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401 pages, Kindle Edition
First published March 17, 2015
"It was only when I started to think seriously about myself — actually, when I started conversing with myself — that I was confronted not just with the opacity of the self but with the fact that the core of my self — anybody’s self — was unknowable."I often felt like the author himself was out of frame (he talks about in-framing and out-framing in the memoir), but he moved us right up to the edges of it and the experience of trying to read past that edge was illuminating. He pushes the reader "to accept the mystery that is inherent in social life" and talks about "the complexities of human behavior that are ignored, if not denied, by the social, psychological, and cognitive sciences that have adopted an impoverished — a robotic — image of the human."
"Might not an anthropology, indeed a sociology or a psychology, focused on misunderstanding be more realistic than one that stresses mutual understanding?"