The Feminine Code: The Unspoken Laws of Power, Magnetism, and Self-Respect

by Sabrina Alexis Bendory

If love has left you questioning your worth, your judgment, or your power?this book will show you exactly what went wrong. And how to make sure it never happens again.

Genres: Nonfiction, Self Help

224 pages, Paperback

Published June 16, 2026

Reviews

[Blythe Kassai]

EVERYONE should read this! Men and women! Where was this when l was dating ding dongs in my 20s?!?!? I would recommend this to ALL ladies that are in their dating era!

[Meg English]

excellent !

This book solidified the woke you so to love yourself and become whole on your own is the best thing you can do for yourself !

[Kristin]

Not as good as Detached. Already knew most of it. But good advice nonetheless.

[Sandra Arias]

Felt so validating to read this as I’ve continued my own healing journey and have reflected on lessons learned in my 20s. So many times where I was snapping my fingers “omg I’ve been in this situation before” or at parts where I felt validated and felt like I’ve learned some of the lessons (heck yeah took some time but I’ve done it!). Wrote many lines down that I want to journal about including “Thank you but I’m safe” @ myself. Shoutout to all the girlies continuing to heal and learn and grow 🤍

[Holly]

Detached came to me at a time when I needed it the most and it is also a must read. I was thrilled to find out that Sabrina wrote the Feminine Code and I was hooked from the prologue! I’ve read it once but I am already rereading it so that I soak up everything! The person I am today is not the person I was when my journey started and these books have been instrumental in that process!! Can’t recommend enough!

[Sharon]

This is my third book I read from Sabrina. I love how the stories from her books are so relatable - those stories are like mirrors to reflect on my situations. Easy to read, it’s a book that I will pick up again when I need confidence boost in my life.

[Maria Hristova]

F*** good one!

[Eve Du Mesnil]

Classic Sabrina - a great read for those that seek the art of relational self reinvention.

[Blythe Kasai]

Anyone dating needs to read this book! Male and female!

Don't accept crumbs!

[Barbara Vieira]

This is a must read. Not only for women, but for anyone. But definitely for every woman.