The ultimate challenge in life is change, and genuine change comes with its own set of difficulties. The first hurdle is that you'll feel like a newborn child, stepping into life with all its fears and opportunities, rediscovering yourself and others, making new choices, and treading on unfamiliar, even daunting paths. The second challenge is the cost of change, which can be exorbitant. This book is about change, its steps, its cost, your needs, fears, psychological rights, past decisions, and present ones. It will guide you gently and confidently from the 'crawling' phase outside the text, through navigating risky relationships, to powerfully stomping your presence, like a professional flamenco dancer, shaking hearts and declaring your new existence to the world.