There are many questions in this book that the author asks which may lead one to believe God is absent, especially when things are unfair or unjust. There are far more questions than explicit answers.
But through the amazing and inspirational stories captured in this book, you can find relief, reassurance, and beauty of pain. The stories made me emotional multiple times and also made me awe many times.
Below are passages from the book I enjoyed most
How to arrive at salvation from undeserved suffering:
"Somewhere you need to find an answer, a solution of some sort, a support, some small hope of seeing daylight. Witnessing these problems leads to disillusionment. Logic becomes inadequate. The stereotypical religious answers, if not simply an affront, are at least unconvincing. What is convincing is faith; only faith; deep faith. Faith embraces the problem and transforms it from a problem that you fear into an opportunity that you long for. Faith is a one-way street. It needs only to be authentic – and truthful."
"Faith is a gift from God that is granted to us. What we can and should give is the hope of faith, given the fact that it is deeply rooted within us."
"Whoever has faith creates round him or her the warmth of communion, and inoculates death with the hope of life."
This faith is exemplified through many stories from the Metropolitan such as when he had visited a paralyzed young man:
"I give glory to God because through the suffering of my body, my soul has come alive and is constantly journeying to the most beautiful corners of the spiritual world. If I were like other people, I wouldn’t be able to enjoy God’s love. As it is, I do enjoy it."
He also draws the similarity between the paralyzed man at the Pool of Bethesda and us:
"This Gospel account is not simply a reminder of one miracle, but serves as a wake-up call for all of us. All of us are paralyzed with spiritual blindness and physical infirmity, all of us are cheated by our rationalism; and we are all sitting round the pool of Bethesda, the pool of the tears and lost hopes of this life. The Church tries to re-orientate our hearts away from the Old Testament idea of drops of divine mercy towards the God-man’s ocean of love."
The product of pain and suffering
"Pain gives rise to patience in us, but, at the same time, to loving bonds with our brothers. It also gives rise to truth; the compassion of others plants the truth in our own heart."
"Suffering cannot be responded to with arguments. Nor can injustice and death be met with reasoning. These problems are resolved only by receiving the divine breath of God. They are resolved through the Holy Spirit. They are overcome through a humble acceptance of God’s will which is so true, but at the same time usually so incomprehensible."
"In our dialogue with suffering, injustice and death we are obliged to exceed human measures. This is not only a way of overcoming our trial but it is also a blessing."
"Embracing our suffering will give rise to newly-discovered sensitivities and will unfold realities which cannot otherwise be seen. The challenge is not the events and revelations themselves – these exist. The challenge is for us to open our eyes in order to be able to see them truly. Unfortunately, it is an undeniable truth that we acknowledge and gain the greatest things only when we lose what we love above anything else. Certainly, pain and injustice cannot abolish God’s love. God exists. He is love and life; perfect love and the fullness of life. And the greatest miracle of His existence is that He coexists with pain, injustice and death."
On special needs:
"Each child with special needs such as this does not come into the world in order to make our lives difficult and make us suffer. They each come into this world for a reason and have their secret inner voice. It remains to us to offer love; to ‘bear one another’s burdens’; to experience a collective humbling – to realize, that is, that we are not as powerful and important as we think; and to try to lighten that person’s burden and understand their language. These children are better at speaking the language of God."
To conclude:
"As we project the sufferings that we undergo onto the Cross of the Lord ‘on which by suffering His Passion He slew the passions’, and project death onto His tomb which He transformed into His throne, we are able to experience the great blessing of faith in the Conqueror of death: ‘he who believes in me, out of his heart shall flow rivers of living water’ (John 7:38); ‘he who believes in me will also do the works that I do, and greater works than these’ (John 14:12); ‘he who believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, and whoever lives and believes in me shall never die’ (John 11:25-26). Faith, genuine, innocent, childlike faith in the divinity of Christ, reveals God – in those places of desolation when He is not there."