Blending the lessons of psychotherapy with Buddhist teachings, Mark Epstein offers a revolutionary understanding of what constitutes a healthy emotional life
“One of the most sophisticated integrations of the therapeutic and spiritual disciplines.” —New York Times
The line between psychology and spirituality has blurred as clinicians, their patients, and religious seekers explore new perspectives on the self. A landmark contribution to the field of psychoanalysis, Thoughts Without a Thinker describes how Buddhist teachings in particular have reshaped understandings of our minds and behavior. Drawing upon his own experiences as a psychotherapist and meditator, New York-based psychiatrist Mark Epstein lays out the path to meditation-inspired healing. Thoughts Without a Thinker offers a revolutionary understanding of what constitutes a healthy emotional life.
Mark Epstein, M.D. is a psychiatrist in private practice in New York City and the author of a number of books about the interface of Buddhism and psychotherapy. He received his undergraduate and medical degrees from Harvard University and is currently Clinical Assistant Professor in the Postdoctoral Program in Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis at New York University.
I bought this book because of the title! Thoughts without a thinker? What!? Took me all the way till the very last page of this erudite 1995 book merging Western psychotherapy with Eastern philosophy to get the full scoop. Basically, Epstein says, thoughts without a thinker is the idea that insight arises best when the thinker’s existence is no longer necessary. Sound like a riddle? Don’t worry: He gets there slowly, steadily, with endless quotes from Freud and the Buddha. Let’s flip back to the beginning. On Page 17, he relates to us overthinkers when he writes, "thoughts in our minds keep us endlessly chattering as if beyond our control" and then tells us that "we are locked into our minds, but we do not really know them. We are adrift and struggling, buffeted by the waves of our minds, having not learned how to float." Teach us, Dr. Epstein, the New York City private practice psychiatrist with deep history studying in the Eastern world, how do we float? The secret is—drum roll please—meditation. Don’t be scared! He gets there slowly. And defines it broadly. First he invites us into his learnings on Buddhism and stitches them into the teachings of early psychoanalysts. For example, he says on Page 17 that "According to Buddhism, it is our fear at experiencing ourselves directly that creates suffering" and then immediately quotes Freud who writes that a patient "must find the courage to direct his attention to the phenomena of his illness. His illness itself must no longer seem to him contemptible, but must become an enemy worthy of his mettle, a piece of his personality, which has solid ground for its existence and out of which things of value for his future life have to be derived. The way is thus paved for the reconciliation with the repressed material which is coming to expression in his symptoms, while at the same time place is found for a certain tolerance for the state of being ill." Damn! I could use some of that. I’ve had a rough summer. I’ve been fighting, pushing against, some of the ups and downs I’ve been feeling. Why am I feeling like this? What’s wrong with me? You know the drill. In just a few words, Buddha and Freud, translated and brought into HD by Mark Epstein, felt like balm. I drained a highlighter into this book! So much yellow. The book is chopped into 3: Part 1 is 94 pages on "The Buddha’s Psychology of Mind" (a deliciously absorbing read), Part 2 at 54 pages on "Meditation," and Part 3 at 60 pages on "Therapy." My favorite chapter might have been Chapter 6 on Bare Attention which keeps chipping away at something us overthinkers know: persistent thoughts, evaluating thoughts, is the opposite of living in the moment. What we need to cultivate is simply perceiving what’s happening, without evaluating, without judging, without interpreting, without analyzing, without evaluating. SUPER HARD! And yet if we can "pay precise attention, moment by moment, to exactly what you are experiencing, right now, separating out your reactions from the raw sensory events" then we reap … tremendous benefits. I have so much more I want to say about this book but this review is already over 500 words so let me just say I cannot recommend this book enough!