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Pride Parlor #1
Defying Expectations
Well, Aspen had done it. With their best friend Noah by their side, they came out as nonbinary, weathered the resulting divorce, and got their first drastic haircut. They’re ready to start their new life… there’s just one problem. They want Noah to be a big part of that life, and not just as a friend.
Noah survived growing up under his parents suffocating expectations, came out in college and moved far away to start a new life, but there are some things he can’t run away from. When Aspen admits they have feelings for Noah, he has to come face to face with a truth he’s been avoiding for a long time: he’s not sure romantic relationships, the kind everyone seems to expect from him, are actually what he wants.
So, he has a proposition. A six month trial relationship in which Aspen gets to explore nonheteronormative, polyamorous relationships, and all they entail, while Noah tries to figure out exactly what he’s doing with his life.
Follow Aspen and Noah as they meet Rachel, a recently out bi woman also trying to figure out her life, and Charlie, the harried owner of a failing dog shelter.
Defying Expectations is a LGBTQ+ polyamorous contemporary romance with several pairings including MX/MXF/MXM with trans masc and nonbinary rep.
Noah survived growing up under his parents suffocating expectations, came out in college and moved far away to start a new life, but there are some things he can’t run away from. When Aspen admits they have feelings for Noah, he has to come face to face with a truth he’s been avoiding for a long time: he’s not sure romantic relationships, the kind everyone seems to expect from him, are actually what he wants.
So, he has a proposition. A six month trial relationship in which Aspen gets to explore nonheteronormative, polyamorous relationships, and all they entail, while Noah tries to figure out exactly what he’s doing with his life.
Follow Aspen and Noah as they meet Rachel, a recently out bi woman also trying to figure out her life, and Charlie, the harried owner of a failing dog shelter.
Defying Expectations is a LGBTQ+ polyamorous contemporary romance with several pairings including MX/MXF/MXM with trans masc and nonbinary rep.
349 pages, Kindle Edition
Published April 14, 2026
About the author
D.C. Emerson
13 books125 followersD.C. is an avid board gamer and rock climber who lives on the East Coast of the United States but loves to travel to places near and far as often as they can.
D.C. has always identified as queer, but during the pandemic they came out as nonbinary (they/them pronouns) to family and friends. This book was part of that process, and they have loved exploring different genderqueer identities like their own through their writing, reading, research, and countless hours watching reels and videos on social media.
Their biggest hope in writing queer fiction is to provide at least one other person out there with characters and story lines that they can recognize themselves, or their friends and loved ones in.
D.C. has always identified as queer, but during the pandemic they came out as nonbinary (they/them pronouns) to family and friends. This book was part of that process, and they have loved exploring different genderqueer identities like their own through their writing, reading, research, and countless hours watching reels and videos on social media.
Their biggest hope in writing queer fiction is to provide at least one other person out there with characters and story lines that they can recognize themselves, or their friends and loved ones in.
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April 16, 2026I'm realizing that while I love love love DC's novellas, the full length novellas just might not be for me. Or maybe it's just the last two I've tried. I'll keep trying, but might not review until I find that spark again.
April 11, 2026
Another fantastic love story by D.C. Emerson!
Defying Expectations is an absolutely beautiful story about love, discovery, sexuality, gender identity, and neurodiversity set in a contemporary world.
Our main characters are Aspen and Noah, whom we’ve met in some of Emerson’s other stories (the Conflict Mediation series, where Leon befriends Aspen around Christmas in Conflict Resolution, and then Noah helps James set up for Valentine’s Day in Love Mediation; Noah and Aspen also feature in Rachel’s story in the novella Redefining Happiness). I was initially super excited to read this story because Aspen intrigued me—and I love Aspen to bits; I see so much of myself in them, especially in how their brain works and jumps from one subject to another and how fast they speak and how they process information. What surprised me, however, was that Noah actually ended up being my favourite character!! Maybe because I have such a soft spot for fictional characters that have been through a lot, and Noah’s family was really putting him through it. I really enjoyed him finding partnership with Aspen, Rachel, as well as his best friend Charlie, and I thoroughly enjoyed how he managed to stand up to his family and find allies in some family members we maybe wouldn’t have suspected it from.
This story is pretty low-angst, but there’s still some tension and lots of feelings, and so much character development. Expect MX, MXF, and MXM pairings with trans masc, nonbinary and cis characters, autism and ADHD rep, exploration or aromantic and asexual labels as well as polyamory, found family, and an introduction to characters we’ll see more from in future books in this series! 🥰
I received an ARC of this story from the author. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
Defying Expectations is an absolutely beautiful story about love, discovery, sexuality, gender identity, and neurodiversity set in a contemporary world.
Our main characters are Aspen and Noah, whom we’ve met in some of Emerson’s other stories (the Conflict Mediation series, where Leon befriends Aspen around Christmas in Conflict Resolution, and then Noah helps James set up for Valentine’s Day in Love Mediation; Noah and Aspen also feature in Rachel’s story in the novella Redefining Happiness). I was initially super excited to read this story because Aspen intrigued me—and I love Aspen to bits; I see so much of myself in them, especially in how their brain works and jumps from one subject to another and how fast they speak and how they process information. What surprised me, however, was that Noah actually ended up being my favourite character!! Maybe because I have such a soft spot for fictional characters that have been through a lot, and Noah’s family was really putting him through it. I really enjoyed him finding partnership with Aspen, Rachel, as well as his best friend Charlie, and I thoroughly enjoyed how he managed to stand up to his family and find allies in some family members we maybe wouldn’t have suspected it from.
This story is pretty low-angst, but there’s still some tension and lots of feelings, and so much character development. Expect MX, MXF, and MXM pairings with trans masc, nonbinary and cis characters, autism and ADHD rep, exploration or aromantic and asexual labels as well as polyamory, found family, and an introduction to characters we’ll see more from in future books in this series! 🥰
I received an ARC of this story from the author. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
Review of advance copy received from Author
I loved Aspens character when I first met them in Love Mediation and then seeing Aspen and Noah in Rachel's novella. Seeing more of Noah and who he is as a person, I think he's my favorite.
“Is that true, Gordon?” Noah asked. “Do you promise I’ll be your favorite person, even when I have no idea what I’m doing?” Gordon stared at Noah, his big, brown eyes holding the answers to all Noah’s questions. Too bad dogs couldn’t talk."
Charlie is also great. He definitely has a grounding personality and knows exactly what Noah needs (and eventually Aspen). I love how we get to see Aspen being the grounding one and supporting Charlie at one point and they even mention how normally they're the one needing support.
I always find it interesting when people claim they can't relate to someone when their gender/sexuality is different then theirs. So much of Noah, Aspen and Charlie are relatable that you can really connect with their feelings and understand their reactions while not identifying the same. Although, Aspen and Noah have difficult/non existent relationships with their family strictly because of who they are and while I can't begin to understand what that is like, I do understand how it feels to feel like or be a disappointment to those you are supposed to love you.
The character development is top notch in every D.C Emerson book I've read and this is no exception. The plot actually follows a trial relationship which shows the MCs really diving into who they are and what they want as well as dismantling expectations from family.
"The belief that someone had to figure themselves out by a specific age sounded like the kind of bullshit both of their parents would spout."
"Reciprosexual. Asexual. Aromantic. Aroace. The words played on a loop in Noah’s mind throughout the fundraiser, like a song he couldn’t get out of his head. He’d always known his sexuality was a bit different than everyone around him."
Although this book includes Charlie as a MC, I never once felt like I was missing out because his POV wasn't apart of the main story (it's the epilogue). I think it's because Charlie keeps things Gordy Simple 🙂 and so he's up front and honest I'm a way that makes it easy to see how he feels.
Absolutely loved seeing more of Rachel, and Quinn's experience with Princess lol. James and Leon!!! Loved seeing them again as well as Diego and Frankie! Also the banter that happens between everyone at Pride Parlor is spectacular and I can't wait to read more. I love how the author is able to cover heavy topics but we still see true joy from the characters. They take the time to show the sass, banter and overall humour and joy the characters experience and it comes off realistic and natural. I think that representation really matters.
“Ignoring your polyamorous propaganda and commune billboarding, I promise, I hear you,” Aspen said, and they patted her cheek and then obnoxiously ruffled her hair."
Also the crocheted octopus reference?
"Meanwhile, Frankie hefted the child up into his arms and handed them a pride flag crocheted octopus."
"A skirt could work, but they always sat like a bisexual disaster, so that was probably not advisable, at least… not tonight."
“I do not monologue!” Noah’s grin was tiny as he grabbed a carrot and placed it on his wooden cutting board. “You’re right, that implies a level of grandeur. It’s more like an unskippable cut scene.”
“Ta da!” they said, letting the flannel hang open off their shoulders. “For once, I get to do this reveal, and I’ve already done the parts and preferences talk!”
“Is that true, Gordon?” Noah asked. “Do you promise I’ll be your favorite person, even when I have no idea what I’m doing?” Gordon stared at Noah, his big, brown eyes holding the answers to all Noah’s questions. Too bad dogs couldn’t talk."
Charlie is also great. He definitely has a grounding personality and knows exactly what Noah needs (and eventually Aspen). I love how we get to see Aspen being the grounding one and supporting Charlie at one point and they even mention how normally they're the one needing support.
I always find it interesting when people claim they can't relate to someone when their gender/sexuality is different then theirs. So much of Noah, Aspen and Charlie are relatable that you can really connect with their feelings and understand their reactions while not identifying the same. Although, Aspen and Noah have difficult/non existent relationships with their family strictly because of who they are and while I can't begin to understand what that is like, I do understand how it feels to feel like or be a disappointment to those you are supposed to love you.
The character development is top notch in every D.C Emerson book I've read and this is no exception. The plot actually follows a trial relationship which shows the MCs really diving into who they are and what they want as well as dismantling expectations from family.
"The belief that someone had to figure themselves out by a specific age sounded like the kind of bullshit both of their parents would spout."
"Reciprosexual. Asexual. Aromantic. Aroace. The words played on a loop in Noah’s mind throughout the fundraiser, like a song he couldn’t get out of his head. He’d always known his sexuality was a bit different than everyone around him."
Although this book includes Charlie as a MC, I never once felt like I was missing out because his POV wasn't apart of the main story (it's the epilogue). I think it's because Charlie keeps things Gordy Simple 🙂 and so he's up front and honest I'm a way that makes it easy to see how he feels.
Absolutely loved seeing more of Rachel, and Quinn's experience with Princess lol. James and Leon!!! Loved seeing them again as well as Diego and Frankie! Also the banter that happens between everyone at Pride Parlor is spectacular and I can't wait to read more. I love how the author is able to cover heavy topics but we still see true joy from the characters. They take the time to show the sass, banter and overall humour and joy the characters experience and it comes off realistic and natural. I think that representation really matters.
“Ignoring your polyamorous propaganda and commune billboarding, I promise, I hear you,” Aspen said, and they patted her cheek and then obnoxiously ruffled her hair."
Also the crocheted octopus reference?
"Meanwhile, Frankie hefted the child up into his arms and handed them a pride flag crocheted octopus."
"A skirt could work, but they always sat like a bisexual disaster, so that was probably not advisable, at least… not tonight."
“I do not monologue!” Noah’s grin was tiny as he grabbed a carrot and placed it on his wooden cutting board. “You’re right, that implies a level of grandeur. It’s more like an unskippable cut scene.”
“Ta da!” they said, letting the flannel hang open off their shoulders. “For once, I get to do this reveal, and I’ve already done the parts and preferences talk!”
Review of advance copy received from Author
In Defying Expectations we meet Aspen and Noah. Aspen is recently divorced and recently out as nonbinary. They are in that stage of gender self discovery where everything is very exciting but also can be very daunting and overwhelming. They are figuring out what life means for them outside of the constructs of cis-heteronormativity.
Noah is Aspen's best friend and has been for years. Aspen supported him thru his transition and now he is doing the same for them. But Noah is by no means an underdeveloped side character. We learn about his struggles with accepting and standing up for himself especially to his parents who are less than accepting. Because of this Noah struggles to know what he wants.
Aspen and Noah are both going thru a lot but they are both sure about one thing - they want to be in each others lives. Noah suggests a 6 month trial polyamorous relationship in which Aspen gets to explore non heteronormative polyamorous relationships and Noah has the space for conversation and to figure out what he wants in a relationship that sees him for him and wants him to be happy.
This book was incredibly wholesome with a splash of horny in the best ways. The characters learn about themselves and each other. And there is character growth in all of them including side characters. The relationship between Aspen and Noah is wholesome but their chemistry is also very much there.
The open door scenes are well placed within the story and not overly dramatic or gratuitous but well done. Aspen is new to nonheteronormative relationships and sex . So conversations about prefered terms and body preferences are on page in conversation in a way you don't see often.
This is also just such a wholesome realistic portrayal of one type of healthy polyamorous relationships and we need more of that rep in the book world. It challenges stereotypes and portrays it as it should be - a valid relationship orientation that can be just as healthy as any monogamous relationship.
I saw myself a bit in each of the characters. A few years ago I got divorced, came out as nonbinary and had to start over, so I saw myself in Aspen quite a bit. But I also saw myself in the anxiety and pressure that Noah felt from his family. I also saw myself in other characters but in ways that are spoiler-y so I wont go into that here.
I also have to mention I really appreciated the very practical and realistic asexual representation and the representations of neurodiversity in this book. As the characters learn about themselves the reader has the opportunity to learn about identities they may not be familiar with. The portrayals of both do not rely on stereotypes which is a huge thing for me. Asexuality as well as ADHD and Autism are spectrums. ADHD isn't always being distracted all the time or hyperactive and autism isn't always fidgets and difficulties communicating. As a person within all of these groups I appreciated that the author didn't stay in the the boxes of the stereotypes and portrayed these identities practically and realistically.
Overall I really enjoyed this book. I look forward to reading the rest of the books in this series and learning more about some of the other characters we got to meet.
Thanks to the author D.C. Emerson for entrusting me with an Advanced Reader Copy of this book and giving me the joy of meeting these characters.
Noah is Aspen's best friend and has been for years. Aspen supported him thru his transition and now he is doing the same for them. But Noah is by no means an underdeveloped side character. We learn about his struggles with accepting and standing up for himself especially to his parents who are less than accepting. Because of this Noah struggles to know what he wants.
Aspen and Noah are both going thru a lot but they are both sure about one thing - they want to be in each others lives. Noah suggests a 6 month trial polyamorous relationship in which Aspen gets to explore non heteronormative polyamorous relationships and Noah has the space for conversation and to figure out what he wants in a relationship that sees him for him and wants him to be happy.
This book was incredibly wholesome with a splash of horny in the best ways. The characters learn about themselves and each other. And there is character growth in all of them including side characters. The relationship between Aspen and Noah is wholesome but their chemistry is also very much there.
The open door scenes are well placed within the story and not overly dramatic or gratuitous but well done. Aspen is new to nonheteronormative relationships and sex . So conversations about prefered terms and body preferences are on page in conversation in a way you don't see often.
This is also just such a wholesome realistic portrayal of one type of healthy polyamorous relationships and we need more of that rep in the book world. It challenges stereotypes and portrays it as it should be - a valid relationship orientation that can be just as healthy as any monogamous relationship.
I saw myself a bit in each of the characters. A few years ago I got divorced, came out as nonbinary and had to start over, so I saw myself in Aspen quite a bit. But I also saw myself in the anxiety and pressure that Noah felt from his family. I also saw myself in other characters but in ways that are spoiler-y so I wont go into that here.
I also have to mention I really appreciated the very practical and realistic asexual representation and the representations of neurodiversity in this book. As the characters learn about themselves the reader has the opportunity to learn about identities they may not be familiar with. The portrayals of both do not rely on stereotypes which is a huge thing for me. Asexuality as well as ADHD and Autism are spectrums. ADHD isn't always being distracted all the time or hyperactive and autism isn't always fidgets and difficulties communicating. As a person within all of these groups I appreciated that the author didn't stay in the the boxes of the stereotypes and portrayed these identities practically and realistically.
Overall I really enjoyed this book. I look forward to reading the rest of the books in this series and learning more about some of the other characters we got to meet.
Thanks to the author D.C. Emerson for entrusting me with an Advanced Reader Copy of this book and giving me the joy of meeting these characters.
Review of advance copy received from Author
4.5/5⭐
Defying Expectations is the first book in D.C. Emerson’s Pride Parlor series. Here’s what you can expect from the story:
🌈 Polyamorous contemporary romance
🌈 Third person dual point of view
🌈 Guaranteed happily ever after
🌈 Open door spice
🌈 Several pairings including MX, MXF, and MXM
🌈 Transmasculine representation
🌈 Nonbinary representation
🌈 Autism representation
🌈 Best friends to lovers
🌈 Polyamorous awakening
🌈 Trial relationship
Ensure you review the content and trigger warnings to decide if this book is right for you. Note this list of warnings may be incomplete. Please take care of yourself while reading.
I always love the care and representation D.C. Emerson includes in their books, and Defying Expectations was such a great discovery filled with different types of love, friendship, and exploration. Although this book focuses on Noah and Aspen’s relationship and phases of discovery, we meet other characters (such as Rachel and Charlie) that are just as important to the story. I appreciate that the author doesn’t shy away from the more difficult aspects of the characters’ discovery with one another, and I liked the realistic, non-linear representation. Those that have enjoyed D.C.’s Conflict Mediation series will already be familiar with Aspen and Noah, and this book takes place parallel to James and Leon’s adventures. Seeing Aspen and Noah navigate their trial relationship while coming to their own realizations both about themselves and their relationship made my queer heart so very happy. There were lots of funny moments, sweet moments, and oh-so-spicy moments in this book that I was immediately sucked in and didn’t want to put it down. The polyamorous awakening was really cool to witness, and it’s something I don’t read about or see portrayed exactly in this way often and it was such an important part of Noah and Aspen’s journey. This was such a great book, and D.C. has become an auto-read author for me. I look forward to getting to know the rest of the characters in this series and see them get their happily ever afters, and knowing that that means a little something different to each and every person.
I received an advanced review copy of this book from the author and am voluntarily leaving a review.
Defying Expectations is the first book in D.C. Emerson’s Pride Parlor series. Here’s what you can expect from the story:
🌈 Polyamorous contemporary romance
🌈 Third person dual point of view
🌈 Guaranteed happily ever after
🌈 Open door spice
🌈 Several pairings including MX, MXF, and MXM
🌈 Transmasculine representation
🌈 Nonbinary representation
🌈 Autism representation
🌈 Best friends to lovers
🌈 Polyamorous awakening
🌈 Trial relationship
Ensure you review the content and trigger warnings to decide if this book is right for you. Note this list of warnings may be incomplete. Please take care of yourself while reading.
I always love the care and representation D.C. Emerson includes in their books, and Defying Expectations was such a great discovery filled with different types of love, friendship, and exploration. Although this book focuses on Noah and Aspen’s relationship and phases of discovery, we meet other characters (such as Rachel and Charlie) that are just as important to the story. I appreciate that the author doesn’t shy away from the more difficult aspects of the characters’ discovery with one another, and I liked the realistic, non-linear representation. Those that have enjoyed D.C.’s Conflict Mediation series will already be familiar with Aspen and Noah, and this book takes place parallel to James and Leon’s adventures. Seeing Aspen and Noah navigate their trial relationship while coming to their own realizations both about themselves and their relationship made my queer heart so very happy. There were lots of funny moments, sweet moments, and oh-so-spicy moments in this book that I was immediately sucked in and didn’t want to put it down. The polyamorous awakening was really cool to witness, and it’s something I don’t read about or see portrayed exactly in this way often and it was such an important part of Noah and Aspen’s journey. This was such a great book, and D.C. has become an auto-read author for me. I look forward to getting to know the rest of the characters in this series and see them get their happily ever afters, and knowing that that means a little something different to each and every person.
I received an advanced review copy of this book from the author and am voluntarily leaving a review.
April 14, 2026
Arc Review:
Oh my gods! This book is everything my nonbinary, somewhere on the aroace spectrum, polyamorous heart could ever want in a romance! This novel follows Noah and Aspen as they explore what relationships can be outside of monogamy and heterosexual/cisgender norms. So together they agree to a six month trial relationship. During this time Aspen and Noah explore each other and themselves whilst meeting new people, forming new bonds and redefining old ones. With a slew of new discoveries made about themselves and the deadline for the trial approaching, they both have to decide what they want their future to look like and what kind of relationship they what for themselves and with each other.
Sometimes I read books and I really wish I had more stars to give. This is for sure one of them. As someone who is ethically non monogamous, neurodiverse, and part of the lgbtqia community in more ways than one, the representation in this book made my heart sing. D.C. Emerson did a phenomenal job representing a slew of identities in writing this book, and they did so (in my opinion) respectfully and accurately. So often I see one or more of the identities being written about as an afterthought or in the case of the neurodivergence rep as a funny bit or quirk. While there are definitely some points of this book that had me laughing, the funny part was never at the expense of the characters identity.
I really enjoyed the way the author wrote the relationship between Aspen and Noah. How strong their friendship was from the beginning and how through the book they had to learn how to communicate more effectively not only with themselves but with each other. I loved getting to read as the trust between them strengthened further than it already was and how both of them (especially Aspen) grew in confidence. Both of these characters were absolutely gorgeous, and so were the other characters that popped in and out throughout the course of the story.
I will be reading this book again and again anytime I need a book with amazing rep and I’m hoping you all will too!
Oh my gods! This book is everything my nonbinary, somewhere on the aroace spectrum, polyamorous heart could ever want in a romance! This novel follows Noah and Aspen as they explore what relationships can be outside of monogamy and heterosexual/cisgender norms. So together they agree to a six month trial relationship. During this time Aspen and Noah explore each other and themselves whilst meeting new people, forming new bonds and redefining old ones. With a slew of new discoveries made about themselves and the deadline for the trial approaching, they both have to decide what they want their future to look like and what kind of relationship they what for themselves and with each other.
Sometimes I read books and I really wish I had more stars to give. This is for sure one of them. As someone who is ethically non monogamous, neurodiverse, and part of the lgbtqia community in more ways than one, the representation in this book made my heart sing. D.C. Emerson did a phenomenal job representing a slew of identities in writing this book, and they did so (in my opinion) respectfully and accurately. So often I see one or more of the identities being written about as an afterthought or in the case of the neurodivergence rep as a funny bit or quirk. While there are definitely some points of this book that had me laughing, the funny part was never at the expense of the characters identity.
I really enjoyed the way the author wrote the relationship between Aspen and Noah. How strong their friendship was from the beginning and how through the book they had to learn how to communicate more effectively not only with themselves but with each other. I loved getting to read as the trust between them strengthened further than it already was and how both of them (especially Aspen) grew in confidence. Both of these characters were absolutely gorgeous, and so were the other characters that popped in and out throughout the course of the story.
I will be reading this book again and again anytime I need a book with amazing rep and I’m hoping you all will too!
Review of advance copy received from Author
*ARC Review* Thank you for the copy!
Intro:
This book is an LGBTQ+ polyamorous contemporary romance between Aspen, a hair stylist, Charlie, a dog shelter owner and Noah an insurance agent
Tropes/Highlights:
-MX/MXF/MXM
-Trans Masc/Nonbinary Rep
-Open Door
-Self Discovery
-ADHD Rep
-Chosen Family
-Best Friends to Partners
-HEA
Likes:
-Sweet/well developed characters
-Aspen's stim with numbers
-Noah's supportive/cuddly nature
-Charlie's comforting nature
-Open communication/respecting boundaries
-Non-normative relationship exploration
-Standing up to toxic family
-Sharing clothes
-Normalizing therapy
-Sweet nicknames, especially the ones Charlie gives
-Appearances from a previous series
-Describing queer terminology, I learned some new things!
Quotes
-"I can't lose him, I have him platonically, and if that's all we're ever meant to be, I would happily take that for the rest of my life"
-"Come on, peanut, talk to me"
-"He tried to make himself as small as he could, curling into Aspen's arms like it was the last safe space left in the world"
-"I've really got my work cut out for me with the two of you, haven't I?"
-"He loved them, too. With everything that he had to give, he loved Aspen, and when Charlie threaded his fingers into Noah's hair and whispered how "fucking beautiful" they both were, Noah somehow found even more love to give to Charlie"
I enjoyed this book and reading about the multiple queer characters and different relationship dynamics. Emerson does a great job of developing the characters and showcasing each of their struggles with their identities/needs. This book is about 3+ people coming together to share love, connection, friendship, safety and exploring and acting on the things that make them happy. If you are looking for a low angst story with sweet characters who are discovering new identities and exploring polyamory for the first time, this may be the book for you.
Intro:
This book is an LGBTQ+ polyamorous contemporary romance between Aspen, a hair stylist, Charlie, a dog shelter owner and Noah an insurance agent
Tropes/Highlights:
-MX/MXF/MXM
-Trans Masc/Nonbinary Rep
-Open Door
-Self Discovery
-ADHD Rep
-Chosen Family
-Best Friends to Partners
-HEA
Likes:
-Sweet/well developed characters
-Aspen's stim with numbers
-Noah's supportive/cuddly nature
-Charlie's comforting nature
-Open communication/respecting boundaries
-Non-normative relationship exploration
-Standing up to toxic family
-Sharing clothes
-Normalizing therapy
-Sweet nicknames, especially the ones Charlie gives
-Appearances from a previous series
-Describing queer terminology, I learned some new things!
Quotes
-"I can't lose him, I have him platonically, and if that's all we're ever meant to be, I would happily take that for the rest of my life"
-"Come on, peanut, talk to me"
-"He tried to make himself as small as he could, curling into Aspen's arms like it was the last safe space left in the world"
-"I've really got my work cut out for me with the two of you, haven't I?"
-"He loved them, too. With everything that he had to give, he loved Aspen, and when Charlie threaded his fingers into Noah's hair and whispered how "fucking beautiful" they both were, Noah somehow found even more love to give to Charlie"
I enjoyed this book and reading about the multiple queer characters and different relationship dynamics. Emerson does a great job of developing the characters and showcasing each of their struggles with their identities/needs. This book is about 3+ people coming together to share love, connection, friendship, safety and exploring and acting on the things that make them happy. If you are looking for a low angst story with sweet characters who are discovering new identities and exploring polyamory for the first time, this may be the book for you.
April 15, 2026
5 STARS
There's never a dull moment with Aspen. They are mesmerizing, fascinating. There's an high emotional intelligence when it comes to Aspen, they're also very intuitive, and incredibly creative. They barely hesitate when they take action, but at the same time they are so thoughtful. Omg! I love Aspen so much ❤️.
Every single character, main or secondary it doesn't matter, I was absolutely captivated by them. Blair, Frankie, Diego, James, Leon, Rachel, DANI !!! - I need a whole book about Dani!, 👈 all important side characters that I'm sure they're going to be incredibly important throughout this phenomenal series. The found/chosen family element, the neurodiverge, the queerness of it all, are all so beautiful. I really really enjoyed this book.
Noah is a great character, and because of him I am forever changed. His struggle was so real, so important. And Charlie, oh sweet Charlie, I'll keep it "Gordy Simple"... he is wonderful.
Honestly, the only reason I'm not immediately re-reading this book is because I have other books on the schedule. Great reading. The full 5 stars. I'm certainly following this series.
edited (needed to point out this)
- The chemistry between every single important character is off the charts. Be it friendships or situationships.
- A lot of character development going on. The main characters are finding themselves, they're growing with each page. And they're supporting each other every step of the way. 👈 Definitely one of my favorite parts of the book.
- The sex scenes were great. The communication was fantastic between the characters, from the trans vocab to the no-preferences talk. Everything is so fluid and real, at the same time sexy, hot, and remarkable.
- I absolutely love that ending! The "Pride Parlor"! ❤️
- Another note. This author has an incredible cover game., I mean, have you seen D. C. Emerson's all book covers?! Stunning, just stunning.
There's never a dull moment with Aspen. They are mesmerizing, fascinating. There's an high emotional intelligence when it comes to Aspen, they're also very intuitive, and incredibly creative. They barely hesitate when they take action, but at the same time they are so thoughtful. Omg! I love Aspen so much ❤️.
Every single character, main or secondary it doesn't matter, I was absolutely captivated by them. Blair, Frankie, Diego, James, Leon, Rachel, DANI !!! - I need a whole book about Dani!, 👈 all important side characters that I'm sure they're going to be incredibly important throughout this phenomenal series. The found/chosen family element, the neurodiverge, the queerness of it all, are all so beautiful. I really really enjoyed this book.
Noah is a great character, and because of him I am forever changed. His struggle was so real, so important. And Charlie, oh sweet Charlie, I'll keep it "Gordy Simple"... he is wonderful.
Honestly, the only reason I'm not immediately re-reading this book is because I have other books on the schedule. Great reading. The full 5 stars. I'm certainly following this series.
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- The chemistry between every single important character is off the charts. Be it friendships or situationships.
- A lot of character development going on. The main characters are finding themselves, they're growing with each page. And they're supporting each other every step of the way. 👈 Definitely one of my favorite parts of the book.
- The sex scenes were great. The communication was fantastic between the characters, from the trans vocab to the no-preferences talk. Everything is so fluid and real, at the same time sexy, hot, and remarkable.
- I absolutely love that ending! The "Pride Parlor"! ❤️
- Another note. This author has an incredible cover game., I mean, have you seen D. C. Emerson's all book covers?! Stunning, just stunning.
April 17, 2026
Defying Expectations isn't your average LGBQT+ romancev story. In my humble opinion, it's also educational, because I must say, I have learned a lot! While I consider myself an ally and Queer adjacent, I am not familiar with a lot of terms and labels, and that was a huge facet of the book. How the main characters (and even side characters) identified their selves and how they wanted people to see them as.
From the start we know Noah is a trans man (He/Him) and has been besties with Aspen who is nonbinary (They/Them) since college. Aspen is moving forward with their divorce from their cis husband (I think that's what he's called) and they're feeling some kind of way. They need they're best friend because, they want to try non-heteronormative (new term for me) sex and feels Noah can be the one to help them.
Of course, this catches Noah off guard but he realizes he would be glad to help them explore that aspect in their platonic friendship. Lots of spicy spiciness, with lessons learned and more questions asked than answered. That goes on for most of the book. Are they polyamorous? Is Noah aromantic? If he can't love people romantically, should he start a relationship? He and Aspen decide to do a 6 month trial as fwb, as they figure out who they are and what they want. As individuals, as well as best friends.
There's so much more, and as the blurb mentions, Rachel and Charlie also come into the mix of things. Yet they too are trying to find their way in life, because ultimately, everyone just wants to be happy and find someone to be with and who accepts them for who they are and not what society expects them to be.
The book made me think a lot about my own self. It's difficult to put new labels on yourself, but the older you become, the more comfortable you are with yourself. Defy Expectactations! Just find your people and live your best life as your true authentic self, that's all that really matters! 5 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
From the start we know Noah is a trans man (He/Him) and has been besties with Aspen who is nonbinary (They/Them) since college. Aspen is moving forward with their divorce from their cis husband (I think that's what he's called) and they're feeling some kind of way. They need they're best friend because, they want to try non-heteronormative (new term for me) sex and feels Noah can be the one to help them.
Of course, this catches Noah off guard but he realizes he would be glad to help them explore that aspect in their platonic friendship. Lots of spicy spiciness, with lessons learned and more questions asked than answered. That goes on for most of the book. Are they polyamorous? Is Noah aromantic? If he can't love people romantically, should he start a relationship? He and Aspen decide to do a 6 month trial as fwb, as they figure out who they are and what they want. As individuals, as well as best friends.
There's so much more, and as the blurb mentions, Rachel and Charlie also come into the mix of things. Yet they too are trying to find their way in life, because ultimately, everyone just wants to be happy and find someone to be with and who accepts them for who they are and not what society expects them to be.
The book made me think a lot about my own self. It's difficult to put new labels on yourself, but the older you become, the more comfortable you are with yourself. Defy Expectactations! Just find your people and live your best life as your true authentic self, that's all that really matters! 5 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
April 17, 2026
I received an Arc in exchange for my honest review.
I give Defying Expectations 4 stars.
I really love the universe that D.C Emerson has built and this book is no exception.
I enjoy reading about different identities and getting to know/understand other POVs.
I also enjoy seeing other relationship dynamics being used in stories today, its a breath of fresh air to see things outside the binary heteronormative examples we've all grown up with.
Charlie, Noah and Aspen all felt like very similar but also vastly different as people. I think they were a great example of why some participate in polyamorous relationships. Its always wonderful if someone can find their forever person and it meet all of their needs but I think its also equally wonderful to find a few forever people to meet those needs as well.
I can't say that I've ever experienced much similar to the main characters in this book but I can understand struggling to juggle yourself with your family's expectations of you.
The constant battle of the self you wish to be with the self your life has formed can often times be the hardest thing you will ever do.
I thought it was great to see therapy utilized in the story, given how stigmatized it can still be.
I also got a kick out of every character cameo from other stories of D.C. Emerson's that came up.
While the story definitely dealt with some really hard topics and emotionally was a bit of a roller coaster, it was also cute, and sweet and lovely.
I would 100% recommend this book to others and would encourage them to pick up the other books that D.C. Emerson has written like the "Not so Normative" and "Conflict Mediation" series that both take place in the same universe.
I look forward to reading more books in the Pride Parlor Series
I give Defying Expectations 4 stars.
I really love the universe that D.C Emerson has built and this book is no exception.
I enjoy reading about different identities and getting to know/understand other POVs.
I also enjoy seeing other relationship dynamics being used in stories today, its a breath of fresh air to see things outside the binary heteronormative examples we've all grown up with.
Charlie, Noah and Aspen all felt like very similar but also vastly different as people. I think they were a great example of why some participate in polyamorous relationships. Its always wonderful if someone can find their forever person and it meet all of their needs but I think its also equally wonderful to find a few forever people to meet those needs as well.
I can't say that I've ever experienced much similar to the main characters in this book but I can understand struggling to juggle yourself with your family's expectations of you.
The constant battle of the self you wish to be with the self your life has formed can often times be the hardest thing you will ever do.
I thought it was great to see therapy utilized in the story, given how stigmatized it can still be.
I also got a kick out of every character cameo from other stories of D.C. Emerson's that came up.
While the story definitely dealt with some really hard topics and emotionally was a bit of a roller coaster, it was also cute, and sweet and lovely.
I would 100% recommend this book to others and would encourage them to pick up the other books that D.C. Emerson has written like the "Not so Normative" and "Conflict Mediation" series that both take place in the same universe.
I look forward to reading more books in the Pride Parlor Series
Review of advance copy received from Author
D.C. Emerson is my absolute favorite for writing characters and stories that feel real. I always feel like i am stepping into someone’s lived experience and getting a glance at their life. Because of the wide character range, sometimes this allows me to see aspects of myself and other times, I feel i am able to experience the lives of people who are nothing like me. I love experiencing both and Defying Expectations gave that to me! The LGBTQIA world they have built is so beautiful, and I love being able to exist in it.
This story flowed so beautifully while allowing the characters to develop within the various relationships. We start with recently divorced Aspen discovering who they want to be as a nonbinary person and what that identity looks like to them. I appreciate how bodies are discussed. I saw one reviewer indicate that it seemed like they were teenagers. Maybe that’s because rediscovering yourself late in life can sometimes feel exactly like when you were discovering yourself as a teen.
Noah provides some structure with identity… at first. I loved seeing a character confident in his trans identity and how this helped Aspen in their exploration. However, Noah has his own family related issues that I think so many can relate to. And i love an aroace exploration and how this can exist in a relationship. The world needs more.
Then give me some polyam rep too! We get to see how communication is key to making this work as well as how it can look different with different partners, and no one is upset about it! Thank you Emerson!
All this and also exploring neurodivergence as well. ADHD and autism rep!
D.C. Emerson keeps my heart happy!
Thank you D.C. Emerson for the ARC in exchange for an honest review!
This story flowed so beautifully while allowing the characters to develop within the various relationships. We start with recently divorced Aspen discovering who they want to be as a nonbinary person and what that identity looks like to them. I appreciate how bodies are discussed. I saw one reviewer indicate that it seemed like they were teenagers. Maybe that’s because rediscovering yourself late in life can sometimes feel exactly like when you were discovering yourself as a teen.
Noah provides some structure with identity… at first. I loved seeing a character confident in his trans identity and how this helped Aspen in their exploration. However, Noah has his own family related issues that I think so many can relate to. And i love an aroace exploration and how this can exist in a relationship. The world needs more.
Then give me some polyam rep too! We get to see how communication is key to making this work as well as how it can look different with different partners, and no one is upset about it! Thank you Emerson!
All this and also exploring neurodivergence as well. ADHD and autism rep!
D.C. Emerson keeps my heart happy!
Thank you D.C. Emerson for the ARC in exchange for an honest review!
Review of advance copy received from Author
***4.5 stars
Defying Expectations is my first read from D.C. Emerson, but it certainly won't be my last. When I saw that they were starting a new series I knew there wasn't a better time for me to enter into their books than then. Thank you to the author for providing me with an ARC in exchange for my honest thoughts <3
I love finding books that make me feel a little more seen in my identities, especially any aro-spec romance books. What worked about Defying Expectations for me is the exploration of Noah's identities. He's unpacking all the pressure his parents have put on him to be the perfect child, find the perfect partner, and meet their unreasonably high standards. So much of his journey is about learning who he is outside of what his parents want him to be. I HATE his parents with a passion unlike any other. However, I love his relationships with Aspen, Charlie, and Rachel and how they allow him to be seen and give him the space to discover more about himself.
Aspen is the light of my life. They come into themself so much throughout the book. Their journey is a huge undertaking and I loved every second of it. I love how unapologetic they are about their body, their love, and their desires. So much of the plot moves forward as a result of their desire to experience who they are for the first time. It makes for an interesting romance because even when they are afraid of what could happen next, they still lean into it. They love hard and they fight hard for that love. But they never make romantic love the end all be all of their relationships with others.
I'm so glad this book exists. Period. End of story. I yearn for this type of love. It doesn't seem so impossible to find after reading this.
Defying Expectations is my first read from D.C. Emerson, but it certainly won't be my last. When I saw that they were starting a new series I knew there wasn't a better time for me to enter into their books than then. Thank you to the author for providing me with an ARC in exchange for my honest thoughts <3
I love finding books that make me feel a little more seen in my identities, especially any aro-spec romance books. What worked about Defying Expectations for me is the exploration of Noah's identities. He's unpacking all the pressure his parents have put on him to be the perfect child, find the perfect partner, and meet their unreasonably high standards. So much of his journey is about learning who he is outside of what his parents want him to be. I HATE his parents with a passion unlike any other. However, I love his relationships with Aspen, Charlie, and Rachel and how they allow him to be seen and give him the space to discover more about himself.
Aspen is the light of my life. They come into themself so much throughout the book. Their journey is a huge undertaking and I loved every second of it. I love how unapologetic they are about their body, their love, and their desires. So much of the plot moves forward as a result of their desire to experience who they are for the first time. It makes for an interesting romance because even when they are afraid of what could happen next, they still lean into it. They love hard and they fight hard for that love. But they never make romantic love the end all be all of their relationships with others.
I'm so glad this book exists. Period. End of story. I yearn for this type of love. It doesn't seem so impossible to find after reading this.
April 14, 2026
Something I love most about reading DC's stories is how they always have such diverse characters and they always pack their books full of representation too. This book, and the characters in it, represented being transgender, the ups and down that come with transitioning, gender dysphoria, being nonbinary while also possibly gender fluid, polyamory, Reciprosexual , and 'romantic-ish', along with so much more.
Throughout reading about Noah, Charlie, Rachel, and Aspen I learned so much and I love when I can learn new things while reading. I also loved how these characters genuinely listened to one another, they made time for each other and gave space when they needed it but also knew when to come in close. The relationship dynamics between all of these characters was exceptional and I loved reading about every part of their journey and their individual self discoveries, as well as what they discovered together.
This book, these characters, and their relationships, was just so refreshing to read about. This was beautiful, and bold, and a little sad at time but that's what made it even more beautiful for me. It was raw, real, and relatable.
Also, I loved everything about the writing! From the characters, to the storyline, to the places where this story took place, everything was just written so well! I am also now using the term 'Gordy Simple' from now on, I thought the way the characters used that to get out of their head was really endearing and a good way to remember to try to keep things simple when your thoughts are all jumbled. All in all, an absolutely terrific book and I'm so excited to read the rest of the books in this series once they are out!
Throughout reading about Noah, Charlie, Rachel, and Aspen I learned so much and I love when I can learn new things while reading. I also loved how these characters genuinely listened to one another, they made time for each other and gave space when they needed it but also knew when to come in close. The relationship dynamics between all of these characters was exceptional and I loved reading about every part of their journey and their individual self discoveries, as well as what they discovered together.
This book, these characters, and their relationships, was just so refreshing to read about. This was beautiful, and bold, and a little sad at time but that's what made it even more beautiful for me. It was raw, real, and relatable.
Also, I loved everything about the writing! From the characters, to the storyline, to the places where this story took place, everything was just written so well! I am also now using the term 'Gordy Simple' from now on, I thought the way the characters used that to get out of their head was really endearing and a good way to remember to try to keep things simple when your thoughts are all jumbled. All in all, an absolutely terrific book and I'm so excited to read the rest of the books in this series once they are out!
April 19, 2026
Trigger warnings for Defying Expectations include: past transphobia, homophobia, and ableism from partners, parents, and family members. There are a few moments of on page confrontation and transphobia. Gender dysphoria is discussed and depicted on page. There is some minor internalized homophobia, ableism, and arophobia, but most of this is addressed through therapy and processing with loved ones.
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I thoroughly enjoyed this novel. I really enjoyed the exploration of Noah and Aspen's developing feelings for each other. It was also nice to see how the relationship progressed over time and the two of them exploring their polyamory with Rachel and Charlie.
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It was also really nice to see aspec identities being discussed as more than just being aromantic and asexual. I liked seeing the nuances of identity being parsed out a little more than how it usually is.
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I loved how open Aspen was about their parts and preferences, as well as them having ADHD. I think the fact that they were so open also helped when they were opening the door with Charlie. It gave him the opportunity to be open about his sensory needs and the boundaries he had around his space and what can and can't happen.
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It was also interesting to look at Noah's family dynamics, and the way those factors played heavily into his sense of self and identity. The expectations other people had on him and how they affected large parts of his life. At this point I feel reasonably confident in saying there isn't going to a book D.C. Emerson writes that I won't enjoy.
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Thank you to author D.C. Emerson or sending me an ARC copy of this book.
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I thoroughly enjoyed this novel. I really enjoyed the exploration of Noah and Aspen's developing feelings for each other. It was also nice to see how the relationship progressed over time and the two of them exploring their polyamory with Rachel and Charlie.
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It was also really nice to see aspec identities being discussed as more than just being aromantic and asexual. I liked seeing the nuances of identity being parsed out a little more than how it usually is.
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I loved how open Aspen was about their parts and preferences, as well as them having ADHD. I think the fact that they were so open also helped when they were opening the door with Charlie. It gave him the opportunity to be open about his sensory needs and the boundaries he had around his space and what can and can't happen.
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It was also interesting to look at Noah's family dynamics, and the way those factors played heavily into his sense of self and identity. The expectations other people had on him and how they affected large parts of his life. At this point I feel reasonably confident in saying there isn't going to a book D.C. Emerson writes that I won't enjoy.
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Thank you to author D.C. Emerson or sending me an ARC copy of this book.
Review of advance copy received from Author
While this one was a bit different from what I usually pick up, D.C. Emerson has become an auto-read author for me, so I was excited to dive right in. Defying Expectations is much more focused on identity, growth, and exploration than a straightforward romance, and I appreciated the way it let the characters take their time figuring things out.
Aspen and Noah’s dynamic felt very real to me—messy, complicated, and full of care even when they weren’t quite on the same page. Their “trial relationship” setup created space for both of them to explore what they actually want, rather than what they’ve been told they should want, and I liked that the story didn’t rush those answers.
One of my favorite things about D.C. Emerson’s writing is the range of representation they bring into their stories, and this book is no exception. There’s such a thoughtful inclusion of different identities, experiences, and ways of existing, and it never feels forced—it just feels like a natural part of the world and the characters’ lives. I always come away from their books feeling like I’ve learned something new while getting lost in the stories they’ve weaved.
Overall, this was a thoughtful, character-driven read that focuses more on the journey than the destination. I’m really curious to see where the rest of the series goes from here.
~ ARC Review ~
Aspen and Noah’s dynamic felt very real to me—messy, complicated, and full of care even when they weren’t quite on the same page. Their “trial relationship” setup created space for both of them to explore what they actually want, rather than what they’ve been told they should want, and I liked that the story didn’t rush those answers.
One of my favorite things about D.C. Emerson’s writing is the range of representation they bring into their stories, and this book is no exception. There’s such a thoughtful inclusion of different identities, experiences, and ways of existing, and it never feels forced—it just feels like a natural part of the world and the characters’ lives. I always come away from their books feeling like I’ve learned something new while getting lost in the stories they’ve weaved.
Overall, this was a thoughtful, character-driven read that focuses more on the journey than the destination. I’m really curious to see where the rest of the series goes from here.
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April 14, 2026
What a warm, character-focused story that blends love, identity and self-discovery in a way that feels both thoughtful and genuine. It has a softer, lower-angst tone overall, but there’s still plenty of emotional depth as the characters figure out what they want from life and from each other.
Aspen and Noah are at the centre of it all, and their dynamic is what really carries the book. Aspen’s journey of embracing their identity and wanting more from a relationship feels honest and relatable, while Noah’s uncertainty adds an interesting contrast. His struggle isn’t about denying feelings, but about understanding what kind of relationships actually work for him, which gives the story a slightly different angle than you might expect.
The introduction of Rachel and Charlie broadens things nicely, adding more layers to both the romance and the found family aspect. The exploration of polyamory, along with different identities and labels, is handled in a way that feels natural rather than forced, with plenty of room for growth and change.
It’s the kind of book that focuses more on the journey than high drama, with strong character development, supportive relationships, and a real sense of people finding where they fit, both individually and together. Exceptional read
I received a free arc copy and this is my honest review
Aspen and Noah are at the centre of it all, and their dynamic is what really carries the book. Aspen’s journey of embracing their identity and wanting more from a relationship feels honest and relatable, while Noah’s uncertainty adds an interesting contrast. His struggle isn’t about denying feelings, but about understanding what kind of relationships actually work for him, which gives the story a slightly different angle than you might expect.
The introduction of Rachel and Charlie broadens things nicely, adding more layers to both the romance and the found family aspect. The exploration of polyamory, along with different identities and labels, is handled in a way that feels natural rather than forced, with plenty of room for growth and change.
It’s the kind of book that focuses more on the journey than high drama, with strong character development, supportive relationships, and a real sense of people finding where they fit, both individually and together. Exceptional read
I received a free arc copy and this is my honest review
April 17, 2026
An authentic, nuanced, and beautiful depiction of three queer friends exploring polyamory and their journey of self discovery thereafter.
I don’t have words. To feel so seen while also discovering so much was a truly wonderful experience as a reader. It’s a rare thing to have characters that are so layered and realistic and to have their intricacies be handled with such care. I loved each of these amazing people. Felt for them so deeply as their stories unfolded and rooted for their ultimate contentment and happiness.
This was quite the journey- from life after divorce to growing feelings for their closest friends. From hateful, controlling parents to testing the waters of polyamory. From a brother’s shot-gun wedding to saving their beloved dog shelter from closing its doors. From building a chosen family brick by brick to finding the words and feelings to finally accept themselves. And through it all the love, patience, communication, and support was breathtaking.
This was truly a love letter to queerness, to being whole and worthy exactly as you are, to unapologetically defying expectations.
What you’ll get:
•Best Friends to Lovers
•Trial Relationship
•Exploring Polyamory
•Self Discovery
•Saving the Dog Shelter
•Nonbinary Rep
•Trans Masc Rep
•Pan/Bi Rep
•Greyromantic Rep
•Reciprosexual Rep
•Side Rep
•ADHD Rep
•Autism Rep
•Chosen Family
I don’t have words. To feel so seen while also discovering so much was a truly wonderful experience as a reader. It’s a rare thing to have characters that are so layered and realistic and to have their intricacies be handled with such care. I loved each of these amazing people. Felt for them so deeply as their stories unfolded and rooted for their ultimate contentment and happiness.
This was quite the journey- from life after divorce to growing feelings for their closest friends. From hateful, controlling parents to testing the waters of polyamory. From a brother’s shot-gun wedding to saving their beloved dog shelter from closing its doors. From building a chosen family brick by brick to finding the words and feelings to finally accept themselves. And through it all the love, patience, communication, and support was breathtaking.
This was truly a love letter to queerness, to being whole and worthy exactly as you are, to unapologetically defying expectations.
What you’ll get:
•Best Friends to Lovers
•Trial Relationship
•Exploring Polyamory
•Self Discovery
•Saving the Dog Shelter
•Nonbinary Rep
•Trans Masc Rep
•Pan/Bi Rep
•Greyromantic Rep
•Reciprosexual Rep
•Side Rep
•ADHD Rep
•Autism Rep
•Chosen Family
April 12, 2026
This is my first book I’ve read by D.C. Emerson and it didn’t disappoint! I ended up rating it a 3.5 ⭐️ rated up! It was a really nice story diving deep into queer relationships, polyamory, as well as neurodivergence. They really go deep in different labels that aren’t talked about enough.
I really liked Noah’s character. I feel like you can really feel for him and the way he has to deal with homophobic parents and the pressure of pleasing everyone around him. Also trying to figure out being aroace later in life is definitely something that a lot of people struggle with since it’s not as popular in media.
The way the author also explored ADHD and autism in Aspen and Charlie was also portrayed very well. It shows two different sides of the spectrum kind of and a lot of the other side characters we also had that helped everything the author was showing in the story. I feel like the side characters really add to the main characters stories.
I really enjoyed the exploring of different partners in the poly couple and shows more than just the main pairings.
Overall, I really enjoyed the story and the pace was nice and easy to get through.
Rating: 3.5/5 ⭐️
Thank you to the author for this eARC in exchange for my honest review.
I really liked Noah’s character. I feel like you can really feel for him and the way he has to deal with homophobic parents and the pressure of pleasing everyone around him. Also trying to figure out being aroace later in life is definitely something that a lot of people struggle with since it’s not as popular in media.
The way the author also explored ADHD and autism in Aspen and Charlie was also portrayed very well. It shows two different sides of the spectrum kind of and a lot of the other side characters we also had that helped everything the author was showing in the story. I feel like the side characters really add to the main characters stories.
I really enjoyed the exploring of different partners in the poly couple and shows more than just the main pairings.
Overall, I really enjoyed the story and the pace was nice and easy to get through.
Rating: 3.5/5 ⭐️
Thank you to the author for this eARC in exchange for my honest review.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
Review of advance copy received from Author
Defying Expectations by D.C. Emerson was the 47th book I've read this year. This adorable contemporary romance follows Aspen, a newly out, newly divorced non-binary person who has a new start on life.
In a “slice of life” story, we see Aspen push themself in social interactions, finding new friends, new passions, and new lovers. Sometimes the conversations they get into are quirky, and a little bit awkward, in such a realistic way. Exploring your gender identity and sexuality is messy, often embarrassing, and in Aspen’s case, they often are more comfortable having these conversations than other people are.
There is also neurodiverse representation, looking into what interactions look like when you have ADHD or autism. While these do make relationships look a little different, this cast of characters shows what it looks like to balance the needs of everybody involved, and how complicated it can be when you add in more people.
As somebody who is transgender, polyamorous, and neurodiverse, this was a big moment of representation for me that doesn’t exist in other novels. It was nice seeing it handled in a way that it doesn’t feel othering or something special that needs handling.
In a “slice of life” story, we see Aspen push themself in social interactions, finding new friends, new passions, and new lovers. Sometimes the conversations they get into are quirky, and a little bit awkward, in such a realistic way. Exploring your gender identity and sexuality is messy, often embarrassing, and in Aspen’s case, they often are more comfortable having these conversations than other people are.
There is also neurodiverse representation, looking into what interactions look like when you have ADHD or autism. While these do make relationships look a little different, this cast of characters shows what it looks like to balance the needs of everybody involved, and how complicated it can be when you add in more people.
As somebody who is transgender, polyamorous, and neurodiverse, this was a big moment of representation for me that doesn’t exist in other novels. It was nice seeing it handled in a way that it doesn’t feel othering or something special that needs handling.
April 19, 2026
This book was such an authentic and genuine representation of queerness and exploring polyamory. I truly connected with these characters. This book was unlike anything else I have read. It is not the stereotypical depiction of discovering polyamory that we usually get. And it felt so much more respectful and real. Watching each of these characters grow and change and develop both as individuals and as a group was so endearing. This book doesn’t shy away from showing the intricacies and issues that are apart of a dynamic like this. But it warmed my heart to see patience and love and communication being the basis of everything. That’s not something we get on the regular. Aspen became a character I liked more and more as the story progressed. Their journey moved in such a way that was relatable and connected me to them even more. I loved Noah immediately and felt a link to him. The anxiety he deals with made him that much more endearing to me. He’s such a support. The connection that’s between them is so strong and it felt so real. These characters all complement each other and you can feel the support they have for each other. The ending left me so satisfied and happy. I will be reading more in this collection.
Review of advance copy received from Author
It was one of my 2026 ambitions to read more books with polyamory and Defying Expectations defied MY expectations.
‘Forever friends’ since college, Noah and Aspen, embark on a trial situationship as they explore Aspen’s new non-heteronormative world. Those 6 months reveal so much that the pair didn’t know about themselves; undiagnosed disabilities, new identities, as well as realising the chosen and found family they have. The introduction of Charlie into their dynamic was the icing on the poly cake.
All of the characters brought something unique to the table and complimented each other perfectly, making this a delightful, low angst start to a new series by D.C. Emerson.
✨Polyamorous (MFNB and MMNB)
✨Trans MC
✨Non-binary MC
✨Autism and ADHD rep
✨Found and chosen family
Who is it for:
If you love stories with low drama but still push you out of your comfort zone.
I generously received an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
‘Forever friends’ since college, Noah and Aspen, embark on a trial situationship as they explore Aspen’s new non-heteronormative world. Those 6 months reveal so much that the pair didn’t know about themselves; undiagnosed disabilities, new identities, as well as realising the chosen and found family they have. The introduction of Charlie into their dynamic was the icing on the poly cake.
All of the characters brought something unique to the table and complimented each other perfectly, making this a delightful, low angst start to a new series by D.C. Emerson.
✨Polyamorous (MFNB and MMNB)
✨Trans MC
✨Non-binary MC
✨Autism and ADHD rep
✨Found and chosen family
Who is it for:
If you love stories with low drama but still push you out of your comfort zone.
I generously received an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
Review of advance copy received from Author
This romance is so refreshing. It quite literally defies societal expectations, as it has a huge focus on the fluidity of sexuality and gender, and non-heteronormative sex with trans people. As a trans person myself, this is the first book I've read that really goes into depth about queer sex, and just how important communication during that is.
I thought the ADHD and autism representation was amazing, and I saw myself in many of the symptoms that the characters showed. Seeing a character like Aspen be so unapologetic about their neurodivergence was just amazing. Again, it was absolutely refreshing.
Finally, I love that these characters bring out the best in each other, and round each other off in a beautiful way. They are very mature, and communicated like adults, which means that there are no conflicts that are just used to push the plot along. A huge thank you to the author DC Emerson for this ARC!
I thought the ADHD and autism representation was amazing, and I saw myself in many of the symptoms that the characters showed. Seeing a character like Aspen be so unapologetic about their neurodivergence was just amazing. Again, it was absolutely refreshing.
Finally, I love that these characters bring out the best in each other, and round each other off in a beautiful way. They are very mature, and communicated like adults, which means that there are no conflicts that are just used to push the plot along. A huge thank you to the author DC Emerson for this ARC!
Review of advance copy received from Author
If you have read other books by this author, you may have heard of the main characters in this book, they have been mentioned in other stories. This is mainly the story of Aspen and Noah. This is not an easy story to read, all the characters are neurodivergent – which might be difficult for some people to understand. I think the author does a great job of representing these characters. It is a love story, but it is not a typical one, this explores polyamory. It is very well written, and I highly recommend it, but it may not be for everyone. It was difficult to read how parents treat their neurodivergent and queer children. I was very happy with some of parents getting told off and there is a happy ending.
Story 4.5, Spice 4
I received an advance review copy, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
Story 4.5, Spice 4
I received an advance review copy, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
Review of advance copy received from Author
amazing book
exciting to learn more about polyamorie, transgender and aromantic, amazing to learn how I can hopefully be a better ally.
great aromantic, asexual and neurodivergent rep.
I love how they talk about consent, boundaries and preferences
First came into contact with this author through "redefening happiness" and fell in love with that book and Aspen and Noah, after reading this one I think dc emerson might be my new favourite author
These characters falling in love makes me feel like maybe I can find a romantic/ platonic partner one day as well.
This book made me feel less alone
"If you have feelings for Noah, whether they be romantic, sexual, or platonic, you will not ruin anything by telling him.” Blair, chapter 1
Charlie: autism
Aspen: adhd
arc review
exciting to learn more about polyamorie, transgender and aromantic, amazing to learn how I can hopefully be a better ally.
great aromantic, asexual and neurodivergent rep.
I love how they talk about consent, boundaries and preferences
First came into contact with this author through "redefening happiness" and fell in love with that book and Aspen and Noah, after reading this one I think dc emerson might be my new favourite author
These characters falling in love makes me feel like maybe I can find a romantic/ platonic partner one day as well.
This book made me feel less alone
"If you have feelings for Noah, whether they be romantic, sexual, or platonic, you will not ruin anything by telling him.” Blair, chapter 1
Charlie: autism
Aspen: adhd
arc review
Review of advance copy received from Author
We finally get to read Aspen and Noah’s story! I love these two and the way they and Charlie fit together is just perfect! I am a fan of good healthy queer and poly stories. No one writes those quite as well as DC Emerson. Reading Aspen made me feel seen because their story with their gender expressions/identity closely matches some of what I have felt over the last few years. Noah is so mixed up and turned around from his parents refusal to see him as anything other than a screwup or the potential for a perfect heteronormative relationship that it almost gets in the way of his own happiness. And sweet Charlie…he is so lovable and the perfect anchor for both of them. I loved this story so much and all of its representations. Sooooo good and well worth a read,
April 19, 2026
Another excellent book by DC Emerson. It starts slow. The first few chapters set everything up, and I enjoyed them… although the book didn’t really engage me until Rachel appeared on the scene.
Overall I loved how relationships developed among the various characters. As someone who does better with specific examples than generalities, I really enjoyed seeing the various ways that polyamory can work alongside strong emotional and/or romantic (or romantic-ish) relationships. Lots of fun in bed/during sexy times, consent about all things (including what body parts get touched and what they’re called) is sexy. Multiple representations of neurodiversity. Charlie is such a sweetie! I’m looking forward to more from the Pride Parlor folks.
Overall I loved how relationships developed among the various characters. As someone who does better with specific examples than generalities, I really enjoyed seeing the various ways that polyamory can work alongside strong emotional and/or romantic (or romantic-ish) relationships. Lots of fun in bed/during sexy times, consent about all things (including what body parts get touched and what they’re called) is sexy. Multiple representations of neurodiversity. Charlie is such a sweetie! I’m looking forward to more from the Pride Parlor folks.
Review of advance copy received from Author
This was a really good book. Aspen and Noah are best friends and decide on a trial based relationship as they figure things out for themselves in terms of what they want. While learning non-binary in Doubting Fate, this one was more in depth with other terms such as greyromantic, aroace, asexual and aromatic to name a few. While they did a 6-month trial period, Aspen came up with a polyamorous relationship so she could still have Noah and they could both experience this side together without losing time between work, the shelter and their friends. I love a good HEA and D.C. Emerson doesn't disappoint.
Thank you D.C. Emerson for the opportunity to arc read this book early!
Thank you D.C. Emerson for the opportunity to arc read this book early!
Review of advance copy received from Author
ARC Review
⭐4.5
I enjoyed this book a lot more than I initially thought I would.
The poly aspect and Aspen’s character I was very medium about at first. But as the book went on, I really really liked it/them. I was surprised by how much Aspen’s character grew on me.
On the opposite side, I loved Noah from the beginning. He was such a steady character that had some more relatable family moments, at least for me.
Charlie and Rachel are great side characters. I love how they both add to Noah and Aspen’s journey without taking over.
Overall, I’m excited for the series and can’t wait for more!
⭐4.5
I enjoyed this book a lot more than I initially thought I would.
The poly aspect and Aspen’s character I was very medium about at first. But as the book went on, I really really liked it/them. I was surprised by how much Aspen’s character grew on me.
On the opposite side, I loved Noah from the beginning. He was such a steady character that had some more relatable family moments, at least for me.
Charlie and Rachel are great side characters. I love how they both add to Noah and Aspen’s journey without taking over.
Overall, I’m excited for the series and can’t wait for more!
April 15, 2026
While I love all of the fantastic and thorough LGBTQ+ rep this has, I do not think this story has enough substance to be a full novel. The only real plot was relationship development which simply is not enough to propel a full story. I wanted to see more happen to the characters and more of their lives outside of the relationship.
I loved the intimate exploration of intimacy in various forms. It is the most in-depth I have seen in a book yet. Thoughtful representation such as this is always appreciated
The plot is spice, so if that is not your thing, I do not recommend this book.
Thank you to the author for the ARC. My review is honest and voluntary
I loved the intimate exploration of intimacy in various forms. It is the most in-depth I have seen in a book yet. Thoughtful representation such as this is always appreciated
The plot is spice, so if that is not your thing, I do not recommend this book.
Thank you to the author for the ARC. My review is honest and voluntary
Review of advance copy received from Author
Review of advance copy received from Author
We follow Aspen, freshly divorced, and their best friend Noah as they navigate their new lives and its challenges and how, after one declaration from Aspen, they decide to be more than friends for a trial period to see if it could work, because Noah isn’t sure of wanting a romantic relationship. Later they meet Rachel, and there is also Charlie, who is another very close friend of Noah, and life and feelings happen.
What I especially love about D.C. Emerson's stories is this sense of community. How their characters often have a system behind and around them, and if not yet at the beginning of the book, they find and build one for themselves. This concept really takes root in this book, I won't say how, but I loved how it materialized for Aspen and the others. There is also a genuine kindness and care behind every character and storyline. The way they find their home and safety in each other's arms and how love can take many shapes despite being always valid and real. It was really heartwarming, and I felt for them as they struggled and fought for themselves.
Also, how cute it was to have cameos of James and Leon, especially from different points of view.
We follow Aspen, freshly divorced, and their best friend Noah as they navigate their new lives and its challenges and how, after one declaration from Aspen, they decide to be more than friends for a trial period to see if it could work, because Noah isn’t sure of wanting a romantic relationship. Later they meet Rachel, and there is also Charlie, who is another very close friend of Noah, and life and feelings happen.
What I especially love about D.C. Emerson's stories is this sense of community. How their characters often have a system behind and around them, and if not yet at the beginning of the book, they find and build one for themselves. This concept really takes root in this book, I won't say how, but I loved how it materialized for Aspen and the others. There is also a genuine kindness and care behind every character and storyline. The way they find their home and safety in each other's arms and how love can take many shapes despite being always valid and real. It was really heartwarming, and I felt for them as they struggled and fought for themselves.
Also, how cute it was to have cameos of James and Leon, especially from different points of view.
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