This is a helpful resource teaching churches how to minister to families with children or other relatives on the spectrum. It helps heighten sensitivity of how to best minister to the families and individuals who face the challenges of autism.
The author also offers helps for families, who have loved ones on spectrum, to know how to best advocate for their loved one in the church environment and how to navigate the challenges of church attendance and participation while involving, rather than excluding the neurodiverse loved one.
I have a child with autism who is very high functioning but it still presents problems at times with being aware of the needs of others due to the “obsessions” that consume his thoughts. Those “obsessions” can be troubling, worrisome thoughts or they may be the topics in which he delights but not necessarily as interesting to others.
His plans are to go to seminary and become a pastor and he can absolutely do this, but he also will need to become more aware of on whom he is most focused while he is ministering.
He will ultimately need to learn some things this book DOESN’T address. As a matter of fact, when I read the title and topic of this book to him, he took interest, yet he said, “Someone needs to write a book on how to MINISTER as one who is ON the spectrum.” To which I responded: perhaps he will be the one to write it as he learns and implements what he learns as he ministers!
"I wrote this book not to describe what every church is, but to show what a church can be. I wanted to paint a picture of what is possible when Christ's people walk in love, patience, and truth. I gave you a window into what it might look like to stay, to disciple, to listen, and to grow together. I wrote not out of naivety but out of longing... This book was not meant to say everything. It as meant to light a path. It was meant to stir hope and give language to the quiet prayers of families who have long felt alone." (p. 152)
I think the author succeeded at his goal. It is a hopeful book, and one that stirs compassion for families who are going through the struggle of raising an ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) child. The writing style is not where this book shines, but it's adequate for the task. It's straightforward, pastoral, and compassionate.
He provides 3 case study families, with children of different ages and levels of ASD. He then imagines their experience preparing for church, going to Sunday school, worshipping, etc. Each of the chapters with these imagined examples are then followed by a chapter with insight and encouragement for the pastor, congregation, and ASD family.
The fictional church in these scenarios is a small (under 200 person) Baptist church, which is right on the money for me. But if your church denomination or size doesn't match that, I'm certain that there will still be valuable insights in reading this book. Additionally, I think that although this book addresses autism specifically, the concepts and attitudes taught here can (and should) be expanded to many learning differences, disabilities, etc. The examples, though fictional, had me crying multiple times. This is what the Body of Christ should do: accommodate and care for the "least of these".
Recommended for ASD families, pastors, elders, church members.
This is a very direct and easy-to-understand guide for the local church and families living with autism as they attempt to engage in life together. While its primary focus is autism, many of the situations presented are true for a wide range of disabilities.