4.5 ⭐️
Kay’Lo annoyed me to NO END, and not bc of his mental health, but bc of his complete and utter IGNORANCE. His comments like, “I did my part and gave you what you want, now I want a baby,” was CRINGE AF!!! And the way he went about the topic of infertility in general was crazy to me. For one, he completely disregarded Toni’s feelings and went around her, which he did A LOT. Him and his cousin Pressure definitely have that shit in common 🙄😒 Then, I feel like he prematurely brought up such a sensitive topic with his cousins, who are men and clearly don’t understand a woman’s body or what she could be going through emotionally. I commend Toni for rallying for his mental health and supporting him every step of the way, and questioning when things didn’t feel right. W wife! 🤏🏾
Kwame is another ignorant person that had me PISSED, and I guess that’s where his son gets it from lawddddd. The ignorance behind Kay’Lo being bipolar and schizophrenic making him “weak” and the whole “that doesn’t run in our blood” mentality is such a common misconception when it comes to mental health. Like, would you rather your son continue crashing out and being a shitty husband, son, cousin, friend, or father instead of accepting his diagnosis and getting the help he needs?! 🤦🏾♀️
Now Pressure?! Him doing that dumb ass shit not pulling out, not wanting to use protection, not understanding that postpartum depression is a VERY real experience, while being selfish because he wanted more kids and a big family to pass down his legacy, blew my mind. It was disrespectful, insensitive, and just flat out wrong! It also is not fair to Pluto. You can want a big family all you want, but that doesn’t mean your wife’s physical and mental well-being should come second to that dream.
Overall, these men had me STRESSED because the lack of understanding, empathy, and communication was doing my HEAD IN 😭