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Ms. Conception
Abigail Nichols has tried everything from rash-inducing herbal creams to acupuncture in a desperate, last-ditch effort to get pregnant. Wedged into her iPhone schedule among new business pitches and rebranding design meetings is Abby’s ovulation cycle, along with potential opportunities for illicit afternoon quickies. With all of their hopes and savings on the table, Abby and her husband Jack enter the whispered world of fertility clinics. Along with a meddling mother-in-law, competitive pregnancies, and constant obligatory sex, Abby’s baby-track mind conspires to ravage her career, her marriage, and her sanity. One thing she knows for sure: a healthy sense of humor (and the occasional glass of red wine) is the best coping strategy. One thing she wishes she knew: whether it will be enough. Ms. Conception is an honest but light-hearted novel inspired by the ups and downs of fertility treatments and the emotional burden that rests on those trying to conceive.
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217 pages, Kindle Edition
First published May 4, 2015
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About the author
Jen Cumming
1 book32 followersJen had two dreams: to be a mother and a writer. The first, it turns out, was much harder to accomplish, but it gave her plenty to work with for her second dream. Now she’s realized both and traded drug cocktails, injections and early morning line-ups at the fertility clinic for juice boxes, playdates and evening PTA meetings. Jen lives in Toronto with her husband and their two children.
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April 10, 2015Is it me or does this book cover look like butt to anyone else? Every time I see it I think it's someone with their pants down LOL! I don't know....
May 4, 2015
Funny. Heart wrenching. Tear jerker. Happy. Sad. Knowledgeable. Page turner.
All words I would use to describe this debut novel from Jen Cumming. I finished it about 5 minutes ago and had to write about it right away. I'm one of those women if you look at me funny I might get pregnant so I could not relate to the trials and tribulations Abby endured during her quest to become pregnant. But now that I've read the novel, I have a much great appreciation for the process and the agony couples, especially the women, go through in order to conceive their precious baby. I was crying by the end of the read.
The writing is straight from everyday life. I felt like I was reading about someone's actual life. Loved it. I could relate so much to Abby's relationship with her mother-in-law. Been there, done that. Urgh. Her husband though...he is real? Where can I get one like him? What a sweetheart! And her assistant at work - hilarious! The characters really came to life. We all know people similar to them.
Would I recommend the book? Absolutely! Ready for her next book!
All words I would use to describe this debut novel from Jen Cumming. I finished it about 5 minutes ago and had to write about it right away. I'm one of those women if you look at me funny I might get pregnant so I could not relate to the trials and tribulations Abby endured during her quest to become pregnant. But now that I've read the novel, I have a much great appreciation for the process and the agony couples, especially the women, go through in order to conceive their precious baby. I was crying by the end of the read.
The writing is straight from everyday life. I felt like I was reading about someone's actual life. Loved it. I could relate so much to Abby's relationship with her mother-in-law. Been there, done that. Urgh. Her husband though...he is real? Where can I get one like him? What a sweetheart! And her assistant at work - hilarious! The characters really came to life. We all know people similar to them.
Would I recommend the book? Absolutely! Ready for her next book!
June 25, 2016
I loved Ms. Conception by Jen Cumming, primarily because the book was almost a carbon copy of my similar struggle with infertility, and the pressures that go along with working in a stressful, corporate environment.
This is the story of Abby Nichols and Jack Williams, a happily married couple that desperately want to have a baby. After trying unsuccessfully to conceive naturally, they decide to seek professional help, the infertility clinic. In addition to dealing with all the blood tests, ultrasounds, and stomach injections, Abby is on an emotional roller coaster. Luckily, Jack is practically a saint, as he struggles to ensure that they have the money to pay for all the tests and procedures, while providing Abby with lots of love and support.
Ms. Cumming tells a poignant story, with secondary characters that add some much needed humor and amusement to a disheartening situation. Jack's narcissistic mom and Abby's eccentric assistant are especially entertaining. Overall, this is a well-written, honest read with a very happy ending.
Complimentary copy provided by the publisher via NetGalley.
This is the story of Abby Nichols and Jack Williams, a happily married couple that desperately want to have a baby. After trying unsuccessfully to conceive naturally, they decide to seek professional help, the infertility clinic. In addition to dealing with all the blood tests, ultrasounds, and stomach injections, Abby is on an emotional roller coaster. Luckily, Jack is practically a saint, as he struggles to ensure that they have the money to pay for all the tests and procedures, while providing Abby with lots of love and support.
Ms. Cumming tells a poignant story, with secondary characters that add some much needed humor and amusement to a disheartening situation. Jack's narcissistic mom and Abby's eccentric assistant are especially entertaining. Overall, this is a well-written, honest read with a very happy ending.
Complimentary copy provided by the publisher via NetGalley.
September 23, 2015
It took my husband and I a year to get pregnant. I felt so much for Abby in the beginning of this book, because I remember crying every month when nature told me I wasn't going to have a baby. I remember snapping at my husband and glaring daggers at coworkers who kept getting pregnant.
I can't even imagine having a meddling mother-in-law and having to spend so much money or be without child. Even now, we don't have that kind of money for treatments.
I seriously went through so many emotions during this book. I was happy and then sad and then crushed and the happy and then anxious...this book just made me feel so many things and I got so attached to the characters in this book that by the time I put it down one of my coworkers asked me "What's wrong?" and I just started gushing about it and telling her to read it.
When I got to the Author's note at the end of the book, I realized why this book was so good. Writers, you'll hear over and over that personal experiences make for the best books, and this is an example of that. Jen has so much of my respect right now and I can't wait to see if there will be more from her.
I can't even imagine having a meddling mother-in-law and having to spend so much money or be without child. Even now, we don't have that kind of money for treatments.
I seriously went through so many emotions during this book. I was happy and then sad and then crushed and the happy and then anxious...this book just made me feel so many things and I got so attached to the characters in this book that by the time I put it down one of my coworkers asked me "What's wrong?" and I just started gushing about it and telling her to read it.
When I got to the Author's note at the end of the book, I realized why this book was so good. Writers, you'll hear over and over that personal experiences make for the best books, and this is an example of that. Jen has so much of my respect right now and I can't wait to see if there will be more from her.
July 12, 2015
Women need more books like this! I appreciated the author's thoughtful and humorous, but always hopeful, approach writing this book. The openness and honesty of it all really resonated with me as the reader. Very easy to read, laugh out loud funny, and uplifting in the end; I highly recommend this book.
Thanks to Netgalley for the free e-book in exchange for an honest review.
Thanks to Netgalley for the free e-book in exchange for an honest review.
May 7, 2015
AMY REVIEW
4 STARS
The baby making process was a wild and wacky roller coaster for Jack & Abigail…and I got to tag along! This book was an up close and personal view of infertility told with wit and grace from the heart of a mother to be. It was a cute and heart breaking story of a couples extreme want to be parents and the test of their relationship through the process.
I loved Jack & Abby!! They were in love and carefree and had no idea what would face them as they tried to be parents. This is a subject that many take for granted and feel will come as easily as making the decision to get pregnant. But that really isn’t the case for all. Jen did an amazing job of taking me through the process and not making me feel like I was intruding in their space. I was able to see and feel all of Abby & Jack’s triumphs and heartaches first hand. I felt so much emotion as I read.
This was an adorable easy read for me. I finished in one sitting and really enjoyed the book. It took a very serious subject and offered it respect and a little humor which was great. I was happy to read through with ease and the story’s flow was magnificent. I recommend this book for the easy seriousness that it was. Easy 4 star read for sure.
LEEANN'S REVIEW
4 STARS
Having a baby comes naturally to most, but for some it is not so easy. This is one couples journey chasing their dream to have a baby of their own.
Abby & Jack have been married for a couple of years & both have successful careers. The one thing they both want most to succeed in, they are not. Getting pregnant just does not seem to
happen naturally for them. So now, they are exploring other options.
Their story is at times heartbreaking but throughout it all, they both maintain their sense of humour. Their love for each other holds strong & where some couples would reach breaking
point, they manage to keep it together. Throw in a mother in law you would happily strangle, a hippie style family that you feel a bit out of touch with & a stressful work environment & you will forgive Abby
anything!! She is a saint.
Jack loves Abby, but at times I found myself wishing he would grow a pair & stand up for Abby in certain situations! But he quickly redeems himself as the story progresses & by the end he is quite a
loveable character. And he also puts up with a lot from Abby, because, although they are going through everything, there is only so much he can do to help move things along. He understands Abby is shouldering most of
the hard work & suffering & there is absolutely nothing he can do to make it better for her. He struggles with this, as I imagine most loving husbands would.
I understand this book, although fiction, is based on the authors personal experiences. I have to say well done for being able to write about such a sensitive & what I would imagine somewhat traumatic
Journey in such a humorous way but still highlighting the seriousness of a process that so many couples around the world have to go through just to achieve their dream of having a family.
This is a well written story about two people who love and support each other enough to want to go through fertility treatments together. Both Abby & Jacks character development is clear & easy to follow. The story line is
fabulous & although there are sad moments Abby & Jack always look at the big picture & that is what keeps them going.
Great read, I would recommend having a box of tissues, a glass (or bottle) of wine & some chocolate handy when you settle in to read it!!
4 STARS
The baby making process was a wild and wacky roller coaster for Jack & Abigail…and I got to tag along! This book was an up close and personal view of infertility told with wit and grace from the heart of a mother to be. It was a cute and heart breaking story of a couples extreme want to be parents and the test of their relationship through the process.
I loved Jack & Abby!! They were in love and carefree and had no idea what would face them as they tried to be parents. This is a subject that many take for granted and feel will come as easily as making the decision to get pregnant. But that really isn’t the case for all. Jen did an amazing job of taking me through the process and not making me feel like I was intruding in their space. I was able to see and feel all of Abby & Jack’s triumphs and heartaches first hand. I felt so much emotion as I read.
This was an adorable easy read for me. I finished in one sitting and really enjoyed the book. It took a very serious subject and offered it respect and a little humor which was great. I was happy to read through with ease and the story’s flow was magnificent. I recommend this book for the easy seriousness that it was. Easy 4 star read for sure.
LEEANN'S REVIEW
4 STARS
Having a baby comes naturally to most, but for some it is not so easy. This is one couples journey chasing their dream to have a baby of their own.
Abby & Jack have been married for a couple of years & both have successful careers. The one thing they both want most to succeed in, they are not. Getting pregnant just does not seem to
happen naturally for them. So now, they are exploring other options.
Their story is at times heartbreaking but throughout it all, they both maintain their sense of humour. Their love for each other holds strong & where some couples would reach breaking
point, they manage to keep it together. Throw in a mother in law you would happily strangle, a hippie style family that you feel a bit out of touch with & a stressful work environment & you will forgive Abby
anything!! She is a saint.
Jack loves Abby, but at times I found myself wishing he would grow a pair & stand up for Abby in certain situations! But he quickly redeems himself as the story progresses & by the end he is quite a
loveable character. And he also puts up with a lot from Abby, because, although they are going through everything, there is only so much he can do to help move things along. He understands Abby is shouldering most of
the hard work & suffering & there is absolutely nothing he can do to make it better for her. He struggles with this, as I imagine most loving husbands would.
I understand this book, although fiction, is based on the authors personal experiences. I have to say well done for being able to write about such a sensitive & what I would imagine somewhat traumatic
Journey in such a humorous way but still highlighting the seriousness of a process that so many couples around the world have to go through just to achieve their dream of having a family.
This is a well written story about two people who love and support each other enough to want to go through fertility treatments together. Both Abby & Jacks character development is clear & easy to follow. The story line is
fabulous & although there are sad moments Abby & Jack always look at the big picture & that is what keeps them going.
Great read, I would recommend having a box of tissues, a glass (or bottle) of wine & some chocolate handy when you settle in to read it!!
February 8, 2016
Abby is desperate to get pregnant. After several years of marriage (and trying to conceive), she and her husband, Jack, enter the roller coaster life of fertility clinics. Along the way, Abby is juggling a busy career, her slightly insane mother-in-law, and her own quirky mom and sister.
I tore through this book in two days, and I think my heart pounded through a good two thirds of it. Parts of it were almost too heart-breakingly painful to read. There are certainly some other recent novels (e.g. Amanda Eyre Ward's The Same Sky) that capture infertility in a more poetic manner, giving it more weight and tying more to the characters' backstories and current events. But Cumming's novel is like no other I've read in perfectly depicting the hard, emotional struggle of infertility.
There's so much I identified with in the novel, which certainly helped lead to my 4-star rating. I am not 100% sure that the book would resonate as much with those who haven't been through this, though I honestly wish I had had this book to give to all those "well-meaning" individuals who had "helpful" advice during my own infertility struggles, because I really do think it shows how hard the process is on a couple.
For instance, Cumming does an excellent job of showing how difficult it is for Abby to juggle her work and her infertility - there's a moment where she receives a call from the clinic about a negative pregnancy test and has to return to a meeting. I've so been there, and she wrote about the episode beautifully.
Cumming also does a good job of portraying humor in Abby's difficult journey - it's the only way Abby can survive. Her stories of the full bladder trials during IVF, for instance, are funny and spot on. So much, though, is serious and very carefully portrayed -- Abby's focus on a home project after each negative test; her studious avoidance of babies; dreaming nine months forward about potential holidays -- anyone who has struggled like Abby will identify. She captures the aching loss of Abby beautifully -- I actually hurt as I read this book.
Overall, I would have potentially liked to have seen a little more character development about Abby - you don't get much backstory about her yen for children. Still, the book is amazing in its ability to make you feel like Abby and hurt with each negative test and setback. It's the most accurate (yet compelling) fictional journey of infertility, IUIs, and IVF I've read in quite some time.
(Note: I received an advanced copy of this book from Netgalley in return for an unbiased review.)
I tore through this book in two days, and I think my heart pounded through a good two thirds of it. Parts of it were almost too heart-breakingly painful to read. There are certainly some other recent novels (e.g. Amanda Eyre Ward's The Same Sky) that capture infertility in a more poetic manner, giving it more weight and tying more to the characters' backstories and current events. But Cumming's novel is like no other I've read in perfectly depicting the hard, emotional struggle of infertility.
There's so much I identified with in the novel, which certainly helped lead to my 4-star rating. I am not 100% sure that the book would resonate as much with those who haven't been through this, though I honestly wish I had had this book to give to all those "well-meaning" individuals who had "helpful" advice during my own infertility struggles, because I really do think it shows how hard the process is on a couple.
For instance, Cumming does an excellent job of showing how difficult it is for Abby to juggle her work and her infertility - there's a moment where she receives a call from the clinic about a negative pregnancy test and has to return to a meeting. I've so been there, and she wrote about the episode beautifully.
Cumming also does a good job of portraying humor in Abby's difficult journey - it's the only way Abby can survive. Her stories of the full bladder trials during IVF, for instance, are funny and spot on. So much, though, is serious and very carefully portrayed -- Abby's focus on a home project after each negative test; her studious avoidance of babies; dreaming nine months forward about potential holidays -- anyone who has struggled like Abby will identify. She captures the aching loss of Abby beautifully -- I actually hurt as I read this book.
Overall, I would have potentially liked to have seen a little more character development about Abby - you don't get much backstory about her yen for children. Still, the book is amazing in its ability to make you feel like Abby and hurt with each negative test and setback. It's the most accurate (yet compelling) fictional journey of infertility, IUIs, and IVF I've read in quite some time.
(Note: I received an advanced copy of this book from Netgalley in return for an unbiased review.)
October 24, 2015
Originally reviewed at Novel Escapes
I picked Ms Conception because I was attracted to the baby bump on the cover! I was curious to see how the author would navigate the infertility trials and tribulations. There is still a lot of secrecy around infertility and we don’t tend to fully open up about our struggles unless it’s with very close family or someone else has already opened the door for communication. Sometimes it’s easier to hold in it so you don’t have to repeatedly go through the pain of discussing it, but sometimes I feel we would benefit so much more from knowing that we’re not alone.
In Jen Cumming’s novel I was appreciative of her honesty and liked the outlaying of the procedures and her character’s feelings during the treatments. There was enough of the clinical to really believe she’d gone through the process herself as well as enough of the emotional to feel how raw some of those feelings still were- even in her current position. I particularly liked the frustrations of the trouble she went through in taking time off from work to make it to all of the appointments. It’s hard enough not to feel guilty when you’re visibly pregnant to make all those appointments but when you’re not pregnant yet and have to hide your intentions it’s virtually impossible not to feel guilty and/or feel as if your job is in jeopardy.
While the novel is about Abigail and her husband on their journey to parenthood the author tempered their daily lives with some laughs. I loved Scott and he added levity and gave Abigail an ally at work- everyone should have “a Scott” to back them up. I also thought it a nice touch that Charlie came into play too and I think that was Cumming’s way of showing that there are more people out there, going through the same fertility challenges, than you would ever think.
The novel is set in Toronto so I pictured myself in each process- but it could have been any city: a room full of sleepy women at dawn waiting to get their blood taken and ultrasounds done for days upon days on end- all for one end goal.
My only complaint was that it was too short- not sure what else I thought I needed but I finished it all too quickly!
Thank you to Tryst Books for our review copy. All opinions are our own.
I picked Ms Conception because I was attracted to the baby bump on the cover! I was curious to see how the author would navigate the infertility trials and tribulations. There is still a lot of secrecy around infertility and we don’t tend to fully open up about our struggles unless it’s with very close family or someone else has already opened the door for communication. Sometimes it’s easier to hold in it so you don’t have to repeatedly go through the pain of discussing it, but sometimes I feel we would benefit so much more from knowing that we’re not alone.
In Jen Cumming’s novel I was appreciative of her honesty and liked the outlaying of the procedures and her character’s feelings during the treatments. There was enough of the clinical to really believe she’d gone through the process herself as well as enough of the emotional to feel how raw some of those feelings still were- even in her current position. I particularly liked the frustrations of the trouble she went through in taking time off from work to make it to all of the appointments. It’s hard enough not to feel guilty when you’re visibly pregnant to make all those appointments but when you’re not pregnant yet and have to hide your intentions it’s virtually impossible not to feel guilty and/or feel as if your job is in jeopardy.
While the novel is about Abigail and her husband on their journey to parenthood the author tempered their daily lives with some laughs. I loved Scott and he added levity and gave Abigail an ally at work- everyone should have “a Scott” to back them up. I also thought it a nice touch that Charlie came into play too and I think that was Cumming’s way of showing that there are more people out there, going through the same fertility challenges, than you would ever think.
The novel is set in Toronto so I pictured myself in each process- but it could have been any city: a room full of sleepy women at dawn waiting to get their blood taken and ultrasounds done for days upon days on end- all for one end goal.
My only complaint was that it was too short- not sure what else I thought I needed but I finished it all too quickly!
Thank you to Tryst Books for our review copy. All opinions are our own.
July 14, 2015
I received this book for free from the publisher Tryst through NetGalley in exchange for my honest review
After the first few pages I was hooked! I loved Abby right off of the bat!
Blurb
Abigail Nichols has tried everything from rash-inducing herbal creams to acupuncture in a desperate, last-ditch effort to get pregnant. Wedged into her iPhone schedule among new business pitches and rebranding design meetings is Abby’s ovulation cycle, along with potential opportunities for illicit afternoon quickies. With all of their hopes and savings on the table, Abby and her husband Jack enter the whispered world of fertility clinics. Along with a meddling mother-in-law, competitive pregnancies, and constant obligatory sex, Abby’s baby-track mind conspires to ravage her career, her marriage, and her sanity. One thing she knows for sure: a healthy sense of humor (and the occasional glass of red wine) is the best coping strategy. One thing she wishes she knew: whether it will be enough. Ms. Conception is an honest but light-hearted novel inspired by the ups and downs of fertility treatments and the emotional burden that rests on those trying to conceive.
Abby has babies on the brain. Her & her husband Jack have been trying with no luck. From trying a yam cream on her thighs to acupuncture to fertility treatments. Ms. Conception is a roller coaster of emotions.
While trying to get pregnant her work is suffering. People are talking behind her back, everything seems to be falling apart.
I have to say I love love loved Scott!! He definitely was the comedic relief. I love him!
Jack and his mother got on my nerves quite a bit. I warmed up to Jack towards the end when he started to stand up to his mother Marilyn.
I have to admit I got teary-eyed quite a bit just reading the ups & downs of fertility problems and the lengths Abby would go to become a mom.
Its a wonderful story and I loved it!
After the first few pages I was hooked! I loved Abby right off of the bat!
Blurb
Abigail Nichols has tried everything from rash-inducing herbal creams to acupuncture in a desperate, last-ditch effort to get pregnant. Wedged into her iPhone schedule among new business pitches and rebranding design meetings is Abby’s ovulation cycle, along with potential opportunities for illicit afternoon quickies. With all of their hopes and savings on the table, Abby and her husband Jack enter the whispered world of fertility clinics. Along with a meddling mother-in-law, competitive pregnancies, and constant obligatory sex, Abby’s baby-track mind conspires to ravage her career, her marriage, and her sanity. One thing she knows for sure: a healthy sense of humor (and the occasional glass of red wine) is the best coping strategy. One thing she wishes she knew: whether it will be enough. Ms. Conception is an honest but light-hearted novel inspired by the ups and downs of fertility treatments and the emotional burden that rests on those trying to conceive.
Abby has babies on the brain. Her & her husband Jack have been trying with no luck. From trying a yam cream on her thighs to acupuncture to fertility treatments. Ms. Conception is a roller coaster of emotions.
While trying to get pregnant her work is suffering. People are talking behind her back, everything seems to be falling apart.
I have to say I love love loved Scott!! He definitely was the comedic relief. I love him!
Jack and his mother got on my nerves quite a bit. I warmed up to Jack towards the end when he started to stand up to his mother Marilyn.
I have to admit I got teary-eyed quite a bit just reading the ups & downs of fertility problems and the lengths Abby would go to become a mom.
Its a wonderful story and I loved it!
April 27, 2015
Ms. Conception by Jen Cumming
What would you do to have the child you've always wanted?
This story is about Abigail and her husband Jack and their quest to have a baby. After trying all sorts of ways to get pregnant, from the obvious conventional type to the not so conventional, without any luck. All Abigail wants is to get pregnant and have a baby, millions if women do it every day, how hard can it be? It turns out that it can be exceedingly difficult and sometimes impossible. Abigail and Jack decide to seek the help of fertility specialists. We follow Abigail on her quest for that conception. Her road is rough and full of emotions. She is struggling to hold down her career, deal with a crazy mother-in-law, who makes it her mission to bombard Abigail with constant up dates about how so and so is now pregnant, her own sister who ends up pregnant and her own mother. All the while dealing with the medical hoops she must jump through and the frustration of each negative pregnancy test. I must say though that the side characters I just mentioned do bring a bit of comic relief to a very emotional and serious situation. I believe the author did a good job telling this story dealing with such a delicate issue. I myself didn't have this problem, but someone very close to me did, and I watched the heartbreak unfold at each failed attempt. I will most certainly be on the lookout for more from this author. I was given a complimentary copy of this book through Net Galley in exchange for an honest review.
What would you do to have the child you've always wanted?
This story is about Abigail and her husband Jack and their quest to have a baby. After trying all sorts of ways to get pregnant, from the obvious conventional type to the not so conventional, without any luck. All Abigail wants is to get pregnant and have a baby, millions if women do it every day, how hard can it be? It turns out that it can be exceedingly difficult and sometimes impossible. Abigail and Jack decide to seek the help of fertility specialists. We follow Abigail on her quest for that conception. Her road is rough and full of emotions. She is struggling to hold down her career, deal with a crazy mother-in-law, who makes it her mission to bombard Abigail with constant up dates about how so and so is now pregnant, her own sister who ends up pregnant and her own mother. All the while dealing with the medical hoops she must jump through and the frustration of each negative pregnancy test. I must say though that the side characters I just mentioned do bring a bit of comic relief to a very emotional and serious situation. I believe the author did a good job telling this story dealing with such a delicate issue. I myself didn't have this problem, but someone very close to me did, and I watched the heartbreak unfold at each failed attempt. I will most certainly be on the lookout for more from this author. I was given a complimentary copy of this book through Net Galley in exchange for an honest review.
May 5, 2015
The baby making process was a wild and wacky roller coaster for Jack & Abigail…and I got to tag along! This book was an up close and personal view of infertility told with wit and grace from the heart of a mother to be. It was a cute and heart breaking story of a couples extreme want to be parents and the test of their relationship through the process.
I loved Jack & Abby!! They were in love and carefree and had no idea what would face them as they tried to be parents. This is a subject that many take for granted and feel will come as easily as making the decision to get pregnant. But that really isn’t the case for all. Jen did an amazing job of taking me through the process and not making me feel like I was intruding in their space. I was able to see and feel all of Abby & Jack’s triumphs and heartaches first hand. I felt so much emotion as I read.
This was an adorable easy read for me. I finished in one sitting and really enjoyed the book. It took a very serious subject and offered it respect and a little humor which was great. I was happy to read through with ease and the story’s flow was magnificent. I recommend this book for the easy seriousness that it was. Easy 4 star read for sure.
I loved Jack & Abby!! They were in love and carefree and had no idea what would face them as they tried to be parents. This is a subject that many take for granted and feel will come as easily as making the decision to get pregnant. But that really isn’t the case for all. Jen did an amazing job of taking me through the process and not making me feel like I was intruding in their space. I was able to see and feel all of Abby & Jack’s triumphs and heartaches first hand. I felt so much emotion as I read.
This was an adorable easy read for me. I finished in one sitting and really enjoyed the book. It took a very serious subject and offered it respect and a little humor which was great. I was happy to read through with ease and the story’s flow was magnificent. I recommend this book for the easy seriousness that it was. Easy 4 star read for sure.
May 29, 2015
Abigail (Abby) Nichols a high profile career woman, has been leading a busy, fulfilling life with her husband, Jack. The only thing that has been lacking is a baby. Baby making, it seems is one area where both Abby and Jack need help.
Ms Conception is their sometimes hilarious, sometimes sad, sometimes heartbreaking tale of how to get pregnant. Abby is at the stage where is ready to try anything at all, if the end result is a pregnancy. It doesn't help of course, that her sister becomes pregnant without even trying and her quirky mother's helpful advise doesn't quite seem to help. Her disapproving mother in law, out to prove that Jack's ex girlfriend was Ms Perfect just adds to the chaos that is Abby's life.
A book that alternates between being hilarious and sad, is a perfect reflection of Abby's life. The author's afterword at the end says how she went through pretty much all of the stuff that she wrote about, was quite touching to read. A 3.5/5 read for me.
Thank you, Netgalley and the publishers for the review copy of this book.
Ms Conception is their sometimes hilarious, sometimes sad, sometimes heartbreaking tale of how to get pregnant. Abby is at the stage where is ready to try anything at all, if the end result is a pregnancy. It doesn't help of course, that her sister becomes pregnant without even trying and her quirky mother's helpful advise doesn't quite seem to help. Her disapproving mother in law, out to prove that Jack's ex girlfriend was Ms Perfect just adds to the chaos that is Abby's life.
A book that alternates between being hilarious and sad, is a perfect reflection of Abby's life. The author's afterword at the end says how she went through pretty much all of the stuff that she wrote about, was quite touching to read. A 3.5/5 read for me.
Thank you, Netgalley and the publishers for the review copy of this book.
November 8, 2015
In An Oyster Shell- This books is a hands-down must read for every woman dealing with starting a family. This book is super relevant to most women in that we are either dealing with infertility ourselves or know someone who is. There are very few books that earn a five pearl rating from me. This book did because it was absolutely excellent in every facet of the writing craft. Great story, told well, characters you could love or hate, fun setting, enduring relationships, and whatever else you can think of that makes a great book. I am super impressed. Be prepared to have you heart rendered in a million pieces as you follow Abby on her journey towards fertility. A more in-depth review is available at Writing Pearls
May 10, 2015
Happy Mother's Day!
It seems appropriate that I finished this book today... :)
Ms. Conception, according to the author's acknowledgements, is based on Ms. Cumming's own experiences. You can tell--there's definitely a ring of truth throughout all the hoops Abby and Jack have to jump through in their quest to have a baby. It's heartbreaking at parts, very funny at other parts, and ultimately a feel-good read. I would definitely read something by this author again, because I really enjoyed her voice throughout.
Though the descriptions of Abby's injection sites were just a little to realistic for comfort...I give total props to everyone who's had to go that route. Truly amazing!
Rating: 4 stars / B+
I received a complimentary copy in exchange for an honest review.
It seems appropriate that I finished this book today... :)
Ms. Conception, according to the author's acknowledgements, is based on Ms. Cumming's own experiences. You can tell--there's definitely a ring of truth throughout all the hoops Abby and Jack have to jump through in their quest to have a baby. It's heartbreaking at parts, very funny at other parts, and ultimately a feel-good read. I would definitely read something by this author again, because I really enjoyed her voice throughout.
Though the descriptions of Abby's injection sites were just a little to realistic for comfort...I give total props to everyone who's had to go that route. Truly amazing!
Rating: 4 stars / B+
I received a complimentary copy in exchange for an honest review.
August 28, 2015
I received this as an ARC through NetGalley in exchange for a honest review.
This was a touching, funny story about a couple and their struggle to conceive.
Having been through something similar myself (though not as far as IVF) I could really sympathise with Abbie.
Jen Cummings really went into detail about the methods used by the fertility experts, and I found this fascinating - and heartbreaking. The desperation felt by Abbie is only too real for some people.
A brilliant debut novel.
This was a touching, funny story about a couple and their struggle to conceive.
Having been through something similar myself (though not as far as IVF) I could really sympathise with Abbie.
Jen Cummings really went into detail about the methods used by the fertility experts, and I found this fascinating - and heartbreaking. The desperation felt by Abbie is only too real for some people.
A brilliant debut novel.
September 10, 2019
Ms. Conception by new to me author Jen Cumming delivers a good story about a woman’s struggle to get pregnant, which parallels the author’s personal experiences in fertility resolutions. Abigail Nichols has always wanted to be a Mother and when the story begins, she and her husband Jack have been trying for a good while, with negative results and increasing frustration. They decide to pull out all the stops and invest an obscene amount of money on the fertility clinic route, where the procedures she has to endure sound horrific and made me question whether it was worth it as there are still disappointments ahead of them.
Eventually Abby does get pregnant despite the struggles she has gone through and for me, the book just fell a little flat. It was still good, and my favorite scene in the book is when Abby is in labor and her domineering and annoying Mother in law shows up in the birthing room! I just felt that for me, once Abby got pregnant, everyone just kind of went, “our work here is done.” I found the story of Abby and Jack’s experiences before she got pregnant more enjoyable as well as the issues Abby is facing at work. It seemed like after she got pregnant, the story sped up and all of that was forgotten and OH HERE, have a promotion……by the way, the promotion is well-deserved, but I had real concerns if Abby would even have a job by the end of the book.
I don’t understand why more attention wasn’t placed on the option of adoption. I think that with so many children in the world without loving parents, it seems a little selfish to me to overlook it because you really want a little girl that has your wife’s eyes, hair, whatever…I would have gotten more enjoyment if Abby and Jack adopted a baby, only to find out they are knocked up with triplets…OK, soapbox has been put away.
Despite all that, I did enjoy this story. Abby’s assistant, Scott, was fabulous and would be a hoot to hang out with. He initially comes across as a great stirrer of the pot and total drama queen, but in the end he has Abby’s back and goes above and beyond for her. I am still shaking my head, however, at the name of Abby’s niece.
My Final Verdict: Readers looking for an interesting and light read centered on a serious issue will enjoy Ms. Conception. The characters are realistic and the subject matter is both beautiful and heartbreaking at the same time. Abby is a real trooper for what she goes through to achieve her dream of motherhood and I can’t help but admire her strength of spirit and tenacity.
Disclaimer: I received a complimentary copy of Ms. Conception from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
Eventually Abby does get pregnant despite the struggles she has gone through and for me, the book just fell a little flat. It was still good, and my favorite scene in the book is when Abby is in labor and her domineering and annoying Mother in law shows up in the birthing room! I just felt that for me, once Abby got pregnant, everyone just kind of went, “our work here is done.” I found the story of Abby and Jack’s experiences before she got pregnant more enjoyable as well as the issues Abby is facing at work. It seemed like after she got pregnant, the story sped up and all of that was forgotten and OH HERE, have a promotion……by the way, the promotion is well-deserved, but I had real concerns if Abby would even have a job by the end of the book.
I don’t understand why more attention wasn’t placed on the option of adoption. I think that with so many children in the world without loving parents, it seems a little selfish to me to overlook it because you really want a little girl that has your wife’s eyes, hair, whatever…I would have gotten more enjoyment if Abby and Jack adopted a baby, only to find out they are knocked up with triplets…OK, soapbox has been put away.
Despite all that, I did enjoy this story. Abby’s assistant, Scott, was fabulous and would be a hoot to hang out with. He initially comes across as a great stirrer of the pot and total drama queen, but in the end he has Abby’s back and goes above and beyond for her. I am still shaking my head, however, at the name of Abby’s niece.
My Final Verdict: Readers looking for an interesting and light read centered on a serious issue will enjoy Ms. Conception. The characters are realistic and the subject matter is both beautiful and heartbreaking at the same time. Abby is a real trooper for what she goes through to achieve her dream of motherhood and I can’t help but admire her strength of spirit and tenacity.
Disclaimer: I received a complimentary copy of Ms. Conception from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
April 10, 2015
Disappointing, that is the first word that comes to my mind after reading this book.
I had so much hope for this novel- the world needs good fiction that deals with fertility issues and their consequences, it does. But this is not that book.
Clumsy, hurried pacing made it impossible for me to forge any kind of a relationship with the main character- even with the first person narrative. I don't need to like a character to enjoy the book, but I do need to understand them. And this never fully happened.
The staccato paced chapters also prevented any of the story lines from fully developing or reaching their potential. The characters mentioned, often, that infertility was extremely expensive; but what exactly did they sacrifice? Somehow the money magically appeared with a quick bonus and without a struggle. While the main character occasionally described instances in her marriage when infertility raised problems, these were never explored deeply and all conflict was almost instantaneously resolved. Don't just tell me about the struggle, show me the struggle. And the whole workplace drama was straightened out laughably fast.
Finally, I believe the title of this book is misleading. I expected more of the book to be about the struggle to have a child; instead half the plot was spent on the main character's ultimately successful pregnancy. It felt very unbalanced.
I applaud the author for writing about some of the fertility issues that she struggled with personally, but I was unable to feel the pain and sorrow connected to those problems because of how the writing in the novel was executed.
I had so much hope for this novel- the world needs good fiction that deals with fertility issues and their consequences, it does. But this is not that book.
Clumsy, hurried pacing made it impossible for me to forge any kind of a relationship with the main character- even with the first person narrative. I don't need to like a character to enjoy the book, but I do need to understand them. And this never fully happened.
The staccato paced chapters also prevented any of the story lines from fully developing or reaching their potential. The characters mentioned, often, that infertility was extremely expensive; but what exactly did they sacrifice? Somehow the money magically appeared with a quick bonus and without a struggle. While the main character occasionally described instances in her marriage when infertility raised problems, these were never explored deeply and all conflict was almost instantaneously resolved. Don't just tell me about the struggle, show me the struggle. And the whole workplace drama was straightened out laughably fast.
Finally, I believe the title of this book is misleading. I expected more of the book to be about the struggle to have a child; instead half the plot was spent on the main character's ultimately successful pregnancy. It felt very unbalanced.
I applaud the author for writing about some of the fertility issues that she struggled with personally, but I was unable to feel the pain and sorrow connected to those problems because of how the writing in the novel was executed.
April 11, 2015
First, I would like to thank NetGalley, Jen Cumming, and Tryst Books for providing me with this book so I may bring you this review.
I must commend the author Jen Cumming for all the research she did on infertility for this book. Ms. Cumming surely educated me on this difficult topic.
This is a story about Abigail and Scott wanting to become parents in the worst way. However, they are having fertility issues along the way. I can’t imagine how hurtful it is to have your Mother in Law call up to say so and so is pregnant. Plus, your sister calling up to say she is pregnant. It wasn't fair to them. My heart went out to them.
One of my favorite passages in the book was: Apparently sea turtles are symbols of fertility. “You can watch sea turtles hatch while trying to fertilize your own egg.” My cheeks flame. I couldn’t have sex with anyone watching, even the poor sea turtles. Jules is definitely yanking my chain. Hitting reply to her email, I type, “The poor turtles. You bitch!”
It was comical the first time Abby was in Dr. Greenberg’s waiting room. One patient in the waiting room asked Abby if it was her first time. Then one after another they each told her their story and why they were there. Some of the stories were a little too TMI.
I must commend the author Jen Cumming for all the research she did on infertility for this book. Ms. Cumming surely educated me on this difficult topic.
This is a story about Abigail and Scott wanting to become parents in the worst way. However, they are having fertility issues along the way. I can’t imagine how hurtful it is to have your Mother in Law call up to say so and so is pregnant. Plus, your sister calling up to say she is pregnant. It wasn't fair to them. My heart went out to them.
One of my favorite passages in the book was: Apparently sea turtles are symbols of fertility. “You can watch sea turtles hatch while trying to fertilize your own egg.” My cheeks flame. I couldn’t have sex with anyone watching, even the poor sea turtles. Jules is definitely yanking my chain. Hitting reply to her email, I type, “The poor turtles. You bitch!”
It was comical the first time Abby was in Dr. Greenberg’s waiting room. One patient in the waiting room asked Abby if it was her first time. Then one after another they each told her their story and why they were there. Some of the stories were a little too TMI.
May 20, 2015
When you’re sex life becomes de rigueur that’s when you know you’re on the right track. The baby making track that is. Abigail Nichols is about to find out that love and marriage doesn’t always lead to the baby carriage aka nursery rhymes lie!
Well maybe not lie, but they definitely stretch the truth. It isn’t always so easy to have a child for some of us and when a woman decides she’s ready, the body may sometimes says, “not so fast, sister.”
I appreciate the diligence that Cumming placed in the details. She has an easy, breezy tone that makes this a quick read. However, the fictionalized parts of the feel generic and conventional. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, but there is no big moment in the story. It’s a nice, heartwarming HEA that can make you smile as you’re waiting in line for whatever appointment you may have.
Well maybe not lie, but they definitely stretch the truth. It isn’t always so easy to have a child for some of us and when a woman decides she’s ready, the body may sometimes says, “not so fast, sister.”
I appreciate the diligence that Cumming placed in the details. She has an easy, breezy tone that makes this a quick read. However, the fictionalized parts of the feel generic and conventional. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, but there is no big moment in the story. It’s a nice, heartwarming HEA that can make you smile as you’re waiting in line for whatever appointment you may have.
April 15, 2016
What a great read! Having only known about IVF from a distance through friends, I had no idea of the exhaustive cycle it can be for women, couples, and even their families and friends. This book flowed perfectly - like having a conversation with girlfriends over a bottle of wine (I finished it in less than two days!) I became so engaged with the characters and their personalities and the dynamics of family and work and how they are so integrated when struggling to conceive. I laughed and cried and realized that it must have taken the author a tremendous amount of courage to share her story and be so transparent (with fantastic humour!) about her experience. Thanks for sharing.
Highly recommend! This is the perfect book for the dock or the couch to laugh out loud and simply warm the heart.
Highly recommend! This is the perfect book for the dock or the couch to laugh out loud and simply warm the heart.
March 30, 2016
I will admit that I have had this book to read for quite a while but picked it up one afternoon and finished it the next morning. It is written so well and covers a really tough and sensitive subject. I know the book is written as a novel but it is books like this that are out there that help those going through similar things, especially when they are based around issues that have happened to the author. I know quite a few people that have struggled (but succeeded in the end via IVF and other treatments) to get pregnant and you really don't have any idea how hard and emotional it can be without going through it I'd imagine. I thought it was a lovely way for the trials, ups and downs of pregnancy and conception to be told. Very highly recommended..
May 10, 2016
Well written and entertaining
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July 6, 2017This book was so hard to put down. Juggling multiple doctors appointments, medication dosages, every day life, and other situations. The story tells about the harrowing journey for this Toronto couple to become a family.
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