What if I told you that whatever it is you are doing, if it is done with love, is enough?
It All Counts is a fiercely compassionate and deeply personal exploration of faith, doubt, and the sacredness of everyday life. With humor, honesty, and theological insight, pastor and podcaster Natalia Terfa invites us to reimagine what it means to live a spiritual life—especially when it doesn't look like the version we were taught.
Through stories of grief, joy, digital ministry, nature, rituals, and rage walks around the lake, Terfa challenges the idea that faith only "counts" when it fits inside institutional boxes. Instead, she offers a liberating vision of spirituality rooted in authenticity, curiosity, and love. Whether you've been told your questions are too big, your worship too unconventional, or your body too broken, this book You still belong. You are not alone. And yes—it all counts.
For spiritual seekers, deconstructing Christians, and anyone longing for a more expansive, inclusive, and embodied faith, It All Counts is both a balm and a rallying cry. With each chapter, Terfa dismantles shame-based theology and replaces it with grace, reminding us that God is not small, stingy, or confined to buildings—but present in every breath, every doubt, and every messy, beautiful moment of being human.
A kind and gentle reminder that there is so much more freedom in faith than we realize. This book reads like walking and talking with a friend. Coherent as a whole, but each chapter can stand on its own, too.
It All Counts is one of the most impactful books I've read in years.
Natalie Terfa offers an honest and compassionate exploration of faith, spirituality, and belonging. With warmth and authenticity, she gently challenges shame-based beliefs, rigid expectations, and the idea that faith must fit within a narrow set of rules. Instead, she invites readers to consider a more expansive understanding of spirituality rooted in grace, curiosity, and connection.
One of the book's greatest strengths is its ability to affirm the many ways people experience the sacred. Terfa explores how faith can be found not only in traditional religious spaces, but also in everyday moments, relationships, nature, creativity, and practices that foster presence and meaning. Her writing creates space for questions and doubt without judgment.
The book expanded my perspective around what faith looks like and who belongs within it. If you are wrestling with questions of faith, spirituality, or belonging, this book will offer comfort, perspective, and hope.
Thank you to Broadleaf Books and NetGalley for the ARC in exchange for an honest review.