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Can a long-forgotten memory of a horrible event suddenly resurface years later? How can we know whether a memory is true or false? Seven spellbinding cases shed light on why it is rare for a reclaimed memory to be wholly false. Here are unforgettable true stories of what happens when people remember what they've tried to forget—plus one case of genuine false memory. In the best detective-story fashion, using her insights as a psychiatrist and the latest research on the mind and the brain, Lenore Terr helps us separate truth from fiction.
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First published February 1, 1994
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Lenore Terr
15 books10 followersLenore Terr, M.D., is the author of Too Scared to Cry. Her prizewinning research on the kidnapped children of Chowchilla and other childhood trauma victims has established her as one of the world's foremost experts on trauma and memory.
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Displaying 1 - 14 of 14 reviews
January 18, 2021
Oh my goodness, what a romp this book is. While certainly well-written, it is anything but even-handed and fair. The author clearly believes in repressed/recovered memory and performs endless acrobatics to make some of these so-called memories make sense, when much simpler explanations are available. Perplexingly, she also seems more than happy to support whoever is paying her in court. If a defendant claims repressed memory, there's no telling if Terr will agree. But if the prosecution calls her first, wow, turns out this particular person is lying or mistaken. If the defense comes knocking, bam, we have a genuine repressed memory. Her theories are incredibly tortured and impossible to make into a coherent, working paradigm. My fiancé gave me this book for Christmas, as I am endlessly fascinated by human memory. I'm so glad he did because it gave me a peak into one of the "experts" in the recovered memory field, and while I am wowed by her ability to make sense of her cognitive dissonance, if this is one of the best arguments for recovered memory on offer, I'll take Elizabeth Loftus.
July 29, 2016
This was one of the most enlightening and frightening books I've ever read! Lenore interviews and tells the true stories of people who have recalled trauma from their childhood many years later. Not only are these mesmerizing stories uncovered, but Lenore Terr works with cognitive and behavioral therapists and the scientific information on how memory returns and which parts of the brain are activated when long-term memories are retrieved. I had to put the book down a few times and then return. It is fascinating and unforgettable. WOW!
April 5, 2008
This book is fucking frightening. The fact that horrible, horrible things may have happened to us in childhood that we do not consciously remember as adults but which are stored in our memory systems nonetheless and are technically recoverable under certain circumstances - frightening.
November 5, 2007
I'm reading this right now for work - it's a narrative discussion of how memory functions in trauma.
June 1, 2008
I couldn't put this book down. True stories/case studies of repressed memories recovered, well written and engaging from start to finish.
May 26, 2018
Really really fascinating stuff about really really difficult stuff. Highly recommend for psychology buffs!
May 20, 2020
Very affecting and accurate. Great overview of traumatic memory processing
June 27, 2021
I really enjoyed this book as well as Too Scared to Cry by Terr. A most fascinating read!
December 29, 2023
This book has a lot of good information on memory. It’s really intense and talks about a lot of traumatic events vividly. Made my stomach hurt at points. Interesting read!
March 24, 2009
I liked her previous book, Too Scared To Cry: Psychic Trauma In Childhood, which is about research into whether children remember traumatic events or just forget and get over them (they remember). This one isn't as good; it's a collection of stories of recovered memory. Some are interesting, others aren't but go on too long. The best one is about the fiction of James Ellroy and how his memories of his mother, who was murdered when he was ten, show up in his fiction.
February 19, 2008
Very compelling topics, but long winded for me. I lost interest about two thirds of the way through the book.
March 3, 2009
This book was less interesting than you would expect, given the subject. It was a little too academic and dry for my taste.
September 18, 2012
I benefited greatly from reading Lenore Terr's book. Great insights and educated me on memory processing and survival. Don't read unless...you are ready, willing, and open.
November 9, 2013
Pretty good, interesting and somewhat convincing.
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