Overall this is an enjoyable story about a married couple with kids who struggle to communicate and have lost a bit of the closeness of what initially made them a great couple because the Mom (FMC) is stressed & burned-out and the Dad (MMC) is also stressed about money and other things and clueless how to be an equal partner in this marriage of theirs until his wife has enough and threatens divorce which is the wakeup call he needed to do better.
Honestly, there is no bad guys here. Even when one minute you are totally on FMC’s side, you get MMC’s perspective and you are on his too (though there was a moment in the story where he said something cruel to her about money that I wanted to smack him upside the head several times! Lol) and when they finally get to the end, it's chef's kiss 💋.
So in a sense, this is a little bit of a marriage in crises trope because both MCs have drifted apart a bit and it takes an angry word in the heat of an argument for both of them to wake up and start rebuilding their relationship – not because they don’t love one another, but because they stopped listening, talking and communicating. Too much time was focused on their kids that they lost themselves somewhat so this is a story how often we have to step back and make time for ourselves and our partner instead of just existing day to day.
No OP drama, just a bit of real-life depiction of what many couples face when raising a young family. With my own chaotic crew, I can definitely relate here a little bit. What made it a 4 star for me is the repetiveness of the arguments and actions even after they had "The Talk" and promised to make changes but I can see how it needed to be written this way for them both to grow & learn from their mistakes and I love how MMC supported FMC in the end with her career and stepped up to be a great Dad and Husband.
This was okay, but tbh I felt exhausted after reading it. 😅
It was just about their everyday family stuff and how the MCs worked to fix their bond. It can feel a bit repetitive since it really captures the emotional roller coaster and the highs and lows of keeping a relationship going. All I know is that it definitely requires a lot of effort.
Anyway, I really admire those families who make life seem so effortless, even though we all know it’s anything but that. But this also makes it clear how much I don't want to be in this situation. It really is a lot that can feel overwhelming in so many ways (even when you've got an amazing partner). It's going to drive me crazy all day, every day. I just know it. 😂
That said, this was okay, but the repetitiveness of some parts made the story feel a whole lot longer than it actually is. Also, there's no cheating here, and the MCs are still very much in love with one another; it's just that life, work, and their kids made them overlook that aspect for a bit. Still, I loved that they found their way. 🤍
4.5 stars- Ok, I feel like I should address the one star review for this book since it is the only one besides mine. Their complaint was that the book felt repetitive and sometimes it seemed to go on a loop and that made it boring. I completely understand what they're saying, however, as a single mom of a boy in a very complex co- parenting situation, I took this as the normal almost monotonous loops of life, you come back to same thoughts, same arguments and issues over and over. Dirty Laundry made me cry, I felt seen as a mom who is the primary caregiver six days out of seven of the week, who is also a surrogate mother for her younger sister and the main support of her stubborn army veteran dad. Some of my feelings that I have never voiced or managed to put into words were depicted so relatably, so raw. Real. My self care is taking the time to read a book, and I felt attracted by the cover of this book, barely glanced at the blurb but I decided to still pick it up and give it a read, only to find out that I 'm actually not doing things so bad, I'm not so lost. I'm not so alone. Thank you to the author for this, I didn't know I needed it.
I really struggled to rate this book, so I’ve gone with 4 stars. This book is nothing like my normal reads so I had nothing to compare it to. This wasn’t a fluffy romance, it wasn’t a romantasy, it wasn’t a dark romance - it’s just raw, heartwarming (AND heartbreaking), relatable truth. I felt like I was reading about myself or a friend.
As a mum of 2 who has only recently gone back to work part time, I can fully relate to both Emma and Dan. The fact that I have the same name as the FMC is not where the similarities end. We really are like the same person. Emma’s inner monologue resonates with me so much. I have a partner who, just like Dan, is hard working and loves me and his children more than anything - but he also doesn’t understand the mental load of being the default parent. I honestly felt like I was just reading my own thoughts in a book which was both weird and helpful at the same time.
However, with that being said, my favourite thing about this book is how much it helped me to empathise with Dan (and therefore my partner too). Dan is not slacking because he’s lazy, he’s slacking because there’s a massive breakdown in communication and therefore not enough appreciation or understanding from him. It’s just proof that a little bit of effective communication really can make the world of difference.
I highly recommend this to any parents, but I don’t think it’s the type of book you will enjoy if you don’t have children purely because this book is so good because of it’s relatability.
Thank you to Lottie for allowing me to receive a gifted copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. I cannot wait to read about the other couples in this series!
As a Mum, this was such a relatable read. From losing yourself to being completely overwhelmed.. been there. I enjoyed how this was told from both Emma & Dan's perspectives & that we saw the good, the bad & the ugly with them. I couldn't put this book down & I felt like I felt all the emotions reading this. The dedication for this book had me from the get go too & I knew it would be my kind of book just based off that! I'm absolutely sold & cannot wait for the next installment in The Oakwood Primary Series ❤️
This was a good book with a married couple having what I think is basic problems most married people stumble upon at some time in their marriage.
But I felt this was kind of dragged out, and a lot of things repeated itself, and it got kind of long.
I liked that their fixing their relationship wasn’t a quick fix, and that it took time to get to a place where they worked as a team. Also liked that there was no drama with other people, just them who needed to communicate better.
If I could pick a zero star for this I would. Although it does highlight daily life its also awfully repetitive and with repetition comes boredom. It doesn't feel like the story is going anywhere. I had high hopes for this but I've been extremely disappointed.