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Leslie Patricelli Board Books

No No Yes Yes: (A Gentle Introduction to Manners, Behavior, and Making Good Choices for Babies and Toddlers)

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YES! This must-have toddler title sheds light on some concepts with a comical flair.

Yanking cat by no NO. Gentle pat on yes YES. And it’s funny how dumping a bowl of food gets a very different reaction from mastering the use of a spoon. An expressive baby demonstrates familiar behaviors — and their predictable responses — in an amusing board book that merits a giant YES!

24 pages, Board Book

First published February 4, 2008

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Leslie Patricelli

62 books233 followers
Leslie Patricelli is the American writer and illustrator of the best selling line of toddler books, starring her inimitable Baby character, including Potty, Toot, Yummy Yucky, Big Little, and Hair. She has more than 30 books for children, including her preschool books, Higher! Higher! (a Boston Globe Book Honor Award winner), Be Quiet, Mike!, Faster! Faster! and The Patterson Puppies and the Midnight Monster Party; as well as a middle-grade novel, The Rizzlerunk Club: Best Buds Under Frogs, published in 2018. Leslie Patricelli grew up in Issaquah, Washington close to Pine Lake. Leslie Patricelli majored in Communications at the University of Washington and took classes at the School of Visual Concepts in Seattle. Leslie Patricelli created and animated Rover the Dog for Windows XP help installed on more than 60 million computers worldwide.

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Profile Image for Karina.
1,027 reviews
January 14, 2020
NO means NO naked baby! He's having a blast being a little brat while the YES pictures are him mad. If this kid is gonna teach my kids to plug up the toilet with a roll of toilet paper HE WILL BE BANNED FROM MY HOUSE!! His mom will say what a great kid he is and how he NEVER does anything bad while I know the truth, Baby Chucky. No more play dates. Your non disciplinary mom will be excommunicated forever. Think hard about your next action Naked Baby!
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98 reviews4 followers
June 3, 2016
We've renamed this The Naughty Toddler Instruction Manual because without a doubt, my toddler will recreate a No No! scene from this book shortly after reading this book.
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12.9k reviews483 followers
August 10, 2016
The baby on the "no" side of each spread is having *much* more fun than the baby on the "yes" side. And that smile, goodness, that's just creepy, like that doll in the horror movie.

I thought about giving this two stars, but asked myself why, and couldn't come up with an answer. It's truly w/out redeeming qualities, in *my* opinion.
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41 reviews
September 1, 2018
I have two words for the book “no no”. I could barely get past the first page but grandma made me listen to the whole thing.
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804 reviews41 followers
August 11, 2016
It entertains me, that's for sure. Sometimes, I feel that I am the intended audience and that the point of the book is to provide empathy for the "no no" moments of my day, and give me hope that more "yes yes" episodes are on the horizon. (Also, by Lu's bedtime some days, I feel that "no, no, yes, yes" is about on par with my own level of reading comprehension.)
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2,893 reviews63 followers
February 9, 2023
I've largely sworn off including picture books if I don't love them but I disliked this one enough to record it. Thank you for giving my toddler lots of ideas that didn't need to be in their head.
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December 7, 2015
A prosy, incredibly boring book! My 15 mo and I grabbed it off the library shelf because the illustrations are adorable - but then the book is awful.

It's another 'list-book' - that is a book that is basically just a long list of things. And a particularly stuffy list of no's and yes'es! She was turned off at once and so was I!

Books are for pleasure not for training little ones. Or they ought to be!

Disappointed. Took a peek at the author's potty book too and it's terrible too - my 15 mo loves her potty and pooping on it (who knows why?! - but hallelujah!) - she liked the illustrations at first but then when I began to read (and act out and explain) she toddled away (she usually LOVES to be read to).
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48 reviews
January 9, 2018
On the first 100-ish readings, it perfectly fine and enjoyable. After the 100th+ reading, well, it's a lot harder to get through without your soul dying a bit.

This book is ultimately a kind of sad, desperate grasp as a parent to try to reinforce general concepts of things that are good and bad, but I feel that the book falls woefully short. Totally not the book' or author's fault. It's probably hard to illustrate a 3 month old goldfish that's been crammed into the crack(s) of the arm chair for months and basted in assorted smells, only to fall out underneath and frolic with dust bunnies before the toddler eats it...as a "no no."
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Author 15 books613 followers
January 31, 2015
Since the baby can say "no no," this is one of her favorites right now.
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July 8, 2015
After reading this book, I can discuss about positive and negative behaviors with children. Also, I can create lists of postive classroom behaviors with children.
35 reviews
March 3, 2018
Two simple words is all this concept book needs to tell the fundamental story of No No Yes Yes!, by Leslie Patricelli. Simple illustrations of a young toddler showing different activities that either fall under "No No!" or "Yes Yes!" take you through this book of teaching and discovering rules and right from wrong. Pull a cat's tail? No no! Pet it gently? Yes yes! The big and bold illustrations makes it very easy for the littlest readers and listeners to understand what is happening. The bright background makes the young toddler stand out, so there is no mistaking what his actions are. A critique would be that the illustrations may be a little confusing in that the young toddler is always happy and smiling, whether he is acting out a "no no" or a "yes yes". This could make it difficult for the youngest readers (ages 2-3) to decipher which is which, especially since they cannot yet read those two key words and there are no color signals (red and green could have worked wonderfully as a signal here) to depict a "yes" or "no". Depending on the audience, it may also give children ideas of "no no's" that they could want to act out since they look fun in the story, and would need parent/teacher guidance and discussion as to why each scene is a "no" or a "yes". This book could easily be used to teach and discuss rules, right from wrong, and appropriate play. Recommended for ages 2-5.
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1,641 reviews80 followers
October 22, 2018
Patricelli’s board book speaks to very young children about not only what is socially acceptable, but also what is safe for them. Through a cartoonish style made with acrylics, Patricelli highlights through pictures only (besides the words “no” and “yes”) what is appropriate, somewhat similar to a Goofus and Gallant comic. This board book is big enough to be perfect for reading before bed, but small enough for tiny hands who want to explore its pages. Additionally, by choosing to focus on the two words “no” and “yes,” this book puts physical words to the vocal ones, helping the child distinguish what their parents’ expectations are. Great for ages 2-4.

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281 reviews14 followers
April 11, 2019
A fun little book for mischievous wee ones. I like that she starts with the Nos before showing an equally fun but less destructive alternative. Patricelli's opposite books are my favourite, there's just enough irreverence for kids to feel like they're getting away with something and keep them engaged. This board book is lovely for little ones but it's fun for older children too and could be an ideal book for an older child to share with a younger sibling.
466 reviews
October 20, 2025
We're so proud of you for reading "No No Yes Yes"! You learned something really important – knowing which things are okay to do and which things aren't. The book shows us that making good choices helps everyone feel happy and safe. You discovered that being kind and following rules makes the world better! You can use this every day – like sharing toys, being gentle, and listening to grown-ups. Keep reading, sweetie! We love watching you learn and grow.
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25 reviews45 followers
December 2, 2018
One thing I've learned about myself in the last year, my first as a preschool teacher, is how easily I become exhausted by repetition. I've also had to learn to overcome that as a professional requirement. So, is this book annoyingly repetitive? Yes. Is it on level and relatable for the average two year old? Yes. They love it.
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124 reviews1 follower
January 12, 2021
We have the English/Spanish version to help my daughter learn both languages. It's fun but simple. She objected to being told not to pull the cat's tail and slammed the book shut both times so far.

I wouldn't bother with it as a bilingual book again because let's face it, even with my very basic Spanish I could translate the actual text in this one.
273 reviews
August 3, 2021
Yanking the cat's tail: no NO. A gentle pat on the back: yes YES. And it's funny how dumping a bowl of food gets a very different reaction from mastering the use of a spoon. The expressive Baby demonstrates familiar behaviors in an amusing board book that merits a giant YES.
Loved the idea of playing with this book and with my baby about what to say yes and what to say now.
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1,024 reviews10 followers
November 8, 2021
Elliot loved this book, but I had to hide it after he started mimicking all the No No things the baby was doing, like pulling the toilet paper, throwing food, etc… stuff we’d specifically worked on to stop and then he restarted because it was funny in the book. I like the author’s other books, but I just think Elliot was too “inspired” by this one 😖

Read at age 2.
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557 reviews2 followers
November 8, 2023
Miss Alice the two year old LOVES to sit down and read this book. She chirps "No no baby!" and "Yes yes baby!" and talks about when the baby is using the potty. (that is good)

Personally, I have a love/hate relationship with this board book because it shows so clearly how baby can recreate the No No scenes in my home, but it speaks on a toddler level. Thus it remains.
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152 reviews
December 2, 2017
My son loves this book, and will read it to himself, even though he can’t read. I love that the pictures are open ended so you as the parent can inject your terms. Such as “no playing in the toilet, no-no!”
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24 reviews
January 28, 2019
Mom and dad appreciate the images and messages particularly at this stage in toddlerhood (pulling the cat’s tail!! Throwing food!)

Lainey isn’t too impressed by all the “no’s” and threw the book to the side several pages in and has refused it ever since 😆
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14 reviews
March 27, 2022
Great book that teaches children about what behavior is acceptable and what behavior is not. Things like pulling a dog's tail is not acceptable, but rubbing a dog behind his ears is acceptable. Very good read.
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757 reviews4 followers
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February 20, 2025
Well, my buddy seemed to enjoy it. He listened with careful attention the whole way through. That being said, he was older than the intended age for this, and also seemed to be paying closer attention to the "no" pages, so there is that.
47 reviews
March 25, 2018
My 2-year-old niece loves this book, and will sit and read it to herself: "No no, tearing up books. Yes yes, reading books!"
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