This provocative book is one of two or perhaps three of the most important books published after the end of apartheid. Dlamini uses the concept of nostalgia in a number of ways to challenge the assumption that apartheid was totalising in its determination of everything about non-white South Africans. However, Dlamini’s use of nostalgia offers a powerful counter to this notion. He looks back on his childhood with fondness (and the obvious considerations of the negatives of apartheid daily life) and reflects on the variety of important lessons he learned about ethics, responsibility, inequality, class, culture, language (the chapter on Afrikaans is excellent) and other themes, challenging the lie of apartheid: That the differences between people were natural. His counter to this absurd notion is idiosyncratic and seemingly unconventional. One argument of Dlamini’s for example, is that Afrikaans is the language of nostalgia for many black South Africans. But if you’re familiar enough with South Africa you’ll understand the point he’s making: Assumptions are of little value in South Africa. And Dlamini pushes back against those who might otherwise assume that because Dlamini grew up during apartheid automatically means his upbringing was without happiness, joy, sadness, love and responsibility (ingredients of humanity). Nevertheless, Dlamini’s fondness for the multicultural, dynamic community of Katlehong is a powerful reminder of the capacity for memory to challenge history. This is a monumental book.