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I Don't Recognise You
The language is grounded and direct,
making complex changes easy to follow while maintaining a human element…an engaging read—Readers' Favorite, Four-Star Editorial Review
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A story inspired by true events that traces two orthodontic journeys within the same family, revealing how timing and habits can shape outcomes and blur the line between expectation and reality.
In Part One, a mother begins invisible braces treatment after more than fifteen years of hesitation, believing braces to be a conservative and predictable intervention. She is not seeking transformation, only the correction of a single crooked tooth.
As treatment progresses, unexpected changes begin to appear in her teeth, gums, bite, and facial structure. By the time she realises the extent of those changes, turning back is no longer possible.
Attempts to correct these problems introduce new challenges, extending treatment far beyond its original scope and potentially doubling the initial cost. Yet the emotional cost is greater. As her face changes in ways she no longer recognises, and others begin to see her differently, her sense of self starts to erode.
She withdraws from social settings, avoids mirrors and photographs, and limits contact even with those closest to her. What began as a simple wish to regain confidence slowly affects her daily functioning, mental health, and relationships.
Part Two presents a contrasting experience through her daughter, who undergoes traditional metal braces in early adulthood due to insecurity. Treated at a more biologically favourable stage, her treatment achieves what orthodontics promises. Her bite improves and her facial balance is enhanced. The treatment concludes without financial escalation or lasting complications.
Still, this journey is not painless. The daughter experiences temporomandibular joint strain and repeated episodes of intense discomfort associated with skeletal anchorage screws.
Placed side by side, these dual narratives allow readers to see that braces treatment can produce profoundly different outcomes depending on age, biology and behavioural patterns.
This book speaks directly to the rapidly growing population of adults seeking orthodontic treatment later in life. Many begin with optimism, prepared for short-term functional disruption, but not for the possibility of lasting changes to oral structures or facial appearance.
This is not a braces diary chronicling treatment from day one to the final adjustment, nor is it a story of malpractice in the sensational sense. It does not argue against orthodontics. Instead, it highlights the often underestimated and overlooked emotional burden of wearing braces: the identity shift, the loss of confidence, and the quiet erosion of self-esteem caused by changes.
It is a story that helps readers understand how these unspoken inner struggles can surface outwardly as distance, silence, fewer smiles, or seeming coldness. What looks like attitude may actually be someone trying to protect what remains of their confidence.
making complex changes easy to follow while maintaining a human element…an engaging read—Readers' Favorite, Four-Star Editorial Review
————————————————————————
A story inspired by true events that traces two orthodontic journeys within the same family, revealing how timing and habits can shape outcomes and blur the line between expectation and reality.
In Part One, a mother begins invisible braces treatment after more than fifteen years of hesitation, believing braces to be a conservative and predictable intervention. She is not seeking transformation, only the correction of a single crooked tooth.
As treatment progresses, unexpected changes begin to appear in her teeth, gums, bite, and facial structure. By the time she realises the extent of those changes, turning back is no longer possible.
Attempts to correct these problems introduce new challenges, extending treatment far beyond its original scope and potentially doubling the initial cost. Yet the emotional cost is greater. As her face changes in ways she no longer recognises, and others begin to see her differently, her sense of self starts to erode.
She withdraws from social settings, avoids mirrors and photographs, and limits contact even with those closest to her. What began as a simple wish to regain confidence slowly affects her daily functioning, mental health, and relationships.
Part Two presents a contrasting experience through her daughter, who undergoes traditional metal braces in early adulthood due to insecurity. Treated at a more biologically favourable stage, her treatment achieves what orthodontics promises. Her bite improves and her facial balance is enhanced. The treatment concludes without financial escalation or lasting complications.
Still, this journey is not painless. The daughter experiences temporomandibular joint strain and repeated episodes of intense discomfort associated with skeletal anchorage screws.
Placed side by side, these dual narratives allow readers to see that braces treatment can produce profoundly different outcomes depending on age, biology and behavioural patterns.
This book speaks directly to the rapidly growing population of adults seeking orthodontic treatment later in life. Many begin with optimism, prepared for short-term functional disruption, but not for the possibility of lasting changes to oral structures or facial appearance.
This is not a braces diary chronicling treatment from day one to the final adjustment, nor is it a story of malpractice in the sensational sense. It does not argue against orthodontics. Instead, it highlights the often underestimated and overlooked emotional burden of wearing braces: the identity shift, the loss of confidence, and the quiet erosion of self-esteem caused by changes.
It is a story that helps readers understand how these unspoken inner struggles can surface outwardly as distance, silence, fewer smiles, or seeming coldness. What looks like attitude may actually be someone trying to protect what remains of their confidence.
217 pages, Paperback
Published May 1, 2026
About the author
Sara Belle
2 books10 followersSara Belle is an award‑finalist author of Jayden Said I Wouldn't Be a Doctor. She began college at the age of fifteen and earned a bachelor’s degree in computer engineering. As both an educator and a writer, Sara is passionate about storytelling and lifelong learning. In her spare time, she enjoys reading novels and planning her next travel adventure.
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Review of advance copy received from Author
As I read this, I don't know why but I feel so seen, it felt like a warm hug or some kind of story that was being told right in front of me. Even from a young age I've been having dental problems, having to wear retainers at around the age of 6 in hopes of correcting my teeth, I hated it, the dentists and my parents told me that I had to wear it or else I'd regret it in the future... Being 6 obviously I hated wearing it, it hurt so bad, I would drool in bed because it was too big for my mouth waking up to my pillow and blanket soaked making me hate it even more which is why I stopped wearing it. So yes, my teeth shifted, and they were correct I did regret it now that I'm older... I'm 17 now, I hate the way my teeth look and I might have to get braces soon just like in this book. People might say it's just teeth it won't impact your life THAT much but it has, I smile with my mouth closed remembering the times I slipped up and smiled widely, zooming into my face and cringing at my teeth. The way that the other older people who meet me would point out the way I looked on a side view because of my underbite, they may have had good intentions but it felt like an insult, I knew about the way I looked they didn't need to point it out so blatantly. Another story is when my friend jokingly said, " You didn't brush your teeth didn't you? It's obvious" Already being very sensitive at that time, I ran immediately to the public bathroom taking tissue and water to try clean whatever it was I thought that person was talking about.
• This book comforted me more than anything, I think I almost cried reading this because it felt so similar to me. And I want to thank both of these wonderful authors for making this book, if you hadn't I wouldn't have thought there would be people just like me out there.
• P.S I still don't like wearing my retainers, I know I should wear them but I hate the pain of removing them before eating, the soreness and the tears, the saliva, the grinding of teeth, the way I can't talk,and the lack of sleep I get from wearing them... This book did actually convince me to wear it more often, which is really odd since I still hate the feeling of it.
• This book comforted me more than anything, I think I almost cried reading this because it felt so similar to me. And I want to thank both of these wonderful authors for making this book, if you hadn't I wouldn't have thought there would be people just like me out there.
• P.S I still don't like wearing my retainers, I know I should wear them but I hate the pain of removing them before eating, the soreness and the tears, the saliva, the grinding of teeth, the way I can't talk,and the lack of sleep I get from wearing them... This book did actually convince me to wear it more often, which is really odd since I still hate the feeling of it.
April 30, 2026
I Don’t Recognise You | Sara Belle & Ana Bethlyn | 3.5 ⭐️
Never thought I could feel anxious reading about braces. My teeth are not perfect, but I don’t mind them, hence I never thought of issues surrounding dental health and how it affected someone’s life. I didn’t know braces could change a lot, and not just your tooth alignment, but facial features too. I keep thinking of my SIL. I even texted her, and checked on her if her braces journey is fine.
This book open my eyes and my jaw. Because I swear, I checked my mouth at least three times, clenched my jaw and even open my jaw widely when the dentist instructed Emma to do so. I was so close to check my husband’s too. I had to paused a lot and go to Google to looked up on tooth position, condition, and watched videos on how some of the procedures were done.
It was triggering, even for me who’s so confident with my rabbit tooth. When I was eight, my friends called me rabbit because of my two front teeth. I never have issue with mine, I found it cute, but reading this book, I feel empathy for them, especially Kate — one after another dental issue. It made me checked my teeth several times and thought, “should I get braces myself? Why I didn’t get it when I was younger?”
“It felt as if the braces had stolen everything from me—my identity, my self-esteem, my dignity, my time, my happiness, even the simple freedom to enjoy life.”
I think it is brave to share this stories, if any, it opened my eyes on dental care, and regular check up. Made me grateful too. I wonder, if grandma and Kate had hers done earlier, would she avoid all the stress and issues. Idk if I like some of Dr. Green responses to both Kate and Emma. Were she trying to milk them? If only everything were planned smoothly, the outcome would be different.
For those who might have issue with how you look, surrounding your dental features or health, read with caution. For those who wanted to get braces, or veneers, this is a good prep, you can learn what to ask.
This is my first time reading the book from these authors, and I love the writing.
Thanks Sara Belle for this opportunity to read the ARC. All the best for the release tomorrow. 💜
Never thought I could feel anxious reading about braces. My teeth are not perfect, but I don’t mind them, hence I never thought of issues surrounding dental health and how it affected someone’s life. I didn’t know braces could change a lot, and not just your tooth alignment, but facial features too. I keep thinking of my SIL. I even texted her, and checked on her if her braces journey is fine.
This book open my eyes and my jaw. Because I swear, I checked my mouth at least three times, clenched my jaw and even open my jaw widely when the dentist instructed Emma to do so. I was so close to check my husband’s too. I had to paused a lot and go to Google to looked up on tooth position, condition, and watched videos on how some of the procedures were done.
It was triggering, even for me who’s so confident with my rabbit tooth. When I was eight, my friends called me rabbit because of my two front teeth. I never have issue with mine, I found it cute, but reading this book, I feel empathy for them, especially Kate — one after another dental issue. It made me checked my teeth several times and thought, “should I get braces myself? Why I didn’t get it when I was younger?”
“It felt as if the braces had stolen everything from me—my identity, my self-esteem, my dignity, my time, my happiness, even the simple freedom to enjoy life.”
I think it is brave to share this stories, if any, it opened my eyes on dental care, and regular check up. Made me grateful too. I wonder, if grandma and Kate had hers done earlier, would she avoid all the stress and issues. Idk if I like some of Dr. Green responses to both Kate and Emma. Were she trying to milk them? If only everything were planned smoothly, the outcome would be different.
For those who might have issue with how you look, surrounding your dental features or health, read with caution. For those who wanted to get braces, or veneers, this is a good prep, you can learn what to ask.
This is my first time reading the book from these authors, and I love the writing.
Thanks Sara Belle for this opportunity to read the ARC. All the best for the release tomorrow. 💜
Review of advance copy received from Author
I Don't Recognise You: Braces Fix Teeth, No One Tells You What They Can Break
By Sara Belle and Ana Bethlyn
Published by Gemini Inkspire Publishing
Goodreads Rating: 4/5
My Rating: 4.5/5
"If I had the choice again, I might not have encouraged my mother to get them, so the experience would carry less weight beyond my teeth."
I Don’t Recognise You: Braces Fix Teeth, No One Tells You What They Can Break by Sara Belle and Anne Bethlyn reads like two confessional diaries intertwined, one from a 39-year-old mother reflecting on inherited pressures of health, beauty, and family expectations, the other from a 20-year-old woman experiencing them in real time. At its core, the book explores not only the physical world of dental corrections, from braces, jaw issues, and inherited teeth traits, but also the quiet emotional and social weight that comes with them.
The narrative is intimate and sometimes uncomfortable, highlighting the broader societal pressures placed on women’s appearances. The dual perspectives reveal contrasts in how beauty, bodily expectations, and identity are internalized across generations. The 39-year-old’s reflections show the long-reaching effects of inherited traits, while the 20-year-old brings immediacy to anxieties, choices, and subtle reactions that accompany growing up. The diary style feels like overhearing private lives, making the book both compelling and unsettling.
Moments reflecting on cultural ideals versus individual bodies expose the arbitrariness of beauty standards and the invisible pressures women carry. Even with minor EPUB formatting quirks, the book lingers, prompting reflection on inherited expectations, self-perception, and the truths quietly enforced through appearances.
P.S.: This review is based on an advance copy provided by the author.
“Sometimes, the hardest restoration is not the one on the surface, but the one within.”
By Sara Belle and Ana Bethlyn
Published by Gemini Inkspire Publishing
Goodreads Rating: 4/5
My Rating: 4.5/5
"If I had the choice again, I might not have encouraged my mother to get them, so the experience would carry less weight beyond my teeth."
I Don’t Recognise You: Braces Fix Teeth, No One Tells You What They Can Break by Sara Belle and Anne Bethlyn reads like two confessional diaries intertwined, one from a 39-year-old mother reflecting on inherited pressures of health, beauty, and family expectations, the other from a 20-year-old woman experiencing them in real time. At its core, the book explores not only the physical world of dental corrections, from braces, jaw issues, and inherited teeth traits, but also the quiet emotional and social weight that comes with them.
The narrative is intimate and sometimes uncomfortable, highlighting the broader societal pressures placed on women’s appearances. The dual perspectives reveal contrasts in how beauty, bodily expectations, and identity are internalized across generations. The 39-year-old’s reflections show the long-reaching effects of inherited traits, while the 20-year-old brings immediacy to anxieties, choices, and subtle reactions that accompany growing up. The diary style feels like overhearing private lives, making the book both compelling and unsettling.
Moments reflecting on cultural ideals versus individual bodies expose the arbitrariness of beauty standards and the invisible pressures women carry. Even with minor EPUB formatting quirks, the book lingers, prompting reflection on inherited expectations, self-perception, and the truths quietly enforced through appearances.
P.S.: This review is based on an advance copy provided by the author.
“Sometimes, the hardest restoration is not the one on the surface, but the one within.”
Review of advance copy received from Author
As someone pressured at various times in my life to change the appearance of my teeth, I gravitated to this mother daughter story in the hopes of seeing my experiences echoed. In many ways, it absolutely did—the long drawn out dentist and orthodontist appointments, the hesitation and fret, the hopes it would help you be more palatable for others—those are real and genuine feelings. I thank the authors for sharing their insecurities so openly for this text.
The book reads more like a collection of journal entries or essays than a complete and linear storyline where mother and daughter experiences intersect. We understandably spend a lot of time in the mother and daughter’s internal dialogue, but I would have loved more experiences to round out the characterization of other friends and family members. I did love the moments where these shined through—when the daughter was told he had buck teeth on the playground was my favorite part of the book—but the authors seem shy to give these details especially in the first part of the book.
I appreciated that the authors discuss China and their holidays, and I found it interesting to see the similarities between Asian and Western beauty culture. The focus on cosmetic procedures as a way to improve one’s self image was shockingly universal. Reading this, I kept hoping that the story would evolve past braces and turn inward or outward for the reader, exploring either why the authors cared so much about the perfect A line and wanted it so badly OR how society made such focus on beauty necessary for young and aging women alike.
This version is an ARC, and I’m excited to see what lies in store for the final edits. Thank you to Gemini Inkspire Publishing for the Advanced Reader Copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
The book reads more like a collection of journal entries or essays than a complete and linear storyline where mother and daughter experiences intersect. We understandably spend a lot of time in the mother and daughter’s internal dialogue, but I would have loved more experiences to round out the characterization of other friends and family members. I did love the moments where these shined through—when the daughter was told he had buck teeth on the playground was my favorite part of the book—but the authors seem shy to give these details especially in the first part of the book.
I appreciated that the authors discuss China and their holidays, and I found it interesting to see the similarities between Asian and Western beauty culture. The focus on cosmetic procedures as a way to improve one’s self image was shockingly universal. Reading this, I kept hoping that the story would evolve past braces and turn inward or outward for the reader, exploring either why the authors cared so much about the perfect A line and wanted it so badly OR how society made such focus on beauty necessary for young and aging women alike.
This version is an ARC, and I’m excited to see what lies in store for the final edits. Thank you to Gemini Inkspire Publishing for the Advanced Reader Copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Review of advance copy received from Author
Apr 2026: I Don't Recognise You
Do you wear braces? If you do or did before, you have my utmost respect.
As the cover suggests, this is a true story of Kate, a 39-year-old mother, and Emma, a 20-year-old daughter, both wearing braces. Sounds simple but NOT AT ALL. What I learned from this mother-daughter experience is that wearing braces is:
• not a straightforward journey
• not the same experience for everyone
• not short-term, not cheap and the result may not be as you wish.
Tw: OCD, PTSS, bulimia, discomfort procedures
This book explores self-image, processing and responding to what people say about you. Kate managed to brush off the comments she received from strangers during her trip to Korea, but when her brother remarked on her teeth, she started to rethink seriously about it. The same goes for Emma when her friend mentioned it and she started to question the E-line of her side profile.
But of course, I'm not in their place to really understand. This is a reminder to be kinder with our reactions and words. As long as the individual is healthy, lives well and not going extreme, can we leave their physical or beauty standard alone? I wonder.
This book really taught me a lot. The writing style just intensifies the whole story. I love the relationship between Kate and Emma. Kate was inspired and found strength in her daughter. Emma reminds me of my eldest, always careful with her words when it comes to opinion so as not to hurt people. I am also grateful for the advanced dental and orthodontic technology that we have now.
I had to take my girl to the dentist after I finished this book. The worry was there but I found myself speaking more and did not hesitate to ask the dentist even about the cost. The book made me realize that some important decision needs to be made in the dentist's room where the impact is crucial, costly and you need to be informed.
Do you wear braces? If you do or did before, you have my utmost respect.
As the cover suggests, this is a true story of Kate, a 39-year-old mother, and Emma, a 20-year-old daughter, both wearing braces. Sounds simple but NOT AT ALL. What I learned from this mother-daughter experience is that wearing braces is:
• not a straightforward journey
• not the same experience for everyone
• not short-term, not cheap and the result may not be as you wish.
Tw: OCD, PTSS, bulimia, discomfort procedures
This book explores self-image, processing and responding to what people say about you. Kate managed to brush off the comments she received from strangers during her trip to Korea, but when her brother remarked on her teeth, she started to rethink seriously about it. The same goes for Emma when her friend mentioned it and she started to question the E-line of her side profile.
But of course, I'm not in their place to really understand. This is a reminder to be kinder with our reactions and words. As long as the individual is healthy, lives well and not going extreme, can we leave their physical or beauty standard alone? I wonder.
This book really taught me a lot. The writing style just intensifies the whole story. I love the relationship between Kate and Emma. Kate was inspired and found strength in her daughter. Emma reminds me of my eldest, always careful with her words when it comes to opinion so as not to hurt people. I am also grateful for the advanced dental and orthodontic technology that we have now.
I had to take my girl to the dentist after I finished this book. The worry was there but I found myself speaking more and did not hesitate to ask the dentist even about the cost. The book made me realize that some important decision needs to be made in the dentist's room where the impact is crucial, costly and you need to be informed.
Review of advance copy received from Author
received this advance copy from the author ✧
to be fair, this book feels more like a collection of journal entries—almost like flipping through a diary that holds both mother and daughter’s experiences. if you enjoy something non-fictional but written with a touch of storytelling, this one is for you.
if you think this book is only about braces, then you might be wrong. it’s so much more than that. it shows how something as “simple” as fixing your teeth can quietly reshape your life, your confidence, even your trauma.
this book explores the side of treatment that people rarely talk about—the mental weight behind it. the embarrassment when meeting people, the constant awareness of your own smile, the fear of being seen too closely. as someone who has felt insecure about my teeth before, this hit a little too close to home.
what makes it even more emotional is the relationship between the mother and daughter. their moments together feel so real, complicated, and sometimes painful. the way their experiences intertwine adds another layer to the story, making it not just about self-image, but also about love, understanding. ngl, i shed a few tears reading their parts. knowing this is true story.
what i really appreciate is how honest it feels. nothing is overly polished. just raw thoughts, moments, and emotions that come and go. it’s uncomfortable at times, but in a way that makes you pause and reflect.
this isn’t a “light read”, but it’s a meaningful one. quiet, reflective, and a little bit painful—but maybe that’s what makes it real.
⭐️ if you’re looking for something fast-paced, this might not be it. but if you want something that feels personal and honest, this is worth your time.
thank you once again for the review copy -
to be fair, this book feels more like a collection of journal entries—almost like flipping through a diary that holds both mother and daughter’s experiences. if you enjoy something non-fictional but written with a touch of storytelling, this one is for you.
if you think this book is only about braces, then you might be wrong. it’s so much more than that. it shows how something as “simple” as fixing your teeth can quietly reshape your life, your confidence, even your trauma.
this book explores the side of treatment that people rarely talk about—the mental weight behind it. the embarrassment when meeting people, the constant awareness of your own smile, the fear of being seen too closely. as someone who has felt insecure about my teeth before, this hit a little too close to home.
what makes it even more emotional is the relationship between the mother and daughter. their moments together feel so real, complicated, and sometimes painful. the way their experiences intertwine adds another layer to the story, making it not just about self-image, but also about love, understanding. ngl, i shed a few tears reading their parts. knowing this is true story.
what i really appreciate is how honest it feels. nothing is overly polished. just raw thoughts, moments, and emotions that come and go. it’s uncomfortable at times, but in a way that makes you pause and reflect.
this isn’t a “light read”, but it’s a meaningful one. quiet, reflective, and a little bit painful—but maybe that’s what makes it real.
⭐️ if you’re looking for something fast-paced, this might not be it. but if you want something that feels personal and honest, this is worth your time.
thank you once again for the review copy -
Review of advance copy received from Author
This was actually my first time applying to be an ARC reader, and I’m really glad I picked this book. The title I Don’t Recognise You grabbed me straight away. I was curious because I hadn’t come across anything quite like it before.
What made it even more personal is that I’m currently going through braces myself, starting in my late thirties. It hasn’t been the easiest ride, so I was hoping this book might give me a few answers, or at least make me feel like I’m not the only one dealing with this. And honestly, it did just that.
Seeing Kate and her daughter both go through braces at the same time, yet have such different experiences and outcomes, was really interesting. Kate’s story especially hit hard. It was pretty heartbreaking reading about what she went through, particularly with so little support around her. It definitely made me reflect on my own situation and feel incredibly grateful for my husband and family. They’ve made such a difference. They’ve been nothing but supportive and never once made me feel self-conscious or “abnormal” about all the changes that come with braces.
Tbh, I never expected a story about teeth and braces to be this thoughtful and engaging. It’s not just about the physical side of things. It really dives into the emotional and psychological aspects too, which I reckon people don’t talk about nearly enough.
It gave me a better understanding of the less talked-about sides of braces, but more importantly, it reminded me to be kinder with my words and more empathetic towards others. You really don’t know what someone else might be going through.
Big thanks to the authors for the opportunity to read this. I truly appreciate the work that’s gone into it, and I’ll definitely be recommending it to people around me!
What made it even more personal is that I’m currently going through braces myself, starting in my late thirties. It hasn’t been the easiest ride, so I was hoping this book might give me a few answers, or at least make me feel like I’m not the only one dealing with this. And honestly, it did just that.
Seeing Kate and her daughter both go through braces at the same time, yet have such different experiences and outcomes, was really interesting. Kate’s story especially hit hard. It was pretty heartbreaking reading about what she went through, particularly with so little support around her. It definitely made me reflect on my own situation and feel incredibly grateful for my husband and family. They’ve made such a difference. They’ve been nothing but supportive and never once made me feel self-conscious or “abnormal” about all the changes that come with braces.
Tbh, I never expected a story about teeth and braces to be this thoughtful and engaging. It’s not just about the physical side of things. It really dives into the emotional and psychological aspects too, which I reckon people don’t talk about nearly enough.
It gave me a better understanding of the less talked-about sides of braces, but more importantly, it reminded me to be kinder with my words and more empathetic towards others. You really don’t know what someone else might be going through.
Big thanks to the authors for the opportunity to read this. I truly appreciate the work that’s gone into it, and I’ll definitely be recommending it to people around me!
Review of advance copy received from Author
This is my first time reading a non-fiction that revolves around the topics of oral health, braces, dentists, domestic oral practices, and the like. People will not usually share their oral experiences to strangers, unless they are personally asked, let alone write a book all about it. With this, I can say that this book is not only for the ones curious about braces, but for everyone to read, for this can serve as a guide whether you or your family member is planning to get braces - the technicalities, pros and cons.
I think one way or another, readers can really relate to the story. This book speaks of reality - how the shape of our teeth can boost confidence, how visiting the dentist is somewhat a privelege, how our actions can have their corresponding consequences.
I like how the narration flows, not too slow or too fast for me, just the right amount of speed to tackle important details, to equip readers of the characters' dental history, and to elaborately explain the braces journey of the mother and daughter.
The contrasting experiences of the mother and daughter will led a way to readers comparing and getting an overview what it's like getting braces at different ages, together with the changes accompanying the journey.
This book is also a reminder for us to be kind, especially with our words. Words are like two-edged sword, it can make or break a person. Let's be kind and gentle at all times, for we do not know what burden(s) other people are carrying. All we need is understanding and compassion towards everyone.
Overall, I like the book and certainly worth recommending! Thank you for this advance reader's copy!
I think one way or another, readers can really relate to the story. This book speaks of reality - how the shape of our teeth can boost confidence, how visiting the dentist is somewhat a privelege, how our actions can have their corresponding consequences.
I like how the narration flows, not too slow or too fast for me, just the right amount of speed to tackle important details, to equip readers of the characters' dental history, and to elaborately explain the braces journey of the mother and daughter.
The contrasting experiences of the mother and daughter will led a way to readers comparing and getting an overview what it's like getting braces at different ages, together with the changes accompanying the journey.
This book is also a reminder for us to be kind, especially with our words. Words are like two-edged sword, it can make or break a person. Let's be kind and gentle at all times, for we do not know what burden(s) other people are carrying. All we need is understanding and compassion towards everyone.
Overall, I like the book and certainly worth recommending! Thank you for this advance reader's copy!
April 30, 2026
*Review from advanced copy received from Author*
This story explores the topics of orthodontics, braces, dental health, privilege, beauty standards, and the changes that come with the journey.
The author tells a moving story with a gentle reminder to be kind because most pain start in childhood and take space through our adult years. We also learn about Kate family history, struggles with dentists and their dental health.
We see her journey reflecting from her childhood looking at her mother and while acknowledging the strength, courage of her mom. One thing takes over; her teeth. Kate sees the changes family and friends go through to meet the beauty standard. Most if not throughout her life we have seen what people find as beautiful or the definition of success, yet it is not until Kate elects to get braces at 40 and with the support of her daughter Emma join together to fix their teeth!
I was fascinated by how this book turns a simple orthodontic procedure into a profound journey of self-discovery. The bond between Kate and Emma is so special you see them support each other through the physical and emotional changes of getting braces. This book captures how childhood insecurities can follow us into adulthood, and how beautiful it is to finally address them with your child by your side. A must-read for anyone who loves stories about family, resilience, and reclaiming your smile.
I saw myself in Kate as I am an adult looking to get braces in her mid thirties. I have thought about the reasons why I should/shouldn’t get braces and just like Kate found myself replaying the harsh words and comments I have heard about my smile through the years. It’s a bitt about taking the power back to all those comments but also accepting that what once made me, me will now change… and I wonder will you ever be ready for that? Luckily for Kate and Emma their journey is a beautiful reminder you can break the cycle and heal yourself and break free having your person by your side.
I’m excited to read more stories from this author!!
This story explores the topics of orthodontics, braces, dental health, privilege, beauty standards, and the changes that come with the journey.
The author tells a moving story with a gentle reminder to be kind because most pain start in childhood and take space through our adult years. We also learn about Kate family history, struggles with dentists and their dental health.
We see her journey reflecting from her childhood looking at her mother and while acknowledging the strength, courage of her mom. One thing takes over; her teeth. Kate sees the changes family and friends go through to meet the beauty standard. Most if not throughout her life we have seen what people find as beautiful or the definition of success, yet it is not until Kate elects to get braces at 40 and with the support of her daughter Emma join together to fix their teeth!
I was fascinated by how this book turns a simple orthodontic procedure into a profound journey of self-discovery. The bond between Kate and Emma is so special you see them support each other through the physical and emotional changes of getting braces. This book captures how childhood insecurities can follow us into adulthood, and how beautiful it is to finally address them with your child by your side. A must-read for anyone who loves stories about family, resilience, and reclaiming your smile.
I saw myself in Kate as I am an adult looking to get braces in her mid thirties. I have thought about the reasons why I should/shouldn’t get braces and just like Kate found myself replaying the harsh words and comments I have heard about my smile through the years. It’s a bitt about taking the power back to all those comments but also accepting that what once made me, me will now change… and I wonder will you ever be ready for that? Luckily for Kate and Emma their journey is a beautiful reminder you can break the cycle and heal yourself and break free having your person by your side.
I’m excited to read more stories from this author!!
Review of advance copy received from Author
big thanks to the author for trusting and hooking me up with this ARC - so grateful for the chance to read it and lowkey explore a whole new genre for me! And honestly, it was such a memorable experience.
ngl, at first the book felt kinda slow and i was lowkey wondering if I'd fully vibe with it, but after taking a lil pause and coming back mentally prepped, it absolutely started hitting different. what really got me was how deeply Kate and Emma’s stories connected with real-life insecurities. Their struggles with braces, appearance, and self-image felt so painfully real, and it instantly reminded me of my best friend. When she got braces, she lowkey disappeared for a while, stopped hanging out as much, and even quit posting pics—and back then I never fully clocked why. But reading Kate’s photo-related insecurity arc made everything click for me. It made me realize how something people call “small” can actually mess with someone’s confidence so bad.
Also, the way the book described those never-ending dentist appointments! So real. My friend is still stuck in that exhausting cycle, and this book captured that whole draining vibe perfectly. And Emma being teased for her buck teeth? That scene was actually heartbreaking because it showed how one random comment can literally live rent-free in your head for years. This book was emotional and super eye-opening.
ngl, at first the book felt kinda slow and i was lowkey wondering if I'd fully vibe with it, but after taking a lil pause and coming back mentally prepped, it absolutely started hitting different. what really got me was how deeply Kate and Emma’s stories connected with real-life insecurities. Their struggles with braces, appearance, and self-image felt so painfully real, and it instantly reminded me of my best friend. When she got braces, she lowkey disappeared for a while, stopped hanging out as much, and even quit posting pics—and back then I never fully clocked why. But reading Kate’s photo-related insecurity arc made everything click for me. It made me realize how something people call “small” can actually mess with someone’s confidence so bad.
Also, the way the book described those never-ending dentist appointments! So real. My friend is still stuck in that exhausting cycle, and this book captured that whole draining vibe perfectly. And Emma being teased for her buck teeth? That scene was actually heartbreaking because it showed how one random comment can literally live rent-free in your head for years. This book was emotional and super eye-opening.
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ARC REVIEW
This book found me when I needed it the most. I was hesitant to read it at first because I didn't want fear or overthinking to consume me when I already took the first step into my braces journey. Neither did I want to step back now that I made up my mind. But reading about their experience provided me with some knowledge and it showed me a clear path with the kind of precautions I need to take.
This is the story of Kate and her daughter Emma who start their braces journey together. Kate goes for invisible braces before turning forty and it was so painful to read, I was holding back my tears the whole time. While on the other hand, her daughter, Emma, goes for traditional metal braces in early adulthood and although she had some complications, she got the results she wanted at the end.
Their story portrayed the raw side of orthodontic treatment, how it can affect our mental health and change us completely. The embarrasment while meeting people, the fear of judgement, people making fun of your smile while you're already conscious enough about it, the overthinking and restlessness- everything felt so relatable at some point that I had to put down the book. But when I finished it, I felt hopeful that even if I have to endure some pain, I'm going to get the results I want with the right kind of treatment.
This book found me when I needed it the most. I was hesitant to read it at first because I didn't want fear or overthinking to consume me when I already took the first step into my braces journey. Neither did I want to step back now that I made up my mind. But reading about their experience provided me with some knowledge and it showed me a clear path with the kind of precautions I need to take.
This is the story of Kate and her daughter Emma who start their braces journey together. Kate goes for invisible braces before turning forty and it was so painful to read, I was holding back my tears the whole time. While on the other hand, her daughter, Emma, goes for traditional metal braces in early adulthood and although she had some complications, she got the results she wanted at the end.
Their story portrayed the raw side of orthodontic treatment, how it can affect our mental health and change us completely. The embarrasment while meeting people, the fear of judgement, people making fun of your smile while you're already conscious enough about it, the overthinking and restlessness- everything felt so relatable at some point that I had to put down the book. But when I finished it, I felt hopeful that even if I have to endure some pain, I'm going to get the results I want with the right kind of treatment.
May 1, 2026
Who would have known how an orthodontic treatment could bring you on an emotional roller coaster ride?
I Don’t Recognise You by Ana Bethlyn and Sara Belle shares with us their orthodontic journey that alters not just their teeth, but also their appearance and self-confidence. What started as a passing comment, began to eat away at them, causing them to take actions to make changes to their teeth.
Both Kate and Emma were originally confident young ladies, but with these comments coming at them, their confidence started to crumble. This led to them feeling more self-conscious as time goes on. I think many people would feel relatable here.
Reading this book brings me back to my own braces days. Although I did not encounter such emotional trauma, I could relate to the years long struggle of the pain, discomfort, inconvenience, and the self-consciousness that comes with the metal braces.
The authors’ writing is very easy to follow, allowing me to feel their frustrations, fear, and worries, to the point that I doubted Dr Green’s skills as a dentist. I enjoyed the first part of the book where Kate shared her family’s history, her mother’s own struggle with protruding teeth, which passed down to her and her daughter, Emma.
Thank you Gemini Inkspire Publishing and Sara Belle for the e-ARC!
I Don’t Recognise You by Ana Bethlyn and Sara Belle shares with us their orthodontic journey that alters not just their teeth, but also their appearance and self-confidence. What started as a passing comment, began to eat away at them, causing them to take actions to make changes to their teeth.
Both Kate and Emma were originally confident young ladies, but with these comments coming at them, their confidence started to crumble. This led to them feeling more self-conscious as time goes on. I think many people would feel relatable here.
Reading this book brings me back to my own braces days. Although I did not encounter such emotional trauma, I could relate to the years long struggle of the pain, discomfort, inconvenience, and the self-consciousness that comes with the metal braces.
The authors’ writing is very easy to follow, allowing me to feel their frustrations, fear, and worries, to the point that I doubted Dr Green’s skills as a dentist. I enjoyed the first part of the book where Kate shared her family’s history, her mother’s own struggle with protruding teeth, which passed down to her and her daughter, Emma.
Thank you Gemini Inkspire Publishing and Sara Belle for the e-ARC!
Review of advance copy received from Author
Growing up in Southeast Asia back in the days, oral health was not really prioritised. We would resort to home remedies to cure a toothache, or we would take out our wobbly teeth in the most creative ways you can imagine, just to save a couple of bucks going to the dentist. I Don't Recognise You is such a breath of fresh air for memoirs; I can personally relate to it. It’s about identity, self-image, and that unsettling moment when you realise the version of yourself in your head doesn’t match what others see. There’s also a deeper layer about family, shame, and how beliefs get passed down without us even noticing. Some parts were heavy, especially around body image and control, but it never felt fake or exaggerated.
What struck me most is how ordinary the starting point is. Wanting straighter teeth is such a common, almost trivial desire. But the book turns that into something unsettling. It shows how a small decision, such as getting braces, can spiral into questions about identity, trust, and self-perception. That shift from cosmetic to existential is where the book really stands out.
What struck me most is how ordinary the starting point is. Wanting straighter teeth is such a common, almost trivial desire. But the book turns that into something unsettling. It shows how a small decision, such as getting braces, can spiral into questions about identity, trust, and self-perception. That shift from cosmetic to existential is where the book really stands out.
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TW: disordered eating, bulimia, alcoholism, fatphobia
I liked the writing style, but I wasn't sure what to feel after reading this memoir. While it centers on a mother and daughter's experience with braces, body image issues and health anxiety seemed to be bigger themes. I was surprised by the strong emphasis on beauty and appearance (definitely heed the trigger warnings). The main characters frequently commented on looking older or uglier, and they both received unsolicited comments from people around them. I felt terrible that they had to hear cruel words and internalized them to the point of going through such invasive procedures for cosmetic reasons.
All in all, this story highlights the importance of transparency and treating the whole patient in medicine. The doctor who led their braces treatment seemed to repeatedly dismiss concerns and didn't take care to manage expectations. The doctor also seemed to contribute to the cosmetic focus by making false promises and even subjective comments about their appearance. I think readers considering braces should read this story to learn about red flags to look for in their practitioners and help set realistic expectations, but I wouldn't say this sheds any negative light on braces as a treatment/procedure.
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I liked the writing style, but I wasn't sure what to feel after reading this memoir. While it centers on a mother and daughter's experience with braces, body image issues and health anxiety seemed to be bigger themes. I was surprised by the strong emphasis on beauty and appearance (definitely heed the trigger warnings). The main characters frequently commented on looking older or uglier, and they both received unsolicited comments from people around them. I felt terrible that they had to hear cruel words and internalized them to the point of going through such invasive procedures for cosmetic reasons.
All in all, this story highlights the importance of transparency and treating the whole patient in medicine. The doctor who led their braces treatment seemed to repeatedly dismiss concerns and didn't take care to manage expectations. The doctor also seemed to contribute to the cosmetic focus by making false promises and even subjective comments about their appearance. I think readers considering braces should read this story to learn about red flags to look for in their practitioners and help set realistic expectations, but I wouldn't say this sheds any negative light on braces as a treatment/procedure.
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Review of advance copy received from Author
Just finished the ARC of I Don’t Recognise You: Braces fix teeth. No one tells you what they can break by Sara Belle and Ana Bethlyn.
A true story following Kate and her daughter Emma through their braces journey, something I never expected to feel so connected to.
Surprisingly, I really enjoyed reading their experience, even though I’ve never had braces myself. Growing up, I used to be scared of dental clinics because of childhood trauma, so in a way, I could understand Kate’s emotions more than I expected.
Emma’s bravery really stayed with me. I honestly don’t think I could go through what she went through at her age.
Beyond braces, this book quietly unfolds into something deeper… a story about fear, growth, self-image, and the bond between mother and daughter.
Thank you to Sara Belle and Gemini Inkspire Publishing for the opportunity to read this ARC 🤍 Don’t forget to get your copy, expected on 1 May 2026.
Definitely a read I’d recommend, even if braces are nowhere in your future. 🦷✨
A true story following Kate and her daughter Emma through their braces journey, something I never expected to feel so connected to.
Surprisingly, I really enjoyed reading their experience, even though I’ve never had braces myself. Growing up, I used to be scared of dental clinics because of childhood trauma, so in a way, I could understand Kate’s emotions more than I expected.
Emma’s bravery really stayed with me. I honestly don’t think I could go through what she went through at her age.
Beyond braces, this book quietly unfolds into something deeper… a story about fear, growth, self-image, and the bond between mother and daughter.
Thank you to Sara Belle and Gemini Inkspire Publishing for the opportunity to read this ARC 🤍 Don’t forget to get your copy, expected on 1 May 2026.
Definitely a read I’d recommend, even if braces are nowhere in your future. 🦷✨
Review of advance copy received from Author
I really enjoyed reading I Don't Recognize You. The shared braces journey between mother and daughter was especially compelling, and it made me reflect on how much easier it might be to go through orthodontic treatment earlier in life rather than later.
What stood out most to me was the psychological impact of the treatment on the mother. It was portrayed with such depth that it felt like her entire world had been turned upside down. I found that aspect both intense and thought-provoking.
I was honestly surprised by how engaging this book was. On the surface, a story centered around teeth and braces might not sound particularly exciting, but the authors handled it in such an interesting and reflective way that I became more invested with each chapter and I ended up finishing the book in just two days.
This book really taught me a lot, and I really appreciated the endnotes which added extra value to the reading experience.
I would definitely recommend this book to others.
Thank you, Sara Belle, for sharing this ARC copy with me. I truly appreciate the opportunity to read it.
What stood out most to me was the psychological impact of the treatment on the mother. It was portrayed with such depth that it felt like her entire world had been turned upside down. I found that aspect both intense and thought-provoking.
I was honestly surprised by how engaging this book was. On the surface, a story centered around teeth and braces might not sound particularly exciting, but the authors handled it in such an interesting and reflective way that I became more invested with each chapter and I ended up finishing the book in just two days.
This book really taught me a lot, and I really appreciated the endnotes which added extra value to the reading experience.
I would definitely recommend this book to others.
Thank you, Sara Belle, for sharing this ARC copy with me. I truly appreciate the opportunity to read it.
Review of advance copy received from Author
ARC Copy Review from Author
Thank you so much, Sara Belle and Ana Bethlyn, for sharing this ARC copy with me. It was truly very helpful, as it gave me so many meaningful insights. On a personal level, I felt a deep connection with the stories—especially Part 1, which touched my heart the most. The insecurities faced by the characters felt so real and relatable, almost like my own experiences reflected back at me.
It was quite heartbreaking to see how something seemingly small, like a treatment, could completely turn a woman’s life upside down. By the end of the book, I genuinely felt like giving Kate a warm, tight hug.
The writing style was simple yet very beautiful, making it easy to follow and emotionally engaging. Honestly, it exceeded my expectations. I was initially a little worried that the dental aspects might make the stories difficult to connect with, but not even for a moment did I feel bored. It was a truly engaging and heartfelt read.
Thank you so much, Sara Belle and Ana Bethlyn, for sharing this ARC copy with me. It was truly very helpful, as it gave me so many meaningful insights. On a personal level, I felt a deep connection with the stories—especially Part 1, which touched my heart the most. The insecurities faced by the characters felt so real and relatable, almost like my own experiences reflected back at me.
It was quite heartbreaking to see how something seemingly small, like a treatment, could completely turn a woman’s life upside down. By the end of the book, I genuinely felt like giving Kate a warm, tight hug.
The writing style was simple yet very beautiful, making it easy to follow and emotionally engaging. Honestly, it exceeded my expectations. I was initially a little worried that the dental aspects might make the stories difficult to connect with, but not even for a moment did I feel bored. It was a truly engaging and heartfelt read.
Review of advance copy received from Author
Rating: ⭐️ 4.5/5
I did not expect this book to feel so personal, but it really stayed with me. While it revolves around braces and orthodontic treatment, it is truly about self-image, confidence, and the fear of change.
What stood out was how real the hesitation felt the way we delay things that could help us, just because we are afraid. The mother-daughter dynamic adds warmth and becomes a turning point in a very natural way.
The writing is simple yet impactful, making it an easy but meaningful read.
Recommended for: anyone who enjoys introspective, emotional stories about growth, healing, and self-acceptance.
A quiet, relatable book that reminds you it is never too late to choose yourself. 🤍
I did not expect this book to feel so personal, but it really stayed with me. While it revolves around braces and orthodontic treatment, it is truly about self-image, confidence, and the fear of change.
What stood out was how real the hesitation felt the way we delay things that could help us, just because we are afraid. The mother-daughter dynamic adds warmth and becomes a turning point in a very natural way.
The writing is simple yet impactful, making it an easy but meaningful read.
Recommended for: anyone who enjoys introspective, emotional stories about growth, healing, and self-acceptance.
A quiet, relatable book that reminds you it is never too late to choose yourself. 🤍
Review of advance copy received from Author
This is a story about a mother and her daughter’s path to dental care but I found it to slowly unfolds into something personal because it was about two journeys that may look similar on the outside but felt completely different within. This book is not just about braces but also more about identity, insecurity, and how we see ourselves versus how others see us. I can recommend this for anyone who likes reflective reads and real life stories that explore self image and personal growth.
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Review of advance copy received from Author
In this tale of self worth, identity, regret, and relief you'll probably see something of yourself.
Medical decisions of any kind can have major impacts on your life.
Waiting days, weeks, or months for treatment can affect you years later.
Proceeding with treatment, no matter the research that guides you, can spell relief or disaster.
This is poignant, real, sad, and wholesome. It was very well written.
Medical decisions of any kind can have major impacts on your life.
Waiting days, weeks, or months for treatment can affect you years later.
Proceeding with treatment, no matter the research that guides you, can spell relief or disaster.
This is poignant, real, sad, and wholesome. It was very well written.
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