As I go through these short memoirs chapters of Jay Onrait's life, I can't tell if he's a douchebag or just genuinely tells stories that are mildly insulting to those in them and just all around cocky. It's one thing to tell a story where you are recounting funny outlandish tales of the trip/day/weekend/event where you reveal your embarrassing moment or your private secrets but Jay Onrait does not conceal his feelings or distain for some of the people he shares the story. And the story is more revealing and insulting to others in the story than himself... The first story gives an example of the tone which seems like it's going to be a funny real but I found it all to fall flat.