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Making Room: A Memoir of Faith, Law, and Endurance

A practicing attorney’s unflinching account of what fifty years of representing vulnerable people actually costs.

In 1956, a six-year-old boy in a Sacramento Catholic school classroom scooted over in his desk—physically moved his small body to the right—to make room for his guardian angel. Seven decades later, Michael Hackard is still making room: for dying clients the legal system has forgotten, for a faith practice tested by crisis after crisis, and for the grace that arrives in forms no one expects.

Making Room: A Memoir of Faith, Law, and Endurance traces the arc of a life shaped by Irish Catholic formation, generational hardship, and a legal career that took Hackard from a brush with the Manson family during his earliest days in law to becoming one of California’s most recognized elder law attorneys. Along the way: brain surgery at forty-two. Pharmaceutical poisoning at forty-four. The death of a law partner. Fifteen million dollars in debt during the 2008 financial collapse. Twelve years of litigation that shadowed every case he took.

But Making Room is not a story of triumph. It is a story of endurance—of what happens when a man trained in Ignatian spirituality and daily prayer confronts the moral complexity of contingency-fee practice, the impossibility of helping everyone who calls, and the accusations that arrive decades after the promises were made.

Interwoven are the people who shaped him: Muzzy, his Irish grandmother who ran a Sacramento lumberyard and had no patience for excuses. Elizabeth Cook, granddaughter of a Texas slave, whose scarred hands and quiet faith became the book’s moral center. A father who flew borrowed P-40s home to Wyoming to show his mother the poor boy had become someone. And Annie, the granddaughter whose morning drives to school anchored Hackard through the wilderness years.

The memoir closes with an appendix of the specific prayers that have sustained Hackard’s practice—from the Guardian Angel prayer he learned at six to the Ignatian Suscipe he prays before every mediation—offered not as prescription but as testimony.

For readers of Catholic memoir, legal biography, and stories of resilience under pressure, Making Room is a rare thing: an honest book by a man still in the arena, written not from the safety of retirement but from the middle of the fight.

Michael Hackard is the founder of Hackard Law in Sacramento, California, focusing on elder financial abuse, trust litigation, and inheritance disputes. He has been featured in AARP Magazine, The Wall Street Journal, and on C-SPAN, and has testified before the U.S. House of Representatives. His YouTube channel at Hackard Law has accumulated millions of views.

110 pages, Paperback

First published April 7, 2026

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Michael Hackard

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MICHAEL HACKARD is a California trust and estate litigation attorney with fifty years of experience representing families in elder financial abuse, inheritance disputes, and trustee misconduct cases.

He is the author of six books on elder vulnerability and family protection: The Wolf at the Door and Inheritance Heists on financial exploitation; Alzheimer’s, Widowed Stepmothers & Estate Crimes on cognitive decline as the entry point for inheritance crime; It’s Never Just an Accident: Understanding Traumatic Brain Injury and Rebuilding Lives on traumatic brain injury, to which older adults are especially vulnerable; Making Room: A Memoir of Faith, Law and Endurance, a memoir of fifty years fighting for the abused and the vulnerable; and Stolen Inheritance: How the Vulnerable Lose Their Estates - and What Families Can Do.

He is the producer of more than 1,000 educational videos for families navigating estate crises — a YouTube channel that has accumulated more than 7 million views — and has testified before the U.S. House of Representatives, Committee on Ways and Means. He is AV Preeminent rated by Martindale-Hubbell for more than forty years and has received Super Lawyers recognition. He has been interviewed regularly by national media including the Wall Street Journal, MarketWatch, MSN Money, C-SPAN, and Fox News.

He is also the recipient of a 2026 Silver Telly Award in the Law & Crime category for "Introducing the Sage," the documentary short on the firm's representation of older Americans.

“After thousands of cases, I see the pattern others miss.”

Elder Legacy Press is the publishing imprint of Michael Hackard. He received his J.D. from McGeorge School of Law and has been a member of the California State Bar since 1976. For legal representation, Hackard Law represents families on a contingency basis throughout California — Sacramento, the San Francisco Bay Area, Los Angeles, San Diego, and Orange County.

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1 review1 follower
June 6, 2026
What makes this memoir remarkable, though, is not its catalog of hardship — plenty of memoirs traffic in suffering — but the way warmth and truth refuse to be extinguished, surviving every page, every setback, every long and lightless season the author walks us through. Something in him insists on tenderness even when tenderness has no obvious reason to be there. That insistence is the soul of this book.

The guardian angel thread is one the author is clearly still making room for — still learning to trust, still turning over in his hands like something he found and isn't quite sure he deserves to keep. It is woven through the narrative with a delicate and unhurried hand. It never preaches. It never demands that you share the author's sense of the spiritual or arrive at his conclusions. It is simply there — a recurring presence he describes as a heart of love that showed up in the worst moments, a turn of events that had no business going well but did, a stranger who appeared at exactly the right time and then slipped away without explanation.

Whether you receive these moments as divine intervention, as grace, or as a resilient mind learning to recognize the good it had too long overlooked, they land. Warmly, and without apology, every single one of them lands.

The prose is unpretentious and direct, occasionally rising to something close to poetry when emotion calls for it, then stepping quietly back — as if the author understands that the story itself is the gift, and his job is simply to stay out of its way.

It is in the memoir's treatment of life's great crossroads, though, where the guardian angel presence becomes most tender and most true. The author describes standing at the edge of decisions that felt crushing in their weight — whether to walk away from a business drowning in debt and taking him down with it, whether to risk everything on a dream with no safety net beneath it, whether to extend forgiveness to someone who had never once asked for it. In each of these moments he writes not of a voice, exactly, but of something quieter and more certain than a voice. A stillness that settled over him when everything else was noise and fear. A sense of being gently turned, the way a hand might redirect a compass needle so softly that no one sees it move, least of all the one being guided. He does not claim to know what this presence was or where it came from. He only knows what it did — and there is something deeply moving in that humility, in the way he holds the mystery with open hands rather than trying to name or own it.

There are memoirs that make you feel grateful for the people who have stood beside you — the ones who showed up and stayed. And there are memoirs that make you feel seen in your own quiet struggles, your own unmarked turning points. Rarely does a single book do both. This one does, and it does so with the kind of grace that feels, not coincidentally, like the very thing it is describing.
2 reviews1 follower
June 8, 2026
This book struck me as the memoir of a man - in this case a longtime attorney - who persisted in his faith, day after day through challenge after challenge. Its essence can be summed up best with a passage from Deuteronomy:

"See, I have set before thee this day life and good, and death and evil;

In that I command thee this day to love the Lord thy God, to walk in his ways, and to keep his commandments and his statutes and his judgments, that thou mayest live and multiply: and the Lord thy God shall bless thee..."

Thank you to Michael Hackard for sharing his journey.
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9 reviews2 followers
May 27, 2026
Got the book yesterday in the mail and couldn't put it down. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Making Room by Michael Hackard is one of those books that stays with you long after you finish it. It’s emotional, honest, and deeply human. The story explores family relationships, aging, vulnerability, and the difficult realities that can come when trust is tested within families. What really stood out to me was how compassionate and realistic the writing felt — it never came across as preachy, but instead offered insight through real experiences and emotion.

Hackard does an excellent job balancing legal and financial themes with personal storytelling, making the book accessible even for readers who normally wouldn’t pick up a book connected to elder issues or inheritance conflicts. The emotional weight of the story is what carries it. There were moments that were frustrating, heartbreaking, and eye-opening all at once.

This book also serves as an important reminder about communication, boundaries, and protecting loved ones while they are still able to make their own choices. Whether you read it for the family drama, the emotional depth, or the practical lessons hidden within the story, Making Room is absolutely worth the read.

Highly recommended for readers interested in family dynamics, real-life conflict, and thought-provoking nonfiction.
6 reviews1 follower
June 6, 2026
Making Room is a deeply personal book about Michael Hackard’s walk with God and how God’s guidance has shaped both his personal life and his professional life as a lawyer. From childhood, he has tried to “make room” for his guardian angel, and he has always believed in God’s providence and care in the ordinary and extraordinary events of his life.
3 reviews1 follower
June 6, 2026
A Memoir of Rare Honesty and Grace Michael Hackard's Making Room is unforgettable. From scooting over for a guardian angel at six to surviving a brain tumor, pharmaceutical poisoning, and financial collapse, he weaves faith, law, and endurance into something luminous. His portraits—Muzzy, Elizabeth Cook, his Wyoming father—are tender and true. Honest about imperfection, he never preaches. A lawyer's hard-won wisdom and a believer's quiet courage. Deeply moving and beautifully written.
248 reviews5 followers
August 3, 2026
Making Room: A Memoir of Faith, Law, and Endurance is a deeply honest and profoundly moving memoir that explores the intersection of faith, law, personal suffering, and unwavering perseverance. In this compelling work, Michael Hackard reflects on a lifetime spent advocating for vulnerable individuals while confronting his own personal, professional, and spiritual trials. Rather than presenting a polished success story, Hackard offers readers something far more powerful—an unflinching account of endurance, moral responsibility, and the quiet strength required to remain faithful in the face of relentless adversity.

One of the memoir's greatest strengths is its remarkable authenticity. Hackard does not shy away from the difficult realities that accompanied his decades-long legal career. From devastating health crises and financial collapse to prolonged litigation and the emotional burden of representing clients in their most desperate moments, he writes with refreshing candor. His willingness to expose both his struggles and uncertainties makes the memoir feel deeply human and exceptionally credible.

Particularly compelling is the book's exploration of vocation as both a professional and spiritual calling. Hackard demonstrates that practicing law is not simply about legal victories or courtroom strategy but about serving people whose lives have been disrupted by loss, injustice, and betrayal. His reflections on contingency-fee practice, ethical responsibility, and the limitations of what even the most dedicated attorney can accomplish provide readers with a thoughtful examination of the moral complexities inherent in the legal profession.

Another notable strength is the central role faith plays throughout the memoir. Rather than treating spirituality as a separate aspect of life, Hackard shows how daily prayer, Ignatian spirituality, and Catholic tradition became sources of resilience during life's most difficult seasons. His spiritual reflections emerge naturally through lived experience, illustrating how faith can provide stability without diminishing the reality of suffering or uncertainty.

The memoir is equally enriched by its memorable portraits of the people who shaped Hackard's character. Figures such as his determined grandmother Muzzy, the compassionate Elizabeth Cook, his resilient father, and his granddaughter Annie serve as powerful reminders that personal growth is often formed through relationships rather than achievements alone. These individuals bring warmth and emotional depth to the narrative while reinforcing the book's central themes of humility, compassion, sacrifice, and hope.

One of the book's most distinctive qualities is its refusal to simplify hardship into inspirational clichés. Hackard makes clear that endurance is rarely glamorous and that perseverance often involves continuing forward without immediate resolution or reward. This honest portrayal of resilience gives the memoir an emotional depth that distinguishes it from many traditional success narratives, allowing readers to appreciate the quiet courage required to remain committed through prolonged seasons of uncertainty.

Despite engaging with complex legal, ethical, and spiritual questions, the writing remains accessible, reflective, and deeply engaging. Hackard balances personal storytelling with thoughtful philosophical insight, creating a memoir that speaks not only to legal professionals but also to readers seeking wisdom about purpose, responsibility, faith, and the enduring strength of the human spirit.

The inclusion of the appendix containing the prayers that have sustained Hackard throughout his career adds a particularly meaningful dimension to the book. Rather than prescribing a spiritual formula, these prayers serve as personal testimony, offering readers a glimpse into the practices that anchored him through decades of professional and personal challenges. This closing section reinforces the memoir's message that endurance is often sustained through quiet, daily acts of faith.

Insightful, courageous, and profoundly reflective, Making Room: A Memoir of Faith, Law, and Endurance is an outstanding contribution to memoir, legal literature, and spiritual reflection. Michael Hackard has written a deeply personal account that will resonate with attorneys, professionals, people of faith, caregivers, students, and anyone seeking an honest exploration of resilience, moral responsibility, and the enduring power of hope in the midst of life's greatest trials.
9 reviews
June 11, 2026
An Inspiring Memoir of Purpose, Compassion, and Perseverance

Making Room: A Memoir of Faith, Law, and Endurance by Michael Hackard is a heartfelt and deeply reflective memoir that chronicles a lifetime devoted to justice, faith, and service to others. Through personal stories and professional experiences, Hackard offers readers an intimate look at the challenges, sacrifices, and rewards that come with advocating for vulnerable individuals over decades of legal practice.

What makes this memoir especially compelling is its authenticity. The author shares both triumphs and setbacks with honesty and humility, creating a narrative that feels genuine and relatable. His reflections on faith provide a meaningful foundation throughout the book, demonstrating how personal values can guide difficult decisions and sustain resilience through life's trials.

Hackard's storytelling is engaging and thoughtful, blending legal insights with deeply human experiences. Rather than focusing solely on courtroom victories, he highlights the people behind the cases, reminding readers of the profound impact that compassion and perseverance can have on the lives of others.

The book also offers valuable lessons on endurance, integrity, and the importance of staying committed to one's principles even when facing adversity. Readers interested in memoirs, law, personal growth, or faith based reflections will find much to appreciate in these pages.

Making Room is ultimately a story about creating space for empathy, justice, and hope in a complex world. It is an uplifting and inspiring read that encourages readers to live with purpose and to use their talents in service of others.


A thoughtful and inspiring memoir that beautifully combines personal faith, professional dedication, and the enduring power of compassion.
63 reviews2 followers
June 18, 2026
Making Room is the kind of memoir that feels deeply personal while still touching on themes that are easy to connect with. Michael Hackard writes candidly about faith, perseverance, and the challenges that shape a life, and I appreciated how honest the book felt throughout. The balance between personal reflection and larger life lessons made it engaging without ever feeling self-important.

What made this a five-star read for me was the sense of resilience that runs through the entire story. Even when discussing difficult experiences, the tone remains thoughtful and hopeful. It’s a memoir that encourages reflection without trying to force a message, and I finished it feeling inspired by both the journey and the perspective gained along the way.
4 reviews3 followers
May 28, 2026
Mister Hackard ESQ, reveals his journey through people, places and things which he witnessed or participated in. These experiences influenced his perception, ethics, and character development which he credits with attitudes, or some would say be-attitudes that shaped and he credits with enduring his legal career. While guided by these idealistic goals, he faced difficult pragmatic choices and challenges to right the inherent injustices in certain professions.
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7 reviews1 follower
June 17, 2026
This book offers practical wisdom while reminding readers of the importance of dignity, understanding, and doing the right thing. A meaningful read that leaves a lasting impression!
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June 28, 2026
I usually enjoy memoirs. In this case, I found it to be lacking with much detail. I have a feeling this is a profession of faith which I have nothing against, just let us know that is what it is.
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