Therapist. Client. Catastrophic chemistry. Dr. Nicola Forbes has spent years building a life defined by boundaries—clinical, emotional, ethical. But when Avery Hall, a rising Hollywood star, walks into her therapy office, Nic feels something she hasn’t in years: want. Avery is bold, brazen, and struggling under the weight of queer fame. Nic is grieving her wife, hiding behind professionalism, and failing—spectacularly—not to fall for her client. What begins with guarded glances and charged conversations becomes a line-crossing affair neither woman can walk away from. Nic knows the consequences. Loving Avery could cost her her license, her reputation, everything she’s built. But not loving her might be the greater loss. Love Me Like You Shouldn’t is a forbidden sapphic romance about desire, fame, and the kind of love that’s absolutely, dangerously worth it.
Harper Bliss is a best-selling lesbian romance author. Among her most-loved books are the highly dramatic French Kissing and the often thought-provoking Pink Bean series. She is the co-founder of My LesFic, a weekly newsletter offering discount deals on lesbian fiction.
Harper lived in Hong Kong for 7 years, travelled the world for a bit, and has now settled in Brussels (Belgium) with her wife and photogenic cat, Dolly Purrton.
Together with her wife, she hosts a weekly podcast called Harper Bliss & Her Mrs.
This book completely hooked me from beginning to end. It’s a beautifully layered, emotionally charged story about two women whose lives collide at exactly the wrong and right moment.
Avery, an actress on the brink of fame, is navigating the pressure of sudden visibility while still carrying deep wounds from her family history. Then there’s Dr. Nic, a brilliant, reserved psychiatrist still grieving the loss of her wife. She’s convinced that the part of her capable of deep connection died right along with her partner.
Their patient‑doctor dynamic sets the stage for a forbidden, slow‑burn tension that feels both intimate and impossible. The chemistry between them is electric, tender, and yes, wonderfully steamy. Like really steamy , but then again Harper Bliss is the queen of steam :)
The supporting cast was another highlight. Getting to reconnect with characters from previous books felt like slipping back into a familiar circle of friends.
I really enjoyed this one! Highly recommend read with a solid 5 star rating.
“To unlikely beginnings that turn into something wonderful. To owning our choices. And to love, however it finds us” (p.232)
3.25 (I'm sure with Abby Craden it's a 3.5) I may return to my review if the story lingers longer for me...
Crafting a story lightly while carrying two complicated emotional arcs is a delicate task. When one moves through an ethically ambiguous choice, impacting 30 years of dedicated work, and the other begins her journey to become more emotionally aware of trauma and triggers, character development often unfolds in very messy ways. In many stories, readers are passengers along for the ride. The slow unraveling and careful piecing back together are experiences often appreciated and marked. Here, that journey feels more distant. Some readers may appreciate being spared by the architectural process; others may wish for the design's depth. My own experience fell somewhere in the middle.
Dr. Nicola Forbes is introduced as a woman of emotional intelligence. She has layers and depth. After thirty years as a psychologist, much of it spent working with actors, she understands the fragility of the human mind. Yet the loss of her wife and the grief rooted has hollowed out a part of her life she cannot imagine rebuilding. Desire and the possibility of another love all seem unreachable.
Enter Avery Hall, young, bold, crass, and perhaps lost. An actor who’s not so happy with the “hype” of being a queer actor. She is uninterested in the symbolic weight others attach to her identity. Defiance and resistance toward one element of her life lead her to work on another: vulnerability and intimacy.
The emotional support between Nic and Avery feels uneven, with more to explore. I want so much more for Nic, and I want Avery to grow the fuck up. She does have good moments - “…it feels less like giving up control and more like finally letting someone in” (p.199). The “I have arrived” moments are sweet, tender, and certainly hit Nic hard – in a good way. Still, the path that leads Avery to those realizations remains mostly unseen. For Nic, so much sacrifice, you can't help but want to give every tender moment of validation and security to her. It’s the emotional labor, the messy human process of becoming ready to let someone in that I love. For readers who cherish this, the unfolding and rebuilding, this story may land differently. For me, it is often where the most resonant parts of a love story live.
Harper Bliss does this so exquisitely well in A Breathless Place – still my number one. Within this experience, I find myself having to accept that what draws them together is less the meeting of two minds, less the journey to the destination, and more the intensity of their physical pull and the destination itself —a forbidden sapphic romance charged by passion and desire. The story leans fully into passion. The spice unfolds in abundance!
I think the main thing I enjoyed in this was the spice. The relationship between the MCs felt so superficial though, the writing was shallow to me, and Avery was such an immature character for the most part. I also didn’t find Nic’s decision realistic at all based on how little they knew each other and without having had any meaningful conversations. It was honestly just insta lust that somehow became love with nothing really happening 🥲
Love Me Like You Shouldn’t is classic Harper Bliss - emotional, intimate, and unapologetically steamy. She really is the queen of forbidden romance, and this one hooked me quietly but completely from the start.
Avery, an actress on the brink of major visibility, is still carrying complicated family baggage, while Dr Nic is a therapist to the stars who is grieving her late wife and convinced she’s closed off that part of herself for good. Their patient-doctor dynamic adds a layer of tension that makes the slow burn feel both irresistible and genuinely complicated.
The chemistry is strong (and yes, very spicy), but what I liked most was the emotional depth. Both characters feel human, flawed, and in progress. The story takes its time with their growth rather than rushing the romance, which makes the connection feel earned.
I also loved seeing familiar faces from previous books as it felt like returning to a well-loved circle of friends. Overall, heartfelt, emotional, and definitely swoony. Another solid Harper Bliss read that lingers after you finish.
Many thanks to Harper Bliss for providing me a copy of this novel. ARC provided in exchange for an honest review.
At this point, I have to accept that I need to stop giving Harper Bliss chances, because this book only confirmed that her work simply isn’t for me. This was my thirteenth novel by her, and regrettably, my thirteenth disappointment.
On paper, Love Me Like You Shouldn’t should have been a guaranteed hit. An age gap romance combined with a therapist/client dynamic is usually very much my thing. Somehow, though, this story left me completely unmoved.
The novel follows Dr. Nic Forbes, a well-respected therapist still grieving the loss of her wife, and Avery Hall, a rising Hollywood star struggling with the pressures of queer fame. Avery seeks Nic out for professional help and is immediately drawn to her—and from there, things move fast.
Barely over ten chapters in, they’re already sleeping together. I don’t need a slow burn, but I do need something—tension, flirting, longing, literally anything. Here, there was none. Nothing. We’re told they find each other attractive, but I never felt it. There was no buildup, no chemistry, no emotional grounding to make their connection believable.
What truly lost me was Nic’s decision to give up her entire practice—something she has spent decades building—for what felt like a shallow, underdeveloped fling. And I do mean fling, because at that point they were nowhere near a real relationship. The choice didn’t feel earned, nor did it make sense for her character.
By the end, I didn’t feel like I truly knew either character, and I definitely didn’t believe they were in love. With a therapist/client romance, I expect high stakes, real internal conflict, and a strong focus on the forbidden nature of it all. Instead, Nic barely resists at all, which drains the story of any tension it could have had.
I finished this book feeling unsatisfied and disconnected, and the more I think about it, the more generous even two stars feels. This just didn’t work for me at all.
Therapy, temptation, and enough chaos to keep it interesting.
Another solid read from Harper Bliss, complete with the trademark steam, but this one didn’t quite sweep me off my feet. I expected more sparkle from the Blissverse—especially since I’ve enjoyed the other entries more. It’s good… just not unforgettable.
The story leans heavily on Avery and Nicola’s inner monologues and conversations, especially early on, with alternating POVs each chapter. That structure gives plenty of emotional insight, though it can feel a bit talky at times.
Familiar side characters pop up like little cameos, which longtime readers will recognize. I adore a good celebrity trope, and Bliss delivers the heat exactly where you’d expect. That said, the romance dances repeatedly on ethical thin ice—sometimes tiptoeing over it entirely.
The therapist-client dynamic and its consequences are clearly the central focus, and while the story acknowledges the boundary-crossing, it also seems oddly fixated on it. Still… the chemistry is undeniably scorching, and Bliss has always had a talent for pushing moral tension just far enough to stay compelling.
Overall, engaging, steamy, and thoughtfully messy—but not quite spectacular.
Mixed feelings about this one. Harper Bliss excels with ‘forbidden’, age-gap and steamy reads. However, this one really lacked depth for me. Perhaps it’s the yearner in me but it all felt a bit fast and surface level. Whilst the spice was extremely hot, I don’t actually see where the depth of feelings came from. There is intense intimacy in vulnerability which was well explained but I still don’t think it is enough to explain the actions or what ended up feeling a lot like ‘insta-love’. The ‘Bliss-verse’ is a really nice touch for dedicated readers but also potentially spoils other book plots for readers hoping to dive into back catalogue. I enjoyed the theme of opening yourself up to love and that love can exist in those grey areas a lot of the time. The ethical and moral violations were explained by love being worth sacrifice in the end- even if it was handled wrong/ poorly. The book was freeing in some ways but ultimately left me feeling a little underwhelmed 📝
I enjoyed this book but it was not as good as Bliss’s other books. I loved the message about opening our hearts to make room for more love. But the “drama” or struggles of the characters was glossed over. It felt much less developed than her prior books. Much more like a short story where there is not time to develop the plot and get into the decision making the characters must endure.
3.5 I really liked this one. It's my first by the author and she has a whole series in this "world", which I will probably continue with. I like that there were consequences but there wasn't any miscommunication, which tends to be the case. The writing made it a very quick read.
Nicola is the ultimate professional, she has been a therapist for many years, has no interest in finding love since loosing her wife and knows how to handle clients who may take a glance at her twice, but all that changes when Avery, a movie star struggling with queer fame.
For me Harper Bliss can do no wrong I have listened to so many of her sapphic books at this stage and I really rate them. They are the perfect escape-ism and I hope that they are still many more to come, especially if they are as forbidden as this one!
I especially liked the moral dilemma, and that was a very important part of the book all right, but it's too heavy on the heat for me, enough to feel like a filler. I get that many people like the high spice factor, and I'm definitely not offended by it, but I prefer less of it and more plot.
I knew I probably wasn’t going to like this book, but as a therapist in training, I wanted to see if there was any ethical lens here.
Nope. The author claims it’s about owning your mistakes and… yeah, at no point do they really acknowledge the power dynamic. The whole thing just felt so icky.
I like this book but it was so frustrating. There was no angst no yearning. It’s like I was more worried about the consequences than they were at any given moment. All they do is sleep together repeatedly.
I also didn’t like how from start to finish, their only connection was sex and without fail would say ‘this is more than sex.’ Their connection wasn’t formed on anything concrete. I don’t even think they know anything about each other.
The book lacked a level of depth that I have lacked from Harper Bliss’ book. I kept waiting to see a ‘two years later’ chapter. I’m sorry, but a huge part of love is not wanting your partner to give up everything for you. A 30 year career was thrown out in the trash for sex. Ugh! I was so disappointed.
3⭐️ because I still liked the writing; and it was a good story, I guess.
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Harper once again delivers characters you can’t help but fall in love with. The emotional tension is irresistible — both characters know they shouldn’t feel what they’re feeling, yet every moment between them proves how impossible it is to fight something that feels so right. It’s heartfelt, addictive, and exactly the kind of chemistry Harper writes best.
Harper is truly a master when it comes to writing forbidden romances, and this book is yet another powerful reminder of why her stories linger long after the final page. From the very first chapter, I was completely intrigued, hooked in that quiet but relentless way where you know you’re about to experience something special. The kind of story that pulls you in and refuses to let go.
There are so many things to love about this book, it’s hard to know where to start. The story is beautifully developed, unfolding at a pace that allows every moment to matter. The characters are deep, dimensional, and incredibly human; you don’t just read about them, you feel them. Their emotions, doubts, desires, and fears come through so vividly that it’s impossible not to become emotionally invested.
This is a heartfelt story in the truest sense. It stirs strong emotions, touches sensitive places, and explores longing and connection with such care and intensity. The chemistry between the characters is undeniable, sizzling, electric, and perfectly balanced with tenderness. Every interaction feels charged with meaning, making their relationship both intoxicating and unforgettable.
By the time I reached the end, I realized just how deeply invested I had become. I was so absorbed in the story that words almost fail me, because some books are better felt than explained. All I can truly say is that this is a great book, one that stays with you. Harper has done it again, and I already know this is a story I won’t be forgetting anytime soon.
Harper Bliss's newest, upcoming sapphic romance novel, Love Me Like You Shouldn't, is good, very good. "Catastrophic chemistry", from the blurb/promotional materials, is an understatement: risky premise, wonderful execution, very spicy (for a Harper Bliss novel, and she executes it brilliantly)!
She’s not here because she’s my client—that’s just the unfortunate fact of how we met.
I really enjoyed my time with this one, the set up was great - definitely had the potential to be "a Marmite read" (like A Family Affair was), for some, but for me it worked well; the only thing I would have liked to see more of is, funnily enough, more conflict and more internal-fighting before the MCs crossed the rubicon: all things considered, things went quite swimmingly for them (it could've been a bit longer with a bit more angst/slow-burn, but that's personal taste).
A fun, spicy read with lots of great characterisation. Definitely one of my favourites by Harper Bliss!
Love Me Like You Shouldn't is out now on the Bliss Shop (i.e. direct from the author), and it will be available from other retailers on 18 February 2026; the audiobook (narrated by Abby Craden) will be out in March!
Note: I received an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
I need to start this review by saying I loved this book and devoured it in one sitting! This is Harper Bliss at her scorching nuanced best.
Bliss never shies away from controversial pairings and “Love Me Like You Shouldn’t” is no exception,. Perhaps it is her most contentious yet due to the ethical questions and dilemmas it raises. The beginning of Avery and Nic’s relationship is difficult to condone, both ethically and morally, especially if you have either worked or been treated in a therapeutic environment. However, Bliss excels at pushing the boundaries of the forbidden romance trope and in “Love Me Like You Shouldn’t” she effortlessly conveys a sense of the inevitability of human connection between the two main characters and the fallibility of even the most conscientious professional. Some emotions are too strong to resist and some choices impossible not to make. What sets this book apart is Nic’s need to be accountable for her ethical violations and her acceptance of the consequences of her choices and actions.
“Love Me Like You Shouldn’t” shows us how healing comes in many forms. I was screaming “No! No! No!” then sighing “Yes, Yes! Yes!” throughout this book because in Avery and Nic’s story Harper Bliss gives us a love so strong that the morally grey becomes a beautiful rainbow!
The heart wants what the heart wants. Sometimes in life, you reach a point where you have to follow your heart. You have no choice. However, you have to bear the consequences and live with them.
In the case of actress Avery Hall and Dr. Nic Forbes, their professional relationship is that of therapist and client, and this comes with strict ethical boundaries. This relationship—or rather, the imbalance between the client's vulnerable situation and the therapist's not insignificant position—can otherwise cause harm. There are boundaries that must be respected for good reason. But what do you do when both want each other so badly and are powerless against the attraction and the feelings that arise between them? Avery is also very famous as the latest hottie in Hollywood, and Nic Forbes is no stranger to the spotlight either. After all, she's the therapist for the rich and famous! So it's hardly something that can be kept secret...or is it? The undeniable attraction between these two, the explosive physical intimacy they develop for each other, was extremely steamy and beautifully written. I could hardly put it down. Phew! I loved everything about this book! Another favorite of mine by Harper Bliss! Thank you so much!
Harper Bliss is a very talented writer, and I usually enjoy her books. That said, I found this book cringe-worthy, not enjoyable. Under no circumstances is the breach of boundaries and ethics described acceptable. The very experienced therapist had the responsibility to maintain the therapeutic boundaries, despite the strong attraction. That the attraction started and escalated so quickly should have alarmed her and immediately had her request supervision from a colleague. Her first instinct to transfer the client to another therapist was the correct one, but she failed to follow through with what she knew was ethically correct until after the breach of professional conduct. She should especially have been careful with such an immature, needy client, about whom there are several red flags. She didn’t know the client well enough to justify her acceptance that she wasn’t at risk of harming the client. We’re more used to criticizing male therapists who behave this way, but we shouldn’t accept such unprofessional behaviour from any licensed psychotherapist. The blasé treatment of this in the book and the ease with which the therapist gives up her practice minimizes the importance and impact of both the unethical behaviour and the very serious loss of the ability to practice.
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I love Harper Bliss books, the writing always is expectionally good and has the unique Harper Bliss style and flow which I also got with this book. The storyline was amazing, my favorite troups combined wirh age gap, forbidden love and celebrity main character. I wish we would get to know a bit more about out mains backstory. They fell in love rather quick and habe deep feelings from the get go, while some glimps we get from the backstory of both give some away and get you an idea why, that part felt a bit one dimensional (Nics backstory only feels like her lost love with Louis and Averys I cant really grab because the talks with Nic and Jan are giving not all away) I loved meeting beloved characters from other books again, made me feel like its easy possible to dip I to thia world and connect the dots and I crave for more. The end felt a bit aprubt from Nic loosing her job I wished there was 1-2 more chapters about them together and how Nic handels losing her job for love and what she acrually does now.
But all in all as usually with Harper Bliss this was an amazing read and I couldnt put away rhe book and read in about 3 nights.
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Harper Bliss is back, and this one is a scorcher!🔥
One of the reasons I keep coming back to Bliss is that she never plays it safe. She pushes boundaries, leans into controversial pairings, and serves up deliciously morally grey situations. And honestly, I eat that up! There’s something irresistible about messy emotions and devastatingly beautiful women who refuse to fit into society’s neat little boxes.
This story follows a gorgeous therapist in her 50s who slowly unravels under the pull of her mid-30s client… lesbian, rich, famous, and impossible to ignore! The attraction is undeniable, the ethical lines are blurred, and the emotional fallout is intense. Watching a life you thought was stable start to crack open? I’m SO here for it! 👏🏼
If, like me, you enjoy your romance with a dash of danger and a shovel of spice, do yourself a favour and pick this one up immediately! 🌶️
I'll be thinking about Avery and Dr. Nic for a while!
Reading the premise of this book immediately pulled me in and I was eager to get started on it. And when I did, I simply couldn't put it down. A forbidden love between a therapist and her client sure sets the story for success, which, in my opinion, it did!
With the dual POV's we can get even more intimate with what each woman is feeling and struggling with, making their chemistry and connection off the charts. The character development for Avery was amazing to witness. I might have enjoyed a little bit more of flirting in the beggining, but it didn't deteer me from the book.
Loved the spicy scenes and how the story played out, reminding us that in love there really isn't a strict book of rules to follow. Sure in life we're always told what to do and how to act, but when it comes to love, sometimes things get messy, and that was portrayed beautifully by the author!
Please do not be put off by the tag lines, forbidden and hot. This is both but sooo much more. I am only 17% in but this book has already made me think and reconsider my views! Not on the book. I knew going in to it Bliss writes hot, always hot with humanity, this is no different. It has already made me reconsider some of my opinions on repercussions of being gay in the 21st century. One main curses constantly. At the beginning it distracted me. I appreciate cursing as an emphasis but not every few words. However 25% and it just is. Mission creep is real! Although the relationship is forbidden it doesn't feel too bad with the circumstances and the professional relationship is immediately terminated. I totally get why it is forbidden.... but..... and that is one of the strengths of this novel!
Love Me Like You Shouldn’t is another wonderful book by Harper Bliss. I admire Harper because her books don't play it easy. she likes to push boundaries and address controversial topics and couples that would supposedly be off-limits. Avery and Nicola are a famous client and a therapist couple who weren't supposed to fall in love because of professional ethics, but they do, because that's life after all. This book has many spicy and steamy acenes; the scenes are very good. Harper is one of the best authors who write steamy scenes; she never disappoints in the heat and romance. P.S.: I loved learning more about my favorite couples: Ida and Faye and Stella and Kate of About That Kiss and A Family Affair. I love the BlissVerse. I received an ARC for an honest review.
Avery Hall, a famous Hollywood actress, and Dr. Nic Forbes, a respected therapist with everything to lose, find themselves caught in a connection that should never cross professional boundaries. The ethical tension is palpable from the start, making every interaction feel dangerous and irresistible. The chemistry between Avery and Nic is undeniable—intense, explosive, and beautifully written. They struggle between desire and responsibility, especially under the added pressure of fame and public scrutiny. The author does a great job exploring the consequences of following your heart, even when you know it could cost you everything. A perfect blend of forbidden romance, high stakes, and scorching attraction.
Harper sure know how to write a steamy, age gap, forbidden romance. Avery Hall has hit the big time in Hollywood, but struggles with her new found fame. Her friends suggest therapy after she shoves a man after some less than pleasant comments thrown her way. Avery doesn't want to be "in" therapy, but in walks Dr Nicola Forbes, professional, successful who sees through Averys defences. Dr Nic has long since given up on matters of the heart following the death of her older wife, but there is something that Avery Hall stirs awake. But it is professionally suicide if anything happens between them. What are Nic and Avery prepared to lose in order to find love? Great story, good supporting cast. Lovely to catch up with the Hollywood gang again.
This is one of my favorites from Harper Bliss so far. It’s hard to write (and read) books about this kind of forbidden relationship realistically, as it’s obviously wrong and has consequences. It was so well done in this book, as the development of the relationship was believable and kind of gut-wrenching for Nic, who has to choose between the two most important things in her life. The consequences were real, but thankfully softened. As usual, the spice was absolutely delicious and there was plenty of it. Highly recommend this book.
Another hit in the Blissverse. Avery and Nic are both genuinely likeable MCs, and their forbidden‑love, age‑gap dynamic flows effortlessly. I liked how Nic pushed Avery to sit with herself and embrace the uncomfortable and how Avery gave Nic a new lease on life. The story weaves in familiar faces from earlier books, which adds a comforting, lived‑in feel to the story. I really appreciated the low angst and the blessed absence of a third‑act breakup. There’s a little bit of spicy spice for good measure. All in all, a quick, mostly drama‑free Bliss read that delivers exactly what it promises.
This booked hooked me from the first paragraph. Their patient‑doctor dynamic. The internal and external dialogue surrounding how we view ourself as part of the community, where is steams from and how it affect how we show up resonated. Its Harper so the chemistry was electric, the love making was steamy and the drama was well what do you expect from a relationship between a therapist and patient. Also loved the inclusion of character in the last few books. Another HIT.