Reflective, insightful, and useful, this enduring favorite sucessfully integrates solid scriptual research with contemporary psychological insights. All those interested in communications skills and better relationships will find it useful.
I am reading this book as part of a spiritual direction program. A lot of the content of this book seems dated and I am surprised the program is not using a more recent publication. I found myself vacillating between laughing at silly psycho babble and being stopped in my tracks by a profound insight. A weakness of the author is that she displays a willingness to ignore her self indulgent biases and makes bizarre statements concerning the patriarchy and the hierarchy. A problem I had with the book in general is that it seems to equate holiness with self actualization. The author often talks like teenager who is so self-centered they are only interested in speaking “their truth.” So why do I give it 4 stars. Because by the end of the book the author makes a strong argument that true Christian Kenosis assumes a degree of psychological health and I found her analysis of Saint Paul use of the Greek word harpagmos very profound.
Written by a Franciscan sister who is also a therapist, this little book beautifully combines modern psychology with the deepest messages of Christianity. A lovely, healthy meditation on effective, Spirit-led communication.