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The Castle: Adventures in a World of Unraveling Men
From the bestselling author of The Psychopath Test and So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed comes a darkly comic trip to the furthest reaches of the masculinity crisis.
His only child is lured to a mysterious castle in the forests of New England late one night, sending Jon Ronson on an extraordinary adventure into a dark world of unmoored men desperately searching for purpose and control--whatever the cost.
With zero warning, the crisis of masculinity and its bizarre, wrecking ball manifestations had crashed into Jon’s life. As his investigation deepens, urgent questions come to What exactly is ‘Princessing’? Why did a lawncare influencer dress as a baby in front of billions of online viewers? How did a paid-up member of the Skeptic Society derail his life in the name of a warped vision of chivalry? And, more pressingly, why are two recently released murderers on their way to pay Jon a visit?
In our rapidly changing society, many men have become detached from reality; Some are behaving like separatists, while others have fallen deep down ideological rabbit holes. Is this a complete fracturing of society, a new era of disinhibition where anything goes?
Drawing on his trademark brand of humor, psychological insight, and unrivalled prescience, The Castle marks Jon Ronson’s long-awaited return to the written page in his darkest and most wildly enjoyable book yet – one where he throws open the doors to The Castle and reveals a new lost generation of men.
His only child is lured to a mysterious castle in the forests of New England late one night, sending Jon Ronson on an extraordinary adventure into a dark world of unmoored men desperately searching for purpose and control--whatever the cost.
With zero warning, the crisis of masculinity and its bizarre, wrecking ball manifestations had crashed into Jon’s life. As his investigation deepens, urgent questions come to What exactly is ‘Princessing’? Why did a lawncare influencer dress as a baby in front of billions of online viewers? How did a paid-up member of the Skeptic Society derail his life in the name of a warped vision of chivalry? And, more pressingly, why are two recently released murderers on their way to pay Jon a visit?
In our rapidly changing society, many men have become detached from reality; Some are behaving like separatists, while others have fallen deep down ideological rabbit holes. Is this a complete fracturing of society, a new era of disinhibition where anything goes?
Drawing on his trademark brand of humor, psychological insight, and unrivalled prescience, The Castle marks Jon Ronson’s long-awaited return to the written page in his darkest and most wildly enjoyable book yet – one where he throws open the doors to The Castle and reveals a new lost generation of men.
329 pages, Kindle Edition
First published August 20, 2026
About the author
Jon Ronson
32 books5,969 followersJon Ronson is a British-American journalist, author, and filmmaker. He is known for works such as Them: Adventures with Extremists (2001), The Men Who Stare at Goats (2004), and The Psychopath Test (2011).
He has been described as a gonzo journalist, becoming a faux-naïf character in his stories. He produces informal but sceptical investigations of controversial fringe politics and science. He has published nine books and his work has appeared in publications such as The Guardian, City Life and Time Out. He has made several BBC Television documentary films and two documentary series for Channel 4.
He has been described as a gonzo journalist, becoming a faux-naïf character in his stories. He produces informal but sceptical investigations of controversial fringe politics and science. He has published nine books and his work has appeared in publications such as The Guardian, City Life and Time Out. He has made several BBC Television documentary films and two documentary series for Channel 4.
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August 29, 2026
if i have to live in a world of unraveling men i should at least get a castle out of it
(thanks to the publisher for the e-arc)
(review to come)
(thanks to the publisher for the e-arc)
(review to come)
August 29, 2026
While an engaging read, my ultimate impression of The Castle is that the narrative is hamstrung by an unacknowledged current of self-pity in its persistent framing of men as being at the mercy of a world that has seemingly shifted beneath their feet. There is a denial of individual agency on the part of men who are, quite frankly, not just victims in Ronson's story.
Don't get me wrong, it's still a page-turner, but the book as a whole contains a lot of uncritical assumptions about gender that are left unquestioned and unexplored. It never really addresses the fact that a lot of men aren't as bereft of purpose as the subjects that Ronson interviews, nor does his narrative ask the obvious question of whether women are coping with the shifting demands society thrusts on them in turn.
As much as it enters into his thinking when he's interviewing them, Ronson never asks any deeper questions of why the women in Chris Mark's life come to him and the assumptions that I assume we are left to make is that they're simply looking for a 'sugar daddy' arrangement, that they want to funnel his fortune towards more noble ends than 'princessing', or that they were at the end of their rope and had no other choice.
If men can be led to such extremes of behaviour as detailed in his book because they're reeling from the dissolution of traditional masculinity, why can't it be that the women in his story are too? There is no sociological explanation deeper than poverty afforded to them in the work - Ronson highlights their agency, agonises over why they would choose to be around such an erratic and apparently dangerous person, but ultimately attributes their choices to the individual and the individual alone, without affording them the same systematic explanations he gives to men. When a man constructs an elaborate Playboy Mansion-esque fantasy he is struggling with what it means to be a man, but when a woman steps through its gates that's her choice.
I think while the Ronson of this narrative clearly struggles with the need to be purposeful and the need to be there for his family, in labouring that point the author obscures the fact that he is one of the purposeful, ravelled men who have navigated the last two decades without becoming dependent on a sense of personal grievance. To me, it seems there's a deep contradiction between the framing that men are in crisis and story's protagonist, who is able to wrangle his own troubles into achievement. No life is without its troubles, and the expectation that men shouldn't feel like their priorities are pulling them in different directions, that we can have our cake and eat it too, is, like cake, just not healthy for us.
By focusing so much on men who abuse the women in their lives or are angry at the vague spectre of women around them as a product of unmoored masculinity, Ronson somewhat diminishes the fact that none of this is new, and that women have been the victims of gendered violence long before #MeToo.
I think in writing this review I've come to appreciate the book a bit more, but it's the lack of nuance in Ronson's writing that is to me its weakest, and most notable, feature.
Don't get me wrong, it's still a page-turner, but the book as a whole contains a lot of uncritical assumptions about gender that are left unquestioned and unexplored. It never really addresses the fact that a lot of men aren't as bereft of purpose as the subjects that Ronson interviews, nor does his narrative ask the obvious question of whether women are coping with the shifting demands society thrusts on them in turn.
As much as it enters into his thinking when he's interviewing them, Ronson never asks any deeper questions of why the women in Chris Mark's life come to him and the assumptions that I assume we are left to make is that they're simply looking for a 'sugar daddy' arrangement, that they want to funnel his fortune towards more noble ends than 'princessing', or that they were at the end of their rope and had no other choice.
If men can be led to such extremes of behaviour as detailed in his book because they're reeling from the dissolution of traditional masculinity, why can't it be that the women in his story are too? There is no sociological explanation deeper than poverty afforded to them in the work - Ronson highlights their agency, agonises over why they would choose to be around such an erratic and apparently dangerous person, but ultimately attributes their choices to the individual and the individual alone, without affording them the same systematic explanations he gives to men. When a man constructs an elaborate Playboy Mansion-esque fantasy he is struggling with what it means to be a man, but when a woman steps through its gates that's her choice.
I think while the Ronson of this narrative clearly struggles with the need to be purposeful and the need to be there for his family, in labouring that point the author obscures the fact that he is one of the purposeful, ravelled men who have navigated the last two decades without becoming dependent on a sense of personal grievance. To me, it seems there's a deep contradiction between the framing that men are in crisis and story's protagonist, who is able to wrangle his own troubles into achievement. No life is without its troubles, and the expectation that men shouldn't feel like their priorities are pulling them in different directions, that we can have our cake and eat it too, is, like cake, just not healthy for us.
By focusing so much on men who abuse the women in their lives or are angry at the vague spectre of women around them as a product of unmoored masculinity, Ronson somewhat diminishes the fact that none of this is new, and that women have been the victims of gendered violence long before #MeToo.
I think in writing this review I've come to appreciate the book a bit more, but it's the lack of nuance in Ronson's writing that is to me its weakest, and most notable, feature.
June 9, 2026
I waited 11 years for a new Jon Ronson book and it was WORTH THE WAIT.
Macabre as it sounds, it’s good news for narrative nonfiction when strange things happen to Jon Ronson. In this case, his son is lured to a mysterious castle in suburban Connecticut where a wealthy older man is recruiting young women to be his “princesses.” Alarmed by the situation and drawn to deviant characters, Ronson does what he does best: follows the thread until it leads somewhere much darker and indicative of a cultural underbelly.
The result is a portrait of several men—the castle owner, a town historian, a lawn-care influencer, a culture-war YouTuber—who share a common predicament. They are all searching, perhaps destructively, for purpose.
The Castle raises questions at the root of the manosphere: How does the 21st-century man go from being a little lonely to dangerously uninhibited? What happens when once-tolerated behavior is no longer tolerated? And what is a man’s worth when the thing that once gave him value—money, innovation, authority, expertise—becomes the thing that alienates him from society?
In his trademark style, Ronson inserts himself into the narrative, scrutinizing his own motivations and facing his mortality. Throughout, he acknowledges his maniacal compulsion to work, and how he’s a razor’s edge away from being like the subjects of our scorn:
“Everyone I met for this book had, I think, a similarly dysfunctional relationship with purpose, hunting too desperately for it. And now there’s a generation of men, unanchored from society and going it alone.”
Ronson is also disarmingly aware of the uncomfortable boon his son’s encounter provides his reporting. He ruefully notes that the danger his son faced “had, after all, given me something to do.”
And what a thing he’s done. Ronson, who has made of career of embedding himself with the fringes of society (extremists, psychopaths, cancel culture’s outcasts), has now dipped a toe into the manosphere and exposed the privilege-to-disenfranchisement-to-disinhibition pipeline only as he could tell it.
It’s illuminating, unsettling, and genuinely funny. I only wish there were more of it.
Macabre as it sounds, it’s good news for narrative nonfiction when strange things happen to Jon Ronson. In this case, his son is lured to a mysterious castle in suburban Connecticut where a wealthy older man is recruiting young women to be his “princesses.” Alarmed by the situation and drawn to deviant characters, Ronson does what he does best: follows the thread until it leads somewhere much darker and indicative of a cultural underbelly.
The result is a portrait of several men—the castle owner, a town historian, a lawn-care influencer, a culture-war YouTuber—who share a common predicament. They are all searching, perhaps destructively, for purpose.
The Castle raises questions at the root of the manosphere: How does the 21st-century man go from being a little lonely to dangerously uninhibited? What happens when once-tolerated behavior is no longer tolerated? And what is a man’s worth when the thing that once gave him value—money, innovation, authority, expertise—becomes the thing that alienates him from society?
In his trademark style, Ronson inserts himself into the narrative, scrutinizing his own motivations and facing his mortality. Throughout, he acknowledges his maniacal compulsion to work, and how he’s a razor’s edge away from being like the subjects of our scorn:
“Everyone I met for this book had, I think, a similarly dysfunctional relationship with purpose, hunting too desperately for it. And now there’s a generation of men, unanchored from society and going it alone.”
Ronson is also disarmingly aware of the uncomfortable boon his son’s encounter provides his reporting. He ruefully notes that the danger his son faced “had, after all, given me something to do.”
And what a thing he’s done. Ronson, who has made of career of embedding himself with the fringes of society (extremists, psychopaths, cancel culture’s outcasts), has now dipped a toe into the manosphere and exposed the privilege-to-disenfranchisement-to-disinhibition pipeline only as he could tell it.
It’s illuminating, unsettling, and genuinely funny. I only wish there were more of it.
September 1, 2026
Ronson's book is almost a rebuttal to his So You've Been Publicly Shamed, as it's filled with despicable men - online influencers, sexual predators, YouTube celebrities - none of whom feel any shame over disturbing videos featuring their scantily clad young daughters, or their rants against women and "The Jews." They brag about their sexual conquests, totally disregarding the fact that some of their advances may not have been welcome. If you like or follow any of these men, I don't want to know you.
The majority of the book is taken up with the "social experiments" of Chris Mark (https://www.chrismarkcastle.com/about), an obscenely wealthy man who apparently goes to great (and expensive) lengths to get laid. He uses his castle as bait, promising young women stardom on various reality TV shows that exist only in his mind, then relentlessly pesters them for sex.
Through no fault of Ronson's fine writing, the ICK Factor is strong with this one, (trigger warnings galore for anyone who has been in an abusive relationship.) While certainly not the feel-good book of the year, it's an interesting and involving read.
Thanks to NetGalley and Riverhead Books for sharing.
The majority of the book is taken up with the "social experiments" of Chris Mark (https://www.chrismarkcastle.com/about), an obscenely wealthy man who apparently goes to great (and expensive) lengths to get laid. He uses his castle as bait, promising young women stardom on various reality TV shows that exist only in his mind, then relentlessly pesters them for sex.
Through no fault of Ronson's fine writing, the ICK Factor is strong with this one, (trigger warnings galore for anyone who has been in an abusive relationship.) While certainly not the feel-good book of the year, it's an interesting and involving read.
Thanks to NetGalley and Riverhead Books for sharing.
August 31, 2026
Jon Ronson picks good topics and often includes interesting case studies / vignettes along side his analysis. However, I don’t think I’ve ever really agreed with any of the conclusions he has put forward. This is definitely the way I felt reading this book.
The Castle is about a creepy man, who inherited a lot of money and built a sort of Disney castle (without having a plan for how he would use it). He then tried to create a sort of Hugh Hefner style fantasy life. Just like Hugh Hefner, he was a disgusting creep who sought out vulnerable young women and pestered them for sex. I’m not convinced that there’s more to his story than “rich man feels entitled to have a lot of creepy sex with women who he does not deign to endow with personhood”.
The book then widens its scope to the “man crisis”. I’m not convinced that the two stories work together in the way Jon Ronson envisioned. In fact, I’m not sure there’s any cohesive thread which ties this book together.
There is clearly a problem with how some vile men talk about women on the internet (and in real life). The explosion of yucky and distinctly unrealistic pornography had clearly warped the minds of many, many men. The toxicity of the “manosphere” and men like Andrew Tate is not to be ignored. However, whilst I think Jon Ronson tried to remember to include women in his narrative, the book had slightly too much sympathy for these poor “left behind” men and not enough condemnation. Maybe that’s unfair and maybe I wouldn’t read it the same way another time. But why does Charles - the right hand man of sex criminal and girlfriend attacking Chris* - get such an easy ride? He spent 20 years facilitating his grossness.
The book dipped in and out of various interesting topics (like the YouTube algorithm and the lawn care/ dad YouTuber story) but it felt very much like it didn’t get pulled together. It was quite readable but ultimately I did not feel satisfied.
*I imagine he’d deny those allegations and I don’t think he’s been convicted.
The Castle is about a creepy man, who inherited a lot of money and built a sort of Disney castle (without having a plan for how he would use it). He then tried to create a sort of Hugh Hefner style fantasy life. Just like Hugh Hefner, he was a disgusting creep who sought out vulnerable young women and pestered them for sex. I’m not convinced that there’s more to his story than “rich man feels entitled to have a lot of creepy sex with women who he does not deign to endow with personhood”.
The book then widens its scope to the “man crisis”. I’m not convinced that the two stories work together in the way Jon Ronson envisioned. In fact, I’m not sure there’s any cohesive thread which ties this book together.
There is clearly a problem with how some vile men talk about women on the internet (and in real life). The explosion of yucky and distinctly unrealistic pornography had clearly warped the minds of many, many men. The toxicity of the “manosphere” and men like Andrew Tate is not to be ignored. However, whilst I think Jon Ronson tried to remember to include women in his narrative, the book had slightly too much sympathy for these poor “left behind” men and not enough condemnation. Maybe that’s unfair and maybe I wouldn’t read it the same way another time. But why does Charles - the right hand man of sex criminal and girlfriend attacking Chris* - get such an easy ride? He spent 20 years facilitating his grossness.
The book dipped in and out of various interesting topics (like the YouTube algorithm and the lawn care/ dad YouTuber story) but it felt very much like it didn’t get pulled together. It was quite readable but ultimately I did not feel satisfied.
*I imagine he’d deny those allegations and I don’t think he’s been convicted.
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July 30, 2026What happened to men?
Ronson dives into the manosphere to investigate the millions of missing men (men who aren't working or in school), what happened, and how millions of them ended up on the internet preaching to one another in echo chambers. Twisty, turny, and terse, this is a work of nonfiction that poses questions and investigates every possible answer to the core question, but sometimes the data itself is lost in the musings.
Interesting and informative!
Ronson dives into the manosphere to investigate the millions of missing men (men who aren't working or in school), what happened, and how millions of them ended up on the internet preaching to one another in echo chambers. Twisty, turny, and terse, this is a work of nonfiction that poses questions and investigates every possible answer to the core question, but sometimes the data itself is lost in the musings.
Interesting and informative!
August 27, 2026
Sigh. I enjoyed this book BUT I think Ronson frames it poorly and it doesn't land.
I dont think he has the time or space to truly dig into the current state of masculinity, other than a brief section about men being made to look like fools on television. Without mentioning that most people in advertising are men so unsure whose fault that is???
I think if it had focused on either the Internet has made people crazy and done a more broad focus like why can't I eat out anymore without someone taking a call on speaker?? Or simply focused on the fact that the core theme of this book is actually the trafficking of valunerable women (which makes the portraying men as the victims A Choice)
I dont think he has the time or space to truly dig into the current state of masculinity, other than a brief section about men being made to look like fools on television. Without mentioning that most people in advertising are men so unsure whose fault that is???
I think if it had focused on either the Internet has made people crazy and done a more broad focus like why can't I eat out anymore without someone taking a call on speaker?? Or simply focused on the fact that the core theme of this book is actually the trafficking of valunerable women (which makes the portraying men as the victims A Choice)
September 1, 2026
Like 3.5 stars, maybe. I had so many issues with this - namely that I don’t feel sorry for rich white men who feel ‘useless’ when raping and trafficking women for sex. The chapter on Graham Linehan was enlightening, but I feel like Ronson went out of his way to sympathise with him - one of the most violently minded transphobes allowed on X. That’s backed up by the disgusting comments he’s made even about cis women, included in a footnote here, which undermines his entire ‘I want to protect women’ bullshit.
This book was a bit of a jumble, trying too hard to stick to a central conceit of investigating why men are ‘disappearing’ from the world, but it’s all just such macho crap. I work in an industry run by rich white men who think they’re the best thing since sliced bread and women can crumble nicely under their heels, and I’m sick of this crap.
Sure, some bits were absurdly funny. But Ronson is way too wrapped up in defending vile men for me to get on board.
This book was a bit of a jumble, trying too hard to stick to a central conceit of investigating why men are ‘disappearing’ from the world, but it’s all just such macho crap. I work in an industry run by rich white men who think they’re the best thing since sliced bread and women can crumble nicely under their heels, and I’m sick of this crap.
Sure, some bits were absurdly funny. But Ronson is way too wrapped up in defending vile men for me to get on board.
August 23, 2026
I liveeee for a Jon Ronson audiobook. One of the few writers that can make me laugh out loud listening to the bizarre situations he’s gets himself into with the strangest people in the world. I feel like this was a bit scattered, but I found it so engaging and gripping and I finished it all in one day, so I felt like it deserved 3 stars just for that. It doesn’t really go deep enough into being a treatise of modern manhood though, I think it is more interesting as a bizarre case study of some unnerving characters.
August 24, 2026
Ronson once again proves to be one of my fave writers and audiobook narrators. Love how this one becomes so self-referential and introspective in a humorous way - lesser writers would have got carried away with that.
Also needs to be said how chillingly mundane some of the inciting incidents are in many of the stories, and how much of a stinky wank stain Gr*h*am L*inehan is.
Also needs to be said how chillingly mundane some of the inciting incidents are in many of the stories, and how much of a stinky wank stain Gr*h*am L*inehan is.
September 8, 2026
Overall, I enjoyed this, but I can’t help but feel like it was far below Jon Ronson’s usual standard.
Let’s start with the positives: he presents several interesting stories and writes very frankly with his usual brand of dry humour. I particularly enjoyed the story of Greg Chism.
On the downside, I think the attempt to tie these stories together as examples of “what happens when men live without purpose” fails. It feels like Ronson tries too hard to fit some of the stories under this narrative arc, and wastes a lot of text in the process. This includes text wasted trying to draw out connections between the subjects themselves, which I found unconvincing. In fact, some of the sections (perhaps even full chapters) end up feeling a bit redundant.
I think this book would have benefitted from being restructured as a series of essays on entirely different and unrelated subjects (like ‘Lost at Sea’), rather than trying to deal with all of those same subjects under one thread. But what can I say, I’m an unmoored man myself.
Let’s start with the positives: he presents several interesting stories and writes very frankly with his usual brand of dry humour. I particularly enjoyed the story of Greg Chism.
On the downside, I think the attempt to tie these stories together as examples of “what happens when men live without purpose” fails. It feels like Ronson tries too hard to fit some of the stories under this narrative arc, and wastes a lot of text in the process. This includes text wasted trying to draw out connections between the subjects themselves, which I found unconvincing. In fact, some of the sections (perhaps even full chapters) end up feeling a bit redundant.
I think this book would have benefitted from being restructured as a series of essays on entirely different and unrelated subjects (like ‘Lost at Sea’), rather than trying to deal with all of those same subjects under one thread. But what can I say, I’m an unmoored man myself.
September 8, 2026
Usually a big fan of Ronson’s writing but this fell flat for me - his writing is as engaging and funny as ever but the whole thing just felt a bit meandering and I finished it slightly wondering what the point was…
August 29, 2026
I have always liked Jon Ronson, so I was genuinely surprised by how much this irritated me. The annoying thing is that I kept reading because I wanted to know what was going to happen. So there is clearly something in Ronson’s storytelling that works.
Unfortunately, I found the actual book very badly structured. It felt as though he had collected a load of interesting people, stories and ideas and then hoped that, by the end, they would magically turn into a coherent book. They did not.
The central idea about men and masculinity, felt half-baked. I kept waiting for the various threads to come together and for the bigger point to emerge, but instead I mostly felt as though I was wandering around waiting for someone to tell me where we were going.
And there was so much whining! I actually finished the book feeling less fond of Ronson than I was when I started it.
3 stars because it was readable, and I did want to find out what happened. But for me, it was a frustrating, messy book built around an interesting idea that never really came together.
Unfortunately, I found the actual book very badly structured. It felt as though he had collected a load of interesting people, stories and ideas and then hoped that, by the end, they would magically turn into a coherent book. They did not.
The central idea about men and masculinity, felt half-baked. I kept waiting for the various threads to come together and for the bigger point to emerge, but instead I mostly felt as though I was wandering around waiting for someone to tell me where we were going.
And there was so much whining! I actually finished the book feeling less fond of Ronson than I was when I started it.
3 stars because it was readable, and I did want to find out what happened. But for me, it was a frustrating, messy book built around an interesting idea that never really came together.
August 29, 2026
I’m a Jon Ronson fan at the best of times, but I could not get enough of this. Truly had no idea what would happen next and audibly gasped on more than one occasion.
August 23, 2026
My love for Jon Ronson continues. I recommend listening to the audiobook for bonus content + feeling like you’re listening to another great JR podcast (so pleased to hear that season 3 of Things Fell Apart is on the way). Now to go down a Chris Mark Google hole…
September 2, 2026
This was a brilliant exploration into what is happening to men in a world which appears to challenge masculinity in all its forms.
The mix between the stories of Chris Mark and his castle harbouring potential abuse, the disintegration of Marktown, YouTube influencers caught in the swirl of an SEO chained algorithm, and Graham Linehan’s descent into the rabbit hole of transphobia were shocking and made me audibly gasp multiple times.
However, the random inclusion of a discussion with Armie Hammer felt directionless (Ronson himself says he has never done anything with the discussion and so wondered if it should have a life in the book) and despite Hammer being accused of abuse, just like Chris Mark, it feels like the men were treated very differently by Ronson. The book would have been much stronger if it weren’t for this detour.
The audiobook was fantastic due to Ronson’s perfect narration and I also enjoyed Ronson’s reflections throughout the book on his own masculinity as he ages. But, I’m not sure if the central story of The Castle is a strong enough core for what Ronson is trying to say about masculinity; I loved the Marktown chapter and how that contrasted with the YouTube influencers and the theme of men wanting to be a white knight for women who don’t want them. Maybe needed a bit more refining of the overall vision.
The mix between the stories of Chris Mark and his castle harbouring potential abuse, the disintegration of Marktown, YouTube influencers caught in the swirl of an SEO chained algorithm, and Graham Linehan’s descent into the rabbit hole of transphobia were shocking and made me audibly gasp multiple times.
However, the random inclusion of a discussion with Armie Hammer felt directionless (Ronson himself says he has never done anything with the discussion and so wondered if it should have a life in the book) and despite Hammer being accused of abuse, just like Chris Mark, it feels like the men were treated very differently by Ronson. The book would have been much stronger if it weren’t for this detour.
The audiobook was fantastic due to Ronson’s perfect narration and I also enjoyed Ronson’s reflections throughout the book on his own masculinity as he ages. But, I’m not sure if the central story of The Castle is a strong enough core for what Ronson is trying to say about masculinity; I loved the Marktown chapter and how that contrasted with the YouTube influencers and the theme of men wanting to be a white knight for women who don’t want them. Maybe needed a bit more refining of the overall vision.
September 8, 2026
had yet to read a book that centres misogyny from the male perspective and written from a man — new perspective for me... underneath so much of the analysis is this persistent idea that men are being left behind by modern society… but absent is the idea that the people doing this are other men. it’s hard to put my finger on it but there’s something about the way ideas are presented that has not a level of existing in a vacuum of such but maybe a lack of situating examples fully within their contexts.
but i’m just a lowly sj.
another example of something that bothered me was when we were looking at graham linehan - the positioning of him essentially losing days and nights and his family to sitting on the computer spitting vitriolic transphobia - was written strangely sympathetically to me. ronson put his experience as a fervent journalist at odds with this, describing it as if they both were of some shared experience. i fear when there is so much insane transphobia and transmisoygny in the uk this is too neutral a position to feel comfortable with. i understand he wasn’t agreeing with the transphobia obviously but something about it rubbed me the wrong way..
also some borderline israel comments.
THIS BEING SAID. it was extremely engaging and i read in like 24 hours.
but narratively just felt a bit haphazard, some of the way it came together just didn’t feel smooth for me.
but i’m just a lowly sj.
another example of something that bothered me was when we were looking at graham linehan - the positioning of him essentially losing days and nights and his family to sitting on the computer spitting vitriolic transphobia - was written strangely sympathetically to me. ronson put his experience as a fervent journalist at odds with this, describing it as if they both were of some shared experience. i fear when there is so much insane transphobia and transmisoygny in the uk this is too neutral a position to feel comfortable with. i understand he wasn’t agreeing with the transphobia obviously but something about it rubbed me the wrong way..
also some borderline israel comments.
THIS BEING SAID. it was extremely engaging and i read in like 24 hours.
but narratively just felt a bit haphazard, some of the way it came together just didn’t feel smooth for me.
September 3, 2026
I blasted through this audiobook because I needed a distraction and Jon Ronson's reading of his own work was quite funny. Overall I did enjoy it, although I found his approach to the topic of contemporary masculinity be a bit undisciplined at times - he flies freely between Western countries for his interviewees and examples, without making much effort to situate them within their own country's contexts. At times I also rolled my eyes, finding him too sympathetic to the destructive actions of men who no longer feel they have a place in the world, and not particularly eager to interrogate why men are seemingly permitted to act out in such a way when women would never be. I did enjoy the chapters on men building a YouTube following, and how that drives people towards further extremism.
There might be some criticism of Ronson's section about Graham Linehan - I imagine some readers will think it ill-advised to give him even this much attention - but I found that one of the more affecting examples in the book precisely because Ronson used to call him a friend. The deep harm done to trans people by Linehan's hate campaign is not negated by the fact that he has ruined his own life in the process. Ronson's interview with him highlighted the fact that Linehan himself is by now absolutely incapable of understanding that he has done so. It was honestly a bit scary.
There might be some criticism of Ronson's section about Graham Linehan - I imagine some readers will think it ill-advised to give him even this much attention - but I found that one of the more affecting examples in the book precisely because Ronson used to call him a friend. The deep harm done to trans people by Linehan's hate campaign is not negated by the fact that he has ruined his own life in the process. Ronson's interview with him highlighted the fact that Linehan himself is by now absolutely incapable of understanding that he has done so. It was honestly a bit scary.
August 25, 2026
What an absolute delight to once again consume Jon Ronson’s words in printed form. As much as I’ve delighted in his podcasting outputs of the last few years, I’ve been yearning for a new book for just as long. Thank you, Jon.
This has been a whirlwind. The Castle starts as a story about an odd, a very odd man, and then steadily morphs into another horrific display of the latest twists and turns of toxic masculinity. A toxicity that’s a product of so many systemic failures of capitalism (I know, I know) that it’s sometimes hard to separate who’s a perpetrator and who’s a victim. My heart genuinely breaks for individuals of every gender that have been victimised and maimed by the current economic drivers and warped ideas of ambition and success that have driven them into unspeakable pain and existential dread.
I can’t even begin to summarise the book, I don’t know if it’s truly possible - it feels like the Castle has been a tour of Jon Ronson’s previously explored areas, sometimes repackaging them in relation to the new contexts. Some old characters show up, and my absolute favourite thing about Jon Ronson’s writing - his vulnerability and agonising self analysis - remains another key character making him perhaps the most fascinating British journalist of his generation. I will need to reread (and push this book onto some loved ones) to make sure everything truly sinks in, in case the urgency of my excitement has driven me through the pages too fast. Need to keep my Ronson needs met before the new series of Thing Fell Apart drops anyway.
This has been a whirlwind. The Castle starts as a story about an odd, a very odd man, and then steadily morphs into another horrific display of the latest twists and turns of toxic masculinity. A toxicity that’s a product of so many systemic failures of capitalism (I know, I know) that it’s sometimes hard to separate who’s a perpetrator and who’s a victim. My heart genuinely breaks for individuals of every gender that have been victimised and maimed by the current economic drivers and warped ideas of ambition and success that have driven them into unspeakable pain and existential dread.
I can’t even begin to summarise the book, I don’t know if it’s truly possible - it feels like the Castle has been a tour of Jon Ronson’s previously explored areas, sometimes repackaging them in relation to the new contexts. Some old characters show up, and my absolute favourite thing about Jon Ronson’s writing - his vulnerability and agonising self analysis - remains another key character making him perhaps the most fascinating British journalist of his generation. I will need to reread (and push this book onto some loved ones) to make sure everything truly sinks in, in case the urgency of my excitement has driven me through the pages too fast. Need to keep my Ronson needs met before the new series of Thing Fell Apart drops anyway.
September 4, 2026
although this has some entertaining vignettes,
I don’t think this is a book, or rather, I don’t think there was a book in what Jon Ronson found out about
masculinity. The through-lines from anecdote to anecdote feel tenuous, and I don’t feel there’s any conclusions to draw here really. Ronson met a weird, mentally ill guy who owns a castle, and then I think he was like ‘BINGO 💰💰’ but really this was just a story about a weird guy he met that he tried to spin into something bigger, and I don’t think this particular tale is bigger.
I don’t think this is a book, or rather, I don’t think there was a book in what Jon Ronson found out about
masculinity. The through-lines from anecdote to anecdote feel tenuous, and I don’t feel there’s any conclusions to draw here really. Ronson met a weird, mentally ill guy who owns a castle, and then I think he was like ‘BINGO 💰💰’ but really this was just a story about a weird guy he met that he tried to spin into something bigger, and I don’t think this particular tale is bigger.
September 1, 2026
Not very cohesive and defo not worth the wait !! Graham linehan / AI / Elsagate parts were v interesting and then it got sort of pointless again. The jist is that because of deindustrialisation, men are feeling a bit useless and therefore acting absolutely mental. Sucks to be them (you’re not allowed to exploit/rape/traffic women cos you’re bored)
August 23, 2026
Insane reading. This is the kind of journalism that needs more attention on it. The craziest part of the story is arguably Jon getting got by a ‘deez nuts’ joke in the big 26, however.
August 29, 2026
Jon Ronson is one of my favourite people. And this is one of his best books. He has a talent for taking a cultural issue (conspiracy theories, public shaming, culture wars, and now the crisis of masculinity), and examining their roots in a way that feels personal, compassionate, funny and thoughtful.
I’ve seen and read plenty of stuff about the manosphere and toxic masculinity that basically says, “Ha ha look at these dumbasses with their great big muscle tits and their sausage brains”. We don’t really need another book explaining that Andrew Tate is a horrible piece of shit. Instead, Jon Ronson, with his characteristic humility and empathy, explores the why of people like Dan Bilzerian and Graham Linehan. He doesn’t give an inch: there’s no justifying their behaviour. But he’s more interested in the soil that allows toxic plants to take root than in the plants themselves. I think perhaps the most important element of the book is the (sometimes subtle) ways in which Ronson recognises we’re all sharing the same soil, and that all us men, even the “nice” ones, need to be aware of the pernicious ways in which the toxicity infects us.
The story of the titular castle is wild, and gripping. I’ve never heard of Chris Mark before. He’s basically a budget Donald Trump - all the narcissism with none of the success - which makes him a brilliant foil. The real life story of their encounter is the thread which keeps the book compelling and hard to put down.
And the epilogue is haunting. A bit like that final scene in Black Klansman. It will stay with me.
I’ve seen and read plenty of stuff about the manosphere and toxic masculinity that basically says, “Ha ha look at these dumbasses with their great big muscle tits and their sausage brains”. We don’t really need another book explaining that Andrew Tate is a horrible piece of shit. Instead, Jon Ronson, with his characteristic humility and empathy, explores the why of people like Dan Bilzerian and Graham Linehan. He doesn’t give an inch: there’s no justifying their behaviour. But he’s more interested in the soil that allows toxic plants to take root than in the plants themselves. I think perhaps the most important element of the book is the (sometimes subtle) ways in which Ronson recognises we’re all sharing the same soil, and that all us men, even the “nice” ones, need to be aware of the pernicious ways in which the toxicity infects us.
The story of the titular castle is wild, and gripping. I’ve never heard of Chris Mark before. He’s basically a budget Donald Trump - all the narcissism with none of the success - which makes him a brilliant foil. The real life story of their encounter is the thread which keeps the book compelling and hard to put down.
And the epilogue is haunting. A bit like that final scene in Black Klansman. It will stay with me.
September 15, 2026
Kooky, zany, creepy. Some really immaculate investigative journalism revolving around some truly bonkers characters. Great reflections on the manosphere and the rise of disinhibited, lost, purposeless men, unmoored in a modern world — but crucially, it’s done without being too preachy, self-indulgent or focusing too much on the “tragedy” of modern masculinity. It’s more “Look at this fucked up, crazy situation! How mad is that!”, which I appreciated.
Think Louis Theroux mixed with Patrick Radden Keefe by way of David Sedaris — I love how Ronson breaks the tension by inserting himself as a very human narrator into a high-stakes situation, for instance with an anecdote about recovering from a painful colon surgery.
Stealing this text from my husband to sum up how I feel:
“Someone asked me if my book was terrible on the train, because I was shaking my head and looking distressed. I said it was the complete opposite!” Brilliant.
Think Louis Theroux mixed with Patrick Radden Keefe by way of David Sedaris — I love how Ronson breaks the tension by inserting himself as a very human narrator into a high-stakes situation, for instance with an anecdote about recovering from a painful colon surgery.
Stealing this text from my husband to sum up how I feel:
“Someone asked me if my book was terrible on the train, because I was shaking my head and looking distressed. I said it was the complete opposite!” Brilliant.
September 7, 2026
This is a hard to rate one for me here. I am a Jon Ronson fan, and his writing IS very engaging and enjoyable.
But the investigation and discussion around the manosphere, lonely men, and the internet at large just did not sit well with me.
It seemed like there was more excitement in discovering who Chris Mark is, and not enough concern for his extremely troubling actions.
But idk maybe I’m just too much of a woke female LOL am I rite!!!!!!
But the investigation and discussion around the manosphere, lonely men, and the internet at large just did not sit well with me.
It seemed like there was more excitement in discovering who Chris Mark is, and not enough concern for his extremely troubling actions.
But idk maybe I’m just too much of a woke female LOL am I rite!!!!!!
September 7, 2026
Let me just say this: in the first five minutes of listening to the audiobook I twice spat the coffee I was drinking on to my dress. What can I say? I love him, he makes my day. And: I would always recommend the audiobook instead of just reading the book. Jon Ronson‘s voice brings great joy to me.
August 30, 2026
A wild read. Wish it could have been longer.
September 5, 2026
(3.5)
A hugely enjoyable romp from Ronson. The chapter entitled 'Bad Baby' is about as good as he gets, a perfect little vignette that enthralled and made me laugh and squirm in equal measure.
However, I don't think there's a particularly strong central thesis or conclusion to this one, and the main thread kind of fizzles away.
A hugely enjoyable romp from Ronson. The chapter entitled 'Bad Baby' is about as good as he gets, a perfect little vignette that enthralled and made me laugh and squirm in equal measure.
However, I don't think there's a particularly strong central thesis or conclusion to this one, and the main thread kind of fizzles away.
August 31, 2026
2.5-3ish ⭐️
Struggling to rate this because while I do enjoy Ronson’s storytelling and narration style of these true stories I feel like he often lacks a sort of concise conclusion to his works, yes we have all these men that terrorize the world and women in many different ways but what do we do about it? How do we stop it? How do we stay informed? How do we make sure our sons, brothers, friends don’t end up like these men? I appreciate knowing about these men’s stories but I myself am feeling left unmoored by all this information and no real conclusion as to what to do /now/
Struggling to rate this because while I do enjoy Ronson’s storytelling and narration style of these true stories I feel like he often lacks a sort of concise conclusion to his works, yes we have all these men that terrorize the world and women in many different ways but what do we do about it? How do we stop it? How do we stay informed? How do we make sure our sons, brothers, friends don’t end up like these men? I appreciate knowing about these men’s stories but I myself am feeling left unmoored by all this information and no real conclusion as to what to do /now/
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September 9, 2026I was given a number for a woman who'd once lived at the castle, but when I texted it someone replied, "I think she might have bofa."
"Sorry, what's bofa?" I wrote back.
"Bofa deeze nuts in your mouth" they replied.
I assume it was a wrong number.
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anyways. men be like 'my coping mechanism is abusing women' well. we already know this thank you very much.
"Sorry, what's bofa?" I wrote back.
"Bofa deeze nuts in your mouth" they replied.
I assume it was a wrong number.
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anyways. men be like 'my coping mechanism is abusing women' well. we already know this thank you very much.
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