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248 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1984
In the same way, and just as the task of Dionysus is not in the fact of drinking intoxicating wine, the task of Aphrodite (ergon Aphrodites) is not in the mere relating and conjoining of bodies (synousia, meixis); it is in the feeling of friendship (philosophrosyne), the longing (pothos), the association (homilia), and the intimacy (synetheia) between two people. (182)This leads inexorably to “the monopolistic principle, however: no sexual relations outside marriage. A requirement of ‘dehedonization’: sexual intercourse between spouses should not be governed by an economy of pleasure. A procreative finalizations: its goal should be the birth of offspring” (id.)
Like volume two, repetitive, debatable, and digested with a grain of salt. This passage from Seneca though:
“Disce gaudere, learn how to feel joy,” says Seneca to Lucilius: “I do not wish you ever to be deprived of gladness. I would have it born in your house; and it is born there, if only it is inside of you… for it will never fail you when once you have found its source.”
Or this Pseudo-Lucian pledge:
“To unite my bones with his and not to keep even our dumb ashes apart.”