Rus doesn’t think there’s anything wrong with punching bigots. Some call it anger issues or impulse control; he sees it as clearing away the cesspool of hateful idiots. All the same, he doesn’t want his rage to control him or push away the two people he’s beginning to care deeply for.
Dylan’s façade of joy is so masterful, he even deceives himself most days. Underneath that worn smile, though, is a frightened man who doesn’t trust the world. Now, he has to navigate taking care of the queer youth home that gave him a life worth living while exploring the life he’d like to live if he wants to pursue romance in this new relationship.
Kaiden struggles to accept himself, wayward and insecure most days. So, when two men express how much they see him, he feels like a complete and total imposter. He’s convinced himself this awkward throuple would be a much happier couple if he took a step back. But despite his reservations, he doesn’t want to give up.
These three will have to come together, work through their personal fears, and be real with one another if they hope to explore this romance.
MN Bennet is a high school teacher, writer, and reader. He lives in the Midwest, still adjusting to the cold after being born and raised in the South.
He enjoys writing paranormal and fantasy stories with huge worlds (sometimes too big), loveable romances (with so much angst and banter), and Happily Ever Afters (once he’s dragged his characters through some emotional turmoil).
When he’s not balancing classes, writing, or reading, he can be found binge watching anime or replaying Baldur's Gate 3 for the millionth time.
Politics and Poly may seem like just a good time, but there is such deep and important messaging within. Rus' methods of sharing these messages and his manner of dealing with opposition isn't the best, he's doing his best to stand up for what's right. Society has made such vast improvements in so many manners, but the LGBTQIA+ community still faces such stigma, even violence, and it's terrifying.
I really had a great time reading this one, it's a quick read, but I feel like some of the depth of the characters was missing. Maybe it was the time jumps, maybe it was the perspective switching, but these men didn't feel fully immersive to me. Regardless, I emjoyed their story and I'm super glad I had the chance to give it a read. If you're into MMM relationship exploration, definitely give this one a read!
“…remind him that support does not detract from independence”
This entire novel really does remind us all of how true that is. The way Kaiden, Rus and Dylan connected was gradual and natural, never rushing each other and the communication between them was incredible. Each of them carried their own personal pain but didn’t make it their whole personality, which can happen when authors try to give characters depth. They formed a bond that wasn’t solely based on physical chemistry and when these 3 opened up more emotionally they grew closer in a way that didn’t feel rushed or unrealistic. They felt like real people, that either you know or saw parts of yourself in.
Even the side characters had enough depth for you to either love them (Jasmine and Daysha were my faves) or absolutely hate them (yeah, I’m looking at you Emma, Landon and Kaiden’s “family”).
Personally, Kaiden holds my heart. He was my favourite character hands down. He just left such an impression I think he’ll stay with me forever. Not only because he was well written but because it sometimes felt like I was reading some of my own life experiences.
We can’t forget Rus and Dylan, who are the ideal boyfriends and had each other’s backs in so many ways “wink wink”. The three of them communicated openly and were vulnerable, even when it was hard to be. Plus, who doesn’t love a short king with a spicy attitude and a sweet smiling guy who goes all assertive when you mess with one of his boyfriends?! Sign me up now! ;)
I really hope everyone gives this story a chance. Though I am not part of this community, I can honestly say there were experiences and emotions that rang true to me while reading, which I think many of us can relate to. There were laughs, rage, and even some tears, I mean, who could ask for more?!
I’ll leave this review with one of my favourite moments/quotes from Kaiden’s POV.
“This time, when Kaiden stepped out of his former home, he didn’t feel like he was running away. He felt like he was dropping the anchors that had been tied around his neck all these years”
This book was a whirlwind of feelings for me. I cried, I laughed, and some side characters made me so angry that I wanted to punch something.
I went on a journey of healing with Rus, Dylan, and Kaiden. It was really a hurt/comfort situation, first full of anxiety and uncertainty, but then full of passion and love and being free and happy. Each one of them is a hero to me, but especially Kaiden stands out for me the most. You have to read the book to understand why 😊
As the title says, it is also political. So be aware that you get educated and learn a lot in the process 😊. I really liked the aspect!
It is such a wonderful story! I 100% recommend it!
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 🌶🌶🌶🌶
I thank MN Bennett for the advanced copy of his newest book 🫶
This is an MMM romance about three very different men navigating love, identity, and self-worth while building something that isn’t “traditional” but is completely theirs… and it just worked in a way I was NOT prepared for.
Although this story was HOT. And some scenes were scorching. It was a small part of the story.
I cried so much reading this. And not just because it was emotional… but because I felt so deeply seen in Kaiden.
As someone who has lost over 100 pounds, his thoughts, his doubts, his insecurities, the way he sees himself versus how others see him… it hit me hard.
There were so many moments where all I wanted to do was hug him, shake him a little, and tell him “you are perfect exactly as you are, you should be proud of yourself, anyone would be lucky to love you!” And then it hit me… those are the same things I have to constantly remind myself. That part of this story? It’s gonna stay with me for a long time.
Which in turn made me love Rus and Dylan even more, because of the way they saw him, supported him, and loved him without trying to change who he was in any way. It was unconditional.
I also really loved that this wasn’t a cookie-cutter perfect relationship. It felt real. Messy. Honest. It showed that relationships don’t have to look one specific way to be valid or to work. As long as it works for the people in it, that’s what matters. And I loved that.
As the tittle says, there’s Politics. But the politics in this book were also really well done. It’s not just thrown in there, it actually adds something. It either fuels your fire or makes you stop and think, and I really appreciated that layer to the story.
Also… Kaiden’s family? I hated them. With a passion. The attack? It broke something in me.
Those parts somehow made everything hit even harder.
This book hurt, healed, and made me think all at the same time. And that combination will always be a five star read for me.
✨this is my first ARC review and I couldn’t more excited!✨
so, first of all, I’m a sucker for books that can make me laugh, swoon, AND cry. this book definitely had me in my feels and I loved it! it also made me sit back and reflect on what’s going on in the world (even more than I already do) and I’m so glad there are authors out there like MN Bennet that can create a piece of fun fiction while also incorporating serious real life issues like homophobia, body dysmorphia, unsupportive family members and more.
now.. onto the boys 🤭 Rus, Dylan and Kaiden are our MC’s and I loved each of them and their little quirks! I really related to Kaiden as far as having issues with my body as well as having anxiety.. I’m also the one who would more likely to be drawing video game characters rather than playing the actual video game with my friends (or in this case, boyfriends 😏). Rus is a total badass who I feel like no matter his height, I would feel super safe around, and Dylan is just the sweetesttttt.
if you’re into hilarious queer teens, being on the correct side of history, a healthy and realistic portrayal of a poly relationship, suggestive yet funny text messages, some spicy MMM and drag queens that save the day.. this book is for you! 🤍 5/5 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
*I just had to add that I NEVER read third person POV as I tend to not like it but I actually really enjoyed it here!*
This is not a comfortable book. It is brutal. It is raw. It is real. Politics and Poly doesn’t simply tell a love story, it forces you to confront the world its characters are living in. The social commentary is sharp and unflinching, rooted deeply in real-world issues that many in the queer community navigate every single day. The pain in this book hits hard because it isn’t fictionalized into something distant or dramatic, it mirrors lived realities, it reflects headlines, conversations, and the quiet exhaustion of existing in spaces that feel hostile. One of the most heartbreaking threads running through the story is the lack of safety at not only in the streets but at home as well. The author does not soften these edges of this reality, the ugliness is not sanitized for reader comfort. It is presented honestly, painfully, and with intention. And yet , this book is handled with extraordinary care. MN Bennet navigates this world with honesty without ever tipping into exploitation. The brutality serves a purpose. The commentary is woven naturally into the characters’ lives, never preachy, never performative. It feels lived-in. Necessary. There are reminders throughout the story that rights are fragile, that safety is not universal, that simply existing authentically can require immense courage. The lessons here are not delivered as lectures. They are truths embedded in the characters’ experiences. The kind that linger long after you close the book. What makes this story unforgettable, though, is the balance. For every act of cruelty, there is love. For every moment of bigotry, there is radical acceptance. The polyamorous dynamic becomes more than romance, it becomes sanctuary. Chosen family becomes resistance. Tenderness becomes rebellion. The characters’ understanding, protection, and unwavering support for one another stand in powerful contrast to the world trying to diminish them. This book hurts because it reflects reality. But it heals because it refuses to let hate have the final word.
A gritty and genuine story of discovering who you are and what you deserve.
This beautiful and honest slice of life chronicles the lives of three men as they navigate homophobia, abusive families, deep insecurities, and what it means to fall for each other.
Following these three nuanced, charming, quirky characters as they grow, explore polyamory and intimacy, and help to heal each other was so beautiful.
This was one of the most relatable and authentic portrayals of life, love, and relationship I’ve ever read. It was so much more than a romance as it beautifully dealt with many difficult issues from homophobia to homelessness.
Add in amazing found family, some scorching spice, witty banter, gut wrenching ordeals, and love that is slow and steady and you have one marvelous journey.
What you’ll get: •Achillean Romance •Exploring Polyamory •Friends to Lovers •Gay + Bi Rep •Body Image/Self Esteem Issues •Homophobia •Protective MCs •Punching Bigots •Horrid Families •Hurt/Comfort •Found Family
I recieved an advanced readers copy in exchange for an honest review
First I have to say I absolutely adore the cover art. Always stunning every time.
So there's a lot in this one. This is both a love story that explores poly relationships and the author's personal scream against the current injustices being experienced in the world right now, especially towards marginalized groups like the LGBTQIA+ community.
That being said this does read a bit slow as we are introduced to all three characters and learn about them. Don't get me wrong I absolutely adore them all and navigating a polyamorous relationship is a bit more tricky than a monogamous one. It does take half the book for any of them to even kiss.
The scene with the gay bashers felt a bit unnecessary? Or at least without ever having anything come of that kind of left me still feeling bitter about it. The real world sucks and i know thats the point behind this, but can we please get some justice since we are being denied it in real life right now?
When Rus goes home to his parents the first time I also don't get why they aren't there? They asked him to visit, it was a multiple day trip, you'd expect him to call ahead so why wouldn't they be there? A minor thing but it was just confusing is all.
oh and I have mixed feelings about the Rus and his ex having a kid situation. I would either liked to have seen more with that or it be removed.
I feel Rus' rage and the desire to throw hands at bigots IMMENSELY. As a heavy person I feel Kaiden's body images IMMENSELY (I do love me a man in a corset though, have you SEEN those ads? Mmm.) And I know I said earlier the gay basher incident felt it didn't add anything coz it sort of got forgotten for the most part after, a drag queen street fight was pretty dang cool.
I love the spice, I adore main throuple, the supporting side characters were mostly fine, the problem characters pissed me off (like they are intended to haha) and the Bend Him Break Him cameo at the end was absolutely fabulous haha I loved that.
A few minor spelling and grammar errors, I give it 4 stars with a potential to become 5 with a bit more tweaking and polish
thank you so very much to the author for this opportunity, I enjoyed this book and look forward to seeing the full release.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
4.5 stars rounded up. This was such a great read, I really liked the way the author approached each character with care, every MC was fully rounded and 3 dimensional. Each character has their own challenges and struggles, and they made so much sense when we put all their wonky puzzle pieces together!
Kaiden, Russ and Dylan all struggle to value themselves in a poly relationship, but what I really loved about this book is how they all show up for each other.
Kaiden is struggling with the after effects of extreme weight loss, and the toxic family he can't seem to escape. His self esteem is shot, and he really struggles to stand up for himself, but his boys show up when he needs it the most.
Russ might have a supportive family, but he's struggling to manage his anger issues (bigots are just so punchable!)
Dylan fled his abusive home when he was just a teen, and found Dorothy's Place, a home for homeless gay teens; he continues to work there after aging out of the program and is nervous about his future, feeling as though he never grew up and fully left the security of his landing place.
While there's plenty of relationship drama, the 'politics' aspects of the book were some of my favorites. We have two conservative cunts who are okay with the gay (but don't rub your trans identity in my face, like, just be a normal palatable gay!), police who dismiss a hate crime as if it's a regular bar fight, and Kaiden's family, who 'seem' to outwardly support him, while blaming his trauma on the fact that he's gay.
I really like that we got those three different families: the abusive homophobic parents that kick you out before you even know that you're gay, the insipid, supposedly supportive family that you eventually come to realize is not much better, and the hyper supportive family that paints their house with rainbows every June.
I could go on but everything was great aside from a few slow parts, that's the only reason it's not getting a full five stars, but it was worth the wait.
Even though this was a good book, I did realize I have a small trigger after reading this book. I have not read it in any book previously, but spoiler alert, reading about someone being brutally attacked due to homophobia is not my thing.
Now, besides that one scene, I enjoyed this book. I love how all three of them decided to just make it work and were there for each other and all the ways they needed. All three main characters had their own hiccups and baggage, and I loved how they just accepted each other and loved each other.
Part of me feels like I want to fact check some things in this book because there were quite a few conversations that were had that I found very interesting and made me want to learn more. I loved how it wasn’t just a love story, but there were quite a few times that made you stop and really think about what they were talking about. I loved Rus‘s point of view on life and I feel like he brought a new perspective to the reading.
All in all, this was an enjoyable book to read. I’ve read quite a few other books by this author, and I will say I have not been disappointed.
i’ve only read this author one other time & i dnfd the book lol so going from a DNF to a 4.25 ⭐️ is a huge improvement for me
there was so much i loved about this book. the political aspect. there were a lot of messages that resonated with me.. especially the conversation about people within the queer community being transphobic or biphobic. unfortunately i’ve seen this too much & it always hurts a little more when it’s from someone in the community.
the communication between the charters about their throuple and boundaries was really well done and believable.
i loved rus. i always love a chaotic bisexual lol.
kaidens body dysmorphia/insecurities was something i actually haven’t come across in a book yet & i feel like that rep is so important/relatable.
the only thing i think i would’ve enjoyed more is a little bit more of a conflict within the plot outside of just family issues. i feel like it was very character driven, which i loved.. but it was missing a little something something
I was lucky to get an ARC of this book and it did not disappoint!!!
First of all, I love the characters so much! I really relate with them in different aspects. They felt real and I loved the growth and how they find their path and space individually and also in their relationship.
Rus is so feasty and so sure about what it is worth to fight for! I love this kind of character because I dont usually see them on contemporary romance and it surprised me in a good way🔪🪿
Dylan is so sweet and so dedicated and a really good friend and supportive partner.
And then we have Kaiden who is a very sensitive and caring and I want to protect him with my life.
The relationship is so open and they have so much communication that it is refreshing !! Also the lack of internal conflict between them is so appreciated!
I love healthy and cute romances where the mmcs just support each other and enjoy how to navigate the relationship in such a green flag type of way !!
It was totally the type of contemporary romance that I have ver craving: cute, sexy, healthy and with a dose of politics and a message to fight for our rights, so important in this crazy reality 😩🙌
Nothing against the book itself story wise in fact it was actually pretty good for the bit I got through I just can't do the third person especially with there being 3MC's but i do definitely plan on trying another one of this authors books
Getting to know Rus, Dylan & Kaiden was such a treat.
One things I adore, when reading, is when the main characters actually communicate with each other. The communication in this was lovely, I loved how every worry and concern was handled and discussed.
I loved how this was such a fun and sweet read, while also bringing up important topics.
This was an enjoyable read, but it didn't quite hit me the same way some of M.N. Bennet's other books have.
What I enjoyed most was the relationship between Rus, Dylan, and Kaiden. Poly romances can be difficult to balance, but I thought the author did a good job making each relationship feel important. Nobody felt like they were just there to fill a spot in the throuple, and I appreciated seeing the different dynamics between all three characters.
Dylan was probably my favorite of the group. There was something heartbreaking about how much he carried while still trying to be the person everyone else needed him to be. Underneath his optimism and kindness was someone who was struggling just as much as everyone else.
I also enjoyed watching Kaiden slowly learn to see himself the way the others saw him. His insecurities felt realistic, and I found myself rooting for him throughout the story. And Rus brought a lot of passion and energy to the relationship, even when his temper got the better of him.
For me, the story was strongest when it focused on the characters working through their fears, insecurities, and communication struggles. I loved seeing them learn how to trust each other and figure out what their relationship could become.
Overall, I liked the characters, enjoyed the romance, and appreciated the representation and themes throughout the book. While it wasn't a standout favorite for me, I'm still glad I picked it up and spent time with these characters.
First off, this book is entirely character driven and doesn’t have much plot outside of their developing relationship and personal growth. My favorite character was Rus by a mile. He’s funny and spicy, and he felt incredibly well written. His pov was generally the most enjoyable to read despite some of the intentionally frustrating side characters (those of which got many an eye roll from myself). I could’ve easily read an entire Rus-centric book on its own. Aside from Rus, I feel like we learned the most about Kaiden while Dylan got put on the back burner a little bit which is a shame because I felt like he had such an interesting story. I had a bit of a hard time really locking down Dylan’s personality.
If I’m being entirely honest, there were times I felt like it would’ve made more sense if only two of them paired off instead of all three in one relationship. They do have a bit of a balance though because I feel like without Dylan, Rus and Kaiden wouldn’t have gotten together. I think I just wanted to see them fall in love a little more? Their relationship didn’t really have any conflict which in one hand is nice, but on the other it felt a touch flat that they had nothing to overcome as a group instead of just individually.
Without giving spoilers, some of the side characters were written so well that they were downright insufferable. Unfortunately, they were written too well to the point that I found myself dreading that character’s pov chapters. This is part of what knocked down my star rating, as I would find myself irritated to the point of taking breaks just to get away from them. There wasn’t enough satisfaction to make up for the suffering some of the characters went through, although I suppose that’s the point, isn’t it? The politics of the book was meant to mimic real life issues and injustices which it did really well.
That being said the spice between the polycule was indeed spicing. I think the book did well here and sprinkled in lots of fun times between the guys esp towards the end. None of the characters get left out here and this is where the bunch of them really seem to click.
All in all, I’m super grateful that I was given the opportunity to read this arc from the author.
This was such an amazing and heartfelt book! The romance and the feelings really got to me. This is my second book I read by Bennet and I loved it so much. If follows Rus, Dylan and Kaiden as they come together and find ways to work through their personal fears and learn to love. Rus has some anger issues when people are being bigots. Dylan on the other hand has a tendency to put his work before everything and has put dating on hold for a long while now. Dylan's best friend is Kaiden and he sees the way Dylan and Rus have a connection but needs confirmation that he also belongs. I really loved their dynamics as they have to figure things out that work for them. They all are pretty new to actual relationships and especially Dylan is scared of ruining their friendship. I also really loved that this showed that not everything has to be following the norm and that you just have to find something that works for you. So if you are looking for a queer poly romance story this one is for you! Thanks to MN Bennet for this eARC in exchange for an honest review.
{Politics And Poly} Arc review by Jessie Melka ___________•___________
Politics and poly follows the Adorable trio Rus, Dylan and Kaiden from friends to lovers and all the most beautiful personal growth of boys who definitely just need a hug but be aware that the relationship between these men are not the main factor but instead the burning problems of hatred and unkindness as well as supporting each other through hard times
The book discusses a lot of real life issues in the queer community and there seriously needs to be put more focus on all of it, the whole story was very politically inclined and I did quite enjoy Rus and how well spoken he was when he didn’t use his fists to talk, he had some amazing comebacks towards the bigots as well as well spoken points. Rus is definitely my favourite character that little aggressive gremlin quite literally punched himself into my heart
I am so proud of Kaiden he definitely had the best character development of all the boys I would tho have loved to see him excepting giving more help instead of working all the time but I am very glad he finally escaped the death grip of his family, I am also glad he got back his passion for drawing and getting that job as a two artist and one thing I hope for him in the future is that he gets to love himself more in his body and comfortable in his skin But you should definitely keep wearing corset vests, cause that’s so hot!
Dylan my dear sweet Dylan the big golden retriever of the group and also the most righteous. I felt like Dylan have some trouble letting go of things But im glad he found a way to still be involved with the queer youth home and still remain active in his relationship with Rus and Kaiden at least that’s what I hope happens in their future
Now to the things that troubled me
It didn’t really feel like a relationship more like friends that fuck I didn’t really feel the romantic aspect of their relationship maybe if they hadn’t rushed so fast into a relationship then that might have changed. I feel like we didn’t really get to see them develop the relationship that they deserved instead the book was mostly focused on the characters developments then their relationship.
The spicy scenes was well written and worked incredibly well for the characters but I think I really needed that love connection that I missed and quite honestly, I didn’t feel the lust they had for each other Sure they talked a little dirty but the feeling wasn’t quite there
This book did take me a lot of concentration to get through but I kept thinking about other things or getting distracted
Back to praises
I really hope you all give this book a chance you might have a different perspective than me and I would love to hear your opinions and thoughts
This book offers you a sweet and easy friendship between the mc’s as well as some well written side characters with lots of personality
This book also offers a closer perspective in the queer experience with all the hate and spite there is in the world PSA! Not all of us experiences The “phobia”🙄 from the people and it can be more beautiful than ugly just remember that don’t be afraid! be angry!
I rated this book a 3,5 out of 5 and I would like to recommend this to the people that understand that BOOKS ARE POLITICAL! And Someone who loves a good hurt/comort but remember to form your own opinions and not just listen to me Until next time, my loves…
Rating: 3,5/5 Spice: 3/5 Angst: 1/5 Would I read again: maybe
(I received an advance copy for free and I’m leaving this review voluntarily)
🏳️🌈MMM Romance 🎨Hurt/Comfort 🏳️🌈Friends to lovers 🎨First Times 🏳️🌈Fighting Bigots 🎨Eiffel Towers ___________•___________
thank you to the author for an advanced copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
i had the absolute pleasure and fortune to read an early copy of bend him, break him last year, a book that ended up being one of my favorite reads of the year. so, when i had the opportunity to read bennet’s newest release early again, i knew i had to jump onto the opportunity.
politics and poly is a big “f you” to anyone out there who is making it harder for queer people to live their authentic lives and an even bigger love letter to finding your queer community and family. rus, dylan, and kaiden were three incredibly strong main characters in their unique ways but found their ways to be there for each other and be with each other at their lowest and highest points. with a backdrop of the three of them trying to better their lives and their careers, we see them come together in this triad poly relationship with a really mature and open attitude. i think for the fact that none of them had considered polyamory before their situation, we see how they were able to navigate the challenges and worries/anxieties of unbalanced relationships. to me, it was a great blueprint for someone who may be considering a non-monogamous relationship but may not know where to start.
outside of their relationships, i found kaiden to be the most fleshed out character of the three, since the majority of the strife occurred in their life. so unfortunately, at some points it felt like rus and dylan were a bit more of supporting roles for kaiden’s narrative rather than having their own driving storylines. and, don’t get me wrong, i loved seeing how they were able to assist with encouraging kaiden 1. break away from his toxic and homophobic family 2. become more comfortable in his skin and help his body image and 3. heal from the traumatic events that happened to him in the beginning of the story. to me, it was clear that kaiden was driving force for a lot of the plot points. i just would have loved to see more of rus’ time on his campus separate from the triad and same for dylan in regards to his work at the house for the teens.
the three of them had such interesting lives and we only peeked into them a bit here and there, and i always want to know (probably) way too much of each character’s motivations and background. i mean,,, we learn about rus’ past relationship (of which is a bit spoilery to say what exactly) but i wish we were able to see how that’s impact who he is in the now. and similar for dylan, we learn a bit of his time before reaching dorothy’s home, and i wish we saw him open up more about that time in his life. call me a nosy gossip if you will, i just know how those experiences have helped shaped the three of them and it brought them closer together. but, overall, i do appreciate that we see them start to take down these boundaries, which let them become their best selves for their developing feelings.
i am so grateful for bennet’s trust twice over now with their boys and i can’t wait to see what’s next on the publishing docket.
I. Loved. Everything. About. This. Book. I sat down to read, and looked up and was on page 215 – I couldn’t put it down and ended up finishing the same day I started! While yes, this was a romance, one aspect that drew me in and elicited a wide range of emotions was the fact that this also felt like a social commentary on the realities so many queer individuals face. The current political climate is woven into the storytelling and added a layer of depth that made the romance development and the character’s decisions on choosing their happiness that much more meaningful. I’d like you to read this and tell me that reading isn’t political 💅🏾
❤️Friends/Strangers to Lovers 🧡Rebel x Gamer x Artist 💛MMM Polyamory Romance 💚Slow Burn 🩵First Times 🩷Vers Rep 💜Size Difference 💙Hurt/Comfort & Punching Bigots 🤍Found Family
Rus is a stoic grump who has no qualms about punching bigots, anger issues and impulse control be damned. And for the first time in a long time, Rus doesn’t want his rage to guide him or push away the two people he’s developing feelings for.
Dylan masks his trust issues behind the façade of smiles and lighthearted jokes. He’s never considered romance while navigating taking care of the queer youth home that saved him…until now.
Kaiden struggles with loving himself and his insecurities win more often than not. So, when the two men he’s grown to care for truly see him, he struggles to not feel like an imposter – convinced he’s the third wheel in their dynamic, but not ready to give up hope altogether.
Can these three work through their personal fears in order to explore this romance?
I was 100% invested in Rus, Dylan and Kaiden as people first, and then as a romantic unit – the underlying slow burn tension is there, and built organically after an emotional foundation is established. I appreciated each of the men’s different backgrounds and perspectives, and that each man had their own personal issues that they had to work through. I loved the emphasis on communication and time to take things at a pace that worked for everyone involved as it added impactful intentionality to their relationship development. The depth of each man’s feelings for one another was beautiful, they didn’t want surface-level connections with one another, but rather to truly be seen, secure and loved – the unwavering support and care for one another inevitably led to hard-earned happiness. The exploratory nature of their dynamics as a throuple felt relatable and real, and an open line of communication led to some delicious spicy times!
**This is an ARC review and reflects my honest opinion of the book "Politics and Poly" by M.N. Bennet.**
I read a lot of MM romance. It is the majority of the romance I read these days. I've also dabbled in MMM romance, but not enough to have any preconceived notions before reading Kaiden, Rus, and Dylan's story. So the first thing I will tell you is...this is not an MMM romance for those who like fairytale or idealistic romance. What I mean by fairytale is, there isn't prejudice, bigotry, internalized homophobia, etc, in the story. The world in which those stories exist is an idealized one where everyone accepts everyone.
This story is not that. And that's not a bad thing, at all.
Politics and Poly is about three people on their own individual journeys of self-discovery and self-love, who also find love with each other. The backdrop of this love story is a community where LGBTQIA+ are not always safe to be themselves in public, and, even with their own families. They hear awful, degrading, and disrespectful things about who they are as people to their faces. They are also assaulted for being themselves. It is important to accept that this is a current reality for the LGBTQIA+ community. If reading this causes you to be uncomfortable, think about why. But don't disregard it. Because once you get past that, you'll find a beautiful love story full of hope and acceptance.
Let's talk about the guys...
Kaiden...oh sweet Kaiden. He was my favorite and I wanted to give him a big hug and tell him there are people in the world who will love and accept him for who he is.
Dylan...is a sweetie pie and must be protected at all costs.
Russ...is the short king who will protect Dylan, and Kaiden, at all costs.
Together, the three of them make a wonderful poly relationship that works for them and doesn't fit societal norms. The spice is spicin'! The character development is great. And yes, there is politics in this story. If you want your romance to be an escapism, move along! This one is real, in your face, and beautiful. Accept it for what it is and enjoy it. I did! I'm sure you will to.
One last thing...LOVE the cameo in the epilogue. IYKYK....
I am not usually a romance reader, but the idea of a queer polycule being represented really intrigued me. The bisexual representation was refreshing, and the diversity in body sizes was as well.
For those worried that the “politics” part of this is extremely heavy, I would assure you it’s not as huge a part of the story as the title makes it seem. There are lots of topics that are considered political but are discussed within the context of a pretty good plot. There are a lot of tender, fluffy moments that balance out those moments, and the characters stories, especially Kaiden’s, were very compelling. There were some things in Kaiden’s POV that were a bit triggering, like his obsession with his weight, but he actively works on that and other emotional insecurities throughout the book. I liked all the boys individually and also felt they fit together as couple, despite the timeline itself moving a bit fast.
The spice was sexy and fit in well with the overall story, not like some romances where it overtakes the actual story.
There were some parts of the story that dragged a bit for me, but for people who enjoy the fluffy build up to relationships in books, it will probably be a bit more entertaining. Some of the characters felt very one dimensional, mostly the antagonistic ones, but they’re that way to represent many of the things the queer community deals with, so I understand why they had to be so stereotypically awful. I don’t think we ever really learn about Dylan’s backstory or his bout of homelessness or his family, so his story felt a bit incomplete. Also, painting Dylan as the “old man” of the group and him being 26… please 😭 this man called a gif a moving meme… PLS 😭😭 those of us over 25 understand social media & technology on that basic of a level lmfao. Just something that personally irritated me but maybe because I’m also old 🤪 if you like reasonable age gaps (21 - 24 - 26), this one is for you haha.
Overall, I would recommend this to romance readers, especially those who want the queer poly representation that drew me to the book.
I received an advance copy and this is my honest review. 4* This is a very particular kind of book, with queer anger as a theme up front and all throughout. I enjoyed the main characters and their story, but I found some parts difficult. To be blunt, there’s a hate crime on page, as well as extensive emotional abuse/manipulation by family, and a variety of harsh political confrontations. On the flip side, there are many feel good moments and an HEA, of course, but I would still call this an angry book. I don’t think that’s disparaging to the content or the intent of the author, who makes clear that this book helped them deal with our current moment. I respect that. I expected punching bigots and got that.
Still, this book left me in a precarious emotional state. I felt hopeful for the MCs and their relationship, but the world around them is pretty awful, as bad or worse than out here irl. I think it says a lot that I started asking if there were any “good” straight people in the book. Almost all the straight people are uniformly terrible. I don’t actually know their sexualities, but it seems Rus’s family and Kaiden’s boss might be the only “good” ones. While there is one queer side character who is “bad,” all the other queer people are “good.” I kept feeling that a message in the book is that queer people have to rely on each other because the rest of the world is against us. Honestly, that just makes me sad. I can’t say it’s correct or incorrect, but I can say I’m lucky that hasn’t been my experience as a queer person. Maybe the book is closer to the truth of the moment than I know. 😕
I struggle to visualize characters and even more so with three MCs, so I’m sharing my MC notes. It helps me while reading and maybe others too. - Rus - 21. Messy brown curls. 5’6”. Facial piercings. Many tattoos, including goose with knife meme on his neck. Chaotic bisexual. Angry, gets in fights. In college. Gamer. Loves horror. - Dylan - 26. Blond highlights grown out. 6’2”. Trimmed beard, lots of body hair. Has great abs and loves crop tops. People pleaser. Parents kicked out for being gay. Lived at queer group home to finish HS, now helps run it. Likes casual sex. Doesn’t drink (why, tho?). Rus turns him into a gamer. - Kaiden - 24. Emerald green hair & eyes. Femme. Stylish outfits, seamless makeup. Corset vests. Works at art gallery. Sassy but people pleaser. Lives w family but puts up w awful treatment for being gay. Health conscious. Lost a lot of weight, insecure at times. Has anxiety. Not a gamer. Likes to draw.
The romance in this book is slow burn, which works well for the MCs to grow into their poly dynamic. I think the book balances that pretty well. It’s a pet peeve of mine with MMM books when they all just instalove into a poly arrangement with little or no discussion. Talking about it is what makes a poly relationship work. There are no defaults, so everything has to be talked over. While the MCs here don’t hash out every little thing on page, they do have several solid conversations about what they want and how things are different from being just two. They also think about how their relationship will be perceived, which I think is realistic and necessary. As this book makes clear, society doesn’t think well of relationships outside the norm.
I really like the ending. There’s slow and steady progress, with each MC leaning into their strengths. I also like that the MCs develop more found family and a bigger support system. No spoilers, but the epilogue has a new walk-in client that made me shout and laugh. 🙌😆
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ ARC Review – Politics and Poly by M.N. Bennet
This book is basically “found family, righteous anger, healing trauma, and three men learning how to love each other properly,” and honestly? I ate it up.
What I appreciated most is that this isn’t just a throuple thrown together for vibes. The connection between Rus, Dylan, and Kaiden unfolds with intention. It builds through conversations, vulnerability, and messy honesty rather than instant chemistry alone. Their dynamic feels grounded in emotional safety, which made the romantic payoff feel earned.
Rus has a temper and zero tolerance for bigotry, but underneath that edge is someone trying very hard not to let anger define him. Dylan presents sunshine and steadiness, yet there’s a quiet fragility beneath the surface that slowly unravels as he lets himself be seen. And Kaiden? Kaiden absolutely stole my heart. His insecurity, his fear of being “too much” or somehow not enough, felt painfully real in a way that hit deeper than I expected.
The poly dynamic works because each relationship is nurtured individually while also strengthening the trio as a whole. No one is sidelined. No one feels like an accessory. The communication is intentional. The vulnerability is mutual. Watching them choose each other again and again was incredibly satisfying.
I also loved that the story doesn’t shy away from heavier themes. There’s anger. There’s past hurt. There are complicated family dynamics and the weight of living authentically in a world that doesn’t always make that easy. But there’s also humor, tenderness, and moments of pure softness that balance it beautifully.
I gave this 4 stars because I wanted just a bit more time in certain emotional moments, but overall this was heartfelt, thoughtful, and genuinely romantic.
If you love emotionally aware men, poly relationships built on trust, righteous “touch him and we riot” energy, and character growth that feels authentic, this one is absolutely worth picking up.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
I started this for the Valentine’s vibes and ended up emotionally invested in three fictional boyfriends.
This was such a gooey, comforting story. The kind that leaves you warm and full like a fresh chocolate chip oatmeal cookie. I finished and just sat there holding my Kindle for a while, letting it settle. I even left my review half written in my drafts for days.
This book gave me cozy softness but also moments where I wanted to yell at the world and then immediately hug someone.
Kaiden absolutely wrecked me 🥺 His self consciousness hit really close to home. I’ve lived in the cycle of crash dieting, overworking my body, trying to be smaller, then learning how to exist after my body changed and figuring out how to be kind to myself again. Learning to eat and move for health instead of punishment is still something I work at. Watching him slowly accept affection and believe someone could love him as he is genuinely got me. I wasn’t just rooting for him. I felt protective of him.
Rus … I absolutely adored my short king 👑 tiny tank of chaos and very informed rage, but with such a soft heart underneath. Loud about what matters, protective in that immediate step-in way, and somehow still gentle with the people he loves. I saw a lot of myself there, 5 foot nothing and full of feelings and political fury.
And Dylan. Sweet sunny golden retriever energy ☀️ warm and gentle and just pure comfort… until someone messes with his boys and he goes full Doberman. Protective, firm, not playing around. And yes it was so hot lol That switch did something to me.
What stayed with me most was how much they cared about each other’s feelings. Nothing rushed, nothing forced. Every soft moment felt earned and it made all the little affectionate scenes hit harder.
I read most of this curled in my burrito blanket, squealing and kicking my feet every so often.
I laughed, I got teary eyed, I got mad, and when it ended I genuinely missed them 💞
First book by this author and I’m already planning my next read 📚
Kaiden, Rus and Dylan couldn’t be more different if they tried.
Kaiden is our corset wearing, artsy dude with a flair for subtle makeup who is learning to love himself just the way he is.
Rus is a bit of a chaos gremlin, short, with big feelings, fists of fury and packing some serious BDE.
Dylan is the more sensible of the trio, wears crop tops, says no to manscaping and finds purpose in helping others.
Dylan and Kaiden are besties and together they meet Rus who is helping out at an event that Kaiden has put on (think art gallery) as part of his (Rus) mandatory community service (he punched several not nice people at the star of the book. Well deserved).
There’s sparks between all three but none of these boys are very good at speaking their minds or expressing their feelings. If they want to explore the possibility of anything happening between the three of them then they’re going to need to be brave.
This books explores a lot of different themes and unpacks several view points and challenges for the community that Dylan, Rus and Kaiden are all proud members of. It’s not smooth sailing for the three, they get a lot of pushback from several directions and so this story is as much about them exploring their own budding relationship as it is about them growing as characters and finding their places in the world. Exploring their wants and goals.
It’s a bit of a slow ish burn to start, but once things get going they get going. The flag drops, so to speak, and it’s on, so don’t worry - plenty of spice. An Eiffel Tower or two…. There’s plenty of different combinations for them to try and everyone has fun. lol. 😂
My favourite of the three was Kaiden. I really felt for him and his back story, the challenges that he was facing and the way that he thought of himself rang true. I was so proud of him on several occasions and just found his whole personality charming and kind. Dylan was the glue that held these dudes together and Rus was the much needed spark that kicked everything off and made sure nobody took the easy way out.
All and all a thoroughly enjoyable read with distinct characters and great character growth. Pick this one up if you’re in the mood for a poly MMM romance where everyone in the group is an equal.
This book sadly didn’t click with me at all… which makes me really sad because I love throuples and stories about them.
As far as the guys go, I liked them a lot individually. I also enjoyed their individual POVs,I thought they were well done, and considering there are three of them, the author did a good job distinguishing their voices. Although I do think we missed Dylan a little bit…? I feel like we learned more about Kaiden and Rus, and not so much about Dylan. But anyway!
Unfortunately, I didn’t really feel the connection they were supposed to have. I saw them more as friends. I didn’t feel any real attraction between them. I know one of them mentioned developing a crush, but I didn’t feel like it went any deeper than that and it didn’t feel that serious to me. Then something happened and they got together, which felt a little rushed. Mostly because we didn’t see much of the “falling in love” part or anything that made it feel like they were developing genuine feelings for each other. It was mostly them hanging out either at a bar or at one of their places. And again, that could easily read as friends, so it didn’t feel particularly romantic.
I also had a hard time with the political side of it, but that’s 100% on me and not the author. I don't think anyone who lives in that reality will have a problem with it, I think I just strongly underestimated how big the cultural differences can be when it comes to the queer community and the issues we face. Personally, it was difficult for me to fully understand some of the situations presented. For example, the “villains” felt more like stereotypes to me, and I had trouble taking them seriously because my reaction was, “There’s no way people actually act like that.” But again, that could easily be someone else’s reality, and I wouldn’t want to invalidate that. I think it’s simply a cultural difference and not anyone’s fault, but because it’s a theme throughout the whole book, it did throw me off a bit.
This story was absolute perfections Kaiden, Rus, and Dylan are the cutest trio, they all have their own beautiful and unique personalities and they all come together so beautifully.
Rus is our chaotic fighty boy, right from the start our man is fighting bigots and we love him for it. When he meets Dylan and Kaiden he can't help but become attracted to both of them, and honestly who could blame him! He is truly our fierce bisexual short king, who will do anything and everything to stand up for those who can't stand up for themselves!
Dylan is our sweet baby who grew up with a hard life, from his parents abuse, to him running away at 14. After finding Dorothy's House and our sweet sassy Jasmine he found his home and a safe space, now grown up he throws himself into all he can to help Dorothy's House and the kids that are there.
Kaiden oh sweet baby Kaiden, as someone who struggles with their weight and self image I saw SO much of myself in him. Even when experiencing real love he questions it cause his looks, and cause how his family has treated him as he grew up and even now. An let me tell you.....we hate Kaidens family “Shut your fucking mouth, Sandra.” will be living in my head for WEEKS haha. Kaiden truly spoke to me cause so much of how he viewed himself, and how his family treated him was so similar to my life and I just wanted to hug him!
As someone who is polyamorous I always go into poly/why choose books a little hesitant, will the story feel like how media portrays this or will it feel like the real thing. And let me tell you! As someone who lives this life, the level of communication and love that these three had was so real. I truly want to thank MN for the care he put into the story, and the love that he wrote in these characters love story. Keep your eyes peeled for Politics and Poly releasing April 1st!