My Selling Pitch:
OCD nature vs nurture in a quirky girl lit fic family drama.
Pre-reading:
I love messy girl lit fic.
(obviously potential spoilers from here on)
Thick of it:
So a neurotic Mom, and is this OCD or autism or both?
I too am weirdly afraid of stairs I think largely because my balance is so bad.
I fear this book is diagnosing me lol.
An ironic kickball league! Oh my god, she read him for filth!
She’s just like me, for real!
Painting a personal O’Keefe over flick the bean is so good.
I touched a cantaloupe, and I liked it!
This is reminding me so much of Big Swiss.
The dog vs cat people made me guffaw.
I would die for Halsted.
I love bratty banter.
I thought she couldn’t eat the applesauce because there was lemon in it?
Detritus sin
Stahging like hodge not staging like a play, no? Or is that just my restaurant? (Audiobook mispronounced it. Just a hiccup I noticed.)
Ben and these kids are really cute.
So much about pooping in this book.
I think this is a 3.5 I’ll round up. Just a good character study.
The audiobook is so well acted, especially with the shrill mother character.
A red cap in this political environment is a choice.
I’m surprised how common thinking you ran someone over is with OCD. I was just reading the Noah Kahan article where he talks about his experience with it.
I think fiestaware is hideous.
Post-reading:
A solid little character study. I always enjoy quirky lit fics. I like inhabiting a character’s consciousness and watching them spiral. I think this book did a really good job at representing OCD and how it’s not really about obsessive cleanliness but rather distressing, almost magical thinking. I think it was a unique spin to ask how much of an anxiety disorder is nature vs nurture. I wish we got a little more backstory as to how Elise developed all of her phobias besides one traumatizing incident.
I think the audiobook was phenomenally acted. The shrill voice she put on for Paula is appropriately annoying and grating.
I think there were some great food flavor and texture descriptions in this, and they never felt overdone which I think would’ve been an easy trap for a book about a picky eater to fall into. There was however way, way too much about bathroom habits and poop. It’s icky the first time, but it was mentioned constantly.
I think the pacing for this book was also excellent. It moves at a steady clip, and the short chapters propel you through it. There’s no annoying time jumps just to flashback. You just get to plow through the piece.
It’s not a new favorite, but I really enjoyed the story, and I’m glad I read it. I think if you like quirky girl lit fics, you’ll probably like this one too. It’s got that Fleabag, deadpan humor that a lot of this genre uses, and I enjoy it every time.
Who should read this:
Quirky lit fic fans
Mental health representation fans
Family drama fans
Character study fans
Ideal reading time:
Anytime
Do I want to reread this:
Maybe? I feel like I would reach for other similar titles before this one
Would I buy this:
Yes!
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* Big Swiss by Jen Beagin-lit fic, queer romance
* Open Wide by Jessica Gross-lit fic, psychological horror, family drama, autism
* Cleaner by Jess Shannon-lit fic, family drama, autism
* Sky Daddy by Kate Folk-lit fic, family drama, autism
* Paradise Logic by Sophie Kemp-lit fic, psychological horror, autism
Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.