Remember when you couldn’t keep your hands off each other?
When you’re married, sex can be completely different from when you were dating. Back then, sex was intense. Exciting. Something you looked forward to. But what happens when the flame fizzles?
Drawing on her years of experience counseling couples, psychologist and relationship expert Sara Dimerman explains why sexual desire fades once we’re living together and why – bored with the monotony of monogamy – we become lazy about keeping sex novel and passionate.
Why Married Couples Don’t Have Sex… At Least Not with Each Other! dives into the dynamics that diminish sexual desire and intimacy and exposes the real reasons so many men and women are willing to risk losing their marriages by engaging in relationships with new lovers. Sara offers frank, playful, yet practical advice (plus many resources) for married women and men who want to know why they’re no longer enjoying a fulfilling sex life and what they can do about it.
Equally helpful to both men and women, this book is a must for everyone’s bedside table.
Moved to Canada when I was fifteen years old. Studied Radio and TV Arts at Ryerson in Toronto and graduated in early 1980s. Studied Asssessment and Counselling at the University of Toronto and graduated late 1980s. Started my private practice in Psychology in 1990. Have been writing articles since 1989. Began having books published in 2008.
A very helpful, practical guide for those suffering from this problem. There is a lot of talking with each other involved and it seems like a lot of work! In short, relationships take effort and communication is key. Makes sense to me!