I was so shocked to hear she’s been married before! I had no idea.
In the beginning, I wish they had said which perspective we were reading in, but thankfully they did for the rest of the book.
I wish the whole book had been like it started off. that was the best part of it. I always love hearing little stories by the Robertsons. it's amazing how his Granny said she was going to go on The Price is Right and win, and she did! that's incredible!
I loved when the first said they passed by each other at Connie Sue’s, and he said later to his roommate that he met the girl he was going to marry. That’s so cute; just like guys in romance books! -however, I remember thinking later, if he said that then, then why after they started hanging out, did it seem like they were just friends? That didn’t add up at all!
I never would have guessed Jessica was a tomboy! &rode fourwheelers, went hunting, and mudding. Really cool how she worked at the nursery at the zoo. It just shows how fake the show is, though. There was this episode where her&Miss Kay went hunting with Phil, and she acted like a girly girl. if she's a tomboy, then don't portray her as something else. she's portrayed on the show completely different than this book does. I would never guess she's insecure about her self image, and has confidence issues.
Wow! I didn’t know Phil was 6’3.
I really don’t like how all these books jump around, though. I wished they went in order. One second she’s in second grade, the next she’s talking about seeing Jep.
Didn’t know Bonnie&Clyde were killed in Arcadia.
I always like finding things in common with people in books; Jessica was fast at running short distances. was a tomboy&liked four-wheeling. &how she’d go to the cemetery, and read names&dates off the headstones. &how Jep &Jess watch murder she wrote, and the golden girls. It was also nice learning she has an eclectic style &likes antique things.
It’s nice getting to know more of their personalities, that she show doesn’t hit on, like how Jep was shy, quiet, and liked reading. &how he stole one thing. I was a little kid, I doubt I was even in school, when I stole a pack of gum.
I was completely tearing up during the scene of the family intervention. I remember tearing up when it was spoken of in another book--maybe Phil’s?--but it was pretty emotional here.
I was so shocked when Jep mentioned that Miss Kay had to watch Phil, Alan, and Si go through alcohol abuse. I knew of the first two, but I had no idea about Si!! I don’t remember him mentioning it in his book either.
That’s so cute that they bought a puzzle the day of their wedding&worked on it.
I could also relate to Jep and how when you’re made, you wanna punch &break things! Obviously the show wouldn’t show that, but it’s nice knowing they’re normal people, and aren’t perfect, and like the rest of us do.
Can’t believe people at the airport line didn’t get out of line and help Jessica after she collapsed.
I liked learning more about Jessica, and how she likes making quilts &wants to pass them down to her kids.
I can’t believe Jep said after they were married that “I just really don’t love you.”
I had forgotten in the description that it said Jep had been through something as a kid, so when it came out in the book, it was shocking!
It’s sweet learning how Jep is a romantic and stages scavenger hunts.
In one of the last chapters, all of a sudden it was thrown out that Jep had pilonidal cysts at age 19. It was really random how that was all of a sudden mentioned, which took place around the time of the intervention. But it wasn’t mentioned in the book when the intervention was. I also didn’t like how they still don’t know if he’s epileptic or not, and only time will tell!
I like how they live down the road from their brothers. It’s nice they all live close to each other.
Out of all the Robertson books I’ve read, I’d say I’ve liked this one the least. When it came down to it, it just wasn’t enjoyable. The subject matter in this book has been my least favorite to read about. So much of it was negative. While there were some funny/heartwarming moments &little stories from their childhood that were enjoyable to read, I wish there had been more. I loved the story of Jep going along with Miss Kay to that older woman’s house &complementing her house. &the story where he almost drowned &Phil rushed out, looking scared, and helped him. This book needed more stories like that.
Also, Jessica didn’t have many stories--definitely not humorous ones--to share. I wish her side of things had been more positive, not so much based on her marriage, her trying to please everyone, and her struggle with herself, and also their arguments after they were married.
In the end, this book was just ok. Because I had no idea about Jess being married beforehand, and Jep’s sexual abuse, Jess’s insecurities, eating disorder, Jep’s addiction to porn, I had no idea this book was going to contain any of that. I imagined this book being so much different, so much better. I knew it would have Jep’s drug addiction, but that was it. And I didn’t like how it was so heavily based on all of those things. It needed more positive things and humor sprinkled throughout it. I also can’t believe that even after they were married for years, and had all four kids, they were still having major problems &fairly recently were on the path to divorce &out of love with each other. I didn’t like how they still seem to have problems with jealousy and insecurities.
The Q&A’s at the end were nice, because it shed light on some things.
However, some of it didn’t sit right with me. ‘established certain boundaries so temptation doesn’t become a problem, such as neither of us being alone with someone of the opposite sex, ever.’ I didn’t like that it was still even an issue. You’ve got 4 kids, and you’re still worried that the other might cheat. I could not live that that.
Missy &Korie grew up together?! I didn’t know that!
Why in the world do people ask Jep “how in the world did you get your wife?” that’s awful! What is wrong with people?
Also I’ve noticed in this book &another one, they mention the show, say it’s a real portrayal, but won’t touch on the fact that it’s obviously staged. I mean, come on, we’re not stupid. Sure, they don’t give them a script, but the situations are staged. Learning more about the characters through their books, it just highlights all the more that tv doesn't show their true selves. It should highlight their lives more, and the way they really are. Also, these books just show that they've all had issues and things to work through, and it would be nice if the show highlighted them. instead of showing us this fake perfect &peachy lives. They come across as perfect and problem-free, which can get annoying to watch, because no one is that way. Some of their stories show that they are definitely not perfect, and have gone through bad things, so why show them as perfect on the show?