You love your spouse. So why do you feel constantly misunderstood?
He talks facts. She speaks connection. ....She shares feelings. He offers solutions. You are under the same roof but speaking different languages, and it's exhausting.
What if the problem isn't your marriage...it's your perspective? Through the powerful blue glasses/pink glasses framework, Dennis and Lorrie reveal why husbands and wives see identical situations through very different lenses. Your spouse isn't necessarily wrong. They're wearing different glasses.
This book
A pathway to understand God’s design for your spouseTranslation tools that turn misunderstanding into connectionThe roadmap from competing to complementing in marriagePractical strategies for parenting, intimacy, and life decisionsStop fighting about who's right or wrong...and start celebrating how your God-designed differences help to complete your marriage!
Dennis "DJ" Harry Jr. is an author, pastor, and educator with a deep passion for influencing the next generation of believers through powerful storytelling. Whether through compelling fiction or local ministry, his central mission is to equip young minds and families for spiritual growth and strong relationships.
As a storyteller, Dennis crafts engaging fictional worlds designed to resonate with young readers, including series like The Cedar Hill Boys and The Daniel Chronicles. He is also the author of Pink Glasses, Blue Glasses, a Christian non-fiction book providing biblical perspectives and practical guidance for marriage.
Alongside his writing, Dennis has over two decades of pastoral ministry experience and currently serves as the Senior Pastor of Needhams Grove Baptist Church in North Carolina. He also helps shape future leaders as an online adjunct professor at Veritas Baptist College. His foundational background includes eight years of K-12 instruction and advanced theological studies, holding a Master of Divinity from Carolina University and a Doctor of Ministry from Pensacola Theological Seminary.