We ask the question when we pray. We ask it when we run out of answers to our problems. We ask it when we face big decisions. We ask it when we get out of bed in the How should I live this day as well as I can?
We can find answers through learning the art of discernment-the wisdom that enables us to see and interpret the leading of the Holy Spirit as it is manifested in the inner lives of our hearts. The great master of this art was St. Ignatius Loyola, author of The Spiritual Exercises, who believed that the ability to discern the spirits is one of the most important skills a Christian could have. Ignatius believed that the answer to the question "What Should I Do?" is found in the shifting sea of feelings, insights, leadings, and intuitions of our affective lives.
What Do You Really Want? shows us how to understand these emotions and use what we learn to make the choices that best serve God and bring his love to the people in our lives. It shows the truth of one of Ignatius's greatest insights-that when we find what we really want, we find what God wants too, because the deepest desires of our hearts were placed there by God.
At first I thought, that's it? And if you read it (or are familiar with Ignatius' teachings), you won't wonder what I mean or even give it another thought. Not for the person afraid of grey areas and twilight. No "Prayer of Jabez" to increase your holdings. Just Examen, desolation, consolation, contemplation, decision, and review, with a side-eye to the willful leading of evil: "One of the more alluring false consolations that the evil spirit offers is that life would be much better if you did something different than what you're doing now (p126)." Right. Felt just about every day. Yes, that's it.
As a spiritual director I have studied this subject for more than a decade and I continue to desire to learn more about how to live a discerning life. I found this book to be very helpful to me because his language and examples are practical and contemporary to a lay person like myself. I practice my discernment life in between many vocations, as a father, a husband, a salesman, a manager, a community volunteer, a board member, a spiritual director, etc, etc. All of these vocations within vocations require paying close attention to the movements of the Holy Spirit and the enemy of our human nature, so that we can better practice the art of Discernment.
This book is a excellent guide for anyone seeking God’s guidance when making a decision. Manney is a very good writer and communicates effectively well with. I highly recommend!
Must read for anyone who wants a clear insight into Ignatian Spirituality written in everyday language. A wonderful book to read, a great companion to keep on the shelf ready to help guide you through everyday events when you need some help.