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Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner: The Fundamentals of Effective Grief Counseling
An in-depth guide to the counseling process and establishing a trusting relationship with clients—from a bestselling author and grieving expert
Helping people in grief means being an empathetic companion—someone who allows grievers to be experts of their own experiences, who bears witness without judging, who gently encourages the expression of thoughts and feelings. But even if you approach the work with this understanding, how you “are” when you spend time with the griever also has a tremendous influence on your capacity to help. How do you develop a relationship with the griever? How do you show empathy, respect, warmth, and genuineness? Could you improve your listening, paraphrasing, clarifying, perception checking, informing, and other essential helping skills? Whether you are a professional counselor or a lay helper, whether you have years of experience or are new to the work, this guide, based on by Dr. Wolfelt’s companioning philosophy, will help you be the most effective grief companion you can be.
Helping people in grief means being an empathetic companion—someone who allows grievers to be experts of their own experiences, who bears witness without judging, who gently encourages the expression of thoughts and feelings. But even if you approach the work with this understanding, how you “are” when you spend time with the griever also has a tremendous influence on your capacity to help. How do you develop a relationship with the griever? How do you show empathy, respect, warmth, and genuineness? Could you improve your listening, paraphrasing, clarifying, perception checking, informing, and other essential helping skills? Whether you are a professional counselor or a lay helper, whether you have years of experience or are new to the work, this guide, based on by Dr. Wolfelt’s companioning philosophy, will help you be the most effective grief companion you can be.
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144 pages, Hardcover
First published February 1, 2016
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June 5, 2023
A wonderful road map for anyone who wants to be with individuals in their grief.
November 15, 2023
"Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner" by Alan Wolfelt is a truly remarkable book that shines a light on the profound journey of grief and the vital role of companionship in the healing process. Wolfelt's compassionate approach and extensive knowledge in the field of bereavement make this book an invaluable resource for anyone seeking to support and understand those who are grieving.
What sets this book apart is its unwavering focus on the art of companioning rather than merely counseling. Wolfelt invites readers to embrace a more empathetic and supportive role when walking alongside the bereaved, fostering an environment of understanding and connection. His emphasis on being present, listening, and showing genuine empathy is both inspiring and practical.
One of the standout features of this book is its accessibility. Wolfelt's writing style is clear and approachable, making complex ideas and concepts easy to grasp. He uses relatable examples and real-life stories, which not only illustrate the principles he discusses but also offer reassurance that we all have the potential to be effective companions for those in grief.
Throughout the book, Wolfelt underscores the importance of empathy, patience, and respect in the grieving process. He offers practical strategies and insightful guidance to help companions provide meaningful support to mourners. Wolfelt's deep respect for the uniqueness of each individual's grief journey shines through, reminding us that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to healing.
Additionally, "Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner" provides a wealth of resources and tools for both novices and experienced professionals in the field of grief counseling. The book is a treasure trove of practical exercises, discussion points, and tips to help anyone better understand, connect with, and support those who are grieving.
Alan Wolfelt's dedication to improving the experiences of the bereaved is evident on every page of this book. His wisdom, rooted in years of research and experience, creates a compassionate and comprehensive guide for companioning the mourner. Whether you are a mental health professional, a friend, or a family member wanting to be a better support system, "Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner" is a must-read. It is a heartwarming and enlightening journey through the world of grief, filled with profound insights, hope, and the promise of healing through companionship. This book is an invaluable resource that will forever change the way you approach and understand the grieving process. Highly recommended.
What sets this book apart is its unwavering focus on the art of companioning rather than merely counseling. Wolfelt invites readers to embrace a more empathetic and supportive role when walking alongside the bereaved, fostering an environment of understanding and connection. His emphasis on being present, listening, and showing genuine empathy is both inspiring and practical.
One of the standout features of this book is its accessibility. Wolfelt's writing style is clear and approachable, making complex ideas and concepts easy to grasp. He uses relatable examples and real-life stories, which not only illustrate the principles he discusses but also offer reassurance that we all have the potential to be effective companions for those in grief.
Throughout the book, Wolfelt underscores the importance of empathy, patience, and respect in the grieving process. He offers practical strategies and insightful guidance to help companions provide meaningful support to mourners. Wolfelt's deep respect for the uniqueness of each individual's grief journey shines through, reminding us that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to healing.
Additionally, "Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner" provides a wealth of resources and tools for both novices and experienced professionals in the field of grief counseling. The book is a treasure trove of practical exercises, discussion points, and tips to help anyone better understand, connect with, and support those who are grieving.
Alan Wolfelt's dedication to improving the experiences of the bereaved is evident on every page of this book. His wisdom, rooted in years of research and experience, creates a compassionate and comprehensive guide for companioning the mourner. Whether you are a mental health professional, a friend, or a family member wanting to be a better support system, "Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner" is a must-read. It is a heartwarming and enlightening journey through the world of grief, filled with profound insights, hope, and the promise of healing through companionship. This book is an invaluable resource that will forever change the way you approach and understand the grieving process. Highly recommended.
October 18, 2022
An excellent read and resource for any clinician or helper working with grief and loss.
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