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104 pages, Library Binding
First published January 1, 1905
One might imagine that making men’s honor entirely dependent on women’s actions—as in the statements noted earlier—gives women considerable power over men’s “derivative” honor. A woman might threaten to ruin a man’s reputation by disobedience. But it does not work out that way, for several reasons.
First, a man’s honor is terribly important to him; in some groups, it is the most cherished attribute, one for which he may be ready to die or to kill. Men have physical and legal power over women: They initiate divorce and can send women back to their families. Depending on the specific type of Islamic personal law in force in a country, women may also be able to initiate divorce; recent legislation in some countries also limits men’s power to initiate unilateral divorce. But this is unheard of in those groups where violence is used to defend family honor. Men in such groups often beat women, and, in extreme cases, their concern for personal and family honor may prompt them to kill a female relative who has violated the group’s code of conduct. Such killings, like “crimes of passion” elsewhere, are condoned by the community.