We tend to expect that everyone in the world, including our partner, is motivated by the same things as we are. But have you noticed that your partner does not seem to think the same way you do? The ancient wisdom of the Enneagram personality system gives invaluable insight into why it is so hard for people to get along, especially when they are up close and personal in a relationship. Reading this book will clarify and explain why it is so difficult to stay in love. You can show it to your partner so they can better understand your point of view, and you can have conversations that matter. It will also give you simple tools to transform your life and your relationship.