic loss of a pregnancy, infidelity, depression.

Thanks to Lake Union Publishing and NetGalley for access to this eARC. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
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612 reviews9 followers
Review of advance copy received from NetGalley
May 14, 2026
Thanks to NetGalley and Lake Union Publishing for the advanced reader copy.

When Maggie picks up her boyfriend, Karl's, phone to bring it to him as he rushes out of the house she doesn't expect to hear a voicemail from another woman--Eve--calling him baby and saying that she loves him. Determined to connect with this woman who has also clearly been wronged by Karl, Maggie reaches out to meet with Eve, but the female-empowered connection she'd hoped for doesn't materialize. Instead Eve is prickly and suspicious of Maggie. The meeting between the two women sets off a series of events that impacts everyone's lives in ways expected and unexpected. WHAT WE FOUND INSTEAD explores the questions of friendship, love, and what it means to be a family.

This book wrecked me in all the best ways. It was the kind of story that got me so wrapped up in it that I was talking back to the pages (usually yelling at characters to stop doing such self-destructive things!) and staying up later to finish "one more chapter." Eve and Maggie are as compelling as they are flawed and from the outside you can't help but wonder why either of these women fell for the ridiculousness that is Karl. But finding that kernel of fracture inside someone and revealing how it determines so many of the choices they make seems to be Reimer's writing super power. Even as I was angry at characters, wanting them to stop making such foolish decisions, I was also filled with great empathy for them. There are content warnings to be sure, in this story (*spoiler ahead): unwanted pregnancy, traumatic loss of a pregnancy, infidelity, depression, harm to an animal (but the animal lives!!), etc. But there is also beautiful writing and such depth of heart. This is a story that's going to stick with me for a while.

What We Found Instead is out July 28, 2026
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140 reviews1 follower
Review of advance copy received from NetGalley
April 28, 2026
4.25 - I read and really enjoyed Heidi Reimer’s debut novel The Mother Act a few years ago and was excited to see that she has a new book out! What We Found Instead is a completely different type of story, but I enjoyed it even more than her previous work.

The story follows Maggie and Eve, two women who discover they are in a relationship with the same man. When circumstances unexpectedly bring them together, they are forced to confront their feelings about the situation and about each other. Where do they go from here?

If you’re expecting a cozy rom com, keep looking because this isn’t it. Reimer kept me on my toes with the story’s unpredictability, even when I thought I knew where it was going. There were a few plot points I saw coming, but I was surprised by where things ended up.

What We Found Instead is friendship fiction at its best — full of love, heartbreak, and joy. Sometimes these stories can be saccharine or surface-level. That's not the case here. The characters feel authentic in their struggles, desires, and flaws.

If you’re craving something uplifting but also grounded, I highly recommend checking this one out. Oh, and the cover is gorgeous!

Thank you to NetGalley and Lake Union Publishing for the advance copy.
Profile Image for Emma Davies.
13 reviews
May 4, 2026
Thank you to NetGalley and Lake Union Publishing for this ARC.

I was looking forward to reading this book and I think I may have gone in with expectations that were a bit too high. I also love the cover of this book, which immediately drew me in. I can see why this story has resonated with other readers, especially those who enjoy books centred on female friendships and platonic soulmates. There was a compelling bond between the two characters as the main focus of the story and I appreciated the attempt to portray a raw and unfiltered side to relationships. The writing style also felt fairly fast-paced, which I liked.

However, it fell a bit flat for me. The difficult and emotional situations seem intended to feel realistic, but I found it difficult to view the friendships and relationships in this book as realistic. The repeated cycle of falling out and reconciling between the characters, along with the heavier themes throughout, made the reading experience a little draining for me, although I can see how this added to the emotional weight of the story. Overall, this book wasn’t the best fit for me but I think readers who love intense, character-driven narratives, messy relationships and complex friendships would connect with this more than I did.
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14 reviews
Review of advance copy received from NetGalley
May 3, 2026
Review of an advance copy received from NetGalley.

This book brought out so many emotions in me at once. At first, I thought it would simply show how Maggie and Eve became best friends after learning the truth about their relationship with Karl, but it turned out to be so much more than that. The characters and their circumstances felt incredibly real, and it reminded me that the choices they made, the emotions they felt, and the actions they took are things that happen in real life. I especially loved Maggie and Eve’s friendship, no matter how imperfect and bumpy it was.

I also loved the writing style. This is definitely one of those books that I’ll find myself thinking about from time to time. The only reason I’m not giving it 5 stars is because of Karl. The audacity of him to show up and act that way until the end made me so angry. I honestly wanted to punch him in the face. if I were given the chance haha. I was also really rooting for Daniel and Maggie and wanted them to end up happy together.

Overall, this is a book I genuinely enjoyed reading and would definitely recommend to anyone looking for a story about friendship, healing, and love.
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49 reviews1 follower
April 30, 2026
This book really gets the complicated relationship right between Maggie and Eve. They’re uniquely different from each other but betrayed by the same man, which is a difficult experience to navigate and portrayed wonderfully. I think the intricate nature of friendships between women is a topic that should be discussed more often and I found that explored within What We Found Instead.

At times I did find myself frustrated with the characters, wondering why would they make that choice, why did they act a certain way. I wanted more into their minds, to understand their thoughts better and exploration into their relationships (outside of the one just between Maggie and Eve) instead of that’s just the way things are and they happen. This happened with a few of the events as well, somehow adding onto this pile of wild instances within the book’s timeframe and left the ending a tad rushed.

Overall, I still found it a nice and easy read.

Thank you NetGalley and Lake Union Publishing for the ARC!
516 reviews25 followers
Review of advance copy received from NetGalley
May 4, 2026
Two women who would likely never cross paths, are drawn together under unusual circumstances. Both have their hearts broken by a man who led one life in the city during the week and another life in the country on the weekends. Their first encounter is fraught with tension and the subsequent story of their relationship is a testimony to the strength of female friendships that transcends hurt and betrayal.

I enjoyed this novel for its character development and its evocative prose that describes the pain and the beauty in forging the bonds of friendship under trying circumstances. Both Maggie and Eve bring complex issues that add dimension and depth to the unfoldment of their relationship. The ending felt a bit rushed, but overall, the novel is a satisfying and engaging read.

My thanks to the author, the publisher, and NetGalley for the privilege of reviewing this book. The opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

This review will be posted on Amazon upon publication.

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614 reviews6 followers
Review of advance copy received from NetGalley
May 18, 2026
I absolutely loved Heidi Reimer’s What We Found Instead and cannot recommend it highly enough. This masterful novel perfectly balances an engaging plot with deep character development, taking readers on an unforgettable journey through love, heartbreak, friendship, and joy. Set against the vivid backdrops of Toronto and the serene country mountains, the story beautifully explores the messy realities of learning to say I'm sorry, standing up for oneself, and discovering true self-worth.
What makes this woman-centred novel truly stand out is its nuance; the characters don't need to be universally likable to be completely captivating, and watching their profound growth is incredibly rewarding. Furthermore, the narrative empowers its female leads without reducing the male characters to flat, secondary sidekicks. It is a deeply moving, five-star read about healing, resilience, and connection that will stay with you long after the final page.

Thank you, NetGalley, for an advanced copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
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2,364 reviews29 followers
Review of advance copy received from NetGalley
May 29, 2026
Maggie is devastated when she discovers her boyfriend Karl might be cheating on her. She is already feeling stuck in a rut and this was one of the few things she felt confident about. Until now. Perhaps the only one who can give her the answers she craves is the woman that Karl is possibly involved with?

Eve likes her life in the countryside the way it is, enjoying the weekends spent with Karl, even if he does spend the working week in the city. But now she has to contend with some stranger who wants to speak to her about something important.

This is an interesting premise, but I found the lead characters somewhat immature for women who are basically middle aged. Their decisions seemed questionable, especially under these problematic circumstances. Overall, a good enough read, if not particularly outstanding.

I received a free copy of this book from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review
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16 reviews
Review of advance copy received from NetGalley
April 24, 2026
3.5 stars - I really enjoyed this author's writing style and the story of female friendship it told. I finished it in 2 days and found it easy to read / quick. The reason I'd dock it a few stars is that I felt the story dragged at times... how many bad things can happen to 2 people in one year?? I also found myself wanting to smack the main characters at times - they couldn't seem to get out of their own ways.

That being said, reading this book made me want to read more by this author and I thought it was a fun, heartwarming read. Thank you Lake Union Publishing for the advanced copy of this book!
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27 reviews
Review of advance copy received from NetGalley
May 10, 2026
*received arc from netgalley

What We Found Instead explores the complicated friendship and relationships between Eve and Maggie. After finding out they have the same partner Karl we follow them trying to rebuild their lives in the after effects of leaving him.

I had a lot of mixed feelings about this book, at times I loved it and other times I found myself hating decisions the decisions these characters made. Not sure if it is just because I don’t agree or because some of it seemed out of character for what we read but I didn’t fully enjoy myself because of this. I was happy with how it ended though!
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493 reviews40 followers
May 20, 2026
Thank you to Netgalley for this arc!

The description and cover of the book really drew me in! The idea of two women confronting their ex-cheating bf and then becoming besties?! Love that.

Buuuuuut unfortunately for a woman almost forty and one on her forties these women made some bizarre choices that really had me struggling to connect or support them in the story. Overall a very readable and good “chic lit” (I hate that descriptor but it exists lol) summer read.

I just think the main characters were a bit too emotionally and relationship-ly immature for me to fully enjoy the book as intended.
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7,645 reviews70 followers
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April 17, 2026
What We Found Instead by new to me author Heidi Reimer published by Lake Union is a full length stand alone novel.
Maggie is a 35 year old woman who' still finding her way in life. Except with her boyfriend Karl, of him she's very sure. Til she overhears the name of another woman. She atrts uínvestigating and soon she finds Eve.
Eve loves her recluse life and her partner Karl very much. So when a strange person wants to contact her she's reluctant. Til she meets Maggie.
A beautiful heart warming story of friendship. I greatly enjoyed reading this gem of a story.
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229 reviews43 followers
Review of advance copy received from NetGalley
April 23, 2026
My first 6-star read of the year!

​This was such a touching and hopeful story of unexpected friendship that truly amazed me. The book is full of drama, but it is so masterfully crafted that it leaves you in awe. It explores themes of betrayal, grief, healing, and genuine connection. I especially loved how men didn't take center stage in this story.

​This is a book I would recommend to everyone.

Thank you to Lake Union Publishing and NetGalley for providing this eARC in exchange for an honest review.
Profile Image for Lynn Fallinger.
12 reviews
June 1, 2026
Thank you NetGalley for the advance reader copy. I enjoyed reading this book. Two women who meet when they discover they share a boyfriend. I loved the aspect of two women creating a relationship through a shared experience and watching the ups and downs they go through. There were times I was so upset at their choices and other times I cheered them on. Enjoy the roller coaster of reading about the women navigating heartbreak, joy, love, and discovering their true path in life.
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172 reviews1 follower
Review of advance copy received from NetGalley
May 14, 2026
A NetGalley ARC review

4.5 stars

Wow! This was messy, raw, healing, and utterly human. This life-affirming novel was a compulsive read; I never wanted to put it down. Though chaotic, I did know where we'd end up, and I appreciated the grounding feeling in that as the book takes you through some serious emotional whiplash. A true testament to womanhood, what it is and what it could be.
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93 reviews1 follower
May 20, 2026
What We Found Instead is a contemporary fiction novel about two very different women and the unlikely bond they forge in the wreckage of one man’s betrayal.

The novel follows two woman, Maggie and Eve, one the girlfriend and one the wife of Karl, the man with two lives. Maggie seeks out connection and answers by contacting Eve, who prefers to ignore everything and move forward on her own. The tense encounter they share leads to open disdain, but instead of never seeing each other again they are thrown back together instead. The women are forced to face their resentments and insecurities head-on, pushed into vulnerability with the one person whose very existence caused their heartbreak.

This book was infuriating in the best kind of ways - I was angry at each of them for choices they made, but understood them regardless as it wasn't necessarily the right choices but they were realistic to what someone might do in their situations.

Had to be a 5 star just because of how satisfying the conclusion came together, even if it wasn't exactly what I hoped it would be. It's a great book about growth and facing your own vulnerabilities when you think you can't.

I received this ARC through NetGalley.
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